The time where you take risk, you take chances.

冒險的時候，你要把握機會。

Push everything aside.

把一切都推到一邊。

That's telling.

這很有說服力。

You know you have the possibility to shape your identity to construct and build your life into the power you can achieve.

你知道你有可能塑造你的身份來構建和打造你的生活，變成你可以實現的力量。

Nothing here is stopping your progress except yourself.

除了你自己，這裡沒有什麼能阻止你的進步。

You're the only thing that's holding you back.

你是唯一阻礙你的東西。

If you wanna become successful in life number one, you got to change your mindset, he said.

他說："如果你想成為成功的人生第一，你得改變你的心態。

You don't get in life what you want.

你不會得到你想要的生活。

You get in life what you are.

你在生活中得到你是什麼。

Develop your communication skills because once you open your mouth, you tell the world who you are.

培養你的溝通能力，因為一旦你開口，你就會告訴世界你是誰。

I believe that all of us are born unique.

我相信，我們每個人天生都是獨一無二的。

But most of us die copies.

但我們大多數人都死了副本。

You got to find out what is it that turns you on?

你得找出讓你興奮的原因是什麼？

What resonates with you?

是什麼讓你產生了共鳴？

Uh, one of the things that I realized what allowed me to become successful is a speaker.

呃，我意識到讓我成功的原因之一就是演講者。

The speaking industry has been hijacked by people who speak to sell.

演講行業已經被那些為了銷售而演講的人所劫持。

It's okay to do that, make money.

這樣做是可以的，賺錢。

I speak to change lives because somebody spoke and change my life.

我說話是為了改變生活，因為有人說話，改變了我的生活。

So this is my passion.

所以這是我的激情。

This is my try.

這是我的嘗試。

This is something that I feel in my heart.

這是我心裡的感受。

And so the key to that hunger driven life is, ah, hard centered life.

所以，那種飢餓驅動的生活關鍵是，啊，硬中心的生活。

I didn't do what I'm doing for years because of my programming, because of the culture in which I was raised dead, I would see other people with degrees and Ph.

我做了這麼多年的工作，並不是因為我的編程，因為我從小死守的文化，我會看到別人有學位、有博士。

D.

D.

S and and MBAs and credentials I don't have, and I convinced myself I couldn't do it.

S和和MBA和證書我都沒有，我說服自己我做不到。

But Mr Washington, on that day we became friends, and he taught me not only someone's opinion of you just does not have to determine your reality.

但華盛頓先生，那天我們成了朋友，他教會了我，不僅是別人對你的看法，只是不必決定你的現實。

He said that you have to work on yourself.

他說，你要在自己身上下功夫。

You have to have an unstoppable attitude, and no excuse is acceptable.

你要有一種不可阻擋的態度，任何藉口都不能接受。

And you've got to do make it a priority or non negotiable in your life on hold a constant vision of what it is you want to achieve.

而你要做的就是讓它成為你生活中的優先級或不可商量的事，對你要實現的目標保持一個恆定的願景。

See it accomplished and go all out.

看到它的成就，全力以赴。

Find a way toe win in spite of the setbacks, in spite of the disappointments, in spite of your failures, I tell people when I'm giving presentations, you will fail your way to success.

儘管有挫折，儘管有失望，儘管有失敗，但還是要找到贏的方法，我在做演講的時候就會告訴大家，你會用失敗的方式走向成功。

I have a saying his life knocks you down, try and land on your back because if you could look up.

我有句話說，他的生命把你打倒了，試著趴在你的背上，因為如果你能抬頭看看。

You can get up.

你可以起來了

Never let a situation or circumstance to find your life, no matter what it.

不管是什麼情況或環境，都不要讓它來找你的生活。

Maybe even understanding that you got something inside of you that's great in that situation on a circumstance.

甚至可能明白，你內心有一些東西，在那種情況下，在一個環境下是很好的。

But you have to constantly believe it, and not only believe it.

但你要不斷地相信它，而不僅僅是相信它。

You have to make decisions and choices every single day and put your step forward toward what you believe.

你每天都要做出決定和選擇，向著你所相信的東西邁進。

Your destiny is mhm in life.

你的命運就是人生的mhm。

It's a lot of moments, and it's a lot of people that change and impact your life, right?

改變和影響你人生的是很多時刻，也是很多人，對吧？

Like I don't believe it's just one moment you say this one moment just changed my life, even though that moment may have.

就像我不相信你說這一瞬間就改變了我的生活，即使那一瞬間可能改變了我的生活。

But it's going to be another moment that's going to shape and change.

但這又將是一個塑造和改變的時刻。

Your life is well.

你的生活很好。

Either somebody is in the midst of adversity or just came out of adversity, or it won't be long before they head into adversity.

