Like do you mind sharing a bit like how your relationship started?

介意分享一下這段緣份的開始嗎？

So, basically I was walking down the street.

當時我正走在街上

And then most of the time lots of girls look at me.

多數時間，我總是女孩們的焦點

And then Georgia was one of the girls, I was like she looks quite nice.

Georgia也是其中之一，我有注意到她相當漂亮

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What's your version of it?

妳怎麼反駁呢?

My version of it which Torres always likes to blur the lines about what happened.

我會說，Torres總是喜歡模糊焦點

But basically we were both university students, friends with lots of people.

但是基本上我們當時是大學生，也有很多朋友

And then we were friends for like two years.

然後我們當了兩年的朋友

Torres was secretly in love with me for two years.

Torres偷偷暗戀我長達兩年

Two years.

兩年

And then finally.

最後

Wow, that's long man.

暗戀這麼久

Yeah.

是阿

I try my absolute best to make Georgia my girlfriend.

我竭盡所能的讓Georgia變成我女朋友

But for the longest time, I got friend zone.

但長時間以來，我一直處在"當朋友"的區域

Friend zone.

"當朋友"

Friend zone which is the saddest thing ever.

"當朋友"是最悲傷的事情

We always had no, I didn't know, I didn't like him.

當時我根本不曉得

We always had a flirty relationship, a little flirty banter.

我們一直有著曖昧的關係與舉動

But he never did anything.

但他從未展開行動

He never like asked me out or tried to have a drink with me or anything.

他從來沒約我出去喝個下午茶或是逛街什麼的

That's not really true.

不盡然是這樣

Because the first time I met you, I gave Georgia a call.

因為我們第一次見面時，我打給Georgia

And I was like, I have this special VIP ticket to see Batman, do you wanna come?

我是這樣說的，我有蝙蝠俠電影的VIP入場券，妳要來嗎?

And she replied, Maybe Not.

然後她的回覆是，也許不會

You're trying to play hard to get?

妳當時是在故作矜持嗎?

Rubbish, he asked me like 4 pm, if I wanted to watch a movie at 7 pm.?

胡說八道，他4點問我，7點要不要一起去看電影?

And I had schoolwork or something.

當時我還有功課和其它事情

It's like, oh no, I didn't realize it was a date.

我當時壓根沒意會過來是場約會

No, you should ask like do you like over the weekend or something?

不，你應該要問問週末或是其它時間

When do you free, let's catch up.

妳什麼時候有空? 出來聚聚吧

Of course I would have said yes.

那樣我當然會說好

Don't give someone three hours notice.

不要提前3小時問這事

Come on, that.

拜託

Okay, my bad, sorry.

好，我的錯，抱歉

Maybe that makes us two years

這可能就我們兩年才能在一起的原因

Because I wasn't planning it properly.

因為我當時沒有縝密的計畫

Two years is quite long.

兩年真的挺長的

It's a very long time.

真的很長

Like for most people in Hong Kong, you know they're very impatient.

大多數香港人，他們沒有這麼大的耐心

Yeah.

是阿

Like two months, they'll be like oh man I should move on.

也許兩個月，他們就會放棄了

I mean he moved on.

他的確有展開行動

Don't worry.

他的確放棄了

I moved on just to see how like average other girls I met,

我放棄是為了確認跟其他普通女孩比起來

to finally realize how great you are.

妳有多麼棒

So, I move on for a very important purpose.

所以，我踏出這一步是非常重要的

Okay.

好

No.

不

This is very interesting.

這很有趣

I'm sure the audience they want to hear more about this.

我確信觀眾們會想要聽這段故事的

Yeah, I mean both of us like dated other people in that timeline.

當時我們都有其他的約會對象

And I think maybe that's also why we couldn't come together.

我認為這也當時沒有交往的原因

Because it's always the wrong time.

總是錯的時間

But there was always something, it's so weird.

總有些事情把我們分開，太奇怪了

I kind of miss those memories like whenever we see each other,

我蠻想念當時只要在你身邊，

I always get like kind of nervous around you.

