They may be equal in terms of their value as a human being, but they're not equal in math skills.

他們作為一個人的價值可能是平等的，但他們的數學能力卻不平等。

They're not equal and how fast they run.

他們不平等，他們跑得多快。

They're not equal in creativity.

他們在創造力上是不平等的。

They're not equal.

他們是不平等的。

Everybody has their own value.

每個人都有自己的價值。

But that doesn't mean their marketable skills in an open society in an open market are going to be the same.

但這並不意味著他們在開放的社會開放的市場中的市場技能會是一樣的。

E.

E.

Just think if you're in your life and there's you don't have something that you're passionate about.

試想一下，如果你在你的生活中，有你沒有的東西，你的激情。

If there's not something where you wake up every day and there's nothing in your life that you're excited to do, man, you need to go back to the drawing board.

如果你每天醒來時，你的生活中沒有什麼讓你興奮的事情，夥計，你需要回到畫板上。

Because if all you're doing is just grinding it out every day, go to a job you don't like, do task.

因為如果你每天只是磨磨蹭蹭，就去找一份你不喜歡的工作，做任務。

You don't care to do and come home to a home.

你不屑於做，回到家裡來。

You don't want to come home to and wait to get up and do it again.

你不想回家後，等起來再做。

The next day you're burning daylight.

第二天，你就在燃燒日光。

What the hell existence is that?

那是什麼鬼存在？

Find something.

找些東西。

I don't care if it's gardening or music or art or athletics or something.

我不在乎是園藝還是音樂還是藝術還是運動什麼的。

Find something.

找些東西。

You're excited.

你很興奮。

People don't want to look at things for how they are.

人們不願意看事情的本質。

They wanna look at things for how they want them to be.

他們想把事情看成他們想要的樣子。

Oh, something in you're good at it.

哦，你擅長的東西。

You could accept not being good at other things.

你可以接受在其他事情上不擅長。

It's much easier if you find the thing that you're good at, whether it's gymnastics or singing or painting.

如果你能找到自己擅長的事情，不管是體操還是唱歌、畫畫，都會輕鬆很多。

For if you could find a thing that you're good at, it will make you.

因為如果你能找到一件你擅長的事情，就會讓你。

It will give you, Ah, a feeling of self worth and you won't need to be good at everything you could accept.

它會讓你，啊，有一種自我價值的感覺，你不需要在一切你能接受的事情上做好。

And you can enjoy other people being good at things as well.

而且你也可以享受別人的好東西。

E don't understand.

我不明白。

It just seems like you gotta find your own lane.

只是看起來你得找到自己的路。

So I got myself into a lane where I talk for a living.

於是我把自己弄到了一個以說話為生的巷子裡。

I read, I talk, I it's qualitative, not quantitative.

我讀書，我說話，我它是定性的，不是定量的。

Find what you're good at at a given time and do what you're good at.

在特定的時間找到自己擅長的事情，做自己擅長的事情。

Yeah, find something you love.

是啊，找到你喜歡的東西。

Find something you're passionate about, that you could also excel at.

找到你所熱衷的事情，你也可以擅長的事情。

Expose yourself to different things with that very purpose of finding something that you love because there's something out there.

讓自己接觸不同的東西，目的就是為了找到自己喜歡的東西，因為有東西在那裡。

There's something out there.

有一些東西在那裡。

Not everybody is meant to be an athlete, So Okay, look, go do something else.

不是每個人都能成為運動員，所以... ...好吧，聽著，去做別的事情吧。

Yeah, be good at what you're good at.

是啊，要做好自己擅長的事情。

And if you really want to do it, well, you've got a long road.

如果你真的想做，那麼，你的路還很長。

It's Ah, greased hill.

是啊，油山。

Start running.

開始運行。

Everything is not for everybody.

任何事情都不適合所有人。

So find what you're good at and watch yourself achieve in that lane, they took students in the class where they put the steps of learning the information so close together that there was never a failure experience.

