Name: 【TEDx】讓誘惑的力量成為你的強大武器 The power of seduction in our everyday lives: Chen Lizra at TEDxVancouver (The power of seduction in our everyday lives: Chen Lizra at TEDxVancouver)
Uploaded: 2014-09-24T15:20:03.000Z
Duration: 12 min 48 s

Man: I'm just going to be in the green room in the back

男士：表演結束後，若你真的想要說什麼

if you really want to talk about some, after you're done.

CL: I guess you don't need coffee now, do you?

CL：我想你現在不需要喝咖啡了，是吧

I'm a dancer, author and an entrepreneur.

我同時是個舞者、作家，以及企業家

我以誘惑人的舞蹈開始我的演說

because I want you to first feel the seduction,

因為我想要讓妳們感受到被誘惑的感覺

I'm fascinated with seduction, but not just with the dance and the movements,

我著迷於誘惑之道，但不限於舞蹈動作

but also with how you can bring it in a practical way into day-to-day life.

而是在於如何將誘惑融入日常生活

Since 2005, I've been travelling back and forth to Cuba

in order to train with the best professional dancers.

This is when I first started seeing seduction as a valuable life skill.

這是我第一次開始認知到誘惑是個重要的生活技能

but mostly because it's such a playful fun thing.

但大部分是因為誘惑本身很好玩

I truly believe that everyone has the power to seduce in them,

我相信每個人都有能力去又誘惑他人

And I also believe that we need to develop this skill

而我也相信我們需要從小就發展這項技能

讓我們觀察一下誘惑之道到底是什麼

and let's take a look at our perception of seduction,

讓我們了解一下我們對誘惑的感受

The word has been sexualized so many times

that we can't even imagine it as a positive skillset.

我們根本無法想像誘惑是正向的技能

We typically associate seduction with something negative,

通常我們講到誘惑都會聯想到負面的東西

because we consider it the less honest or acceptable form of influence.

因為我們認為誘惑是不誠實的或是難以令人接受的力量

to some degree feel manipulated into the situation.

會覺得自己在情境之下被操控了

When we think of gender roles, it's not even a question

換到性別角色的話 這個例子更明顯

that men are permitted a lot more freedom than women to seduce.

男人比起女人有更多自由去誘惑

we merely go to sleeping your way to the top and being unprofessional.

我們就直接就想到，和高層睡在一起，不專業的工作倫理

You know how people say, some people say that money's bad,

and power can be used for good and for bad;

而權力可以用在壞的或好的地方

it comes down to your DNA and what you choose to do with it.

誘惑根植在DNA中 取決於你如何使用它

and to add to it my sense of loyalty and integrity.

Seduction is really about your untapped power

that you're not using, that you want to unleash.

你沒在使用；你想要釋放的一股力量

Would we tell superman not to stop a bullet?

我們會告訴超人不要擋下子彈嗎

或是告訴一位醫生不要去拯救生命

Seduction is about charm, connection, vulnerability, pride,

誘惑是魅力、連結、脆弱、驕傲

I'm one of those lucky ones, that gets to go to Cuba all the time.

And I've been observing this culture for a very long time,

我觀察了這個文化好長一段時間

seeing how aware they seem to be of their seductive powers.

觀察到他們多能駕馭誘惑的力量

Cuba has been like a seduction laboratory for me,

古巴隊我來說一直是個嘗試誘惑的實驗室

where I get to study seduction and understand how they use it better.

這個地方讓我學習如何誘惑以及了解如何誘惑的更好

But it's not like Cubans are the only people in the world

that understand how to use seduction, right?

You can experience it in other countries in the world:

in Israel, in Brazil and the Dominicans and many other countries.

以色列，巴西，多明尼加，以及世界各個國家

And yet in Cuba I found a combination of things,

that I haven't found yet anywhere else in the world,

這是我在世界其他角落找不到的

And you'll probably agree with me when I say

that the chances of finding this kind of seduction out in the open

當我在公開的場合說尋找這種誘惑

in North America is pretty close to slim, right?

在北美這種地方這種機會可說是微乎其微，是吧？

I truly believe that we can learn a valuable life lesson

我真的相信我們可以學到一門珍貴的人生課程

關於古巴人對於生活對於誘惑的看法

And having said that, if we were to try and take seduction

and break it into some kind of a formula, what would that look like?

並且把誘惑分解成一些公式，那會是什麼樣子呢

第一個：慾望。開始記筆記囉！

and then having the willingness to go after it.

In Cuba, rumba is the game of seduction between the man and the woman.

在古巴，倫巴是一種男女之間誘惑的遊戲

The woman is the flirty hen and the guy is the seductive rooster.

女人是勾引人的母雞而男人是誘惑的公雞

The woman uses her body to seduce the men to say, "Want it? Come and get it."

女人用她的身體去誘惑男人，並說：想要嗎？來吧！

The guy on the other hand will use his body

男士會嘗試讓女士落入圈套 迸！

He's trying to pecker her and get her pregnant.

She'll notice the attack, she'll block it,

and she'll go, "Didn't make it. Try again."

Cubans interact on the streets everyday, as if they're playing the game of rumba.

古巴人每天在街上都上演這種戲碼，就好像他們在玩倫巴

They keep a tension, a sexy tension, always alive.

他們讓這種緊張，性方面的緊張，永不停歇

It's like, you could almost have it, but not.

就好像你可以一直擁有，但卻不然

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