我會變得相當緊張

And then I think I've always liked Georgia a little bit.

我認為我總是很喜歡Georgia

I was trying to get Georgia out to come for a date.

我一直嘗試約Georgia出來玩

But then she rejected me obviously.

但是她很明顯地拒絕了我

So, I thought maybe she doesn't like me.

所以我想說，

Okay.

好的

Sometimes, it's now it's weird to think about it.

現在想起來感覺挺奇怪的

I think I've seen your ex-boyfriends and you have seen my ex-girlfriends.

我們都見過彼此的前任

And we'll come together in the same event.

我們會在同個場合出席

And now we think about it, it's actually quite bizarre.

現在回想起來，這個狀況挺古怪的

For me, it's like meaningless.

對我來說是無意義的

Like I don't know if like for me, you are like now my person.

對我來說你是我的人了

Like everyone else in the past, it's like it's just irrelevant.

其他所有的人都是過去式了

Yeah.

是的

It's irrelevant to me as well.

對我來說也是過去式了

All irrelevant.

全都過去了

Yeah.

是啊

How do you get like together?

你們是怎樣正式在一起？

How you officially like get you.

當時你們怎麼

Start.

開始的

Yeah, how you officially start?

是的，你們怎麼開始的?

I think people will probably want to know.

觀眾應該會很想了解

So, which is really crazy.

這其實很瘋狂

I will tell you three key words.

三個字可以說明

Both single, boat party and alcohol.

單身、遊艇派對，還有酒精

Okay.

我懂了

Yeah, one of them missing still won't happen this relationship.

少任何一個，這段感情就不存在了

But I was we were.

但是當時我們

So, you were drinking, you guys

所以，當時你們倆都喝了酒

Yeah, we were drinking maybe five drinks in.

我們大概喝了五輪酒

Five drinks in.

五輪

Is that a lot for you?

對你來說很多嗎?

Quite tipsy and then we started to talk.

有點醉了，接著我們開始聊天

Because actually in the past I was quite nervous to talk to Georgia.

在過去，只要跟Georgia講話，我都會相當緊張

So when I'm.

當時我

Alcohol makes people brave.

酒精能壯膽

Alcohol is a game changer.

酒精會改變走向的

I don't drink.

我不喝酒

You don't drink?

你不喝酒?

Not at all.

從不喝

Never?

從來沒喝過?

Like never pretty much.

從來沒有

Wow oh my gosh, how did you get your wife then?

哇，天吶，那你是怎麼討到老婆的?

I'll talk about that in another episode.

關於這個問題，我可以另闢新章

Stay tuned.

敬請期待

No, but I feel like either we were talking about law of attraction right?

但我們是在談論吸引力法則，對吧?

Yes.

是的

Sometimes, I feel like I have this.

有時候，我覺得我有這個

You know how when you program your brain to think differently or positive,

你知道當你嘗試讓腦袋想其它事情或是正面思考

sometimes alcohol I feel like it has this effect.

我覺得有時候酒精也有相同功效

It just why your brain differently, okay all of a sudden I'm such a brave guy.

你的腦袋運作，突然你就有了勇氣

Yeah, yeah.

沒錯

And then you just walk up to Georgia.

接著突然去找Georgia聊天

And be like, oh Georgia let's have a talk.

就像這樣，Georgia聊個天吧

So, you ever heard of a saying like your personality creates your personal reality.

你有聽過一句諺語嗎？你的性格創造現實

You ever heard of that?

你們有聽過嗎?

No.

沒有

So, you know when you start sort of like change your own personality,

當你想改變個性時

you need to be more bold and brave.

你必須大膽且有勇氣

So, and then you just start to like talk to her right?

所以，接著你開始跟他聊天，對吧'?

Yeah.

是的

That changes everything.

那會改變一切的

Yeah.

是的

So, most people you know when they drink alcohol,

大多數人當他們喝酒時

then they would say stuff they normally wouldn't.

他們會說出些平常不會說的話

Yeah.

