Name: 如何在生活中找到意義 *當你感到迷茫的時候，請看這個*。 (HOW TO FIND MEANING IN YOUR LIFE *Watch this when you feel lost*)
Uploaded: 2020-12-03T18:50:48.000Z
Duration: 10 min 24 s

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We've had a long conversation in our culture about the necessity for self esteem and happiness.

在我們的文化中，我們已經就自尊和幸福的必要性進行了長時間的討論。

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I tell my audiences and my readers very straightforwardly that life is difficult and that there's a lot of suffering in it and that you have to learn how to conduct yourself in the face of that.

我很直接地告訴我的聽眾和讀者，生活是困難的，其中有很多苦難，你要學會如何面對這些苦難。

A problem with pursuit of happiness is that when life storms come along, happiness disappears.

追求幸福的一個問題是，當生活的風暴來臨時，幸福就消失了。

Then you're left with nothing, and so you need to pursue something that's deeper than happiness.

那你就什麼都沒有了，所以你需要追求比幸福更深層次的東西。

People say you have to have a lot of passion for what you're doing, and it's totally true.

人們都說，你必須對你所做的事情有很大的熱情，這是完全正確的。

And the reason is because it's so hard that if you don't any rational person would give up.

而原因就是因為它太難了，如果你不這樣做，任何一個理性的人都會放棄。

And if happiness comes along, well, then hurry for you.

如果幸福來了，好吧，那就趕緊給你。

You don't want to despise it because it's fleeting to do it over a sustained period of time.

你不想鄙視它，因為它是曇花一現的，要持續的做下去。

So if you don't love it, if you're not having fun doing it, you don't really love it.

所以如果你不愛它，如果你做得不開心，你就不是真的愛它。

But it's much better to pursue things that are meaningful than things that make you happy.

但追求有意義的事情比追求讓自己快樂的事情要好得多。

It's deeper and it orients you more appropriately and it keeps you centered in your own life.

它更深層次，它對你的定位更恰當，它讓你在自己的生活中保持中心地位。

It makes you more useful for your family and your community.

它讓你對你的家人和社會更有用。

You look at the ones that ended up being successful unquote in the eyes of society and the ones that didn't.

你看那些最後在社會上成功的沒有引號的和沒有成功的。

Oftentimes it's the ones that are successful, loved what they did so they could persevere when you know when it got really tough.

很多時候都是那些成功的人，熱愛自己所做的事情，所以當你知道什麼時候變得非常艱難的時候，他們可以堅持下去。

Who would want to put up with this stuff?

It's a lot of hard work, and it's a lot of worrying constantly.

這是很辛苦的工作，也是不斷的擔心。

You gotta have passion, because in the end, what we get will never make us not to be doing something that you're truly passionate about.

你得有激情，因為到最後，我們得到的東西永遠不會讓我們不做你真正有激情的事情。

Can be There were times when it was hard to imagine that my life would be what it is today.

可以有的時候，我很難想象自己的生活會是今天這樣。

What makes us happiest Progress, progress equals happens if you're not growing, you're dying and I can't be there.

什麼讓我們最快樂進步，進步等於發生如果你不成長，你就會死，我就不能在那裡。

There's gotta be something that the son can't come up soon enough in the morning because you wanna go do your thing.

一定是有什麼事情，兒子早上不能很快上來，因為你想去做你的事情。

I mean, this is the time to pursue greatness.

我的意思是，現在是追求偉大的時候。

I think you should go get a job as a bus boy or something to you.

我覺得你應該去找份工作，當個公車司機什麼的給你。

Find something you really passionate about because it's a lot of work, because in the end, what we get will never make us happy.

找到你真正感興趣的東西，因為這是一個很大的工作，因為最終，我們得到的東西永遠不會讓我們快樂。

E don't care how many stars on your chart, how many Academy Awards, how much money you make.

E不在乎你的排行榜上有多少明星，有多少奧斯卡獎，賺多少錢。

And I'm convinced that about half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non successful ones is pure perseverance.

而我深信，成功的企業家和不成功的企業家之間的區別，大約有一半是純粹的毅力。

And I worked 8 to 5 and literally I'd come home.

我朝九晚五地工作，然後回家。

I get a bite to eat, and then I start my work at 6 p.m. 6 30 p.

我吃了點東西，然後下午6點半開始工作。

And I go from 6 30 to 2 a.m. And I'd get another 78 hours in.

我從6點半到凌晨2點，我還能再工作78小時。

And that's how I built everything in the beginning.

You pour so much your life into this thing.

你在這件事上傾注了太多的心血。

There are such rough millions of times that most people give up.

有這樣粗暴的千萬次，大多數人都放棄了。

That's honestly what's required, and to not do that is to cheat yourself.

說實話，這就是要求，不這樣做就是欺騙自己。

And I knew this is where I'm supposed to be our war one branch manager.

我就知道我應該在這裡當我們的第一戰區經理。

Down to the point that he says to make garden based on persistence alone, we will give you a shot and it consumes your life.

下來他說做園子只靠堅持，我們會給你一個機會，它消耗你的生命。

It's rough because it's a pretty much 18 hour day job.

這是很粗糙的，因為它是一個相當多的18小時的一天的工作。

Unless you have a lot of passionate about this, you're gonna not survive.

