Name: 5條生活經驗--韋恩-戴爾博士 (真正的激勵) (5 Lessons To Live By - Dr. Wayne Dyer (Truly Inspiring))
Uploaded: 2021-01-04T19:15:50.000Z
Duration: 11 min 40 s

when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

當你改變了你看事物的方式，你看的事物就會改變。

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Albert Einstein once observed that the most fundamental and major decision that you have to make in your life is this.

愛因斯坦曾經指出，你一生中最根本、最重大的決定就是這個。

Do I live and a friendly or a hostile universe?

我是生活在一個友好的還是敵對的宇宙？

Is it a universe that is filled with hostility and anger and people wanting to hate each other and people wanting to kill each other?

宇宙中充滿了敵意和憤怒，人們想要互相仇恨，人們想要互相殺戮?

Because when you see the world that way, that's exactly what you will create for yourself in your life.

因為當你這樣看待世界的時候，這正是你將為自己創造的生活。

And the interesting thing is that this is not just a ah clever play on words that when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change I'd like you to imagine the following scene.

而有趣的是，這不僅僅是一個啊巧妙的文字遊戲，當你改變了看事物的方式，你看的事物就會發生變化，我想請你想象一下下面的場景。

You're in your house, you've got your car keys in your hand, the lights go out.

你在家裡，手裡拿著車鑰匙，燈滅了。

You stumble around in your living room and you drop your keys and you look around for a moment and you realize that you're never gonna find them in the dark.

你在客廳裡跌跌撞撞地走來走去 你掉了鑰匙 你四處張望了一下 你意識到在黑暗中你永遠也找不到鑰匙。

But you look outside and you notice that the streetlights around So in your mind, a light bulb goes off.

但你看了看外面，發現周圍的路燈，於是在你的腦海裡，一個燈泡熄滅了。

I'm not gonna sit around here in the dark and grow up around looking for my keys.

我不會坐在這裡在黑暗中長大，周圍尋找我的鑰匙。

When there's a light on outside, I'm gonna go out here under the street life.

等到外面有燈亮了，我就會到這裡的街頭生活下。

So you're out here and you're groping around and you're looking for your keys and your looking and looking in.

所以，你在這裡，你摸索著，你在尋找你的鑰匙，你的尋找和尋找。

Your neighbor comes along and says, What happened?

你的鄰居走過來，說，發生了什麼事？

I'll help you look for on the two of us air now down here looking for our keys.

我會幫你找我們兩個人的空氣，現在在這裡尋找我們的鑰匙。

Looking finally, he says to me, Excuse me, but, um, where did you drop your keys?

最後看，他對我說，對不起，但是，嗯，你的鑰匙掉在哪裡了？

好吧，我把它們丟在房子裡了。

He said, You mean to tell me that you dropped your keys in the house and you're looking for them out here in the street?

他說，你的意思是說，你把鑰匙掉在家裡了，而你卻在外面的大街上找鑰匙？

And I said, Well, it doesn't make any sense to grope around in the dark when there's light out here.

我說，好吧，這沒有任何意義，在黑暗中摸索，當有光在這裡。

Now you laugh and you think how silly that is.

現在你笑了，你會覺得那是多麼的愚蠢。

But isn't that exactly what we do when we have a problem, a difficulty, a struggle that is located inside?

但這不正是我們遇到問題、困難、鬥爭時位於內心的做法嗎？

And we're looking for the solution outside someplace outside of ourselves.

而我們要在自己之外的某個地方尋找解決方案。

It would be like going to the doctor and telling him all of your symptoms.

這就好比去看醫生，把你所有的症狀都告訴他。

The doctor says, Oh, boy, you've got a lot of symptoms and he starts writing out prescriptions.

醫生說，哦，孩子，你的症狀很多，他開始開出處方。

You need a prescription for this symptom.

你需要一個處方來治療這個症狀。

You need a prescription for that symptoms.