沒錯

But then it happened and then we were talking and then we're like ah.

但就是發生了，然後我們開始有了互動

I don't know why we were actually attracted to me.

我不曉得她是怎麼被我吸引的

Because I went to on exchange on island.

因為當時我去了小島作交流生

And I got back and like she was like I can't even recognize your face.

當我回來時，她甚至不曉得我是誰

Like my neck was here.

我的脖子被擠到了這裡

Because I was eating so badly for the longest time.

因為當時我瘋狂大吃大喝

I think I was at the worst shape possible.

當時可能是我體態最失控的時候

I was like.

當時我就像

He was a lot chubby back then.

他當時回來後胖了不少

Yeah.

是啊

I think I was at my least confident,

當時應該是我自信心

Really?

真的嗎?

point.

最低的時刻

You know when I looked at his videos,

當我觀看他的影片時

I thought he's like probably the same height as me.

我以為他大概跟我差不多高

Yeah.

是的

I don't know why.

我也不曉得為什麼

But then like the first time I met him, he was so tall

當時我們第一次見面，我才知道他這麼高

Yeah.

是啊

He's like six feet or something.

他看起來有6呎

Speaking of law of attraction how much it was a little attraction.

說到吸引力法則

But it's like just to entertain some ideas because to be honest,

但是就是抱持著某些想法，因為老實說

when I first moved to mainland china I didn't date any Asian guys.

剛到中國時，我不跟亞洲人約會的

Yeah.

是啊

And then when I came back to Hong Kong.

當我回到香港

Actually when I go back to South Africa.

當我回到南非

I'm not sure if it's like controversial, maybe it's controversial.

我不確定這是否會引起爭議，也許是有爭議的

But I'd go back to South Africa and people would say to me.

當我回南非時，他們會這樣對我說

Oh, are you dating Chinese guys?

喔，妳現在跟中國人約會嗎?

As if it was like something like so scandalous.

彷彿這是件丟臉的事情

And I'm like, no I don't date Chinese guys.

我只說，我沒跟中國人約會

Because I just didn't even, it was just like didn't even entertain that idea.

因為我從來沒有想過這件事情

Yeah.

是啊

And then when I came to Hong Kong I would like I dated like 1 or 2 mix guys.

當我回到香港後，我跟1、2個混血兒約會

Mix guy.

混血兒

And then finally, Torres was my full Chinese boy that I dated.

最後Torres就是我的那個中國男孩

And like now, I honestly I find Asian people so good looking, so attractive.

現在，老實說亞洲人真的很好看，很有吸引力

Yes.

是的

But it's like before that I don't know why.

過去我根本不曉得為什麼

It's like my brain was just not open in that way.

彷彿我的腦袋把這一扇門關了起來

Is that because you want your brain to think,

是因為妳讓腦袋這樣想，

like I really want to date an Asian guy.

妳真的想要跟個亞洲人約會

Asian guys are really attractive which is very true.

亞洲人真的太有吸引力

And then.

然後

it's all about perspective, yes.

這都是跟妳的觀點有關

Right?

是吧?

Yeah.

是啊

it's so good.

這很棒

Yeah, just like allowing yourself to entertain that.

讓妳自己去想像

I think also what you see in the media.

我覺得跟媒體上看到的也有關係

You always see like if anything you see an Asian girl with a white guy.

你看到的都是亞洲女孩跟白人男孩在一起

But even now if I see a white girl and an Asian guy walking on the street,

但即使現在，看到亞洲男人跟白人女孩走在一起

I'm like wow that's so weird, why are they doing that?

我還是會覺得奇怪，為什麼他們會在一起?

Like you know even though that's us, it's weird.

即便我們就是個例子，還是很奇怪

Yeah.

是啊

I know a few couples like white girls and Asian guy.

我知道有幾對白人女孩跟亞洲男孩在一起

Yeah.

是的

Probably actually yeah they got married.

事實上他們結婚了

Yeah, they accept like cultural differences.

他們接受了彼此的文化差異

Yeah.

