You know, you get questions like that.

你知道，你會遇到這樣的問題。

Sometimes people come to the funeral dress like they're going to the club.

有時人們來參加葬禮時穿得像去俱樂部一樣。

I love it where they look like liquid people walking down the hallway and I was like, oh my gosh, is that my unborn son?

我喜歡他們看起來像液體的人走在走廊上，我當時想，哦，我的天哪，這是我未出生的兒子嗎？

I think our conversation is going to be really interesting today since we're making truffles, I'm a little bit more excited.

我想我們今天的談話會非常有趣，因為我們要做松露，我有點兒興奮。

Make an assumption about me that you like dead people.

對我做個假設，你喜歡死人。

Um, yeah, well I like them better than living ones.

嗯，是的，我喜歡他們比活著的人更好。

I don't know if they can hear me, but I try to talk to them anyway.

我不知道他們是否能聽到我，但我還是試著和他們說話。

I was driving a woman to her funeral and I felt like she would like some country gospel.

我開車送一位女士去參加她的葬禮，我覺得她會喜歡一些鄉村福音。

So I put on dolly Parton and Alan Jackson.

所以我放了多莉-帕頓和艾倫-傑克遜的歌。

Yeah, I remember thinking, I hope she likes this.

是的，我記得我在想，我希望她喜歡這個。

My assumption was that you are constantly hearing voices constantly depends on if I'm checking in or out.

我的假設是，你不斷聽到的聲音不斷取決於我是否在簽到或簽出。

There's always someone with me that's probably a dead person.

總有一個人和我在一起，可能是一個死人。

What's really hard is when you're on a date and then someone's family member shows up on the date.

真正困難的是當你在約會時，有人的家人出現在約會現場。

That's not the funnest thing.

這不是最有趣的事情。

I could see that as a Buzzkill.

我可以把這看成是一個Buzzkill。

Weirdly satisfying what leads you to your current profession?

奇怪的是，令人滿意的是，是什麼導致了你現在的職業？

Both my parents died kind of young.

我的父母都死得有點早。

I was confronted with death and I thought how can I channel this in a healthy, positive way.

我面對著死亡，我想我如何能以健康、積極的方式引導它。

It was kind of my mission to help people.

這是我的一種使命，幫助人們。

My mom looked really bad.

我媽媽看起來真的很糟糕。

Like her embalming was really bad And so I really wanted to be good at this and make sure other people's loved ones look good.

就像她的防腐工作真的很糟糕，所以我真的想在這方面有所作為，確保其他人的親人看起來很好。

I started out as a mental health therapist.

我開始時是一名心理健康治療師。

My mentor was like you know you're really good at reading people but I didn't know that I was reading them.

我的導師說，你知道你真的很會看人，但我不知道我在看他們。

I just thought I was a really good therapist.

我只是認為我是一個非常好的治療師。

I called a medium and she says well you know you're kind of a medium right?

我給一個靈媒打電話，她說，你知道你是一個靈媒吧？

I was like, yeah probably.

我當時想，是的，可能。

And within a few months I started seeing spirits like really intensely.

在幾個月內，我開始看到精神，好像真的很強烈。

It's like she triggered me.

這就像她觸發了我。

There's actually like a hog works and that we go to train believe or not way cooler than funerals, right, fillings goes on there and then we mix.

實際上，有一個豬場，我們去訓練，相信或不相信比葬禮更酷，對，填充物會在那裡，然後我們混合。

What do you believe happens after someone dies?

你認為人死後會發生什麼？

Oh well I guess I know physically what happens to them.

哦，我想我知道他們身上發生了什麼。

People ask me do spirits follow you around and I feel like they stay where they they are and I'm caring for their shell.

人們問我，鬼魂會不會跟著你到處跑，我覺得他們留在原地，我在照顧他們的外殼。

I see them obviously walking around casually.

我看到他們顯然是在隨意地走動。

Um they're right here with us actually all the time.

嗯，他們就在這裡，實際上一直和我們在一起。

Um They're just in a different vibrational pattern.

嗯 他們只是處於不同的振動模式。

So their frequency is different than ours when you release from the body, your frequency raises and then you are in your consciousness of love and some people are doing their hobbies and some people are hanging out and some people are still learning, you know with people that maybe he died with depression or you know, tragic means, I often see them in like a spiritual hospital and they're kind of like in recovery and they're getting supported, you know, by angels and loved ones who are helping them kind of in their process of evolving to be in another state.