不是有人在逆境中，就是剛從逆境中走出來，要不過不了多久就會走向逆境。

So you need to be prepared either way.

所以無論哪種方式你都要做好準備。

And so we all go through adversity.

所以我們都要經歷逆境。

Opposition.

反對派：

I think that's the thing that that makes us all in common as people, right?

我想這就是我們作為人的共同點吧？

No matter if you're from London, Atlanta, Florida, California, New York, like we're all going to go through something at some point or phase in our life, right?

不管你是來自倫敦，亞特蘭大，佛羅里達，加州，紐約，就像我們都會在生活中的某個點或階段經歷一些事情，對嗎？

And as cliche as it sounds, when the quote says it's never about what happens to us about how you respond to it, that's very true, right?

雖然聽起來很老套，但當這句話說從來都不是關於發生在我們身上的事情而是關於你如何應對它，這是非常正確的，對嗎？

But in the same sense, I think what's most important is when we go through something, what's the perspective that we have of it, right?

但是同樣的道理，我覺得最重要的是當我們經歷一些事情的時候，我們對它的看法是什麼，對吧？

Because for most people, when you go through something, the person's natural perspective is Okay, What did I lose, right?

因為對於大多數人來說，當你經歷一些事情的時候，這個人的自然視角是好的，我失去了什麼，對吧？

What happened to me?

我怎麼了？

Like I took a loss, right?

好像我吃了虧似的，對吧？

People never look at it and say, Okay, man, tell me, what did you gain right?

大家從來不看，說，好吧，老兄，你告訴我，你收穫了什麼吧？

Even though I know it hurt, you didn't want to go through it.

雖然我知道這很痛，但你也不想經歷這些。

But look at it in a way to where you could say, what's the lesson in this, right?

但是看它的方式，你可以說，這裡面有什麼教訓吧？

What would you say?

你會怎麼說？

Life is trying to teach you from dealing with this.

生活是想從處理這件事上教會你。

And so when I went through it, my perspective waas Okay, what can I extract from it?

所以，當我經歷了它，我的觀點是，好吧，我可以從中提取什麼？

To apply to other areas and aspects of my life that I feel can help other people on.

要應用到我生活中的其他領域和方面，我覺得可以幫助其他人上。

And I firmly believe the quicker you can shift your perspective from yourself, toe others.

而我堅信，你能越快地把視角從自己身上轉移到別人身上。

When you're in the midst of adversity, the quicker you'll get through it right.

當你身處逆境時，你會越快地度過難關。

Martin Luther King has a quote that says Life's most persistent and urgent question is, What are you doing to help other people?

馬丁-路德-金有一句話說，人生最持久最迫切的問題是，你在做什麼來幫助別人？

Now?

現在？

I'm not telling you to not acknowledge your pain.

我不是叫你不承認自己的痛苦。

I'm not saying that.

我不是說。

I'm not telling you not to say, man, I'm going through this in his heart.

我不是叫你不要說，老兄，我在他心裡是這樣過的。

I'm not saying that.

我不是說。

I'm saying when you go through it, look at it, step back from the picture on Say Okay, I'm dealing with this nine out of 10 times.

我是說當你經歷過後，看一看，從《說好》上的圖片中退一步，我十次有九次都在處理這個問題。

If somebody else that's either dealt with it or they're gonna deal with something similar to this if I deal with it in the right way, I can use it to add value Two lives of other people when you live.

如果有人，要麼處理過，要麼他們要處理類似的事情，如果我用正確的方式處理，我可以用它來增加價值 兩條別人的生命，當你活著。

Ah, hard center life deciding that you're gonna live a life that will outlive you.

啊，艱難的中心生活決定了你要活得比你長壽。

You're gonna live a life that counts a life that will build a legacy and change the planet.

你要活得更有意義... ...活得更有意義... ...能建立一個遺產，改變地球。

You know, Horace Mann said, way should be ashamed to die until we've made some major contribution to humankind.

你知道，賀拉斯-曼說過，在我們沒有對人類做出重大貢獻之前，我們應該以死亡為恥。

get to know yourself that I believe that we're taught being not conformed to this world, being transformed by the renewing of your mind.

認識你自己，我相信我們被教導的是不被這個世界所束縛，被你的心靈更新所改變。

Don't live the life that has been giving you.

不要過一直給你的生活。

When you go for a walk with someone, something happens without being spoken, he said.

他說，當你和別人一起去散步時，有些事情不說就會發生。

Either you adjust to their pace or they adjust to your pace.

要麼你適應他們的節奏，要麼他們適應你的節奏。

Whose pace have you adjusted to?

