Name: 10個跡象表明你正在墜入愛河（即使你並不這麼認為） (10 Signs You’re Falling in Love (even if you don’t think so))
Uploaded: 2022-11-01T20:15:20.000Z
Duration: 6 min 27 s

程度副詞

Is it getting butterflies in your belly just at the side of them?

是不是在他們的身邊就會有蝴蝶在你的肚子裡飛舞？

Or is it the rosy tint of your cheeks that gives it away?

還是你的臉頰呈現出玫瑰色的色調？

Despite what the movie show often there is no bird landing on your shoulder as you sing for your one and only the experience of falling in love can be different for everyone.

儘管電影中經常顯示，當你為你的夫妻唱歌時，沒有鳥兒落在你的肩膀上，只有墜入愛河的經歷對每個人來說是不同的。

Others keep saying you'll just know if it's the right one, but that ain't helping any.

其他人一直說你會知道它是否是正確的，但這沒有任何幫助。

The good news is some scientifically backed signs.

好消息是一些有科學依據的跡象。

Can help tell you if you're likely falling in love.

可以幫助告訴你，你是否有可能墜入愛河。

Number one, you find yourself thinking about them.

Do you think of them every time your phone buzzes, are they the last person you think of before you go to bed?

每當你的手機發出嗡嗡聲，你就會想到他們，他們是你睡覺前最後想到的人嗎？

When you are falling in love with someone, you may find it impossible to get them out of your head, Your brain releases Fenella Philomene, also known as the love drug.

當你愛上一個人的時候，你可能會發現不可能把他從你的腦海中趕走，你的大腦會釋放菲尼拉-菲洛米，也被稱為愛情藥物。

This hormone facilitates the feeling of being in love with someone commonly found in some chocolates, which may explain why we're so tempted to keep eating them.

這種荷爾蒙促進了在一些巧克力中常見的愛上某人的感覺，這可能解釋了為什麼我們如此想繼續吃它們。

Even when we know that excess consumption of chocolate is not good for us.

即使我們知道過量食用巧克力對我們沒有好處。

Number two, you're suddenly open to exploring new things.

第二，你突然對探索新事物持開放態度。

Did you just eat sushi for the first time?

Even though three years back you swore you would never eat it.

儘管三年前你曾發誓你永遠不會吃它。

Are you starting to bend your own rules just a little bit to let someone else in.

你是否開始彎曲你自己的規則，只是一點點地讓別人進來。

When you're beginning to fall in love with someone you want to make them feel equally impressed by you?

當你開始愛上一個人時，你想讓他對你同樣印象深刻？

As a result, you find yourself constantly trying out new things that you would have never tried before.

是以，你發現自己不斷嘗試以前從未嘗試過的新事物。

If you're now open to new adventures because of your partner, chances are you may have got the love bug number three, they've made their way to your priority list.

如果你現在因為你的伴侶而對新的冒險持開放態度，那麼你有可能已經得到了第三隻愛情蟲，他們已經進入了你的優先列表。

Where do they stand on your priority ranking?

他們在你的優先級排名中處於什麼位置？

The usual priority list for most people, reads, family, friends, work and etcetera.

對大多數人來說，通常的優先列表，閱讀、家庭、朋友、工作等等。

However, if someone has debuted on the top five in your priority list, all of a sudden, it may be a sign that you're falling in love with them.

然而，如果某人首次出現在你的優先列表中的前五位，突然間，這可能是你愛上他們的一個跡象。

Help you compartmentalize your life and focus on the people and the things that you love, you might be falling in love If you're reordering rearranging and rethinking your life number four, you suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive, crying during commercials, sleeping with the lights on Suddenly all these quirks that initially made you question your significant other's choices are now extremely attractive to you.

幫助你把你的生活分割開來，專注於你所愛的人和事，你可能會墜入愛河 如果你重新排序重新安排和反思你的生活第四，你突然發現他們的怪癖非常有吸引力，在廣告中哭泣，開著燈睡覺突然所有這些怪癖，最初讓你質疑你重要的人的選擇，現在對你非常有吸引力。

Slowly but surely you find yourself understanding and appreciating their quirks, you begin to find them irresistible in every way that includes their quirks, peculiar sense of humor and their unusual way of doing things.

慢慢地，但你肯定會發現自己理解和欣賞他們的怪癖，你開始發現他們在各方面都是不可抗拒的，包括他們的怪癖、奇特的幽默感和他們不尋常的做事方式。

If all this is true for you and you've likely started your trip down the love lane number five, they boost your self image.

如果所有這些對你來說都是真的，你很可能已經開始了你的第五號愛情通道之旅，他們提升了你的自我形象。

Have you miraculously started to love the way you look in skinny jeans have you started singing throughout your apartment instead of limiting it to your solo shower performances?

你是否奇蹟般地開始喜歡你穿緊身牛仔褲的樣子？你是否開始在你的公寓裡唱歌，而不是侷限於你的單獨淋浴表演？

People who are falling in love with someone often find that it has helped them fall in love with themselves too.

正在愛上某人的人經常發現，這也幫助他們愛上了自己。

When you fall in love, you typically experience self expansion, which means your sense of self expands as a result of this new relationship.

當你墜入愛河時，你通常會經歷自我擴張，這意味著你的自我意識會因為這段新關係而擴張。

Number six, their traits become your traits.

