What advice does dr Lalique have for someone trying to reconnect with a loved one in an online group that feels cult like another parallel to what we see in cults is this concept of cognitive dissonance, which means When reality butts up against your belief system, 99% of the time people are going to stick with their belief system rather than go with reality because it's what they know, it's what their identity is wrapped up in and it's safe for everybody who's in one of these closed groups has doubts and they're never able to express those doubts.
拉里克博士對那些試圖在一個感覺像邪教的網上團體中與所愛的人重新聯繫的人有什麼建議呢?我們在邪教中看到的另一個平行概念是認知失調,這意味著當現實與你的信仰系統相牴觸時,99%的人都會堅持自己的信仰系統,而不是去面對現實,因為這是他們所知道的,這是他們的身份所包裹的,而且對於每個在這些封閉團體中的人來說,這都是安全的,他們永遠無法表達這些疑慮。