Name: 與人上床前要問的一個問題 (One question to ask before sleeping with someone)
Uploaded: 2021-02-04T21:45:41.000Z
Duration: 4 min 58 s

基礎被動語態

- Last week, my entire world was turned upside down.

- 上週，我的整個世界都被顛覆了。

情態副詞

Apparently my mom got my birth city wrong.

顯然，我媽把我的出生城市搞錯了。

轉承詞

So instead of a Capricorn rising, I'm an Aquarius rising.

所以我不是摩羯座的上升，而是水瓶座的上升。

My entire identity has been built on an adjacent ascendant.

我的整個身份都是建立在相鄰的上升通道上。

And apparently because Saturn and Jupiter went into

Aquarius for the first time in a long time, last December--

去年12月，水瓶座好久以來第一次... ...

If I get any more introspective, I just--

I just might die, you know, my body may cease to exist

我只是可能會死，你知道，我的身體可能會不復存在。

But until then, my normal level of introspection remains,

但在這之前，我的正常檢討水準仍然是。

How do you know when you're supposed to sleep with someone?

你怎麼知道你什麼時候應該和別人睡覺？

- I mean, in the before time, I would just kind of sleep

- 我的意思是，在以前的時候，我只是一種睡眠。

with someone in the first couple of dates

if I really liked them to gauge sexual chemistry.

如果我真的喜歡他們來衡量性的化學反應。

- Yeah Melisa, you went on one date ten years ago,

- 是啊，梅麗莎，你十年前去約會過一次。

- I mean, it's still relevant to the conversation.

- 我的意思是，它仍然與談話有關。

- 好吧，梅麗莎，我們得到它。

- Congratulations, you won't die alone like the rest of us.

- 恭喜你，你不會像我們一樣孤獨地死去。

- The one question you should ask yourself before you sleep

- 睡覺前你應該問自己一個問題。

with someone, is would I trust them to watch my pet?

和人在一起，是我相信他們會看管我的寵物嗎？

- 這是一個偉大的一個。- 我知道！

- 好吧，這與你無關，梅麗莎。

because you'll never have to ask yourself that.

And I was fascinated by this suggestion from the internet.

而我卻被網上的這個建議吸引住了。

我相信他們會看管我的寵物嗎？

This barometer, this question really highlighted

這個晴雨表，這個問題真的很突出

我們不會信任我們的寵物的人。

How much more comfortable I am committing

one of the most intimate physical acts with someone

And like, I don't think this question is necessarily like,

而像，我不認為這個問題一定是喜歡。

because your relationship to sex, my relationship to sex

因為你和性的關係，我和性的關係。

it can be a myriad of things besides trust and intimacy.

除了信任和親密關係之外，它還可以是無數的東西。

It can be casual exploration, play, gauging

它可以是隨意的探索、玩耍、測評。

sexual chemistry, working out, stress reduction.

And obviously this question related more to the before time.

而顯然這個問題更多的是與之前的時間有關。

But even now, I feel like physical intimacy

但即使是現在，我也感覺到身體上的親密關係

You know, conversations around safety have become paramount

你知道，圍繞安全的對話已經成為最重要的。

given the nature of the virus has made navigating

people's boundaries almost like navigating a grocery store.

人們的界限幾乎就像在雜貨店裡導航一樣。

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