所以找到自己擅長的東西，看著自己在這個道上取得的成績，他們帶的學生在課堂上把學習資訊的步驟非常緊密，從來沒有失敗的經歷。

It would say the War of 18 12 happened in 18 12.

會說1812年的戰爭發生在1812年。

Then the next thing would say the War of 18 12 happened in blank.

那麼接下來就會說18 12年的戰爭發生了空白。

You feel in 18 12, they would teach the information and they would teach it to criteria where you mastered the information.

你覺得在18 12年，他們會教資料，他們會教到你掌握資料的標準。

You had it 100%.

你有百分之百的把握。

And they said, Wow, this is great.

他們說，哇，這是偉大的。

Everybody learned it.

大家都學會了。

So everybody made 100.

所以大家都賺了100塊。

Everybody got the information.

每個人都得到了資訊。

They truly did learn it.

他們真的學會了。

There was no question about it.

這一點是毫無疑問的。

They learned the information.

他們瞭解到的資訊。

And so they did great.

所以他們做得很好。

And they took him out of that program and put him back in the regular classroom.

他們把他從那個項目中拿出來，讓他回到普通的教室裡。

and the first time they came to questions, they didn't know the answer to the first time they didn't get 100.

而他們第一次來提問的時候，他們不知道答案，第一次沒有拿到100分。

They came apart like a cheap suit.

他們就像一件廉價的衣服一樣被拆開了。

They panicked.

他們慌了。

They didn't know how to handle adversity.

他們不知道如何處理逆境。

They didn't know how to handle it when they didn't have the right answers.

他們在沒有正確答案的情況下，不知道該如何處理。

They didn't learn how to not be perfect.

他們沒有學會如何不完美。

So they scrapped the whole program because they said, You can't do this because that's not the way life is.

所以他們取消了整個項目，因為他們說，你不能這樣做，因為生活不是這樣的。

You're not teaching them how the real world were.

你不是在教他們真實的世界是怎樣的。

Those kids were absolutely screwed up when they got into a truly competitive environment.

那些孩子到了真正的競爭環境中，絕對是完蛋了。

You can't be successful.

你不可能成功。

I mean, the whole idea about school is you're supposed to be setting kids up for the future.

我的意思是，關於學校的整個想法是 你應該是設置孩子們的未來。

You're supposed to be teaching them not just information, but teaching them how to learn and how to improve.

你應該教給他們的不僅僅是資訊，而是教他們如何學習，如何提高。

Its very simple.

它非常簡單。

In it, somebody will have a complex thing that comes from childhood, or maybe it's a drug background or they've had trauma in their life.

在這裡面，有人會有一個複雜的東西，來自於童年，或者是毒品背景，或者是他們的生活中有過創傷。

But the solution is change your behavior.

但解決方案是改變你的行為。

I mean, stop rewarding bad behavior, choose a different path in life, just behavior way to success.

我的意思是，不要再獎勵不好的行為了，選擇不同的人生道路，只要行為方式成功。

Sometimes the solutions are very simple, even though the problems are very complex because at some point you have to stop focusing on why and start focusing on what, instead of why it happened.

有時候解決方案非常簡單，儘管問題非常複雜，因為在某些時候，你必須停止關注為什麼，開始關注什麼，而不是為什麼發生。

What am I gonna do to change it?

我要怎麼做才能改變它？

So sometimes the solutions are pretty simple.

所以有時候解決方法很簡單。

I don't think problems are simple at all.

我覺得問題一點也不簡單。

In fact, I think problems air really most of the time.

其實，我覺得問題的空氣真的大多數時候。

Pretty complex, pretty layered.

很複雜，很有層次感。

They have a lot of different origins there, often times co morbid.

他們那裡有很多不同的起源，往往是共病的。

A lot of things exist together, so I don't think problems are simple.

很多東西是一起存在的，所以我覺得問題並不簡單。

It all.

這一切。

But the solutions are often simple, don't you think?

但解決方案往往很簡單，你覺得呢？

Yeah, it just seems that people have, Ah, they have this comfort in their patterns.

