It happens, and before you know it, you'll realize that your behavior is a reflection of some survival mechanism that served you in the past and when other people, except US set boundaries for themselves and make space for our emotions without internalizing our behavior.
它發生了,在你意識到這一點之前,你會意識到你的行為是過去為你服務的某種生存機制的反映,而當其他人,除了US為自己設定界限,為我們的情緒騰出空間,而不將我們的行為內化。