Name: 你永遠無法看到別人所承受的壓力 | 善待他人 (You Can Never See The Pressure Others Are Under. Be Kind)
Uploaded: 2021-05-10T21:01:20.000Z
Duration: 2 min 22 s

過去簡單式

I recently came across this image and story and had to share it with you.

我最近看到這張圖片也得知背後故事，必須跟你們分享。

The man in this picture doesn't know that there is a snake underneath.

圖片中的男人不知道底下有一條蛇。

The woman doesn't know that there is a stone crushing the man.

女人不知道有一塊巨石壓著男人。

The woman thinks, "I am going to fall, and I can't climb because the snake is going to bite me. Why can't he use a little more strength and pull me up?"

女人心想：「我要摔下去了，而我不能往上爬，因為蛇會咬我。為什麼他不能多用點力氣把我拉上去？ 」

The man thinks, "I am in so much pain, yet I'm still pulling you as much as I can! Why doesn't she try and climb a little harder?"

男人心想：「我這麼痛苦，然而我還是儘可能地拉著妳！她為什麼不試著更努力一點爬呢？ 」

The moral is, you can never see the pressure the other person is under and the other person can't see the pain you're in.

這裡的寓意是，你永遠看不到對方所承受的壓力，對方也看不到你經歷的痛苦。

This is life, whether it's with work, family, feelings, or friends, we should try to understand each other a little more.

這就是生活，無論是對工作、家庭、感情還是朋友，我們都應該試著多瞭解對方一些。

Try to see the situation from the other person's point of view. Put yourself in their shoes. Learn to think differently. Be more open to other perspectives and opinions.

試著從對方的角度看問題、設身處地為他們著想、學會換位思考、對其它觀點和意見更加開放。

A little kindness and patience goes a long way.

一點善意和耐心會有很大的幫助。

Everyone we meet is fighting their own battle, some you will never hear about.

我們遇到的每個人都在為自己的戰鬥而戰，有些你永遠不會聽說。

You may wish other people would be more understanding and compassionate and helpful to you,

你可能希望其他人給予你更多的理解、同情和幫助，

所以你也必須為其他人做這些事情。

Lorie Deschene once gave some priceless advice.

Lorie Deschene 曾經給出一些無價的建議。

She said, "Practice the pause. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. And pause whenever you're about to react harshly. You might avoid saying things you'll later regret."

她說：「要練習停頓。在假設前停頓、指責前停頓，並在你要做出嚴厲反應時停頓。你或許就能夠避免說出以後會後悔的話。」

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