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a cop asked me once he said, Man, what's your drink?
有一次,一個警察問我,他說,夥計,你喝什麼?
I said, I'm gonna go Division one.
我說,我要去組織一。
I'm gonna go to college and I'm gonna go to the league.
我要去上大學,我要去參加聯賽。
And he's like, You probably go to cellblock, Do you want?
他說,你可能會去牢房,你想嗎?
And I was like, Man, you're making a mistake.
我當時想,夥計,你在犯錯誤。
Like I've never met you a day in my life.
就像我這輩子從沒見過你一樣。
I got an uncle in jail, right on, uncle in prison, right?
我有個叔叔在監獄裡,對吧,叔叔在監獄裡,對吧?
And I was like, Yeah, he's like apple on far too far from the tree, right?
我當時就想,是啊,他就像蘋果離樹太遠了,對吧?
And what he was saying to me, Waas you're probably repeat the same pattern that they repeated.
他對我說:"華斯,你可能會重蹈他們的覆轍。
You come from the same household, right?
你們是一個家庭的,對嗎?
And I could have looked at it and made an excuse and said, I'm a lower my standards to meet and accommodate my household.
而我可以看在眼裡,找一個藉口說,我這是降低我的標準,以滿足和適應我的家庭。
My experience, my situation, my circumstance, Or I could take my situation in my circumstance and raise my standard and say I'm going to be an example.
我的經歷,我的情況,我的環境,或者我可以把我的情況在我的環境中,提高我的標準,說我要做一個榜樣。
I'm going to triumph and I'm gonna use my situation in my circumstances, my driving force in my my fuel.
我要去勝利,我要用我的情況在我的環境,我的動力在我的燃料。
If I do this well, I can get my family in a better situation.
如果我做得好,就能讓我的家庭狀況更好。
If I do this.
如果我這樣做。
Well, I could get my mother off the double shift that Wendy's.
我可以讓我媽不用上溫迪的兩班。
If I do this, well, I could get my own bed if I do this.
如果我這樣做,好吧,如果我這樣做,我可以得到自己的床。
Well, I could get my grandmother a better living conditions If I do this.
如果我這樣做,我可以給我奶奶一個更好的生活條件。
Well, maybe I could stop my uncle's.
好吧,也許我可以阻止我叔叔的。
I'm selling drugs.
我在賣毒品
This is my purpose.
這就是我的目的。
This is what I've been put here to do.
這就是我被安排在這裡做的事情。
And so the opposition adversity challenges is just a part of the process is gonna make me a better person.
所以反對逆境挑戰只是這個過程的一部分,是會讓我成為一個更好的人。
But my purpose I can't let anything stop or detour me from tapping into that every single day.
但我的目的我不能讓任何事情阻止或繞開我,讓我每天都能挖掘出這一點。
Because for most people, when you go through something, persons natural perspective is okay.
因為對於大多數人來說,當你經歷一些事情的時候,人的自然視角是可以的。
What did I lose, right?
我失去了什麼,對嗎?
What happened to you?
你怎麼了?
Like I took a loss, right?
好像我吃了虧似的,對吧?
People never look at it and say, Okay, man, tell me, what did you gain right?
大家從來不看,說,好吧,老兄,你告訴我,你收穫了什麼吧?
Even though I know it hurt.
儘管我知道這很痛。
You didn't wanna go through it.
你不想經歷它。
But look at it in a way to where you could say, what's the lesson in this, right?
但是看它的方式,你可以說,這裡面有什麼教訓吧?
What would you say?
你會怎麼說?
Life is trying to teach you from dealing with this, right?
生活是想從處理這些事情中教會你,對嗎?
Because I'm coming from this household.
因為我來自這個家庭。
So I sleep on the floor, right with Roaches with rats.
所以我睡在地板上,就和蟑螂與老鼠一起睡。
I'm not ashamed to admit it.
我不羞於承認這一點。
Right.
好吧,我知道了
And I would go to school and I will compete.
而且我會去學校,我會去競爭。
I would work.
我會工作。
And so when I met a kid that I was competing against, the only thing I felt I had the advantage in my whole life was my work, I think.
所以當我遇到一個和我競爭的孩子時,我覺得我這輩子唯一有優勢的就是我的工作吧。
And I took pride in that right.
而我也以這種權利為榮。
I was never the biggest, the fastest, strongest never had.
我從來都不是最大的,最快的,最強的從來沒有過。
The most resource is.
資源最多的是。
But I had a work, I think, and so my whole life, I want it different for my family ever since I was a kid, right?
但我有一個工作,我想,所以我的一生,我希望我的家人從小就不一樣,對吧?
And so never allowing the situation or circumstance to define your life and understanding that you've got something inside of you that's great in that situation in a circumstance.
所以永遠不要讓情況或環境來定義你的生活,要明白你內心有一些東西,在那種情況下在環境中是很好的。
But you have to constantly believe it, and not only believe it, you have to make decisions and choices every single day to put you a step forward toward what you believe your destiny is.
但你要不斷地相信它,不僅要相信它,你還要每天做出決定和選擇,讓你朝著你認為的命運前進一步。
And so when I went through it, my perspective waas Okay, what can I extract from it To apply to other areas and aspects of my life that I feel can help other people.
所以,當我經歷了它,我的觀點是,好吧,我可以從它提取什麼應用到我的生活的其他領域和方面,我覺得可以幫助其他人。
And I firmly believe the quicker you can shift your perspective from yourself, toe others.
而我堅信,你能越快地把視角從自己身上轉移到別人身上。
When you're in the midst of adversity, the quicker you'll get through it right.
當你身處逆境時,你會越快地度過難關。
Martin Luther King has a quote that says Life's most persistent on urgent question is, what are you doing to help other people?
馬丁-路德-金有一句話說,人生最持久的緊迫問題是,你在做什麼來幫助別人?