Are you doing construction?

你在做建築嗎？

Yes, I am under construction.

是的，我正在建設中。

What I'm renovating myself, I don't understand, you know, I realized, I don't really like me.

我自己在裝修什麼，我不明白，你知道，我意識到，我並不真正喜歡我。

So now I'm investing the time money and energy to re upholster my personality.

所以現在我正在投資時間金錢和精力來重新裝飾我的個性。

How come on, let me show you.

如何來的，讓我給你看看。

Okay, so I'll be, the first thing I did was ask myself, what is my vision, because if I'm going to create the best meal from scratch, then I have to know what that is.

好吧，那麼我就，我做的第一件事就是問自己，我的願景是什麼，因為如果我打算從頭開始創造最好的膳食，那麼我必須知道那是什麼。

Oh my God, beautiful.

哦，我的上帝，美麗。

This is my interior decorator, bela and bela, I told her one of my biggest issues as I'm operating out of my father wound daddy issues up the yin yang, I told her this was manifesting in my reality as me chasing unavailable people relentlessly, trying to prove myself and my worth and it was showing up and just dating and friends.

這是我的室內裝飾師，Bela和Bela，我告訴她我最大的問題之一，因為我在操作我父親的傷口爸爸的問題了陰陽，我告訴她這在我的現實中表現為我無情地追逐不可用的人，試圖證明自己和我的價值，它正在顯示，只是約會和朋友。

Does that include me?

這包括我嗎？

You included?

包括你嗎？

So what beautiful Bella did is she ripped up the floorboards of low self worth and she reinstalled some amazing Mahad, self love, self respect and self esteem.

是以，美麗的貝拉所做的是她撕掉了低自我價值的地板，她重新安裝了一些驚人的馬哈德、自愛、自尊和自重。

So now I find someone's inconsistent behavior and lack of interest is a turn off instead of a challenge that I can rise to the occasion of, wow, that's amazing.

是以，現在我發現某人的不一致行為和缺乏興趣是一個障礙，而不是一個我可以迎刃而解的挑戰，哇，真了不起。

How did you do that?

你是怎麼做到的？

Well, this is an analogy.

好吧，這是一個比喻。

So obviously I didn't just move furniture around in my house, but there are various methods that you can utilize to rewrite your subconscious programming and eradicate limiting beliefs, I have a workshop at Lincoln bio.

所以很明顯，我不只是在我的房子裡移動傢俱，但有各種方法，你可以利用這些方法來改寫你的潛意識程序，消除限制性信念，我在林肯生物有一個研討會。

But anyway, back to the sketch.

但無論如何，回到草圖上。

Come, let me show you the rest.

來吧，讓我給你看看其他的。

Oh, this is beautiful.

哦，這太美了。

So I used to suffer from doubt, insecurity, fear and a paralyzing inability to make a decision that was good for me.

是以，我曾經受到懷疑、不安全感、恐懼和麻痺大意的困擾，無法做出對我有利的決定。

So what Maria did Hi Maria is she put in a self awareness filtration system.

是以，瑪麗亞所做的事嗨瑪麗亞是她把一個自我意識的過濾系統。

So any time an intrusive thought came up that debated or entertained catastrophe, the system would take it and counter a firm for the positive.

是以，任何時候，只要有一個侵入性的想法出現，辯論或娛樂災難，系統就會接受它，併為積極的方面反擊一個堅定。

So now we've completely eradicated those negative thoughts and my default state is one of love and joy.

所以現在我們已經完全根除了那些消極的想法，我的默認狀態是愛和快樂。

That sounds amazing.

這聽起來很神奇。

It is this way, can I get their number?

是這樣的，我可以得到他們的電話號碼嗎？

Do they do like referrals and you're gonna love this?

他們確實喜歡推薦人，你會喜歡這個嗎？

This entire room is my audacity Audacity.

這整個房間是我的Audacity Audacity。

You know, some people install movie theaters into their houses.

你知道，有些人把電影院安裝在他們的房子裡。

I figured why not have a whole part of my personhood devoted to audaciousness.

我想，為什麼不在我的人格里有一整塊地方專門用來表現出大度呢。

Audaciousness.

大聲。

Yeah.

是的。

The audacity to go after what I want.

大膽地去追求我想要的東西。

The audacity to dream big.

大膽的夢想。

The audacity to claim my greatness.