你需要一個處方來解決這個症狀。

And finally, he gets this four or five and you go to walk out and you say, Well, I'd like my prescriptions He said, No, no, no, I'll give this one to your mother in law.

最後，他拿了四五張，你走出去，說："我想要我的處方。" 他說："不，不，不，我把這一張給你的岳母

I'll give this one to your neighbor and I'll give this one to your daughter and I'll give this one to your father.

我把這個送給你的鄰居，我把這個送給你的女兒，我把這個送給你的父親。

You're the one with the struggles and with the difficulties expecting somebody else to change or something outside of you to get better in order for you to make your life work, it's something you have to really take a hard look at.

你是一個有掙扎的人，有困難的人，期待別人的改變或者外在的東西讓你變得更好，你才能讓你的生活變得更好，這是你要真正認真審視的問題。

This is a very difficult principle for many people to get, but one that I believe very strongly I was in a group one time of drug addicts and alcoholics and the sign on the wall said there are no justified resentments in this group.

這對很多人來說是一個非常難懂的原則，但我非常相信這個原則，有一次我在一個吸毒者和酗酒者的群體中，牆上的牌子上寫著這個群體中沒有正當的怨恨。

What I said to that group that night Waas No matter what anybody says to you here, no matter what kind of, uh, anger comes directed towards you, No matter how much hate you may encounter showing up in your life there are no justified resentments meaning that if you carry around resentment inside of you about anything or about anyone and I'm talking about the person that you lent money to and hasn't paid you back, I'm talking about the person in your life that you feel was abusive in your life.

那晚我對那群人說的是 無論任何人對你說什麼，無論什麼樣的，呃，憤怒是針對你的，無論你的生活中會遇到多少仇恨，都沒有合理的怨恨，這意味著如果你對任何事情或任何人都懷有怨恨，我說的是你借錢給你卻沒有還你的人，我說的是你生活中的人，你覺得他在你的生活中虐待你。

I'm talking about the person who walked out on you and left you for somebody else.

我說的是那個為了別人而離開你的人。

I'm talking about all of the things that you have justified in your heart and in your life that you have the right to be resentful above.

我說的是你心裡和生活中所有有理有據的事情，你有權利在上面怨恨。

And I'm suggesting to you that those resentments will always end up harming you and creating in you a sense off despair.

而我建議你，這些怨恨最終會傷害你，讓你產生絕望感。

No one ever dies from a snake bite a snake bite will never kill you.

沒有人被蛇咬死過 被蛇咬傷是不會死的。

But it's the venom that continues to pour through your system after the bite that will end up destroying you.

但被咬後不斷湧入你體內的毒液，最終會毀了你。

Yeah, there are many ways to get the things that we want for ourselves in our lives.

是啊，在我們的生活中，有很多方法可以讓我們得到自己想要的東西。

But basically it all begins with how we choose to think as you think.

但基本上都是從我們選擇如何像你一樣思考開始的。

So shall you be seven little words that I think are perhaps the most important things that we can learn on master in our lives.

所以，你應是七個小字，我想這也許是我們一生中最重要的學習上主的東西。

This'll old proverb notion that I become what I think about all day long and once you know that what you think about is what expands.

這將舊的諺語觀念，我成天想的是什麼，一旦你知道你想的是什麼，就會擴張。

You start getting really careful about what you think about you don't allow your thoughts to be on anything that you don't want, that you wouldn't want to have manifest or show up for you in your life.

你開始變得非常小心，關於你的想法你不允許你的想法是在任何你不想要的，你不會想有表現或顯示為你在你的生活。

Have a mind that is open toe everything and attached to nothing.

要有一種對一切都坦然的心態，對一切都不執著。

One of the central principles of my life is that no one knows enough to be a pessimist about anything that each and every one of us when we close our mind to what is possible for us or what is possible for humanity closes off.