是的，它只是看起來，人們有， 啊，他們有這種舒適性 在他們的模式。

And even if their patterns your self destructive events, drug abuse or alcoholism or those those comfort in those patterns falling into those patterns, it seems very compelling to a lot of people.

而即使他們的模式你的自我毀滅事件，藥物濫用或酗酒或那些那些舒適的模式落入這些模式，它似乎非常引人注目的很多人。

Yeah, and payoffs don't necessarily mean that it's a positive payoff.

是啊，而且回報不一定就是正向的回報。

E mean payoff for taking heroin is you get high and so your high for a while.

服用海洛因的回報是你會很興奮，所以你會興奮一陣子。

That's not a positive payoff, but it's a payoff on if you if you get high and so you don't get a job and you don't take care of your kids.

這不是一個積極的回報， 但它的回報，如果你 如果你得到高，所以你不找工作 你不照顧你的孩子。

That's a payoff, that you're not doing things that you need to do that you should be accountable for.

這就是一種回報，你沒有做你應該負責任的事情。

It's a pathological payoff, but it's a payoff nonetheless.

這是一種病態的回報，但還是一種回報。

And so that does reward you.

所以，這確實是對你的獎勵。

Even though it's a pathological payoff.

儘管這是一種病態的回報。

The next year is gonna go by whether you're doing something about your life or not.

無論你是否在為你的生活做點什麼，明年都會過去的。

I mean, we're sitting here right now at the end of February, and the next 10 months are going to go by whether somebody is working to make change or whether they're not.

我的意思是，我們現在坐在這裡，2月底，接下來的10個月，不管是有人在努力改變，還是沒有。

They may think, you know Oh my God, I'm so far away I'll never get into controller.

他們可能會想，你知道，哦，我的上帝，我這麼遠，我永遠不會進入控制器。

I'm so behind in my bills or I'm so of, you know, just depressed or everything is so out of control.

我是如此落後於我的賬單，或者我是如此的， 你知道，只是鬱悶 或者一切都如此失控。

Well, you know what?

嗯，你知道嗎？

You make those incremental changes and then, you know, pretty soon in December you go.

你做出這些漸進式的改變，然後，你知道，很快在12月你就走了。

Hey, I'm way better off than I was at the end of February.

嘿，我比二月底的時候好多了。

So should you made a little changes, and they all added up, and if you don't by the end of the year, you're just in deeper, so every little bit matter e mean, just sit around dreaming.

所以應該你做了一點改變，他們都加起來，如果你不在年底，你只是在更深的，所以每一點物質e的意思，只是坐著做夢。

Someday.

總有一天

Someday I'm going to get a different job.

總有一天我會找到一份不同的工作。

Someday I'm gonna change.

總有一天我會改變。

This will someday in a day of the week, You know, there's Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday.

這將有一天在一週的一天，你知道，有周一，週二，週三，週四，週五，週六，週日。

Look on your counter.

看看你的櫃檯。

Some days not on there.

有些日子不在那裡。

So you got to say, Okay, I wanna take this small step by here.

所以你得說，好吧，我想在這裡邁出這一小步。

This small step by their this small step by there and then pretty soon, you know, we don't leaps tall buildings in a single bound.

這一小步他們這一小步那裡，然後很快，你知道，我們不飛躍高樓在一個單一的約束。

We take the floor of the time The difference between winners and losers.

勝者和敗者之間的區別。

His winners do things losers do not want to dio.

他的勝利者做的事情失敗者不願意dio。

They will get up in the middle of the night.

他們會在半夜起來。

They will do this.

他們會這樣做。

They will do that.

他們會這樣做。

They feel it more.

他們更有感覺。

They just do things losers don't want to do.

他們只是做一些失敗者不想做的事情。

They will pay a price.

他們會付出代價。

Losers just don't wanna pay And losers say it's just not worth it.

失敗者只是不想付出代價 失敗者說這不值得

And every winter has been loser.

