of the parental home, getting married, and having children.

父母的家、結婚和生孩子。

And people tend to get anxious when they fail to check one of those boxes while they are

當人們在達到一定年齡未能達標時，他們往往會感到焦慮

reaching a certain age.

。

In my opinion, this is kind of dumb, life is a non-linear game, why do people always

在我看來，這有點愚蠢，生活是一個非線性遊戲，為什麼人們總是

treat it like it's a linear one?

把它當作一個線性遊戲？

But that being said, I am a hypocrite cuz I have checked the first two boxes in my early

但話雖如此，我是個偽君子，因為我在 二十 出頭的時候

twenties.

達了前兩標 。

Anyway, as soon as you check the second box aka moving out of the parental home, you are

無論如何，一旦您達了第二標，即搬出父母之家，您

bound to ask yourself: How Often Should I Call my Parents?

一定會問自己：我應該多久給我的父母打電話？

Let's find out with people also ask!

讓我們從「別人Google了什麼」一起找出答案吧！

Hi, I am Shao Chieh Lo, welcome to what people also ask, where I search for something seemingly

嗨，我是 Shao Chieh Lo，歡迎來到「別人Google了什麼」，本節目中我會搜索一些看似

obvious and share with you some of its PAA, aka People Also Ask, which is a feature telling

顯而易見的 東西， 並與您分享一些 PAA，又名 People Also Ask，這是一個功能，告訴

you what other people are searching on Google that relates to your query.

您其他人在 Google 上搜索了什麼與您的查詢有關的問題。

Today's query is How Often Should You Call Your Parents, we will talk about some statistics

今天的問題是你應該多久打電話給你的父母，我們將討論一些

about how often American young adults calling their parents, how much parent calling is

關於美國年輕人給父母打電話的頻率的一些統計數據

too much, and some advice on what to talk to your parents about.

多少通信可能太多，以及一些關於該跟父母聊些什麼的建議。

So let's start with our first PAA How often should adults call their parents?

那麼讓我們從我們的第一個 PAA 開始吧 成年人應該多久打電話給他們的父母？

Google's auto-generated answer is linked to an article titled “Good Question: How

谷歌自動生成的答案鏈接到一篇題為“好問題： 我們 多久

Often Do We Talk To Our Parents?” published by CBS Minnesota which is an affiliate of

與父母交談一次？”的文章。由 CBS Minnesota 出版，CBS Minnesota 是

the CBS network focusing its original news coverage on local issues.

CBS 網絡的附屬機構， 專注於本地問題的原創新聞報導。

According to this article, CBS News found 24 percent of adult children thought they

根據這篇文章，CBS 新聞發現 24% 的成年孩子認為他們

should call their mothers at least once a day.

應該每天至少給母親打電話一次。

Another 24 percent thought they should call a few times a week, while 35 percent answered

另有 24% 的人認為他們應該每週打幾次電話，而 35% 的人每週

once a week.

打一次。

And 12 percent deemed once a month or less is appropriate.

12% 的人認為每月一次或更少是合適的。

And 33 percent of Mothers with children under the age of 18 thought adults should call their

33% 有 18 歲以下孩子的母親認為成年人應該 每天至少 給

mothers at least once a day.

母親 打電話 一次。

But there are also generational differences because only 14 percent of Baby Boomers reported

但也存在代際差異，因為只有 14% 的嬰兒潮一代報告

calling their parents once a day.

稱每天給父母打電話一次。

This article also mentioned another very interesting article published on AARP aka the American

這篇文章還提到了在 AARP aka 美國 退休人員協會上

Association of Retired People.

發表的另一篇非常有趣的文章 。

This article argues that most cultures have maintained closeness between parents and children,

本文認為，大多數文化都保持著親子之間的親密關係，

so the baby boomers in America is actually the odd generation that overemphasizes independence.

因此美國的嬰兒潮一代實際上是過分強調獨立性的奇怪一代。

Very interesting article, I will put the link in the description.

非常有趣的文章，我會把鏈接放在描述中。

So chances are that you are watching this video because you are worrying that you are

因此，您正在觀看此視頻很可能是因為您擔心自己

not calling your parents enough so you are being a terrible child.

打電話給父母的次數不夠多，因此您是個糟糕的孩子。

And something like that.

和之類的。

But some of you, might actually be worrying about the opposite-like do I call my parents

但是你們中的一些人，實際上可能會擔心相反的事情，比如我給父母打電話

too much?

太多了嗎？

So let's talk about our next PAA: Is it normal to call your parents every day?

