Name: 如何獲得你想要的東西並找到目標｜奧利-奧利頓。 (How To Get What You Want And Find Purpose | Ollie Ollerton)
Uploaded: 2021-03-29T18:51:03.000Z
Duration: 10 min 15 s

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our subconscious is the goal striving, goal getting machine, and it will not stop until it gets exactly what your dominant thoughts focus on.

我們的潛意識是目標奮鬥、目標獲取的機器，它不會停止，直到它準確獲取你的主導思想所關注的東西。

But the thing is, some people have chosen goal, and some people just leave it to the massacre.

但問題是，有的人選擇了目標，有的人就任由屠殺。

Confusion that's going on inside, which delivers them to something that they don't usually want.

內心的困惑，這就把他們送到了平時不願意看到的地方。

If you don't have a focus on a goal or a mission, and this is generally in life, you will find that you end up becoming a victim of your circumstances.

如果你沒有一個專注的目標或任務，這在生活中一般都是如此，你會發現你最終會成為環境的受害者。

You get lost in the journey, something happened.

你在旅途中迷失了方向，發生了一些事情。

Something major happens and you become a victim of your circumstances because you've got nothing bigger pulling you through.

發生了一些重大的事情，你就會成為環境的受害者，因為你沒有什麼更大的事情來拉攏你。

And the reason for that it comes down to our evolution.

Our evolution as far as evolution is concerned, it wants us to keep doing what we did yesterday and the day before, because as far as it's concerned, that's what's kept kept us alive until today.

我們的進化就進化而言，它希望我們繼續做昨天和前天所做的事情，因為就它而言，這就是讓我們活到今天的原因。

It doesn't give a shit if you're happy or sad, whether it's a good situation or not, it wants to keep us in a repeat habit loop.

它才不管你是喜是悲，不管你的境遇是否良好，它要讓我們一直處於重複的習慣循環中。

Okay, so if you're thinking negative thoughts and we do because we're wired that way, if you're thinking negative thoughts, you will keep getting more that you'll keep getting more and more of that.

好吧，所以如果你在想消極的想法，我們做的，因為我們的有線方式，如果你在想消極的想法，你會繼續得到更多的，你會繼續得到更多的那。

And you have to change your mindset around that.

而你必須圍繞著這一點改變自己的心態。

And the only way you can do that is by having clearly defined goals.

而你能做到這一點的唯一方法就是有明確的目標。

Because if you don't have a clearly defined goal, what are we given to you?

因為如果你沒有一個明確的目標，我們給你的是什麼？

And that will be based on what your thoughts are mhm.

而這將基於你的想法是什麼嗯。

At the end of the day, you've got to define what your purpose is, and the problem is when you're young and you haven't had many experiences in life, that means that you need to get out there and stop throwing yourself into loads of different experiences because you need to start defining what really makes you tick.

在一天結束時，你必須定義你的目的是什麼，問題是當你還年輕，你還沒有太多的生活經驗，這意味著你需要走出去，不要再把自己扔進大量不同的經歷中，因為你需要開始定義什麼真正讓你打動。

Initially, you you've really got to step into the short term discomfort for long term gain and start doing things in life.

最初，你你真的要踏踏實實地用短期的不適換取長期的收益，開始做生活中的事情。

Start following someone else's pattern being, you know, follow the program, so to speak.

開始按照別人的模式被，你知道，按照程序，可以說。

If you're like had loads of experiences, it's about sitting down and writing down.

如果你像有大量的經驗，那就坐下來寫下來。

Write down all the things that really excited you.

寫下所有真正讓你興奮的事情。

If you need to define your purpose, what is your purpose in life?

如果你需要確定你的目的，你的人生目的是什麼？

You know, once you do that, you define, you know, going back over history.

你知道，一旦你這麼做，你就會定義，你知道，要追溯歷史。

What wherever I felt really good about myself, what I enjoyed most, and then you'll start to define your purpose.

什麼地方我覺得自己真的很好，我最喜歡什麼，然後你就會開始確定你的目標。

You start thinking about everything is look, if I want to pass an exam, a lot of people, the way we're going to the way we were wired and this comes down to evolution because we're always looking for the negatives, we all know that once you create an idea in your head, we always look for things that are going to go wrong.

你開始思考所有的事情都是看，如果我想通過考試，很多人，我們的方式是我們的有線方式，這歸根結底是進化，因為我們總是在尋找負面的東西，我們都知道，一旦你在你的腦海中創造了一個想法，我們總是尋找會出錯的事情。

We don't sit there and focus about how great it's going to be when we get that, whether that's starting a new business relationship, whatever it is, whether it's taking your exams, you always think about the panic of not passing the panic of what could go wrong.