所以他們的頻率與我們不同，當你從身體中釋放出來時，你的頻率提高了，然後你在你的愛的意識中，有些人在做他們的愛好，有些人在閒逛，有些人仍然在學習，你知道與那些也許他死於抑鬱症或你知道，悲慘的手段，我經常看到他們在像一個精神醫院，他們有點像在恢復，他們得到支持，你知道，由天使和親人幫助他們那種在他們進化到另一個狀態的過程。

I want to be a flashy ghost.

我想成為一個浮華的幽靈。

Yeah, I mean sometimes I've seen people who come kind of like the Matrix where they look like liquid people walking down the hallway and that kind of freaked me out when I was stage in my house and the little boy like started running down and I was like, oh my gosh, is that my unborn son?

是的，我的意思是，有時我看到有人像黑客帝國一樣來，他們看起來像液體人走在走廊上，這有點嚇到我了，當我在家裡的舞臺上，小男孩像開始跑下來，我想，哦，我的天哪，這是我未出生的兒子嗎？

And he was like a liquid person and I was like, this is freaky, oh, it's just put it in a ziploc bag.

而他就像一個液體人，我當時想，這太奇怪了，哦，這只是把它放在一個密封袋裡。

This is cool.

這很好。

In what ways is your career misunderstood?

你的職業在哪些方面被誤解了？

That's a good one.

這是個好問題。

There's a lot of controversy that I'm of the devil or that I, you know, summons devils or a con artist.

有很多爭議說我是魔鬼，或者說我，你知道，召喚魔鬼或金光黨。

Those are kind of things when really I'm just a servant of love.

這些都是那種當我真的只是一個愛的僕人的事情。

I, I think what I do is a miracle to be right honest.

說實話，我認為我所做的事情是一個奇蹟。

People think that we are really sad all the time or that our job is sad, but you know, we were celebrating lives and so it doesn't always have to be sad and we do have a bit of, you know, morbid humor at work that help you have to be, helps us get, it's difficult jobs.

人們認為我們真的一直很悲傷，或者我們的工作很悲傷，但是你知道，我們是在慶祝生命，所以不一定要悲傷，我們確實有一點，你知道，工作中的病態幽默，幫助你必須，幫助我們得到，這是困難的工作。

So it helps us get through, get through the day.

所以它幫助我們度過，度過這一天。

Do you have like a playlist?

你有類似的播放列表嗎？

Like when you're doing the whole body work that you have, that gets you in the group to like do, what's your song?

就像你在做你的整個身體工作時，讓你在小組中喜歡做，你的歌是什麼？

Like the funeral and bombing song?

就像葬禮和轟炸之歌？

What is that song for you?

這首歌對你來說是什麼？

Beyonce's Lemonade.

碧昂絲的《檸檬水》。

Oh, you're playing lemonade when you're, you're literally working over my body empowered.

哦，你在玩檸檬水，當你，你在我的身體上工作的時候，你簡直是在授權。

Wow.

哇。

Yeah, It's like cooking.

是的，這就像烹飪。

Everybody has a different recipe.

每個人都有不同的祕方。

All right, This is definitely getting there.

好吧，這絕對是在做夢。

I don't know how melted we need to make it.

我不知道我們需要把它融化成什麼樣。

But what is your take on reincarnation?

但你對輪迴的看法是什麼？

I'll let you take that one reincarnation?

我讓你帶著那個轉世的人？

Uh, Those to yours.

呃，那些給你的。

I don't, I don't know.

我不知道，我不知道。

My family's from India.

我的家人來自印度。

You know, people in India believe in reincarnation, but I just don't know.

你知道，印度的人相信輪迴，但我就是不知道。

There's so much unknown.

有這麼多的未知。

Well, I'm team reincarnation.

好吧，我是轉世團隊。

Okay, so I absolutely believe really more in past lives.

好的，所以我絕對相信真的更相信前世。

I really believe like our spiritual energy just continues infinitely with no stoppin no beginning.

我真的相信我們的精神能量會無限地延續下去，沒有停止，沒有開始。

And so we just put on the new outfit of the new body and the new clothes.

於是我們就穿上了新身體和新衣服的新裝備。

That could be a different gender.

這可能是一個不同的性別。

Could be a different race.

可能是不同的種族。

Could be a different socioeconomic group.

可能是一個不同的社會經濟群體。

Can we come back as another species?

我們能作為另一個物種回來嗎？

You know, that's debatable For me personally, I do believe our animals do come back and find us.

你知道，這是值得商榷的 對我個人而言，我確實相信我們的動物會回來找我們。

So I believe that we do find soul family soul members.

所以我相信，我們確實能找到靈魂家族的靈魂成員。

Animal, non animal and we kind of coming back and meet each other over and over again for purposes of growth and learning.

動物、非動物，我們為了成長和學習的目的，一次又一次地回來，互相見面。

Yeah, I desperately want to come back as a cat.

