Name: 我不想要孩子(英尺Julie Nolke) (I don't want kids (ft. Julie Nolke))
Uploaded: 2020-12-15T20:50:50.000Z
Duration: 5 min 55 s

I'm not religious, but we all have moments where we have no choice but to pray.

我不信教，但我們都有別無選擇的時刻，只能祈禱。

Dear God, If you don't let me get pregnant, then I promise I would be a good person.

親愛的上帝，如果你不讓我懷孕，那我保證我會做個好人。

I mean, obviously not the best, like singing remark or anything, but I also don't kill bugs.

我的意思是，顯然不是最好的，像唱歌的說法或任何東西，但我也不殺蟲。

I guess what I'm promising is like, I will just be even more better.

我想我的承諾就像，我只會更加優秀。

You're just gonna keep doing what you're doing?

你只是要繼續做你正在做的事情？

The and And as God on media gotta tell girl.

的和作為上帝對媒體得告訴女孩。

Do you have more than the one more than J.

See, that is exactly what I'm worried about.

在那裡發生的事情讓人很受傷。

And sometimes they full wave all the way back sometimes.

而有時，他們有時會全波全退。

Can you just like I mean, I don't know, like Remar.

你能不能像... ...我是說，我不知道，像雷瑪那樣。

You think being being God being mother is?

Okay, I burned you out and give you the universe, okay?

好吧，我把你燒了，把宇宙給你，好嗎？

And I pray to myself to that everybody's gonna be okay.

我向自己祈禱，每個人都會沒事。

But I'm like this glorified mother that everybody likes to blame their problems because, you know, I didn't even I didn't even do the first biblical plague.

但我就像這個被美化的母親，每個人都喜歡責怪他們的問題，因為，你知道，我甚至沒有... ...我甚至沒有做聖經中的第一次瘟疫。

All I did when I spilled my wine in the Nile.

當我把酒灑在尼羅河裡時，我所做的一切。

And then everybody got Well, fuck I, I go deal with this just more.

然後每個人都得到了 嗯，他媽的我，我去處理這個只是更多。

So I want kids, But I'm also terribly afraid of everything that they potentially represent.

所以我想要孩子，但我也非常害怕他們可能代表的一切。

嗯，有了孩子就會影響我的事業。

Will I now be seen as unattractive and used up?

我現在會不會被人認為沒有吸引力，被人利用了？

Because, you know, society tells you you're only as good as your sexual desire ability.

因為，你知道，社會告訴你，只有你的性慾能力好，你才會好。

When you're a woman, will I ever get a good night's sleep again after having them?

當你是一個女人，有了她們之後，我還能睡個好覺嗎？

And aren't mom supposed to know everything?

而且媽媽不是應該什麼都知道嗎？

I'm not even close to knowing anything, much less everything.

我連什麼都不知道，更別說什麼都知道了。

I mean, I just found out last week that Greek statues originally had color What hell, Julie, did you know about this?

我是說，我上週才發現希臘雕像原來是有顏色的 搞什麼鬼，朱莉，你知道這個嗎？

We've had evidence since the 18th century that ancient sculptures had color, but the marble white antiquity image has been so deeply entrenched that it remained.

從18世紀開始，我們就有證據證明古代雕塑是有顏色的，但大理石白色的古代形象一直根深蒂固，以至於一直沒有改變。

My entire limited knowledge of Greek history is alive because this is like the time that I found out Pluto's a planet.

我對希臘歷史的有限知識都是活的，因為這就像我發現冥王星是一顆行星的時候一樣。

I feel like my whole universe was turned literally upside down.

我覺得我的整個宇宙都被顛倒了。

Or am I just programmed by society and biology to think that I want kids?

還是說我只是被社會和生物學程序化地認為我想要孩子？

And if it's not that programming, then is all of this coming from a subconscious fear of what kids represent in terms of consequences for my career, my sexuality and my identity?

如果不是這種編程，那麼這一切都來自於潛意識中對孩子們所代表的對我的事業、性慾和身份的後果的恐懼嗎？

Because my mind is like hell no, you don't want kids.

因為我的想法是，地獄不，你不想要孩子。

Say goodbye to your health insurance because if you're not acting for nine months, you won't meet those premiums for sagging.

