Good fun, then will come a career.

好玩，那麼就會有一個職業。

Something that pays but won't be done merely for money will be competent, respectable and fairly honored for the intensity of our efforts.

有錢但不會僅僅為了錢而做的事情，會因為我們的努力強度而得到能力、尊重和公平的榮譽。

Alongside it will come a central relationship, probably a marriage.

旁邊會有一個核心關係，可能是婚姻。

The union will last forever and be marked by mutual satisfaction, sincere friendship and frequent passionate sex.

這種結合將永遠持續下去，並以相互滿足、真誠的友誼和頻繁的激情性愛為標誌。

There'll be kids to offering us a chance to nurture a grateful, adorable small person the best of its two parents, whom we'll watch grow into an admirable, motivated adult.

會有孩子給我們提供一個機會，培養一個感恩的，可愛的小人最好的它的兩個父母，我們會看著他成長為一個令人欽佩的，積極向上的成年人。

With advances in science, we will lead an active and pain free life mentally and physically healthy into our early eighties.

隨著科學的進步，我們將過著積極的、沒有痛苦的生活，身心健康地度過八旬。

At least our parents will themselves have died at an advanced age, and when the time comes for us, the end will be swift and painless.

至少我們的父母自己也會在高齡時去世，到時候我們的結局會是迅速而無痛的。

This is more or less the kind of script were handed by a technologically advanced secular consumer society, and it's no wonder that in many moods we should want to cleave to it and trust it wholeheartedly.

這或多或少是科技發達的世俗消費社會所交給我們的劇本，也難怪在很多心情下，我們要想劈頭蓋臉地相信它。

But the truth never asserted as a general rule, never insisted upon in tones of suitable, melancholy solemnity is that no one gets through their allotted span on Earth without a major off script event.

但是，從來沒有作為一般規則斷言的事實，從來沒有以適當的、憂鬱的莊嚴的語氣堅持的事實是，沒有人在地球上度過他們分配的時間跨度而不發生重大的脫稿事件。

Something somewhere is going to go catastrophically wrong, not potentially or incidentally, but necessarily because of the structure of human existence on of our appalling exposure, toe error, accident, madness, disgrace and illness.

某些地方會出現災難性的錯誤，不是潛在的或偶然的，而是必然的，因為人類生存的結構，我們可怕的暴露，錯誤，事故，瘋狂，恥辱和疾病。

Someone very important to us will die long before they should in horrific an entirely unexpected circumstances, or will suffer a significant reversal in professional life, probably triggered by a folly on our part and entrenched character floor, or just a collision with one of the very sharp edges of the business cycle or a central relationship will go wrong.

一個對我們非常重要的人將在可怕的一個完全意想不到的情況下早早死去，或者將在職業生活中遭遇重大逆轉，很可能是由我們的愚蠢和根深蒂固的性格底線引發的，或者只是與商業週期中的一個非常尖銳的邊緣發生碰撞，或者中心關係會出問題。

A child will develop a major grievance.

孩子會產生重大的不滿。

Someone whom we trusted entirely will betray all the hopes we'd lodged In them.

一個我們完全信任的人 將會背叛我們對他們的所有希望。

Illness and death will strike from the blue, a stroke on the airport concourse, cancerous cells in an unfeasible e young body Ah, hemorrhage that came at least 20 years too soon.

疾病和死亡會從天而降，機場大廳裡的中風，不合格的e年輕身體裡的癌細胞啊，大出血，至少來的太早了20年。

The permutations are as endless as they are ghastly.

變化是無窮無盡的，因為他們是可怕的。

We cannot know what it will be exactly.

我們無法知道它到底會是什麼。

What is certain is that it will be something an event committed Lee, disastrous in nature that will stop us in our tracks, make us question every resilient assumption and break our hearts.

可以肯定的是，這將是一個事件犯李，災難性的性質，將停止我們的腳步，讓我們質疑每一個彈性的假設，並打破我們的心臟。

The only guarantee is that we will not exit this life without a calamity if there is any defense or consolation to be found.

唯一能保證的是，如果有什麼防備和安慰的話，我們不會無緣無故地退出這一生。

It lies, of course, in knowing the fact head on on preparing for it assiduously in the quieter stretches.

當然，這就在於在安靜的時候，在準備工作中，正面瞭解這個事實。

Two Philosophies is to learn to die.

兩種哲學是學死。

Knew the French philosopher Mauretania, and he might have added to beam or all encompassing to suffer, too.

知道法國哲學家毛雷塔尼亞，他可能也會加到梁或所有的人身上去受罪。

Expecting the unexpected.

期待著意外的發生。

Horror is the one move we can make to insulate ourselves a little from the vengefulness and wickedness of fortune.

恐怖是我們可以做的一個動作，讓自己與命運的復仇和邪惡絕緣一點。

We know that something will come, and when it happens, we shouldn't feel especially cursed.

我們知道有些事情會發生，當它發生的時候，我們不應該感到特別的詛咒。

Our lives may appear to have gone off script, but that's only because the script we were holding to with a sentimental lie we are, in fact, following the path that all humans must walk.

我們的生活看似偏離了劇本，但那只是因為我們用感性的謊言堅守的劇本，其實，我們是在走所有人類必須走的路。

We should never feel persecuted for falling victim toe.

我們千萬不要因為落入受害者的腳趾而感到受迫害。

What is the repressed yet general truth?

被壓抑卻又普遍的真相是什麼？

It is, at least on the basis, off off script events that we can develop our deepest friendships, surrender our self righteousness, acquire the right kind of gallows humor and grow up.

至少在這個基礎上，脫稿事件，我們才能發展出最深厚的友誼，降服自我的義氣，獲得正確的膽量幽默，成長起來。

Newly aware of the ubiquity of random disasters, we can start to appreciate the bits of our lives that are on script.

新意識到隨機災難的無處不在，我們就可以開始欣賞我們生活中那些按部就班的片段。

We can know just how much to cherish those quiet days in which nothing much has yet gone very wrong.

我們可以知道，在那些安靜的日子裡，還沒有什麼太大的問題，我們要懂得珍惜。

And when the off script event comes, we can at least say that we knew and realized a while back that this is just what it means to be human.

而當脫稿事件來臨時，我們至少可以說，我們早就知道並意識到，這就是做人的道理。

Our resilience cards are designed to help us become tougher in the face of adversity.

我們的韌性卡旨在幫助我們在逆境中變得更加堅強。

To learn more, follow the link on screen now.

要想了解更多，現在就按照螢幕上的鏈接來。