Name: 一個主婦和一個傳教士在畫手指時進行了坦誠的對話 (A Dominatrix & A Preacher Have An Honest Conversation While Finger Painting)
Uploaded: 2022-06-20T16:56:12.000Z
Duration: 8 min 9 s

this is my favorite question to ask people, do you have any fetishes?

這是我最喜歡問的問題，你有什麼戀物癖嗎？

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Because usually when I think of preachers, I think of like super, pretty, super like perfect.

因為通常當我想到傳教士的時候，我想到的是像超級、漂亮、超級像完美的。

I have lots of relationships through my congregation, through my work with women and men, young people who were in the system.

我通過我的會眾，通過我與婦女和男子的工作，與那些在系統中的年輕人，有很多關係。

And so I'm gonna ask you a question, Make an assumption about me.

所以我要問你一個問題，對我做一個假設。

I would say is a female pastor, You would probably be very judgy.

我想說的是，如果是一位女牧師，你可能會很有判斷力。

I think sometimes women in the church think we have to be a certain kind of pretty good, something I'm not gonna wear makeup, I'm gonna act like I've never had sex.

我認為有時教會中的女性認為我們必須成為某種漂亮的人，一些我不會化妝的東西，我要表現得像我從來沒有做過愛。

I'm gonna, you know, I have to stuff down my woman stuff.

我要，你知道，我必須塞下我的女人的東西。

What's your judgment about me that you've been hurt by people like me?

你對我的判斷是什麼，你曾被我這樣的人傷害過？

實際上，它已經成為病毒式傳播。

When I came out with my story, the church shown me literally the church, I was disrespected.

當我說出我的故事時，教會給我看的簡直就是教會，我被不尊重了。

I was just mailed from here to next week.

It was like I went in there really just to meet someone and walked out next thing, you know, empowering a group full of women and basically shutting down the women's panel at the profit at college.

這就像我去那裡真的只是為了見一個人，然後走出來，你知道，賦予一個充滿女性的群體權力，基本上關閉了大學裡的女性小組的利潤。

What do you know about my current profession?

這就像媽媽，我是一個支配者。

Oh, I think she has a closet full of beautiful tools and toys.

哦，我想她有一個滿是漂亮工具和玩具的衣櫃。

Uh, some of which I might enjoy my own self, but like I'm going red.

呃，有些是我自己可能喜歡的，但就像我要紅了一樣。

I'm going pointy breast gear should be like, hey bob, pop, take your pants off, get on that bed.

我去尖銳的乳房裝備應該像，嘿，鮑勃，流行，把你的褲子脫掉，上那個床。

There's no sex involved in anything that I do.

I've had clients who have paid me to chew bubble gum for a couple of hours.

我曾有客戶付錢讓我嚼幾個小時的泡泡糖。

I have clients who have paid me to brush their teeth.

我有客戶付錢給我，讓我給他們刷牙。

It could be anything from, you have a fetish of.

它可以是任何東西，從，你有一個癖好的。

Would you be giving that money back to them in any kind of transaction girl?

你會在任何形式的交易女孩中把這些錢還給他們嗎？

One thing I've learned about pastors is that pastors are like they do everything they go from being the counselor, the teacher, the psychologist.

我對牧師的一個認識是，牧師就像他們所做的一切，他們從輔導員、教師、心理學家。

I learned that the closer you are to God, the more sexual you are.

我瞭解到，你離上帝越近，你的性能力就越強。

Well it was actually a pastor that got me into B.

實際上是一位牧師讓我進入了B組。

Well, I'll just say he was just a very very kinky little preacher man.

好吧，我就說他只是一個非常非常淫蕩的小傳教士。

Do you think religion causes more conflict than it solves.

你是否認為宗教造成的衝突比它解決的問題更多。

我的意思是我不認為它必須如此。

So I'm not saying all religion, but I'm saying religion historically has caused more conflict than it solved.

所以我不是說所有的宗教，但我是說宗教在歷史上造成的衝突比它解決的問題更多。

I don't think religion by itself Andrea is a weapon, but I think people weaponize religion and that's tragic.

我不認為宗教本身是一種武器，但我認為人們把宗教變成了武器，這很可悲。

Religion literally means to bind together.

宗教的字面意思是結合在一起。

And I gotta say I walked away from church too.

I had a car accident when I was 22 and I almost died and Andrea, I was convinced, I was convinced that the car accident was God's punishment for you not going to church.

我22歲的時候發生了一場車禍，我差點死了，安德里亞，我確信，我確信那場車禍是上帝對你不去教堂的懲罰。

No, for me having sex with my fiance, two weeks before I got married.

不，對於我和我的未婚夫發生性關係，在我結婚前兩個星期。

Just that face that you made, that's exactly where I was years of dont have sex, dont have sex, dont have sex to have sex.

只是你做的那個表情，這正是我多年來不做愛、不做愛、不做愛來做愛的地方。

And I just thought, oh wow, I really failed God right there.

我就想，哦，哇，我在那裡真的讓上帝失望了。

And that's why this car is flipping over in the Q E W and I'm almost dying now.

這就是為什麼這輛車在Q E W中翻轉，我現在幾乎要死了。

And if that kind of theology kills and I don't do that kind of theology, what is a dream?

如果那種神學會殺人，而我不做那種神學，那麼夢想是什麼？

You've let go of, It might cry, I come from the system.

你已經放手了，它可能會哭，我來自系統。

Um, growing up in foster care, I couldn't, you know, go to college and like it sucks.

嗯，在寄養家庭長大，我不能，你知道，去上大學，就像它很糟糕。

You know, they're like, I wanted to be a lawyer, couldn't because I didn't have the resources.

你知道，他們就像，我想成為一名律師，不能，因為我沒有資源。

I didn't have the things that most kids do and that kids take for granted and then to be a dominatrix who was a foster kid.

我沒有大多數孩子所擁有的東西，孩子們認為這是理所當然的，然後成為一個寄養兒童的支配者。

People already look at me like she was a foster kid.

人們已經把我看成是一個寄養兒童。

So obviously she was troublesome, you know, there's a stigma around us as well.

所以很明顯，她很麻煩，你知道，我們周圍也有一個汙名。

So I am so moved by your bad accessory to get the life you wanted.

所以我很感動，你為了得到你想要的生活而使用的不良配件。

Could you ever see yourself doing my profession?

你能看到自己從事我的職業嗎？

The board would fire me day one because I'd like to disrupt things that do not sit well with me.

董事會會在第一天就解僱我，因為我想打亂那些讓我不爽的事情。

They'd be like Ma'am it was nice but you gotta go, you gotta go, you gotta go, You disrupted the church.

他們會說，女士，這很好，但你得離開，你得離開，你得離開，你擾亂了教堂。

這將是有史以來最糟糕的教會。

或者它可能是有史以來最好的教堂。

I think if I wasn't at my church, I wouldn't be a pastor.

我想如果我不在我的教會，我就不會成為一個牧師。

I think maybe so because I think you honest.

我想也許是這樣，因為我覺得你很誠實。

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