It's either I will or I won't.

要麼我願意，要麼我不願意。

I can.

我可以。

I know I can, but I will.

我知道我可以，但我會的。

Or I won't.

或者我不會。

You know, on.

你知道，在。

And that's the thing.

這就是問題所在。

And in some cases, you may try your hardest, and you just don't win or you don't pass the test or you don't succeed.

而在某些情況下，你可能盡了最大的努力，但就是沒有贏，或者沒有通過考試，或者沒有成功。

That's part of life understanding.

這也是生活理解的一部分。

It's gonna take hard work discipline on and learning how to work with other people in order to get to the next level.

要想更上一層樓，就得努力工作，遵守紀律，學會如何與他人合作。

Uh, the first rule is to love and respect everybody you come in contact with.

呃，第一條規則是愛和尊重你所接觸的每一個人。

You're not going to agree with him.

你不會同意他的說法。

You're not gonna even like him on some occasions.

你甚至不會在某些場合喜歡他。

But you love them, and you respect them.

但你愛他們，你尊重他們。

Number two is to be your best.

二是要做最好的自己。

You know, if your best is a C on the test, even if it's d or F on the test, you know, you could never be disappointed if you know, you gave it your all.

你知道，如果你最好的是一個C的測試，即使它的D或F的測試，你知道，你永遠不會失望，如果你知道，你給它你的一切。

And then, uh, you know, Number three is we don't use the word camp, you know?

然後，呃，你知道，第三是 我們不使用這個詞的陣營，你知道嗎？

It's not in our vocabulary.

這不是我們的詞彙。

I was told my entire life you'll never do this.

我一生都被告知，你永遠不會這樣做。

You'll never do that.

你永遠不會這樣做。

You can't do this.

你不能這樣做。

You It's impossible for you to do that when you tell somebody what they can't do for some people that drives them, you know, because you're not gonna tell me what I can or cannot do.

你不可能做到這一點，當你告訴別人他們不能為某些人做什麼時，你知道，因為你不會告訴我什麼是我能做或不能做的。

Uh, but for other people, when you tell them all, you'll never be able to do that like that.

呃，但是對於其他人來說，當你把他們都說出來的時候，你永遠也做不到這樣。

That could be the break in straw.

這可能是稻草的突破口。

You know, in in that in that back for that person that their spirit toe actually go out and succeed.

你知道，在那在那在那後面的人，他們的精神腳趾實際上走出去，成功。

So I never tell my kids if they come to me and they may have the most outrageous idea I said, All right, cool.

所以我從不告訴我的孩子們，如果他們來找我，他們可能會有最離譜的想法，我說，好吧，很酷。

Let's figure out how we're gonna do it.

讓我們想想怎麼做吧。

I never said I mean, you can't do that.

我從來沒有說過，我的意思是，你不能這樣做。

We ain't doing that.

我們不會這樣做。

There's a work ethic.

有一種職業道德。

You gotta be passionate about whatever it is that you're gonna do, whether it be, um, you know, an artist entertainer, sports figure, political like whatever it is should you decide to do in life, you have to have and the extreme work at it, you'll be willing to do stuff other people aren't willing to do.

你得有激情，不管你要做的是什麼，不管是，嗯，你知道，一個藝術家藝人，體育人物，政治人物，就像不管你決定在生活中做什麼，你必須有和極端的工作，你會願意做別人不願意做的事情。

Um, you have had respect.

嗯，你有尊重。

The first thing I taught my kids when they can understand it was how toe shake somebody's hand.

當我的孩子們能理解的時候，我教給他們的第一件事就是如何趾高氣揚地握住別人的手。

If your if your agenda is to help make an impact on people's lives, and it shouldn't matter if your name's at the top of the banner, it shouldn't matter if you know your gifts, have certain, uh, name tags or whatever.

如果你... ...如果你的議程是幫助人們的生活產生影響， 它不應該有關係，如果你的名字是在旗幟的頂部， 它不應該有關係，如果你知道你的禮物， 有一定的，呃，名牌或什麼的。

However you want to do it.

不管你想怎麼做。

I'm super competitive.

我是超級競爭者。

So, uh, nobody's gonna tell me what I can't do.

所以，呃，沒有人會告訴我什麼我不能做。

I mean, somebody don't e can't sing, but don't tell me I can't sing.

我的意思是，有人不會唱歌，但不要告訴我我不會唱歌。

But I'm gonna give you my best thing.

但我會給你我最好的東西。

It's possible.

這是有可能的。

It's not that I can't sing.

我不是不會唱歌。

It's just I don't saying Well, but you know what I'm saying?

這只是我不說 嗯，但你知道我在說什麼？

So it's like for me.

所以對我來說，這就像。

I always had a Dr Teoh like, not prove people wrong.

我一直有一個泰奧博士一樣，不證明別人是錯的。

But to prove God's right, you know, God said that he has great plans for me.

但為了證明上帝的正確，你知道，上帝說他對我有偉大的計劃。

Um, so my grandmother passed away from breast cancer in 1995.

嗯，所以我奶奶在1995年因乳腺癌去世了。

Um, I was going to the hospice.

嗯，我是要去安養院的。

The woman that was her roommate, per se, um, was very She was from the south, you know, and she was very racist.

那個女人是她的室友，本身，嗯，是非常... ...她來自南方，你知道，她是非常種族主義者。

You know, every time I come in the room, she would say, Oh, that goes.

你知道嗎，每次我進房間，她都會說，哦，那去吧。

That boy had to do everything I could.