是的，我拼命想變成一隻貓回來。

You would be a cool capri for sure.

你肯定會成為一個很酷的卡普里。

I actually had a 90 year old woman who was so beautiful.

實際上，我有一個90歲的老太太，她是如此美麗。

I had a lot of fun making her look nice and then her family said she looked too sexy.

我有很多樂趣讓她看起來很好，然後她的家人說她看起來太性感了。

Oh wow.

哦，哇。

Well I will tell you sometimes people are characters when they passed.

好吧，我要告訴你，有時人們在通過時是有性格的。

I mean I had this one guy confessed that he was porn star and um he confessed that and showed his, you know, you know what to confirm, you know, his talent?

我的意思是，我有一個人承認他是色情明星，嗯，他承認，並顯示了他的，你知道，你知道什麼，以確認，你知道，他的天賦？

He sat on my lap and almost gave me like a lap dance.

他坐在我的腿上，幾乎給我跳了一個大腿舞。

It was a complete thing and I'm talking to the girl who used to be his fiancee who said that's absolutely him.

這是一個完整的事情，我和曾經是他未婚妻的女孩談話，她說那絕對是他。

It's totally true.

這完全是事實。

I was very embarrassed and kind of made out with me a little bit in spirit, but it was, it was entertaining.

我非常尷尬，有點在精神上和我親熱，但這是，這很有娛樂性。

I mean, he brought, he brought me so much fun.

我的意思是，他給我帶來了，他給我帶來了這麼多樂趣。

So like, you know, it's like a spicy spirit.

所以就像，你知道，這就像一種辛辣的精神。

He was, he was definitely spicy.

他是，他絕對是辛辣的。

Sometimes people come to the funeral dressed like they're going to the club, love it.

有時人們來參加葬禮，穿得像去俱樂部一樣，喜歡這樣。

Um people don't really come to me with the fear of dying.

嗯，人們並沒有真正帶著對死亡的恐懼來找我。

Some people are nervous about me seeing them naked regardless of what they give me.

有些人對我看到他們的裸體感到緊張，不管他們給我什麼。

I always put a pair of socks because you feel like their feet are cold.

我總是放一雙襪子，因為你覺得他們的腳很冷。

I had a beautiful woman that lost her hair and eyebrows because of chemotherapy and I actually used her own hair to cut and make eyebrows for her.

我有一個美麗的女人，因為化療而失去了頭髮和眉毛，我實際上是用她自己的頭髮來為她剪和做眉毛。

And yeah, and I was really proud of that.

是的，我真的為此感到驕傲。

We do have something of a tummy tuck when for everybody gets a little tummy tuck because we remove cavity fluid and so the tummy just goes right down and we do fillers to fillers, like you can get like your lips plumped or like your cheeks skills, what do that all the time?

我們確實有一些收腹術，當每個人都得到一個小的收腹術，因為我們去除腔內的液體，所以腹部就會下降，我們做填充物，比如你可以得到像你的嘴脣豐滿或像你的臉頰技能，什麼做所有的時間？

In fact, that's one of my favorite things because that's a bit of a skill.

事實上，這是我最喜歡的事情之一，因為這有點像一種技能。

Are you like a Juvederm or like a radio?

你是像Juvederm還是像收音機？

Yeah, interesting people say to me, well, do spirits look at you and you're naked in the shower when I'm having sex, is my dead father seeing me having sex.

是的，有趣的人對我說，好吧，當我做愛的時候，精神看著你，你在洗澡的時候一絲不掛，是不是我死去的父親看到我在做愛。

You know, you get questions like that, they just see us as light, so we're just light to them so they don't see us, like we don't see them in their form, they don't see us in our physical form either.

你知道，你遇到這樣的問題，他們只是把我們看作是光，所以我們對他們來說只是光，所以他們看不到我們，就像我們看不到他們的形式，他們也看不到我們的物理形式。

Was your assumption about me correct?

你對我的假設是否正確？

Yes.

是的。

Actually, yeah, I had, I felt my assumption was that we would have a really illuminating conversation and it has been, you know, my assumption about you is that you would be just open and down for anything because you obviously deal with the most vulnerable experience that someone could possibly experience in life.

事實上，是的，我有，我覺得我的假設是我們會有一個非常有啟發性的對話，而且一直以來，你知道，我對你的假設是，你會對任何事情都是開放的，因為你顯然在處理一個人在生活中可能經歷的最脆弱的經驗。

Okay, cheers to deep and dark conversations and to our friends around us is literally the life and death by chocolate.

好吧，為深沉的對話和我們周圍的朋友乾杯，簡直就是生死攸關的巧克力。