是的

But it is more common that is white girl.

但白人女孩更普遍

No, it's a white guy and Asian girl.

不對，應該是白人男孩跟亞洲女孩

Yeah, that happens a lot more often.

沒錯，這組合的確比較常見

Yeah.

是啊

Yes.

是的

How is that because those people they.

是因為那些人

So, your English is always been that good?

所以，你的英文一直都這麼棒嗎?

Or you actually train when you're with her?

還是跟她在一起才越來越好的?

No, I think I improved my English the most when I was in university.

我的英文飛速進步，應該是大學時期

When I was in (university), I really wanted.

大學的時候，我真的很渴望

Because my secondary education it didn't teach me to have an international mind.

因為當時中學教育，並沒有教我要有國際觀

I basically don't know what's happening outside the world.

基本上，我根本不曉得外頭世界發生什麼事

And the inability to speak English really limits my like my vision.

不會說英文真的限制住我的視野

Okay.

好的

Or my ability to know things that are happening around me.

或是能去了解週遭發生的事情的能力

So, because his English is pretty good.

因為他的英文相當的好

Really really good.

真的很好

Yeah, pretty good.

是啊，相當好

And then I thought you know he'd been studying like overseas or something.

我一開始以為他喝過洋墨水還是住過國外之類的

And then he said, no I've never went overseas.

然後他說，他從沒去過國外

So, I'm pretty surprised.

這點讓我挺驚訝的

But you also always change your answer with that.

但是你每次都有不同版本的答案

Torres always has so many answers

Torres總有不同的答案

Really?

真的嗎?

There's so many answers.

有這麼多達案

We filmed a video 2 years ago.

兩天前，我們拍過一部影片

And Torres said, oh yes thanks to Georgia so much for teaching me.

當時他說，感謝Georgia的教導

No no no no no, Georgia actually really like helped me improve so much.

不是這樣的，Georgia確實幫助我進步了很多

Yeah, because you talk every day.

是啊，因為你每天都有練習說英文

Yeah, we talk every day in English.

沒錯

So, she really helped me improve so much.

她真的幫了很大的忙

But I think my English when it actually got good or fluent,

但是我的英文能如此流利

was because I really want to learn so I took every opportunity.

因為我抓住每個能學習的機會

Yeah, I think also you love foreign culture.

是啊，你也很喜歡外來文化

Like Torres always immersed himself in like different cultures.

在不同的文化中，Torres總是能享受於其中

He wants to always learn about what are you doing in Kazakhstan or Italy or whatever.

他想要學習世界各地的各項事情

Okay.

好的

So, I remember when I was in secondary school.

我記得當我還在中學時

Because my secondary school is actually not so famous.

因為相較那些名校

compared to like those DBS, La Salle, Queen's College

我的學校不是非常有名

So, we never get invited to those international schools.

所以我們從沒有受邀到那些國際學校

Like Christmas ball or anything.

聖誕舞會之類

So, I can never meet anyone who's like international.

所以我從未遇過國際人

So I would like make the greatest effort to find my connection.

我想要竭盡所能的找到開啟大門的鑰匙

Please let me come, I want to meet more people from all over the world.

請讓我參加，我想要認識更多來自世界各地的人

Like I try to add like, it's really embarrassing.

比如說我曾經這樣做，說起來真是羞愧

But I add like friends on Facebook just like international school people.

我加了那些國際學校學生的好友

I message him, can we hang out?

我私訊他，要不要出來聚聚?

It's so embarrassing.

說起來真是丟臉

Just because I really want to,

因為我真的很想要

Be like them.

像他們一樣

see a different side than my local school, trying to improve my English.

看看外面的世界是怎麼樣，然後讓我的英文進步

So, I guess quite like what you told me about law of attraction?

跟你說的吸引力法則有相當程度的相似

Yes.

是的

How I really wire my brain, I want to be like that.

如何發送訊號給大腦，我想要達到那個程度

Okay.

好的

What am I going to do to achieve that?

我要怎麼做才能達到目標?