Name: 你好嗎？（How Are You, Really?）
Uploaded: 2021-01-30T13:44:28.000Z
Duration: 7 min 51 s

過去簡單式

When I planted the trees, a young person said to me,

有次我在植樹時，一個年輕人問我：

「為什麼你要浪費時間種樹？」

她說道：「你不會見到樹木長成（那一天）」

But for me, planting a tree was never a waste of time.

然而對我來說，植樹從來不是浪費時間的事

從未平坦，時而高起，時而低落

But you know what... I can't control everything.

I was with my husband when he passed away.

It's a strange emotion that went through me.

It was early in the morning and I walked around the house

那是一大清早，我在家四處走動

感到自己被遺棄了，只因一心想著

And yet it was so unbelievably beautiful.

然而，那瞬間變得不可置信的美麗

and all I can remember was how beautiful the world was around me.

我記憶中，那時圍繞著我的世界無比美麗

It gave me so much courage, to realise but

you are still here and you can still go on.

And that's life... that is not death... that's life.

It is a loss... I'm not saying that it's not a loss.

有失去的遺憾，我不是說毫無所失

Don't touch me. Handle with care. This side up.

（心）玻璃易碎，小心輕放，此面朝上

那時候有人對我說：「你，還好嗎？」

And he took my shoulders, turned me around and said

然後他手搭在我肩膀，把我轉過身來再問：

You must cry because that is good for the eyes

你要放聲哭，哭泣會浸潤你的靈魂之窗

You're not going to make peace if you keep saying 'fine'

你一直說：「我很好」，永遠也無法與痛苦共處

當人們對你說：「我很好啊！」

你，真的還好嗎？不，我一點也不好

「我很好」經常只是堅強的偽裝

is not what they're going to need next moment.

To give them time to just sit with you...

Show your emotions, emotions are there to show.

表露自己情感，情緒要表達出來

or bump each other when they don't feel like it.

那麼為什麼你 總要表現得彬彬有禮？

我是個孩子時，有人問我母親：

'Aren't you worried?  Your children are forever fighting.'

「你不擔心嗎？」你的孩子不停地在打鬧

She said, 'No, if they stop fighting I take them to the doctor.'

她說道：「不擔心，孩子不打鬧，我反倒會帶他們去看醫生」

'Because they've got different personalities.'

「因為他們有不同的獨立性格」

'And each one must be free to express their personality.'

「每一個個體，應有表達個性的自由」

'But they are also free to accept what comes from the other side.'

「但他們也要接受他人表達情緒的自由」

Getting cross and saying your say is also a form of

被惹怒，同時說出自己立場也是

I must say, I like trees that lose their leaves in winter.

我承認，我喜愛冬季落葉紛紛的樹木

Like the tree, you will get new leaves when spring comes.

如同大樹，春天一到來，你也必將新生枝芽

for those of you who have shared our films,

for those of you who have written out comments,

以及每一位花時間寫下留言的你

And we've put a Patreon link below our films

我們在影片下方留下了贊助專案的Patreon連結

so if you'd like to continue to support us

如果你願意持續支持我們追逐夢想

we'd love for you to donate below. Thanks so much.

期待也能小額贊助我們的熱情計劃，衷心感謝

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