除非你對這個有很大的熱情，否則你是活不下去的。

Don't ever let somebody else tell you what you can when somebody else is saying something can be done.

千萬不要在別人說可以做什麼的時候，讓別人告訴你可以做什麼。

What you gotta hear them saying is they can do.

你要聽他們說的是他們能做到。

They're just times when something is important enough.

他們只是在某些事情足夠重要的時候。

You believe in it enough that you do it in spite of the baby steps count, too, as long as you're going forward.

你足夠相信它，所以你不顧一切地去做，小步子也算，只要你在往前走。

And one day you had all those baby steps up and you might be surprised where you can get Thio.

有一天，你有所有這些小步驟了，你可能會驚訝，你可以得到Thio的地方。

So you gotta have a new idea of a problem or ah, wrong that you wanna write that you're passionate about.

所以，你必須有一個新的想法 一個問題或啊，錯誤的，你想寫 你的激情。

Otherwise you're not gonna have the perseverance to stick it through, Mr.

否則你就沒有毅力去堅持下去了，先生。

Hitchcock, What is your definition of happiness?

Hitchcock，你對幸福的定義是什麼？

A clear arise nothingto worry about on your plate.

一個清晰的出現在你的盤子裡沒有什麼可擔心的。

Only things that are creative are not destructive.

只有具有創造性的事物，才不具有破壞性。

Find that within yourself and you can look forward on the road is clear ahead.

找到自己的內心，你就可以在前方的道路上清晰地向前看。

And now you're going to create something.

I think that's a Xhaferri Pia's I would ever want to be is like starting companies like staring into the abyss and eating glass.

我想這是一個夏費裡皮亞的我曾經想成為是像創業公司一樣盯著深淵吃玻璃。

And there's some truth to that thing that goes on for a long time.

而且這個事情持續的時間長了，也有一定的道理。

I finally had to understand what my mom and used to say to me what she would say.

我終於要明白我媽和以前對我說的話，她會說什麼。

I was 28 years old when that part of my life happened.

我28歲的時候，我的生活發生了那一部分。

Change was coming fast, and you know what changes everywhere.

變化來得很快，你知道什麼地方都在變化。

Given that even if you're the best, the best, there's always a chance of failure.

鑑於即使你是最好的，最好的，也總有失敗的機會。

So I think it's important that you really like whatever you're doing.

所以我覺得重要的是，無論你在做什麼，你都要真正喜歡。

The most urgent question today, it's not so much as what are my values.

今天最迫切的問題，不是我的價值觀是什麼。

The urgent question in these times of constant changes?

在這個不斷變化的時代，迫切的問題是？

How exactly are you going to navigate these new realities?

你究竟要如何駕馭這些新的現實？

Put another way, what are you going to do?

So the idea of I drove here is empowering because the other side of it ISS.

所以我開車來這裡的想法是授權的，因為它的另一面ISS。

If I drove here, that means I can drive out of here.

如果我開車來這裡，就意味著我可以開車離開這裡。

I have tow own it, but it's hard to look in the mirror and say, How did I get here the past 33 years?

我有拖自己的，但它很難看的鏡子，說，我是怎麼走到這裡過去33年？

I've looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself if today were the last day of my life, what I wanna do what I am about to do today and have the answer be.

我每天早上都會對著鏡子問自己，如果今天是我人生的最後一天，我想做今天要做的事，答案是。

I drove here, I had something to do with it.

And whenever the answer has been no for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.

而每當連續太多天的答案都是否定的時候，我就知道自己需要改變一些東西。

Jobs can generally say that if their masters there's nobody else that could take their place, and that is the ultimate position of power.

喬布斯一般可以說，如果他們的主人沒有人可以取代他們的位置，這就是權力的終極地位。

The greatest danger that all of you face is that you're basically gonna be replaceable.

你們面臨的最大危險就是你們基本上是可以被替代的。

The minute I dropped out, I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me and begin dropping in on the ones that looked far more interesting.

在我退學的那一刻，我就可以停止學習那些我不感興趣的必修課，開始放棄那些看起來更有趣的課程。

If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on that calligraphy class and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do can't connect the dots.

如果我沒有退學，我就不會落下那門書法課，個人電腦可能沒有精彩的排版，他們的排版無法連接起來。

Looking forward, you can only connect them looking backwards, so you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.

向前看，你只能向後看把它們連接起來，所以你要相信，在你的未來，這些點會以某種方式連接起來。

So a lot of what people find in life that provides them with a sustaining meaning is a consequence of not the pursuit of rights or the pursuit of happiness or or the development of self esteem, but the adoption of responsibility and the more responsibility in some sense, the better.

所以，人們在生活中發現的很多為他們提供持續意義的東西，都不是追求權利或追求幸福或或發展自尊的結果，而是採取了責任，而且從某種意義上說，責任越多越好。

It's people who take responsibility that they're the ones that you admire, and that's the right pathway through life.

承擔責任的人，才是你所敬佩的人，這才是正確的人生之路。

你的時間有限，所以不要浪費。

Don't be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people's thinking.

不要被教條所困，這是用別人的思維結果來生活。

Don't let the noise of others opinions drowned out your own inner voice and, most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.

不要讓別人的意見噪音淹沒了自己內心的聲音，最重要的是，要有勇氣跟隨自己的內心和直覺。

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