而每個冬天都是失敗者。

Oh, that's what made him a winner.

哦，這才是他的贏家。

If you go through, life is in a success only journey.

如果你經歷了，人生就在一個只屬於成功的旅程中。

God, how boring would that be?

天啊，那會有多無聊？

You think it would be great like ice cream?

你覺得像冰淇淋一樣會很好吃嗎？

Every meal that it's incremental changes over the long haul on the way you have to look at it is if these two boats are going in a parallel direction and one of them just shifts five degrees over the course of time, this boat is gonna be in a far different place than the other boat that's going the same way.

每一頓飯，它的增量變化，在長期的方式上，你要看的是，如果這兩艘船在平行的方向上行駛，其中一艘船隻是在時間上偏移了5度，這艘船會和另一艘船在相同的方向上行駛的地方有很大的不同。

It was always going Theo problem that kids make and because I know I did it and is you compare your personal truth, what you know about yourself and you know how you really live and what's really going on.

它總是去西奧問題，孩子們做，因為我知道我做了，是你比較你的個人真相，你對自己的瞭解，你知道你真正的生活方式和真正的事情。

You compare your personal truth to everybody else's social mask because you go to school and, you know, well, I know that last night the windows got kicked out of my house.

你把你個人的真實情況和別人的社會面具相比較，因為你上學的時候，你知道，好吧，我知道昨晚我家的窗戶被踢壞了。

I know that the utilities got turned off, and I know there was a big fight in my kitchen last night and the kids sitting next to me, he's got on a shirt that's all ironed, and his face is all bright and clean, and, you know, he looks like he's just got it all together.

我知道公用事業被關閉， 我知道有一個大的戰鬥 在我的廚房昨晚 和孩子們坐在我旁邊， 他得到了在襯衫 這一切都熨燙， 他的臉是所有明亮和清潔， 而且，你知道，他看起來像 他只是得到了這一切在一起。

And you compare yourself to that person, that kid, and you feel like you're second class on.

而你把自己和那個人、那個孩子相比，你會覺得自己是二等生。

The problem with that is we generate the results in life we think we deserve.

問題是我們在生活中產生了我們認為應該得到的結果。

So if you think your damage, do you think your second class you will generate results that you think a second class person deserves eso?

所以，如果你認為你的傷害，你認為你的二級你會產生你認為二級人應得的結果嗎eso？

If you don't fix your personal truth, then you'll spend the rest of your life saying, Well, you know those really good results.

如果你不修正你的個人真相，那麼你會用你的餘生說，嗯，你知道那些真正的好結果。

Those belongs for somebody else.

這些都是別人的。

That's not for me.

這不是我的。

That's for somebody else, and you'll settle for second best and you won't get what you might otherwise generate for yourself if you don't fix your personal truth on.

那是給別人看的，你會退而求其次，如果你不把個人的真實情況固定下來，你就不會得到你自己可能產生的東西。

So I think a lot of people are struggling, looking for a way to kind of get out of feeling not good about themselves and damage self esteem, damage self worth.

所以我覺得很多人都在掙扎，尋找一種擺脫自我感覺不好，損害自尊心，損害自我價值的方法。

And they really don't know where to go.

而且他們真的不知道該去哪裡。

E think we learn about ourselves and you know, everybody talks about self esteem and self worth, but nobody ever talks about what it really is or how we get it.

我認為我們要了解自己，你知道，每個人都在談論自尊和自我價值，但沒有人談論過它到底是什麼，或者我們如何得到它。

And I think I think about it in terms of self attribution, because you know how you form opinions of other people, like if you look at this guy and you, you, maybe you work with this guy, and so you watch him across a couple of years, and maybe this guy shows up to work every day, and he's there 15 minutes early and he unlocks the place, gets everything ready, puts the coffee on, has his desk ready, he's all buttoned up.

我認為我認為它在自我歸因方面， 因為你知道你是如何形成別人的意見， 就像如果你看這個傢伙，你，你， 也許你的工作與這個傢伙， 所以你看他橫跨幾年，

And, man, when the bell rings, he's ready to go.

