Just like any important life event though, we all know the hardest part is the startup.

就像任何重要的生活事件一樣，我們都知道最困難的部分是啟動。

Do I stay or do I go are we all happily milling around in the friend zone or are we missing obvious signs?

我是留下還是離開？我們都在朋友圈裡愉快地閒逛，還是我們錯過了明顯的跡象？

Here's what to look out for to see if you've moved beyond buddy into the realm of interest.

以下是需要注意的事項，看看你是否已經超越了朋友的範疇，進入了興趣的範疇。

Number one.

第一。

They really want to be around you all the time.

他們真的想一直在你身邊。

Sure we hang out with our friends, we chat with them, text with them.

當然，我們和朋友一起出去玩，我們和他們哈拉，和他們發短信。

Some of them you casually touch based daily because smartphones, right?

其中一些是你每天都會隨手觸摸的，因為智能手機，對嗎？

But even with your bestie, do you really want to be there with them all the time?

但即使是和你的閨蜜在一起，你真的想一直和他們在一起嗎？

Probably not.

也許不是。

If you notice a friends increase in, hey, let's meet up suggestions or even that they're always sitting up the next time you'll hang out while you're currently with them?

如果你注意到朋友們增加了，嘿，讓我們見面的建議，或者甚至他們總是在你目前和他們在一起的時候坐起來，下次你會去玩？

They just might have a thing for you.

他們可能只是對你有好感。

You might be thinking, wait, maybe they're just doing this because they have nothing better to do.

你可能會想，等等，也許他們這樣做只是因為他們沒有更好的事情可做。

Okay.

好的。

That leads us to the second point number two, they make you a priority over others.

這讓我們想到第二點，他們把你作為優先於他人的對象。

It's not that they have no life.

這並不是說他們沒有生活。

It's that they're putting aside other things so that they can focus on what's important and that means you listen and observe for signs that they've chosen to spend time with you instead of something else.

這是他們把其他事情放在一邊，以便他們可以專注於重要的事情，這意味著你要傾聽和觀察他們選擇花時間和你在一起而不是其他事情的跡象。

You know, is important to them.

你知道，對他們來說是很重要的。

Did they just bail on their weekly gaming session to hang with you.

他們是否只是在每週的遊戲會議上放鴿子來和你一起玩。

I think there might be some springtime all up in the air.

我想可能會有一些春意盎然的景象。

Number three, they are scientifically affectionate for science.

第三，他們在科學上對科學有好感。

See science is always with us.

請看，科學始終與我們同在。

Trust the science, there was a study done that revealed five indicators that when they were all present together, it meant that the person was scientifically in love.

相信科學，有一項研究揭示了五個指標，當它們同時出現時，意味著這個人在科學上處於戀愛狀態。

They are empathy.

他們是同理心。

Like when they're there at your low point wanting to be around them like in all those frequent hangouts, sharing their feelings time, even their fries, sacrifice gaming session, what gaming session they chose you instead Joy.

比如當他們在你的谷底時想在他們身邊，就像在所有那些頻繁的聚會中，分享他們的感情時間，甚至他們的薯條，犧牲遊戲環節，什麼遊戲環節他們選擇你而不是喬伊。

This should be obvious, but they're significantly visibly happy being around you, wow.

這應該是顯而易見的，但他們在你身邊時明顯明顯地高興，哇。

So there is a love potion number nine, it's just not necessarily made in a lab.

所以有一種九號愛情藥水，只是不一定在實驗室裡製造。

There's been a huge decline in mental health around the world, which is why we're so committed to creating more content than we ever have.

世界各地的心理健康狀況出現了巨大的下降，這就是為什麼我們如此致力於創造比以往更多的內容。

Thanks for being a part of our journey.

感謝你成為我們旅程的一部分。

Number four, baby touchy feely and we don't mean this in a creepy way.

第四項，嬰兒觸覺，我們並不是說這是一種令人毛骨悚然的方式。

Think more of the chobe movie way.

多想想喬貝電影的方式。

We know you're thinking, I don't watch rom coms, but you've seen this in any movie where there's possible sexual attention, the pool shark offering to teach the person how to hold the cue properly, The golf expert wrapping their arms around the person to make sure their grip on the shaft of the club is correct and there was so much innuendo there, you can't miss it.