那麼讓我們來談談我們的下一個PAA：每天給父母打電話是正常的嗎？

Google's auto-generated answer is linked to an article titled “11 Signs You Should

谷歌自動生成的答案與 bustle.com 發表 的一篇題為“你應該

Talk To Your Parents Less” published by bustle.com which is an online magazine founded

少和父母說話的 11 個跡象”的文章相關聯 ，bustle.com 是一本 於 2013 年

in 2013 targeting young millennial women.

創立 的針對年輕千禧一代女性 的在線雜誌 。

So what are those 11 signs?

那麼這11個跡象是什麼呢？

I encourage you to read the whole article to find out, but to sum up, basically if:

我鼓勵您閱讀整篇文章以找出答案，但總結一下，基本上是：

Either party is too dependent.

任何一方都過於依賴。

Like you are asking your Mom what to get for dinner every day.

就像你每天都在問你媽媽晚餐吃什麼一樣。

Either party is too controlling.

任何一方都控制得太嚴了。

Like you don't think your Dad can take care of himself so you call him three times a day

就像您認為您的父親無法照顧自己一樣，所以您每天 給

to make sure he is still alive.

他打電話三遍 以確保他還活著。

Your relationship with your parents involves a lot of Money borrowing, no need to explain

你和父母的關係涉及到很多借錢，不用解釋

for that one.

。

The conversation always turns into an argument.

談話總是變成爭論。

In this case, you probably want to analyze if there is any issue in your relationship

在這種情況下，您可能需要分析您 與父母 的關係是否存在任何問題

with your parents and adjust accordingly.

並相應地進行調整。

So, in the scenarios listed above, you should probably call your parents less and, in some

因此，在上面列出的情況下，您可能應該少打電話給您的父母，並且在某些

cases, consider setting some boundaries.

情況下，考慮設置一些人際界限。

While some people should consider speaking with their parents less, others may not speak

雖然有些人應該考慮少和父母說話，但有些人可能

with their parents quite enough and so have no idea what to say when they do.So let's

和父母交談得不夠，所以不知道該說些什麼。所以讓我們

talk about next PAA: What should I talk to my mom about?

談談下一個PAA：我應該和媽媽談談什麼？

Google's auto-generated answer is linked to an article titled “38 Interesting Questions

谷歌自動生成的答案鏈接到 赫芬頓郵報發表 的一篇題為“

To Ask Your Mom Right Now” published by Huffington Post.

現在就問你媽媽的 38 個有趣問題 ”的文章。

While this article specifically provides some fun questions you can ask your mom, most of

雖然本文專門提供了一些您可以問媽媽的有趣問題，但其中大部分

those questions can apply to your dad too.

問題也適用於您的爸爸。

Again, highly encourage you to read this article which I will put the link below, but some

再次，強烈鼓勵您閱讀這篇文章，我將在下面放置鏈接，但其中一些

of those fun questions are: How many serious relationships were you in before you settled

有趣的問題是：在您安定 下來 之前 （如果您這樣做） ，您有多少認真的關係

down (if you did)?

？

What were they like?

那些關係是什麼樣子的？

When did you lose your virginity and to whom?

你什麼時候失去童貞，和誰失去了童貞？

Is there a moment or event that radically changed the way you saw the world?

是否有某個時刻或事件徹底改變了您看待世界的方式？

Have you ever done something really impulsive?

你有沒有做過很衝動的事情？

How did it go?

結果如何？

What do you want your funeral to be like?

你希望你的葬禮是什麼樣的？

What was life like for you at my age?

在我這個年紀，你的生活是怎樣的？

Again, highly encourage you to read this article, so just do it now.

再次強烈鼓勵您閱讀這篇文章，所以現在就去做。

Today we learned how frequently Americans believe they should call their parents based

今天，我們了解到根據調查美國人認為他們應該

on surveys.

給父母打電話的頻率 。

When you should probably call your parents less.

什麼時候你應該少打電話給你的父母。

And some questions you can ask your parents as conversation starters.

還有一些問題，你可以問你的父母作為談話的話題。

If you made it to the end of the video, chances are that you enjoy learning what people also

如果您看完了視頻，很可能會喜歡了解人們也在

ask on Google.

Google 上提出的問題。

But let's face it, reading PAA yourself will be a pain.

但是讓我們面對現實，自己閱讀 PAA 會很痛苦。

So here's the deal, I will do the reading for you and upload a video compiling some

所以不如這樣吧，我會為你閱讀並上傳一個視頻， 每週一次

fun PAAs once a week, all you have to do is to hit the subscribe button and the bell icon

編譯一些 有趣的 PAA ，你所要做的就是點擊訂閱按鈕和鈴鐺圖標，

so you won't miss any PAA report that I compile.

這樣你就不會錯過我的任何 PAA 報告編譯。

So just do it right now.

所以現在就去做。

Bye!

再見！