跟你的健康保險說再見吧，因為如果你九個月不行動，你就無法滿足那些下垂的保費。

After seriously, that happened to my friend, who is no pregnant, and I'm insured that my ovaries are like of course, you want to be a mom.

經過認真，我的朋友就發生了這樣的事情，她是沒有懷孕的，我的卵巢是保險的，當然，你想當媽媽。

You have four cats and 18 plants in your house.

Just imagine a kitten, but it has no for and it's got your nose in your partner's eyes and it looks up at you.

想象一下，一隻小貓，但它沒有為，它把你的鼻子對準你的伴侶的眼睛，它抬頭看著你。

Remember how I said it looks like a kitten?

還記得我說過它看起來像一隻小貓嗎？

I found a book regretting Motherhood is a collection of anonymous stories from mothers who regret it.

我找到了一本後悔的書《母親》是一本母親後悔的匿名故事集。

You know, I wanted to read this because every topic I've seen about motherhood is always the same narrative.

你知道嗎，我想讀這個，因為我看到的每一個關於母親的話題總是相同的敘述。

是的，這很難，但它是如此值得。

But it's so rewarding you'll change immediately and permanently for the better.

但它的回報率很高，你會立即和永久地改變好。

The only reason that narrative is so pervasive is probably because saying out loud that you regret having a human being is a pretty hot take that nobody wants to say.

這種說法之所以如此氾濫，大概是因為大聲說自己後悔生了一個人，是一個很辣的說法，沒有人願意說。

But if I wanna have a really conversation about whether or not I should tackle motherhood personally, then shouldn't I hear all sides?

但是，如果我想真正地討論一下是否應該親自解決母親的問題，那麼我是不是應該聽聽各方的意見？

Shouldn't I be informed of the good and especially the bad?

好的，尤其是壞的，是不是應該讓我知道？

I don't think anyone should tackle one of the single most responsibility based tasks of raising a human being without being fully aware of what it entails.

我認為任何人都不應該在沒有充分認識到養育一個人的責任的情況下，就去處理這個最單一的任務之一。

I don't want kids not right now in the future.

我不想要孩子，不是現在，是將來。

I mean, maybe if I have a really fulfilling career and I managed to find an amazing partner who would also make a wonderful parent.

我的意思是，也許如果我有一個非常有成就感的事業 而且我成功地找到了一個了不起的夥伴，他也會成為一個很棒的父母。

And if I feel financially and emotionally stable enough to raise a good person in this global climate with all of the things that are happening.

如果我覺得經濟上和情感上足夠穩定，在這個全球氣候下，在所有發生的事情中，我可以養育一個好的人。

But that's a lot of ifs hopeful e kind of dating in L.

但這是很多如果希望e種約會在L。

But, you know, in the meantime, I just have cats.

但是，你知道，在這期間，我只是有貓。

是的，寶貝，我們會幫你找到一些地方。

I'm Anaconda and they get a Julie for being in today's video.

我是Anaconda，他們因為在今天的視頻中得到了一個Julie。

Please, please, please go to Julie's Channel and watch some of her fantastic content.

請，請，請到Julie的頻道去看她的一些精彩內容。

I'm gonna go ahead and put a link in the description to one of my favorite videos of her, so you have no choice but to watch, and you will not be disappointed and thank you to square space for sponsoring today's video.

我先在描述中放一個鏈接，鏈接到我最喜歡的她的一個視頻，讓你別無選擇的去看，你不會失望的，感謝廣場空間對今天視頻的贊助。

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Squarespace是一個一體化的平臺，可以建立一個美麗的在線存在，並運行您的業務，完整的營銷工具和分析，讓您的商店是最好的，她可以。

I know some of you love to create audio content well.

我知道有些人喜歡好好創作音頻內容。

Squarespace has audio blocks, which allows you to embed audio on your site and tag the audio for iTunes when your audio block spliced in a block.

Squarespace有音頻塊，它允許你在你的網站上嵌入音頻，併為iTunes標記音頻，當你的音頻塊拼接在一個塊。

Plus, you could have multiple contributors receive selective access to your sites.

另外，您可以讓多個貢獻者有選擇地訪問您的網站。

Website manager and do not worry you on all the content that you put on the square space platform.

站長，並且不用擔心你在方塊空間平臺上投放的所有內容。

他們提供一鍵式的數據便攜性。

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