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  • Hello Psych2goers, and welcome back to another Psych2go video.

  • Do you have a crush on someone right now?

  • Having a crush on someone can be one of the most fun, exciting experiences we can have in life.

  • Especially when we're still young and life is full of possibilities.

  • And with every little touch, glance, and conversation you share, you can't help but feel giddy with excitement at the thought that maybe, just maybe, they feel the same way.

  • But, what if they don't?

  • If you're looking for signs to tell you when it's time to move on from your crush, then, you already know in your gut that something is wrong.

  • To save yourself from that kind of pain, here are eight warning signs that it's time to let go of your crush.

  • 1. They rarely acknowledge you.

  • Does your crush always seem oblivious to your presence?

  • Are you starting to wonder if they even know your name or remember how they know you?

  • No matter how obvious you try to show them that you like them, they just don't seem to pick up on any of it.

  • This could be a sign that they just aren't interested.

  • 2. They never initiate conversations.

  • Are you always the one to walk up to them and strike up a conversation or text them first?

  • Does your crush reply to you politely but curtly?

  • If this has been going on for months, and they still don't respond with more than a few words, then it's time for you to move on.

  • Remember, people who really want to talk to you will make the effort.

  • 3.They cancel on you...a lot.

  • Your plans to meet up and hang out with your crush are constantly met with the responses of: "I can't right now," or "Maybe next time."

  • Sometimes they say yes.

  • Usually after a bit of convincing ... but back out at the last minute and say; "Sorry, but something came up," time and time again.

  • They come up with a dozen reasons why they're not available, but deep down inside, you know it's really because they just didn't want to go.

  • 4. They're taking advantage of you.

  • When you like someone, you wanna do things that impress them or make them happy.

  • Your crush asks you to help them to study for a test - You'd be glad to.

  • They ask for your notes - Sure thing, no problem!

  • They need you to write their essay for them, lie for them, buy things for them - Don't fall for it.

  • You deserve better than to pine after someone who only "likes" you for what you can do for them.

  • 5. You're becoming obsessed with them.

  • Is your crush the only topic you talk about these days?

  • Are your friends sick of listening to you go on and on about your crush?

  • While it's easy to lose yourself and your feelings for someone else, you have to be careful not to let the crush get out of hand.

  • It's all fun and games until you start stalking them, fantasizing about them all the time, and making elaborate plans just to see them or run into them unexpectedly.

  • You're definitely in too deep and you need to turn back now.

  • 6. Your friends want you to move on.

  • Your friends often see things you don't, and you can trust them to tell you what you need to hear.

  • Does your crush already know you like them and still hasn't done anything about it?

  • Is it starting to cause more hurt than happiness?

  • Hear your friends out; They love you and always want what's best for you.

  • 7. They're interested in someone else.

  • If your crush is already interested in someone else, it's clearly time for you to move on.

  • It might hurt a lot to see them pursue someone else, but remember this: Life is too short for you to keep chasing after someone who doesn't feel the same way.

  • You deserve so much more than that.

  • 8. They're dating someone else.

  • While it may seem obvious to a lot of us that anyone who's already taken is definitely off limits, sometimes we can't help but indulge in a bit of harmless fantasy and let ourselves fall in love with them, just a little.

  • But having feelings for someone who can't return them is only gonna hurt you more.

  • Getting over a crush can be hard, especially if you like them a lot, or have liked them for a long time.

  • While it's painful to come to terms with, it's even worse for you to keep holding out for something that's ... just not gonna happen.

  • It can also cause a lot of damage to your self-esteem and sense of well-being.

  • Do you relate to any of these signs discussed in this video? If so, what do you want to do next?

  • Let us know in the comments below.

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8 Signs To Let Go of Your Crush(8 Signs To Let Go of Your Crush)

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    Julianne Sung 發佈於 2021 年 07 月 13 日
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