我們不會坐在那裡，專注於當我們得到這個消息的時候，不管是開始一個新的商業關係，不管是什麼，不管是參加考試，你總是會想到沒有通過的恐慌，會出什麼問題的恐慌。

And that's what we end up visualizing, visualizing, you know.

這就是我們最終的可視化，可視化，你知道的。

I mean, and it's about just changing that energy to be more positive.

我的意思是，它是關於只是改變 這種能量是更積極的。

So really, it's The thing is, with this, you'll get so many people that disbelieve and will never engage in it.

所以，真的是這樣的問題，有了這個，你會有很多人不相信，也不會參與其中。

But until they when they do it once, they only need a little taste.

但直到他們當他們做一次，他們只需要一點點的味道。

And once they've got a little taste to know that this stuff really does work that will change their life forever.

而一旦他們嚐到了一點甜頭，知道這東西真的有用，將永遠改變他們的生活。

Once you've got yourself lined up spiritually, once you've created that bandwidth that is way away from fear, because fear doesn't allow for creativity, the opportunities are already there.

一旦你讓自己在精神上排好了隊，一旦你創造了那個遠離恐懼的帶寬，因為恐懼不允許創造，機會就已經存在了。

A lot of people say in life that Oh, well, you know, I can't wait to the opportunities to line up there already there.

很多人在生活中說，哦，好吧，你知道，我等不及的機會已經在那裡排隊了。

It's you that got to line yourself up, And that's when you come from a place of belief and when you're not living in a state of fear, and unfortunately at the moment it's amplified at the moment.

是你自己要排好隊，那是當你從一個有信念的地方來的時候，當你不生活在恐懼的狀態下的時候，不幸的是此刻它被放大了。

Fear is driving society through the news through everything and fear is driving society because that's the only way you can control the society.

恐懼正在通過新聞通過一切來推動社會的發展，恐懼正在推動社會的發展，因為只有這樣你才能控制社會。

We live in this and you look at the news, you look at the newspapers, everything is fear.

我們生活在這樣的環境中，你看看新聞，看看報紙，一切都是恐懼。

But once you disengage from that, I mean, I don't read any newspapers.

但一旦你脫離了這一點，我的意思是，我不看任何報紙。

If I do watch TV, it's very something very specific, You know, a film or whatever, but I'm very conscious about the content that goes into here and really, you know, once people have a have a taste of visualization, you know I do.

如果我看電視，它是非常的東西非常具體， 你知道，一部電影或任何東西，但我很清楚的內容，進入這裡，真的，你知道，一旦人們有一個可視化的味道，你知道我做的。

I do online courses where I get people to sit down and meditate for me.

我做在線課程，讓大家坐下來為我冥想。

Meditation Again, people think, How can this guy from the Special Forces meditate?

冥想又讓人覺得，這個特種部隊的人怎麼能冥想呢？

那是格拉斯頓伯裡嬉皮士的東西。

Okay, Meditation for me is my focused attention at an intention.

好吧，對我來說，冥想是我集中注意力在一個意向。

It's my moment for me to visualize, create calmness in here and be able to visualize and what I want.

這是我的時刻，我可以在這裡想象，創造平靜，能夠想象和我想要的東西。

And once I learned to create that stillness of mind, it allows that clarity, a vision to what?

而一旦我學會了創造這種靜止的心態，就會讓這種清晰的，對什麼的憧憬？

I want our heads of 70 thoughts going around each day.

我希望我們的腦袋裡每天都有70個念頭在轉。

Now, if you don't focus on some things that you want out of that 70,000 thoughts, you're going to end up with a load of crap that you don't want.

現在，如果你不把注意力放在一些你想要的東西上，從那七萬個念頭中，你將最終得到一堆你不想要的垃圾。

They allow the 70 thoughts just to be like this washing machine of ideas, and they don't define what they want in life.

他們讓這70個念頭就像這臺思想的洗衣機一樣，他們沒有定義自己想要的生活。

So that's why they're basically just bouncing like a pinball from side to side, not knowing where they're going, and that's been decided for them.

所以這也是為什麼他們基本上就像彈球一樣左右搖擺，不知道自己要去哪裡，這已經為他們決定了。

But it's just about creating clear vision and intent for what you want that for me.

但它只是為你想要的東西創造明確的願景和意圖，對我來說。

You know, it's such an important process in which came years later.

你知道，這是一個如此重要的過程，在這幾年後。

That morning routine for me is, is a life changer.

對我來說，這套晨間程序是，是改變生活的。

It's where I set myself up for each and every day, and I dominate each and every day.

這是我給自己設定的每一天，我主宰每一天。

So, really, for me, it's always been about the fact that I visualize where I want to be when times are tough, when times are hard, when things are going really wrong, I visualized I've got a vision of where I want to be, and it's that one thing that pulls me through and I don't get bogged down in the situation.

