字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 Alright another very important tip for maintaining relationships is twofold. Listening and not judging. When I'm talking about listening, I'm not talking about hearing. I'm talking about when your partner is talking to you, trying to have a conversation with you, is possibly upset about something, don't tune them out. Don't focus on the television, then you're just hearing them. You need to truly listen to each other. You can even make comments like, "I hear what you're saying and this is how I feel about it." But, listen to each other and don't judge what each other say or feel. Especially before you've heard the whole story, the whole story. She said, "Oh, I hate my boss." Well, you automatically start judging, "Oh, here we go. I know where this is going to go. She's going to complain about her work, she's going to complain about her job, and then she's going to ask me if she can quit." Don't judge! Just be a supportive listener. And, if the other person wants your response, give it. Otherwise, sometimes, people just need someone to listen.