而且，夥計，當鐘聲響起，他已經準備好了。

And you just learned that this guy's buttoned up, ready to go dependable, Never misses.

而且你剛剛知道這傢伙是個守規矩的人，準備好了... ...可靠的，從不失誤。

He's always there.

他總是在那裡。

So you attribute certain traits and characteristics to him, based on your observations of him and your experience of him.

所以你根據你對他的觀察和你對他的經驗，把某些特徵和特性歸結到他身上。

Based on that, you assigned certain traits and characteristics to him.

在此基礎上，你給他分配了某些特徵和特點。

But I say that's exactly the same way We form our own self image and our own level of self worth.

但我說這正是我們形成自我形象和自我價值水準的方式。

We watch ourselves go through life, and we watch how we handle certain circumstances and situations, because if you over indulge your Children and do everything for them, you never let them observe themselves, master their environment.

我們觀察自己在生活中的表現，觀察自己如何處理某些環境和情況，因為如果你過分放縱你的孩子，為他們做一切事情，你永遠不會讓他們觀察自己，掌握自己的環境。

You never let them step back and say, Wow, I did that.

你永遠不要讓他們退後一步，說，哇，我做到了。

I built this.

我建了這個。

I overcame that.

我克服了這一點。

I handled this.

我處理了這個問題。

I did that, And so that's the same way we make our own health image and level of self worth.

我做到了，所以這也是我們讓自己的健康形象和自我價值水準的方式。

We watch ourselves overcome the third grade.

我們看著自己戰勝了三年級。

We watch ourselves stand up to a bully.

我們看著自己站起來欺負人。

We watch ourselves handle the test with a information that intimidated us.

我們看著自己處理考試的資訊，讓我們感到恐懼。

Or we watch ourselves make it onto the Little League baseball team and actually get a hit when we needed to, where we watch ourselves get onto the debate team and actually argue something successfully, whether it's academic or athletic or musical, we watch ourselves do it, and so we go back and say, Hey, I did that.

或者我們看著自己進了小聯盟棒球隊，在需要的時候真的被打中，在那裡我們看著自己進了辯論隊，真的成功地論證了一些東西，不管是學術上的還是體育上的還是音樂上的，我們看著自己做到了，於是我們回去說，嘿，我做到了。

I attribute to myself the ability I can hang.

我把我能掛的能力歸結於自己。

I can do this, I can rise to the occasion or we watch ourselves fold like a pup tent in a windstorm and say, I can't hang, I don't have it And we make those attribution to ourselves.

我可以做到，我可以奮起直追，或者我們看著自己像暴風中的小狗帳篷一樣折騰，說，我掛不住，我沒辦法，我們把這些歸結於自己。

And so we shrink from the challenge for the rest of our lives until, like you said, it's hard to overcome that, and something pushes you up until you finally observe yourself, overcome something, and I think that's how we form our level of self esteem and our identity about who we are.

於是我們在餘生中畏縮不前，直到像你說的那樣，很難克服這個問題，有什麼東西把你推上去，直到你最後觀察自己，克服一些東西，我想這就是我們如何形成我們的自尊水準和對自己身份的認同。

And I don't think most people think about that.

而我想大多數人都沒有想到這一點。

Look back and say Okay, How did I How did I get to be?

回頭說好，我怎麼會怎麼來？

Joe Rogan is I sit in that chair, you have a self image.

喬-羅根是我坐在那張椅子上，你有一個自我形象。

You have a level of confidence and ego string a level of self worth that's attributable to things you've watched yourself do or not do.

你的自信和自我串的自我價值水準，歸功於你看著自己做或不做的事情。

Achieve, not achieve overcome or whatever throughout your life.

實現，而不是實現克服或什麼的一生。

And I think to know yourself, you have to know what those things are.

而我認為要想了解自己，你必須知道這些東西是什麼。

Yeah, yeah.

是啊，是啊。