大膽宣稱我的偉大。

Yeah, yeah.

是的，是的。

The audacity to think it's never too late to do anything.

大膽地認為現在做什麼都不晚。

I mean flat, the impaler doesn't start impaling until it's late thirties.

我的意思是平坦的，穿刺者直到30多歲才開始穿刺。

Yeah.

是的。

I mean I feel that the straight white male audacity to in pale, right?

我的意思是，我覺得白人直男的膽量到在蒼白，對嗎？

Oh my God, I love this.

哦，我的上帝，我喜歡這個。

I'm gonna renovate myself to just a word of caution.

我要把自己裝修成只說一句話的樣子。

It always takes longer than they say it's going to, but it is absolutely worth it.

它總是比他們說的要長，但這絕對是值得的。

I mean you're gonna be in here for forever, right?

我是說你要在這裡呆一輩子，對嗎？

Until you're dead.

直到你死了。

You're gonna wake up every morning and go to sleep every night in this space.

你會在這個空間裡每天早上醒來，每天晚上睡覺。

Why not make it reflect exactly what you want it to be?

為什麼不使它準確地反映你想要的東西呢？

You're right.

你是對的。

Like, I don't need to be trapped by my past.

比如，我不需要被我的過去困住。

I don't need to be held back by the early childhood experiences I've had.

我不需要被我早年的經歷所束縛。

I don't want to hold on to beliefs that don't serve me or thoughts that harm me or mindsets that prevent me from love, success and abundance.

我不想堅持不為我服務的信念，不想堅持傷害我的想法，不想堅持阻礙我獲得愛、成功和富足的思維方式。

Yes, Okay, yeah, I'm gonna do it.

是的，好的，是的，我要去做。

You're gonna do it.

你要去做。

Yeah, I'm gonna do it.

是的，我打算這麼做。

Okay, definitely get insurance.

好的，一定要買保險。

I'm anaconda.

我是巨蟒。

Thank you the patrons for supporting today's video and thank you to this episode's sponsor.

感謝各位觀眾對今天視頻的支持，感謝本集的贊助商。

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喜歡鰹魚。

So all the outfits that you saw featured in this video, including the one I'm wearing right now is Love bonito.

是以，你在這段視頻中看到的所有服裝，包括我現在穿的這套是Love bonito。

They specialize in modern minimalist chic wardrobe that you can wear at home.

他們專注於現代簡約時尚的衣櫃，你可以在家裡穿。

The office or on a night out.

在辦公室或在晚上外出時。

I absolutely die for these high waisted flare jeans because they fit me perfectly.

我絕對為這些高腰喇叭牛仔褲而死，因為它們完全適合我。

And I have received so many compliments on them, which I think is truly the currency of clothes just complements it also appears perfectly with a sweater and heels and I can dress up or dress down and wear this outfit in any setting as like a five ft tiny human.

我收到了很多關於它們的讚美，我認為這確實是衣服的貨幣，只是補充它也完美地出現在毛衣和高跟鞋上，我可以穿上或穿下，在任何場合穿這套衣服，就像一個五英尺的小人。

I normally have a hard time finding clothes that just fit that I don't have to tailor, but love bonito actually has origins in Singapore and was originally created with petite asian women with olive complexions in mind.

我通常很難找到不需要裁剪的合適的衣服，但愛邦多實際上起源於新加坡，最初是為體型嬌小、膚色為橄欖色的亞洲女性設計的。

So all of their clothes fit me and look so good with my skin.

是以，他們所有的衣服都適合我，與我的皮膚搭配起來非常好看。

Of course they've expanded to include everyone now.

當然，他們現在已經擴大到包括所有人。

But because of this like natural origin that they had everything fits me perfectly.

但由於這種像自然的起源，他們的一切都很適合我。

So new customers who joined the lb community will receive a $15 off welcome gift card with a minimum spend of $40 valid from september 19th until the end of the year.

是以，加入lb社區的新客戶將獲得15美元的歡迎禮品卡，最低消費為40美元，從9月19日到年底有效。

You can upgrade your closet with clothes made to fit you today with Love bonito and go to the link in my description and use my promo code L.

你今天就可以用愛波尼託的衣服來升級你的衣櫥，去我描述中的鏈接，使用我的促銷代碼L。

B.

B.

X.

X.

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安娜為你的第一個訂單100 30或更多打9折。