Name: 有時候，你會超越人際關係（用正確的人包圍自己）。 (Sometimes You Outgrow People (Surround Yourself With The Right People))
Uploaded: 2020-12-15T20:26:41.000Z
Duration: 6 min 26 s

Sometimes you outgrow who you wanted to be, and sometimes you outgrow who you became.

有時你會超越你想成為的人，有時你也會超越你成為的人。

You may have come a long way, but sometimes you have toe move on.

你可能已經走了很長的路，但有時你必須繼續前進。

But you do need to distance yourself from them.

但你確實需要和他們保持距離。

That person may have had only good intentions for you.

They may have given you everything they could, but sometimes you have to move on.

他們可能已經給了你他們能給的一切，但有時你必須繼續前進。

Not in a negative way in a positive way for your growth and for theirs.

不是以消極的方式以積極的方式為你和他們的成長服務。

You should surround yourself with people who are good for your mental health, people who give you energy, not drain it from you.

你應該和對你心理健康有益的人圍繞在一起，這些人給你能量，而不是消耗你的能量。

People who like you up, not those who dim your life.

喜歡你的人，而不是那些讓你生活黯淡的人。

People who make you smile when you hear their name or see their call coming in.

當你聽到他們的名字或看到他們的呼喚時，讓你微笑的人。

Those friends who could go days, weeks, months without seeing you.

那些可以幾天、幾周、幾個月不見面的朋友。

But when they do the bond is still strong because you care for each other, Warren Buffett said.

但當他們這樣做的時候，紐帶仍然是強大的，因為你關心對方，巴菲特說。

Surround yourself with people who push you to do better.

周圍的人都會促使你做得更好。

No drama or negativity, just higher goals and higher motivation, good times and positive energy.

沒有戲劇性和負面情緒，只有更高的目標和更高的動力，好日子和正能量。

No jealousy or hate simply bringing out the absolute best in each other.

沒有嫉妒和仇恨，只是把彼此最好的一面展現出來。

One of the greatest realizations any human can have is the effect people around you have on your life.

任何一個人都會有一個最大的認識，就是你身邊的人對你生活的影響。

They say you're the average of the five people you spend the most time with.

他們說你是和你相處時間最多的五個人的平均數。

That doesn't just count in financial terms.

You're the average of the positivity or negativity of the five people you spend the most time with.

你是與你相處時間最多的五個人的積極性或消極性的平均值。

You're the average of the happiness or lack of it.

Of the five people you spend the most time with, your the average of the kindness or lack of it.

在與你相處時間最多的五個人中，你的平均善意與否。

Of the five people you spend the most time with, people can really bless you or mess you up with their energy.

在和你相處時間最多的五個人中，人們真的可以用他們的精力來祝福你，也可以用他們的精力來搞垮你。

You have to be so careful who you allow in your energy space on a consistent basis.

你必須如此小心，你允許誰進入你的能量空間，在一致的基礎上。

So many people think they don't have a choice.

所以很多人認為他們沒有選擇。

You do your energy is your choice you decide who you let in your space, and if you let negative people in, it's always your choice.

你做你的能量是你的選擇你決定讓誰進入你的空間，如果你讓負面的人進入，那總是你的選擇。

If you're going to let their negative energy, you have to remember to take care of yourself.

如果你要讓他們的負能量，你要記得照顧好自己。

Sometimes we get so caught up and worrying about other people that we forget to look after ourselves first.

有時候，我們太過著急，太過擔心別人，以至於忘記了先照顧好自己。

You cannot show up as the best version of you if you're not taking care of you first.

如果你不先照顧好自己，就無法展現出最好的自己。

And the first step to taking care of you was giving yourself time by yourself.

而照顧你的第一步，就是給自己一個人的時間。

If you're really going to take care of yourself, it's also very important you evaluate your circle.

如果你真的要照顧好自己，對自己的圈子進行評估也是非常重要的。

Who are you spending the majority of your time with?

Are they making you feel better about yourself or worse?

它們是讓你覺得自己更好還是更糟糕？

Are they supporting you and the direction you want to go in life or taking you down a path you don't want to travel?

他們是在支持你和你想走的人生方向，還是在帶你走一條你不想走的路？

他們的行為與你的行為一致嗎？

Does it feel better with them or without them?

有了它們，還是沒有它們的感覺更好？

If you've outgrown these people, maybe it's timeto limit your interactions with them and explore what life might be like in a more positive space On Lee, you can decide that and take those steps if you believe it is right for you.

如果你已經超越了這些人，也許是時候限制你與他們的互動，並探索在一個更積極的空間中的生活可能是什麼樣的李安，你可以決定，並採取這些步驟，如果你認為它是適合你的。

The fear of the unknown keeps them locked in a prison of negativity.

對未知的恐懼讓他們被鎖在消極的牢籠裡。

A gated community of misery and toxic energy.

一個充滿苦難和毒氣的門禁社區。

You have to find the courage to free yourself from this prison.

你必須鼓起勇氣，把自己從這個監獄裡解放出來。

But you only get better if you're brave enough to explore life with people who are in alignment with your values.

但你只有勇敢地和與你價值觀一致的人一起探索生活，才會變得更好。

Choose to be the one who lifts others up.

Well, choose to be the friend, the partner, the person you want most in your own life.

那麼，選擇做自己生命中最想要的朋友、夥伴、人。

Pay attention to the people who care those who are always there.

注意關心那些一直在那裡的人。

Those who share the same values, those air your people.

那些有著相同價值觀的人，那些空氣你的人。

If someone is treating you bad, you have to remember there is something wrong with them, not you.

如果有人對你不好，你要記住是他們有問題，而不是你。

They are the one who needs the work, not you.

他們才是需要工作的人，而不是你。

Good people don't go around putting others down.

People who feel good about themselves don't go around putting others down.

自我感覺良好的人，不會到處貶低別人。

It's so much simpler when you stop explaining yourself to others and just do what is right for you.

當你不再向別人解釋，只做適合自己的事時，就簡單多了。

Because that is what is right for everyone.

Trust that when you get to that place where you have no need to impress others or seek validation and just be yourself.

相信當你到了那個地方，你已經不需要給別人留下深刻印象，也不需要尋求驗證，只需要做自己。

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