Name: 調情或僅僅是友好？ (Flirting Or Just Being Nice?)
Uploaded: 2023-01-17T18:35:34.000Z
Duration: 4 min 5 s

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Ever wonder whether someone likes you or they're just being extra friendly.

有沒有想過別人是否喜歡你，或者他們只是表現得特別友好。

Well here are 10 signs that they do like you so you won't be confused.

那麼這裡有10個跡象表明他們確實喜歡你，這樣你就不會感到困惑了。

Their friends tease them when you're around?

他們的朋友在你身邊時取笑他們？

Have you noticed their group of friends being cheeky whenever you're near.

你是否注意到他們那群朋友每當你靠近時都很厚臉皮。

When a person likes you, they'll probably tell their friends about you.

當一個人喜歡你時，他們可能會告訴他們的朋友你的情況。

So their friends may tease you when you're together, trying to see if you will take it positively or negatively.

所以他們的朋友可能會在你們在一起的時候取笑你們，想看看你們會積極地還是消極地接受。

# two, their behavior changes around you.

# 第二，他們的行為在你身邊發生了變化。

Do they suddenly act differently when you're around?

當你在身邊時，他們是否突然表現得不同？

According to Clarissa Silva, a behavioral scientist, having a crush can trigger a lot of anxiety and may cause you to behave in a different way to impress the other person.

根據行為科學家克拉麗莎-席爾瓦（Clarissa Silva）的說法，有了暗戀對象會引發很多焦慮，並可能導致你以不同的方式來打動對方。

If they're the silent type, they may get uncharacteristically loud while telling a joke or if they're the wild type, you might be shocked to see the McDole demure.

如果他們是沉默寡言的類型，他們可能會在講笑話時一反常態地大聲喧譁，或者如果他們是野性的類型，你可能會震驚地看到麥道爾的端莊。

Once you've stepped into the room, this means that your presence matters to them and they become self conscious and don't know how to act.

一旦你踏入房間，這意味著你的存在對他們很重要，他們會變得很自覺，不知道該如何行動。

Number three, they're always fixing their appearance.

第三，他們總是在修飾自己的外表。

If you catch them adjusting their clothes or touching their hair before protein you, it means that they want to impress you naturally.

如果你發現他們在蛋白質你之前調整他們的衣服或觸摸他們的頭髮，這意味著他們想給你留下自然的印象。

If you like someone you want to look your best for them and you might be nervous around them to having a crush can bring a lot of emotions all at once, both good and bad.

如果你喜歡一個人，你想為他看起來最好，你可能會在他身邊感到緊張，因為暗戀會一下子帶來很多情緒，有好有壞。

So you can try helping by throwing in a joke or smiling or complimenting them to relieve some of their tension.

是以，你可以試著幫助他們，在其中加入一個笑話或微笑或讚美他們，以緩解他們的一些緊張。

Number four they say that they like you in a roundabout way.

第四，他們說他們以一種迂迴的方式喜歡你。

Have they ever asked you out actions like them asking you out, asking for a number or finding your social media accounts all scream that they want to be involved with you more.

他們是否曾經約過你，比如他們約你，要電話號碼或找到你的社交媒體賬戶，這些行動都表明他們想和你有更多的交往。

It takes a lot of courage to tell someone your feelings.

告訴別人你的感受需要很大的勇氣。

So these methods are like little acts of bravery to test out the waters between you two.

是以，這些方法就像勇敢的小行為，以試探你們兩個之間的水。

So if you like them back, text them, ask them out, send them some snaps.

是以，如果你喜歡他們，就給他們發短信，約他們出去，給他們發一些快照。

These will surely make their day number five, they go out of their way to provide you with assistance.

這些一定會讓他們的日子變得五光十色，他們不遺餘力地為你提供幫助。

Do you notice that they're always trying to help you out?

你是否注意到，他們總是試圖幫助你？

They might ask you what they could do to help if they notice you're stressed or busy.

他們可能會問你，如果他們注意到你有壓力或很忙，他們能做些什麼來幫忙。

If you notice it becoming a pattern, like how they're doing these things only for you, there's most likely something brewing underneath their feelings for you.

如果你注意到它成為一種模式，比如他們如何只為你做這些事情，很可能在他們對你的感情下面醞釀著什麼。

# six, they canceled their plans to spend time with you.

# 第六，他們取消了與你相處的計劃。

Have they ever canceled something last minute?

他們有沒有在最後一分鐘取消過什麼？

Because they would rather be with you, spending time with you, shows that they prioritize you and they care enough to put you first.

因為他們寧願和你在一起，花時間和你在一起，表明他們優先考慮你，他們足夠關心你，把你放在第一位。

They're interested in getting to know you better so they take every chance they've got number seven, they'll find an excuse to touch you or be close to you.

他們有興趣更好地瞭解你，所以他們抓住每一個機會，他們有七號，他們會找到一個藉口來觸摸你或接近你。

If you notice them playfully pinching you ruffling your hair or being just a tad too close when you're talking.

如果你注意到他們俏皮地捏你的頭髮，或者在你說話時離你太近了一點。

They probably really like you if they constantly initiate hugging tickling or even holding hands, then they're probably trying to indirectly tell you about how they're interested in you romantically.

他們可能真的喜歡你，如果他們不斷主動擁抱撓癢癢，甚至牽手，那麼他們可能是想間接告訴你，他們對你的浪漫感興趣。

Number eight, they're keen to find mutual interests.

第八，他們熱衷於尋找共同的興趣。

Do they ask you a lot of questions about the things you like, let's say, you tell them you love Lord of the Rings, do they later send you a truckload of memes about bilbo or Gandalf?

他們會不會問你很多關於你喜歡的東西的問題，比方說，你告訴他們你喜歡《指環王》，他們後來會不會給你發一卡車關於比爾博或甘道夫的備忘錄？

They do that because they want to build a deeper relationship with you.

他們這樣做是因為他們想與你建立更深的關係。

They would want to feel that both of you have your own special thing going on goals.

他們會希望感受到你們兩個人都有自己特別的東西在目標上。

Number nine, they initiate communication.

The interesting thing to note is that when you're with someone who likes you, you probably don't even question who text first.

值得注意的是，當你和喜歡你的人在一起時，你可能甚至不會質疑誰先發短信。

If you notice that person liking your instagram posts, sending you a bunch of memes or actively interacting with you.

如果你注意到那個人喜歡你的instagram帖子，給你發了一堆備忘錄或積極與你互動。

That's probably because they want to hang out more.

這可能是因為他們想多出去玩。

And number 10, they get jealous when you're with others.

第十，當你和別人在一起時，他們會吃醋。

Do you notice them sulking whenever you don't spend as much time together as before?

你是否注意到每當你們沒有像以前那樣花很多時間在一起時，他們就會生悶氣？

A little jealousy is not bad in a relationship and it may mean that they do like you and probably want to ask you out, remember you're amazing and whether you do or don't have that person in your life right now, nothing changes that about you as a person, You know, someone who's acting like this, share your experiences in the comments and share this video with others.

在一段關係中，有點嫉妒並不是壞事，這可能意味著他們確實喜歡你，可能想約你出去，記住你很了不起，無論你現在是否有那個人在你的生活中，沒有什麼能改變你這個人，你知道，有人表現得這樣，在評論中分享你的經驗，與其他人分享這個視頻。

The references and studies used are listed in the description below.

所用的參考文獻和研究報告在下面的描述中列出。

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