Name: 你不應該約會的一個人 (The One Person You Shouldn't Date)
Uploaded: 2022-06-20T17:05:41.000Z
Duration: 7 min 38 s

能否給我發個早安簡訊或什麼？

- 嗯，我的意思是，是的，有時。

我的生活中充滿了朋友和貓咪。

"更深層次的約會"，作者：肯-佩奇。

that I've been learning in my romantic life.

我在我的浪漫生活中一直在學習。

"we're all wired to experience two kinds of attraction,

"我們都有體驗兩種吸引力的能力。

I'm gonna use Prince Charles and his son,

我打算用查爾斯王子和他的兒子。

諸如此類，諸如此類，諸如此類。

這只是我使用的一個例子，基於

which probably doesn't accurately reflect

the multidimensional human beings they are

Prince Harry who represents attractions of inspiration,

哈里王子，他代表著靈感的景點。

這是一個美麗的女人剛剛被絆倒

And therefore, you know, whatever we have

是以，你知道，無論我們有什麼

我們將永遠是我們一起的團隊。

as attraction of deprivation, fuels all your insecurities.

作為剝奪的吸引力，助長了你所有的不安全感。

- [Interviewer} And I suppose you're in love.

- [採訪者]而且我想你是在戀愛。

- You'll find yourself strongly attracted

I know you'd think that if you met Charles

我知道，如果你遇到查爾斯，你會認為

but unfortunately you would be equally attracted

對他來說，就像你對哈里一樣。

And though both of these connections have

the potential to grow into deep attachments,

that Megan and myself had a baby boy early this morning.

梅根和我自己今天清晨生了一個男嬰。

Mother and baby are doing incredibly well.

母親和嬰兒的情況好得令人難以置信。

Has been the most amazing experience I can ever

這是我有史以來最神奇的經歷。

- 這是我發現的相當成熟的事情。

這對我的系統來說是一個衝擊。

- Relationships from an attraction of deprivation,

makes you feel inadequate, or is emotionally unavailable.

讓你覺得自己不夠好，或者在感情上無法得到滿足。

- {Interviewer] Do you think Mrs. Parker Bowles was a factor

- {採訪者]你認為帕克-鮑爾斯夫人是一個因素嗎？

- Well there were three of us in this marriage,

- 在這場婚姻中，我們有三個人。

- But the hard thing is, is that in the beginning both

- 但困難的是，在開始的時候，雙方都

誰在真正點燃我們最好的自我。

and who's triggering all of our insecurities,

以及誰在引發我們所有的不安全感。

According to Page, 90% of our attractions,

根據佩奇的說法，我們90%的景點。

won't be to inspiration, or to a literal Prince.

不會是為了靈感，或為了一個字面的王子。

In order to tell which attraction is which,

為了釐清哪個景點是哪個景點。

he advises that when you first meet someone,

他建議，當你第一次見到某人時。

do you feel a warm and natural connection?

你是否感覺到一種溫暖而自然的聯繫？

Is this person engaged, and genuinely interested?

這個人是否參與，並真正感興趣？

Nurturing attractions of inspiration will lead

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你不應該約會的一個人 (The One Person You Shouldn't Date)

deprivation

compliment

passionate

experience