所以，真的，對我來說，一直以來，我都是在困難的時候，當困難的時候，當事情真的出了問題的時候，我把我想去的地方想象出來，就是這一件事，把我拉過去，我不會陷入困境。

When it comes to humans, we don't even know our true power.

說到人類，我們甚至不知道自己真正的力量。

It's been so hidden from us by social programming education that we don't know our true power, and we have got so much every person on this planet as a gift.

它一直被社會編程教育所掩蓋，我們不知道自己真正的力量，我們已經得到了這麼多這個星球上的每一個人作為禮物。

Everyone has the ability to create the lifestyle that they want.

每個人都有能力創造自己想要的生活方式。

And those amazing that amazing gift has been taken away from us because we've been programmed socially through education, everything.

而那些驚人的，驚人的禮物已經從我們這裡拿走了，因為我們已經通過教育，一切都被社會程序化了。

你知道，我們... ...我們已經失去了我們的力量。

I didn't find my purpose until 2011, you know?

我直到2011年才找到自己的目標，你知道嗎？

And that was when I was rescuing the kids from child prostitution slavery in Thailand.

那是我在泰國拯救兒童賣淫奴隸的時候。

I didn't know the gift that that would give me, you know, So for me, I you know, I wasn't searching for my purpose.

我不知道那會給我的禮物，你知道，所以對我來說，我... ...你知道，我沒有尋找我的目標。

I didn't know there was such thing as defining the purpose.

我不知道還有定義目的這種東西。

At that point, I just thought I would just couldn't find anything that would satisfy me.

那時候，我只覺得我就是找不到能讓我滿意的東西。

And my my life was just haywire, you know?

而我的... ...我的生活只是亂七八糟，你知道嗎？

And then I went over to Thailand, were involved in operations, rescuing kids from sharp prostitution, slavery, going, infiltrating enemy camps and getting the kids out.

然後我去了泰國，參與了行動，從尖銳的賣淫、奴役中解救孩子，去，潛入敵營，把孩子救出來。

And that for me, when I actually saw these kids, then go to the orphanage and then a week later, or a couple of weeks later, you're seeing these kids, you know, very young kids walking down the street with a school uniform on the satchel and only weeks before, they were about to be sold into some kind of some brothel.

而對我來說，當我真正看到這些孩子， 然後去孤兒院，然後一個星期後， 或幾個星期後，你看到這些孩子， 你知道，非常年輕的孩子走在街上 與校服上的挎包和僅在幾個星期前，

Well, you have to You have to start getting experiences in life.

嗯，你必須... ...你必須開始獲得生活經驗。

You really have to start pushing the bar with us.

你真的要開始和我們一起推杆了。

You know, everyone will have a passion or desire to be something, you know?

你知道，每個人都會有一種激情或慾望，你知道嗎？

I mean, whether that's someone that wants to travel a lot, whether that's someone that wants to be in business, you've got to stop pushing the boat out and start start experiencing with things, you know?

我的意思是，無論那是一個人，想旅行了很多， 無論那是一個人，想在業務， 你必須停止推船出來，並開始體驗與事情，你知道嗎？

I mean, so you've really got to push the boat and some experiences you're not gonna enjoy.

我的意思是，所以你真的要推船，有些經驗你不會喜歡。

But you start noting down the things you're doing joint.

但你開始記下你正在做的事情聯合。

Before you know it, you can define the purpose of where you're supposed to be and what floats your boat.

在你意識到這一點之前，你可以確定你應該在哪裡的目的，以及什麼是你的船的浮動。

I found my purpose, my purpose with I saw the power of helping other people.

我找到了我的目的，我的目的與我看到了幫助別人的力量。

And that is such a phenomenal gift when you actually help people less fortunate than you or just in general.

而當你真正幫助了比你更不幸的人，或者只是一般的人時，這就是一個了不起的禮物。

Anyway, I think that is something that we have lost the power to.

總之，我認為這是我們已經失去了力量。

To harness everyone is like hunting for the most social media followers.

駕馭每個人就像獵取最多的社交媒體粉絲。

And the more followers on instagram, whatever it is, even in a place of work.

而instagram上的粉絲越多，不管是什麼，即使是在工作的地方。

When you're working on the same team, there's people fighting against each other because they want the kudos for being better than the other person.

當你在同一個團隊裡工作時，有人會互相爭鬥，因為他們想得到比對方更好的嘉獎。

You know, we forgot how to work together.

你知道，我們忘記了如何一起工作。

We forgot There's not many people that do selfless acts of kindness anymore for someone for no reward and that for me, you know, I paid to go over there.

我們忘了 已經沒有多少人再為別人做無私的善舉了，不求回報，而對我來說，你知道，我是花錢去的。

There was no rewards for me helping these kids.

我幫助這些孩子是沒有任何回報的。

And that was the biggest reward in itself.

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