第六，他們的特質成為你的特質。

Did you go from being a denim lover to a plaid lover when they introduced you to the comfortable world of flannels and sweatbands, Are you now more interested in historical museums and art displays over some of your weekly sporting activities As a couple learns to know one another.

當他們向你介紹法蘭絨和汗巾的舒適世界時，你是否從一個牛仔褲愛好者變成了格子褲愛好者，你現在是否對歷史博物館和藝術展覽更感興趣，而不是每週的一些體育活動。

Their individual self perceptions begin to blend you experience genuine pleasure in your partner's accomplishments.

他們個人的自我認知開始融合，你在伴侶的成就中體驗到真正的快樂。

Often you can mistake your partner's attributes for your own as a result of the self other overlap where you begin to regard yourself as more and more like your partner.

通常情況下，你會把伴侶的屬性誤認為是你自己的屬性，這是自他重疊的結果，你開始認為自己越來越像你的伴侶。

第七，你的朋友們都注意到了。

Are you slowly starting to bring them around for your monthly movie nights with your friends?

你是否慢慢開始在每月與朋友一起看電影的時候把它們帶在身邊？

Are your friends starting to tease you by their name or commenting on your relationship with them?

你的朋友是否開始用他們的名字取笑你，或評論你和他們的關係？

Well, your friends can probably see something that you don't talk to your friends and weigh their thoughts and opinions on your relationship with your significant other.

好吧，你的朋友可能可以看到一些你不和你的朋友交談的東西，並權衡他們對你和你的重要他人的關係的想法和意見。

You might be surprised by the lovely things, They have to say number eight, you feel positive about the future.

你可能會對那些可愛的東西感到驚訝，他們不得不說第八，你對未來感到積極。

Do you no longer get worked up about meeting project deadlines as you did before you met them.

你是否不再像以前那樣為滿足項目的最後期限而煩惱了。

Your five year goals suddenly seem doable.

你的五年目標突然看起來是可行的。

It nourishes your need to be where you belong and to put things right.

它滋養了你的需求，讓你有歸屬感，把事情做對。

All your worries about the future can be put on hold when you fall in love.

當你墜入愛河時，你對未來的所有擔憂都可以被擱置。

If you're distant future plan, seem not so distant with them by your side, the love spell has done its trick.

如果你遙遠的未來計劃，有他們在你身邊就顯得不那麼遙遠了，那麼愛的咒語已經發揮了它的作用。

Number nine, you can't stop smiling whether it's rolling on the floor and laughing over a meme they sent you or simply remembering the last conversation you had with them.

第九，你無法停止微笑，無論是在地板上打滾，為他們發給你的備忘錄大笑，還是簡單地回憶起你與他們的最後一次談話。

These days when you're falling in love, your brain releases large amounts of the happy hormone dopamine.

這些天當你墜入愛河時，你的大腦會釋放大量的快樂荷爾蒙多巴胺。

You may feel an eagerness and an inability to stop smiling.

你可能會感到一種急切和無法停止的微笑。

The increase in dopamine levels causes these physiological effects.

多巴胺水準的增加導致了這些生理效應。

A feedback loop can be established by smiling you smile more when you're happy and the more you smile, the happier you are and number 10, you feel more love for others.

通過微笑可以建立一個反饋迴路，當你高興的時候你會笑得更多，你笑得越多，你就越高興，第10，你對別人的愛就越多。

You and your partner may not be the only ones who are feeling the effects of this newfound love.

你和你的伴侶可能不是唯一感受到這種新發現的愛情影響的人。

Thanks to the hormone oxytocin, more commonly known as the love hormone.

這要歸功於荷爾蒙催產素，更常見的是愛的荷爾蒙。

You feel more open and more connected to others.

你感到更加開放，與他人的聯繫更加緊密。

A 2012 study shows that people experiencing romantic attachment had higher levels of oxytocin persisting for at least six months.

2012年的一項研究顯示，經歷過浪漫依戀的人有更高的催產素水準，並持續至少六個月。

It helps improve self perception in social situations and increases personality traits such as warmth trust, altruism and openness.

它有助於改善社會環境中的自我感知，並增加人格特徵，如熱情信任、利他主義和開放性。

Research states that the hormones impact on pro social behaviors and reward centers in the brain improve emotional cognitive and social behaviors.

研究指出，荷爾蒙對親社會行為的影響和大腦中的獎勵中心改善了情感認知和社會行為。

You may start to leave bigger tips, exchange positive words with strangers and hold no grudges.

你可能開始留下更大的小費，與陌生人交換積極的話語，並且不記仇。

Do you know someone in your life who's exhibited any of the signs mentioned here or on the flip side?

你知道在你的生活中，有人表現出這裡提到的任何跡象或反面的跡象嗎？

你有沒有展出過他們中的任何一個？

Feel free to leave a comment with your experience feedback or suggestions.

歡迎留下評論，提出你的經驗反饋或建議。

If you found this video helpful, be sure to hit the like button and share it with others too.

如果你覺得這段視頻對你有幫助，一定要按下喜歡按鈕，並與其他人分享。

Don't forget to subscribe, decide to go and hit the notification bell for more new videos.

不要忘記訂閱，決定去點擊通知鈴，以獲得更多的新視頻。