我人生的一個核心原則是，沒有人知道，不足以成為一個悲觀主義者，我們每一個人當我們閉上心扉的時候，我們的可能性或者人類的可能性就會關閉。

The genius that resides and lives in each and every one of us.

Having an open mind doesn't necessarily mean finding fault with all of the things that you've been taught by others.

有一個開放的心態，並不一定意味著對別人教給你的所有東西都要找茬。

It means opening yourself up to the potentiality and the possibility that anything and everything is possible.

這意味著打開自己的潛力和可能性，任何事情和一切都有可能。

So having a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing really means finding within ourselves the ability to get rid of a trait that I find so common in the contemporary world.

所以，擁有一個對一切都敞開、對任何事物都不執著的心態，其實就是在我們自己的內心深處，找到擺脫當代世界我覺得很普遍的一個特質的能力。

Do you know that most people that I meet spend their lives looking for occasions to be offended?

你知道我遇到的大多數人一生都在尋找被冒犯的場合嗎？

They actually are out there hoping that they can find some reason to be offended.

他們其實是在外面希望能夠找到一些被冒犯的理由。

The way this person dressed the what the worst person said.

這個人的穿著打扮，最壞的人說的話。

They turn on the TV, they hear the news, they're offended by this.

他們打開電視，他們聽到新聞，他們被這個冒犯了。

Someone used language that they didn't like.

Someone doesn't share the same customs that you and people all day long.

有人不和你一樣，整天和人風俗。

In fact, if you keep track tomorrow, you will find probably ah 100 reasons that you could go around being offended.

其實，如果你明天繼續追蹤，你會發現大概有啊100個理由，你可以到處去得罪人。

But a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing is a mind that says, I'm never looking for anything to be offended by on that whatever anybody else out there has to say, My response to that is that's an interesting point of view.

但是，一個對一切都敞開的心態，對什麼都不執著的心態，是說，我從來不會在這上面找什麼得罪人的東西，不管外面的人說什麼，我的迴應是，這是一個有趣的觀點。

Next principle I call Don't die with your music still in you.

下一個原則，我稱之為不要在你的音樂還在的時候死去。

Yeah, And who better to quote than thorough when he talked about some of us here?

是啊，當他談到我們這裡的一些人時，還有誰比徹底更適合引用呢？

我們必須跟著我們聽到的音樂前進。

But all of you, all of you have some music playing and all of you have a heroic mission.

但是，你們所有人，都有一些音樂在播放，你們都有一個英雄的使命。

There's an intelligence that is a part of everything and everyone and all of us are connected to it.

有一種智慧是萬物和每個人的一部分，我們所有人都與它相連。

I know you have a book you wanted to ride.

I know there's a composition you wanted to compose.

我知道有一篇作文是你想創作的。

I know there's a song you want to sing someplace.

我知道有一首歌你想在某個地方唱。

Maybe you want to raise horses out in Montana.

Or maybe you wanna open up on ice cream shop on Cape Cod.

或者你想在科德角開一家冰激凌店。

Maybe you just want to travel and see the world.

也許你只是想旅行，看看世界。

Maybe you want to go into a relationship with someone, but you've been afraid to.

也許你想和某人談戀愛，但你一直不敢。

But your heart says it's the right thing to do.

And in Leo told stories famous novel The Death of Ivan Village.

而在利奧講故事的著名小說《伊萬村之死》中。

That would be terrifying to me, he says, as he has his accountant from Moscow lying on his deathbed, contemplating the horror of this question.

這對我來說是可怕的，他說，他讓他的莫斯科會計躺在臨終前，思考這個問題的恐怖。

Yeah, I've known, but my music is It's playing right now.

是啊，我知道，但我的音樂是 它現在播放。

Yeah, as I stand here in front of you with these cameras and in this place a Z I sit down and write my books on Tell the world what I know are my truth.

是的，當我站在這裡，在你們面前，帶著這些攝影機，在這個地方，我坐下來寫我的書，告訴世界我所知道的是我的真相。