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Do you know what day of the week you are most likely to die from a heart attack?
Take a guess. I'll give you a second
It's Monday care to guess what time it is between 8:00 and 9:00 a.m
Do you know what else happens Monday at 8:00? That is the same day and time people get ready to go into jobs
They hate
Coincidence ?
Don't think so
Take a look at this chart
This is the lifespan of the average person
On average we live about 80 years if we're lucky
We start working at about 18 and we work work work and retire at about 67
Now, what does this tell you?
That for better or for worse the majority of your life
Will be spent on Work!
Do not spend that time unhappy
Like my friend J
CJ would always say when I finished school
Then I'll be happy
Well J finished school, but he wasn't happy
So then J said when I get a job then I'll be happy
J got a job, but he still wasn't happy so
J said when I get married settle down and have kids then I'll be happy
Well, he got married settled down had two kids but still
Wasn't happy so then J said okay when the kids leave home and I'll retire then
I'll be happy
Well, the kids left home and he retired, but he still wasn't happy
So Jay started going to church and I XJ
why he was going to church so much and he said
Because when I die, then I'll be happy
Jay's story, however, sad is not unique
I could have replaced Jay with Johnny or Bonnie. In fact, Jay's initials stand for
just about
everybody
Many of us are like Jay
But it is not our fault
We have been tricked to stay stuck in jobs that are literally making us sick and to be and then
people
You know about the and then people right it is people who constantly say and then I'll be happy
Ladies and gentlemen, we must go from living as and Vince
To becoming right now. We have to be happy right now
How we must either find a job we love
Or bring more love into our jobs. It is time to step out of the rat race
Because the funny thing is even if you win make a lot of money hold up the trophy that everybody helps
You're still a furrier oaky with a pointy nose and long tail?
Wake up, stop playing with your life. This ain't a video game. This ain't mario kart
This ain't fortnight. There is no try again. But no option to redo this level when the game's over game's over
But there is one cheat code to the human console and that is to take control and to stop buying into the lie
Society is told like how overworking is cool and being stressed out as a status symbol
Oh and hey almost forgotten the biggest lie
people work-life balance
Now on the surface you may not see how crazy that sounds but think about it work-life balance
Shouldn't it be the other way around?
Shouldn't life come before work because when your life is better your work is better
But don't take my opinion Harvard professor shawn Achor recently discovered something fantastic
Which he calls the happiness advantage?
His studies prove that 75% of job success can be predicted by not. How smart you are
Not how talented you are
But how happy you are?
His research is decisive
He says when you're happy your intelligence Rises creativity Rises your productivity Rises and you know, what else is funny
You also make more money
But here's the real kicker. You live longer - I
Know it sounds too. Good to be true
But yes
optimists actually live longer than pessimists so you could stretch this graph a few extra years if this time here is
Filled with more joy and Cheer. Let me be clear do not take this message lightly
It is your duty to be happy for your own sake and I don't care if you're here at the end
It is never too late to trade in your deadly hood for a livelihood and refuse to suffer during the weekdays
ironic they call it that cuz you're literally in a week days where you're constantly waiting for the week and
see
I believe so many people die of heart attacks because they are involved in work that their hearts are just not
in I
Believe people have low vital signs because they are involved in work that is not vital to them
My friends happiness is a choice
But anyone who says it's easy his line, it ain't easy
But you have to try the first step is to look inside and remember the quote that the Buddha wrote
2,000 years ago, which I believe today for most people
still applies
The problem is you think
You have time
Stop wasting your life
You