你適應了誰的節奏？

And so they're things that way pick up.

所以他們的事情，方式接。

And we think that there are choices, but their choices that we've been programmed by life todo When we leave our homes in the morning, we're bombarded with over 6000 advertising hits through Facebook, through Twitter, through instagram, through television, through our phones and through our communities on through the computers.

我們認為，有選擇，但他們的選擇，我們已經被編程的生活todo當我們離開我們的家在早上，我們轟炸超過6000廣告點擊通過Facebook，通過Twitter，通過instagram，通過電視，通過我們的手機和通過我們的社區上通過電腦。

And so all of these things are impacting us every day.

所以這些事情每天都在影響著我們。

So if you don't have a program for your mind, then your mind is going to be programming.

所以，如果你沒有為你的心靈制定一個程序，那麼你的心靈就會被編程。

You'll find yourself doing things that you did not know, and that they affected you, that they threw marketing techniques and strategies that they will create a thirst within you.

你會發現自己做了一些你不知道的事情，它們影響了你，它們拋出的營銷技巧和策略，會讓你內心產生一種渴求。

You've got to have someone that can see something in you that you can't see that that that can take you to a place within yourself that you can't go by yourself.

你必須要有一個人，可以看到你身上一些你看不到的東西，可以帶你到一個你自己無法去的地方。

Stop overthinking everything so much realize that while you are trying to do a lot of things in your life at once, and you are, uh, trying to be better than you were yesterday also realize you don't have to try to do anything you just have to do.

不要再把所有的事情都想得太多了，要意識到，當你想在你的生活中一次做很多事情的時候，你是，呃，想比昨天做得更好的時候，也要意識到你不必去嘗試做任何事情，你只需要做。

And you just have to be.

而你只需要。

You have to understand the concept of you're not actually really doing anything.

你要明白一個概念，你其實並沒有真正做什麼。

You're being done.

你被幹掉了

Each and every day is an opportunity to get something from the day rather than just going through the day.

每一天都是一個機會，讓我們從一天中得到一些東西，而不是一味地過日子。

But there are a lot of things that we can't always control.

但有很多事情，我們不一定能控制。

We can't always control the temperature outside.

我們不能總是控制外面的溫度。

We can't always control what the birds were doing or what the fish are doing or what the animals were doing.

我們不能總是控制鳥兒在做什麼，魚兒在做什麼，動物在做什麼。

But we can control what we're doing.

但我們可以控制我們在做什麼。

We can control who were hanging out with.

我們可以控制和誰在一起玩。

So in a sense we could get some control over the anxiety that we have and the way that we're going to gain control over those things, to think about some of the hurdles that we may have some of the things that are blocking us from making quick, quick action.

所以從某種意義上來說，我們可以對我們的焦慮進行一些控制，以及我們要對這些事情進行控制的方式，去思考我們可能會有一些障礙的一些事情，阻礙我們快速、快速的行動。

The reason that I think belief is important is because, like when you're young or when you do something in your novice right and you start out doing it and you might think you could do something with it or you might not, you might do it and it's being driven by your passion.

我覺得信念很重要的原因是，比如說你年輕的時候，或者說你在你新手權的時候，你開始做的時候，你可能覺得你可以用它做一些事情，也可能不做，你可能會做，這是被你的激情所驅動的。

And then somebody comes along that's a little bit older or even more experienced, and they can see it in a way that you can't see it right.

然後有人來了，年紀大一點，甚至更有經驗，他們可以用一種你看不懂的方式來看待它。

And so, I think, is important with belief, because if a person believes in you in a way that you don't believe in yourself, you can rent that person's belief until you get strong enough to possess your own right and you use that person's believed to fuel you every single day, right, because you can have a level of belief with what you're doing.

所以，我覺得，是很重要的信念，因為如果一個人相信你的方式，你自己不相信，你可以租這個人的信念，直到你足夠強大，擁有自己的權利，你用這個人的信念來激勵你的每一天，對不對，因為你可以有一個信念的水準與你正在做的事情。

But you can go back to a certain set of circumstances that tell, you know it's not gonna happen, And so you read that person's belief until you get strong enough to possess your own life is an adventure and it's gonna be a challenge and get ready because you're gonna fail your way to success.

但你可以回到某個特定的環境，告訴，你知道這不會發生，所以你讀到那個人的信念，直到你足夠強大，擁有自己的生活是一種冒險，它會是一個挑戰，並做好準備，因為你會失敗你的成功。

You will get slapped around by life and don't spend time complaining about it and telling everybody 80% don't care.

你會被生活拍打，不要花時間去抱怨，告訴大家80%的人都不在乎。

And 20% glad is you, Yeah.

而20%的高興是你，是的。