Name: 一個我們都不敢問的問題 (One question we're all afraid to ask)
Uploaded: 2020-12-31T19:00:47.000Z
Duration: 5 min 12 s

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You'd be great in Gryffindor. - Nope, Slytherin.

你在格蘭芬多會很好。- 不，斯萊特林。

所以我是斯萊特林，而且只屬於斯萊特林。

- Yeah, I think you just proved your point.

- 是啊，我想你剛剛證明了你的觀點。

- And I gave birth to the most courageous creature

- 再推一下- 你能做到的，寶貝。

- His back left leg is detached from his hip,

that will require years of medical attention.

- 哦，我的上帝，他是美麗的。

That's his full name, and don't you forget it.

我的意思是，我為自己感到驕傲

關於認定自己是一個勇敢的人。

And even if I'm afraid, I usually take that as a sign

即使我害怕，我通常也會把它當作一個信號。

that I should go and do it anyway to be courageous.

我應該去做，無論如何要有勇氣。

I mean, I did stand up for like a decade,

我的意思是，我沒有站起來 像十年。

which I think you know takes a lot of balls

我想你也知道，這需要很大的勇氣。

to get up on stage and make a total fool of yourself.

站在舞臺上，讓自己完全出醜。

I'm Japanese Hawaiian so I'm historically self-destructive.

我是日本夏威夷人，所以我歷來有自我毀滅的傾向。

when we're emotionally invested in the answer.

so open to hurt, so terrified and paralyzed,

如此開放的傷害，如此驚恐和麻痺。

- New connection and intimacy leaves us so vulnerable

- 新的聯繫和親密關係讓我們如此脆弱

to disappointment and hurt and rejection.

所以我遇到了一個我很喜歡的人。

I thought he was great at talking about trauma.

And we had all these great conversations.

And he seemed to be emotionally available,

而且他似乎在感情上是可以的。

which are the telltale signs of secure attachment.

這些都是安全依戀的明顯標誌。

But I am a preoccupied anxious attachment baby girl,

但我是一個心事重重的依戀型女嬰。

I am now just riddled with full blown anxiety

我現在只是充滿了全面的焦慮症

And it triggers all of my deepest insecurities.

它引發了我所有最深的不安全感。

I was having a panic attack with my therapist,

我和我的治療師在一起的時候，我有一個恐慌症。

- What do you think about just asking him

Or if he's looking for a committed relationship?

或者，如果他想找一個承諾的關係？

And if you're like me and this stage of intimacy

如果你像我一樣，這個階段的親密關係。

then swallow it back down 'cause you're a champ,

然後把它咽回去，因為你是一個冠軍。

- Having this level of open communication

in this case knowing where something is headed,

在這種情況下，知道一些東西的走向。

knowing what's on the table, knowing how someone feels,

知道桌子上的東西，知道某人的感受。

committed relationship you're looking for.

And the way that someone responds to that

- I'm looking for someone who will give me

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