Name: 職業發展教程--成為一個更好的傾聽者 (Professional Development Tutorial - Become a better listener)
Uploaded: 2022-11-04T18:30:23.000Z
Duration: 3 min 15 s

委婉語氣表達希望、渴望

- 我們都希望能成為更好的傾聽者。

情態助動詞 A2

but it can be hard to will ourselves to pay full attention.

但要想讓自己全神貫注，可能會很難。

to 不定詞

下面是如何讓這種行為堅持下去。

first, get in touch with your motivation.

to watch this and work on building this skill?

Maybe your boss told you that you need to get better.

也許你的老闆告訴你，你需要變得更好。

In which case this is something important for your career

在這種情況下，這是對你的職業生涯很重要的事情。

advancement or maybe a friend or colleague said something

推進，或者是朋友或同事說了些什麼

about you're not listening well and you realized,

關於你沒有好好聽，你意識到。

"I want to do better, I want to be a better friend".

"我想做得更好，我想成為一個更好的朋友"。

Keep your reasons in mind as a way to stay focused.

牢記你的理由，以此來保持專注。

Second, know that becoming a better listener

第二，要知道，成為一個更好的傾聽者

is a powerful way to show other people that you

是一個強有力的方式，向其他人展示你的

You can probably even think back to romantic comedies where

你甚至可以回想一下浪漫的喜劇片，在那裡

the hero or heroine is extolling their love interest.

男主角或女主人公正在頌揚他們的愛意。

but it's one that makes a deep impression.

但這是一個讓人印象深刻的問題。

Third, listening well enables you to understand

Here's the thing, if you've been listening in a cursory

事情是這樣的，如果你一直在粗略地聽著

fashion for years, you might not even realize it,

多年來的時尚，你可能甚至沒有意識到這一點。

but the information you're taking in might only

但是，當你成為一個更好的傾聽者。

the nuances that can make all the difference.

差異的細微差別，可以使所有的差異。

Especially if you're a manager or you aspire to be one,

特別是如果你是一個經理或你渴望成為一個經理。

What's the reason the project's been held up?

Often, there's a surface reason and a real reason,

通常，有一個表面的原因和一個真正的原因。

you need to hear and understand the real reason.

你需要聽到並理解真正的原因。

But we often tamp it down in the course of our work life

但在工作生活中，我們常常把它壓制住了

when you start to think like an anthropologist,

當你開始像人類學家一樣思考時。

You'll end up getting useful information and also learning

你最終會得到有用的資訊，也會學到

Finally, to get into the mindset of listening,

it's important to recognize the consequences of a person

認識到一個人的後果是很重要的。

或者一個團隊沒有感覺到被傾聽。

Someone tries to tell you something and again and again,

有人試圖告訴你一些事情，而且一次又一次。

他們意識到這是不可能實現的。

You won't get the information you need to function

你不會得到你所需要的資訊來運作

Second, they start to resent you because they

第二，他們開始怨恨你，因為他們

Third, they become less effective because instead of

第三，他們變得不那麼有效，因為他們不是

they're spending their time devising work arounds

他們把時間花在了設計工作方案上

There are real consequences to people not feeling heard,

人們感覺不到自己的聲音，會有真正的後果。

和真正的好處時，他們這樣做。

Getting clear on that, why it's truly important to master

弄清楚這一點，為什麼真正重要的是要掌握

this skill will help you become even more effective at it.

這項技能將幫助你在這方面變得更加有效。

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