我們知道你在想，我不看愛情喜劇，但你在任何可能有性關注的電影中都看到了這一點，撞球鯊魚提出要教對方如何正確握住球杆，高爾夫專家摟著對方以確保他們對球杆的握力是正確的，那裡有很多暗示，你不能錯過它。

Like, come on.

就像，來吧。

We all know they weren't needing that much instruction, same goes for someone who might be interested, a buddy might be like, yo you have something on your cheek and then keep it moving.

我們都知道他們並不需要那麼多的指導，對於那些可能感興趣的人來說也是如此，一個夥伴可能會說，喲，你的臉頰上有東西，然後繼續移動。

The interested one might say the same, then reach over and gently brush your face with their fingertips to wipe the smudge away.

有興趣的人可能會說同樣的話，然後伸手過來，用他們的指尖輕輕地刷你的臉，把汙點擦掉。

Number five, they asked for your opinion on things.

第五，他們詢問了你對事情的看法。

This is a bigger deal than you might realize.

這是一個比你可能意識到的更大的問題。

Think of it this way.

這樣想吧。

Would you ever voluntarily ask the opinion of someone you disliked?

你會不會主動詢問你不喜歡的人的意見？

Didn't trust or didn't respect?

不信任或不尊重？

Probably not.

也許不是。

They're asking you for your opinion means that they trust you're being honest and that your thoughts are valued.

他們詢問你的意見意味著他們相信你是誠實的，你的想法是被重視的。

They might even be doing some indirect research to see if you're a kindred spirit.

他們甚至可能在做一些間接的研究，看看你是否是一個同類。

Number six, they get a bit steamy around, you know, take the smoke machine away.

第六，他們周圍有點蒸汽，你知道，把煙霧機拿走。

Not that kind of steamy.

不是那種蒸騰的感覺。

The term hot under the collar, blushes.

術語熱下，臉紅了。

The song fever.

歌曲的熱度。

That's what we mean, blushing is a great indicator, but it's not always visible to to complexion, genetics or full coverage makeup.

這就是我們的意思，臉紅是一個很好的指標，但對於膚色、遺傳或全覆蓋的化妝來說，它並不總是可見的。

Biologically there is blood rushing to their skin, which means a rise in temperature looks like they've got a fever.

在生物學上，有血液湧向他們的皮膚，這意味著溫度的上升看起來像他們發燒了。

And the only prescription is you.

而唯一的處方就是你。

And number seven, they mirror your actions.

第七，他們反映了你的行動。

If you have a younger sibling who annoyed you by copying your movements and words.

如果你有一個弟弟妹妹，他通過模仿你的動作和話語惹惱了你。

Mirroring is not that Mirroring is subconscious like attracts like it's when you're walking with that someone and you notice you're walking in step with each other or you cross your arms while talking and notice they now have their arms crossed too.

鏡像並不是說鏡像是下意識的，就像吸引一樣，它是當你和那個人一起走路時，你注意到你和對方步調一致，或者你在說話時交叉手臂，注意到他們現在也交叉手臂。

That's their brain subconsciously prodding them to in an odd way, physically empathize with you because they like you and they very likely aren't aware of it.

那是他們的大腦下意識地以一種奇怪的方式促使他們在身體上同情你，因為他們喜歡你，而且他們很可能沒有意識到這一點。

Did anyone come to mind when you heard these points?

當你聽到這些觀點時，是否想到了誰？

Did you think of yourself doing this towards someone?

你是否想到自己對某人這樣做？

Do you think you see a sign?

你認為你看到了一個跡象嗎？

But aren't sure if it is, Please comment and discuss below.

但不確定是否是這樣，請在下面評論和討論。

You never know what insight you might gain.

你永遠不知道你可能獲得什麼樣的洞察力。

Above all, love is a good and wonderful thing.

最重要的是，愛是一件美好的事情。

So even if it's not showing up here and now keep these signs in mind for the future and carry on while your love crusading though, please tap that like button on the way.

是以，即使它沒有出現在這裡，現在也要記住這些跡象，為將來而進行，雖然你的愛情討伐，但請在路上點一下那個喜歡的按鈕。

Thanks for watching.

謝謝你的觀看。

And we'll see you soon.

我們很快就會見到你。