那孩子不得不做我能做的一切。

She you know, I knew I had grown because I didn't respond the way I probably should have responded.

她... ...你知道，我知道我已經長大了，因為我沒有用我可能應該的方式來回應。

Has she caught me a couple of years earlier.

她是不是早幾年就抓住了我。

Um, but, um, you know, my grandmother.

嗯，但是，嗯，你知道，我的祖母。

After a few weeks, my grandmother, you know, she reached over and pulled, grabbed my arm, and she was like, You know, if I if I If I have happened to die before she does, I want you to come back and see her on.

過了幾個星期，我的奶奶，你知道，她伸手拉了拉，抓住我的胳膊，她就說，你知道，如果我如果我如果我碰巧在她死之前死了，我希望你能回來看她，在。

I'm like, No, it's just not my grandmother talking right now.

我想，不，只是現在不是我奶奶在說話。

Um, and so I you know, it end up happening, like, three weeks after my grandmother said that my grandmother passed away.

嗯，所以我... ...你知道，它最終發生的一樣，三個星期後 我的祖母說，我的祖母去世了。

And so my grandmother I saw something at the time that I don't really understand why she was doing it, but I went back, and I go into this room on the ladies like it's like, sits up on her seat.

所以我的祖母我看到的東西，當時我真的不明白為什麼她要這樣做，但我回去，我走進這個房間的女士們喜歡它的樣子，坐在她的座位上。

She's just started bawling, crying.

她剛開始嚎啕大哭，哭得很傷心。

This is the racist lady.

這就是那個種族主義的女人。

Yes.

是的，我知道

Um, and then she was like, I'm I'm so glad I got a chance to see you again.

嗯，然後她很喜歡，我... ...我很高興我有機會再次見到你。

I thought I'd never see you again.

我以為我再也見不到你了。

You know, I apologize for how I treated you.

你知道，我為我對你的態度道歉。

You know, I've gone to church.

你知道，我去了教堂。

I've done so many things, you know, in church, I've served the homeless, etcetera, etcetera.

我做了很多事情，你知道，在教堂裡，我為無家可歸者服務，等等，等等。

But I did.

但我做到了。

I wasn't doing the one thing that I know that God would have approved of the most loving his people.

我沒有做一件事，我知道上帝會準許最愛他的子民。

And then she, uh she asked me if I could give her a hug.

然後她，呃，她問我，如果我能給她一個擁抱。

And I said in my Ted talk, You know, I was a little apprehensive about doing that because she could have shaped me or something like that on the side.

我在我的Ted演講中說，你知道，我對這樣做有點擔心，因為她可能會在旁邊塑造我或類似的東西。

But, uh, you know, I hugged her, and when I hugged her, she said, You're like the son that I never had and I'm going, okay, I never I didn't understand it at the time.

但是，呃，你知道的，我抱了她，當我抱她的時候，她說，你就像我從來沒有過的兒子，我就說，好吧，我從來我當時不懂。

I'm walking out, and then the lady said, You know, the ladies upfront, they were like, that was so beautiful, the witness, because, you know, essentially the reason why she has so much anger towards you was because she kind of got dropped off, which it happens a lot in nursing homes or, you know, care centers, family dropping off.

我走了出來，然後這位女士說，你知道，女士們在前面，他們很喜歡，這是如此美麗，證人，因為，你知道，本質上的原因，為什麼她有這麼多的憤怒對你是因為她種得到了下降了，它發生了很多在養老院或，你知道，護理中心，家庭下降了。

And she has two daughters and the daughters just couldn't handle the seeing their their mom in that position.

她有兩個女兒，女兒們無法接受看到自己的媽媽處於那種境地。

And my grandmother saw that before I would have ever saw.

而我的奶奶在我看到之前就已經看到了。

She just saw, you know, an opportunity for even the hardest of hearts to be changed even in the dying days.

她只是看到了，你知道，即使是最堅硬的心靈，也有機會在臨死前被改變。

If you could have impact on somebody that you know that way, then just imagine what's gonna happen when you do that to a complete stranger.

如果你能以這種方式對你認識的人產生影響，那麼試想一下，當你對一個完全陌生的人這樣做時，會發生什麼。

And it may not be.

也可能不是。

I love you and I believe in you.

我愛你，我相信你。

It may be the action of showing your worthy of nice clothes or nice pair of shoes, or you're worthy of your worthy of being able to go and enjoy a movie.

可能是展現你配得上漂亮的衣服或漂亮的鞋子的動作，也可能是你配得上你配得上能去欣賞一場電影。

You know, uh, in college.

你知道，呃，在大學裡。

The more successful people are most of the time, the people that are more well rounded.

越是成功的人，大多數時候，都是比較全面的人。

You kind of have an appreciation for what other people do and whatever people going through.

你會對別人的所作所為有一種感激之情，不管別人經歷什麼。

But you can be inspired on any given moment, any given day.

但你可以在任何一個特定的時刻，任何一個特定的日子裡獲得靈感。

Um, just talking to people.

嗯，只是跟人說話。

It doesn't get any easier.

沒有比這更簡單的了。

You just get stronger.

你只是變得更強。

If you want to change, don't expect your life to stay the same.

如果你想改變，就不要指望你的生活一成不變。

Expected to get harder expected toe actually get really, really tough.

預期的變得更難預期的腳趾其實變得非常非常難。

Tougher than you could even imagine right now.

比你現在想象的還要艱難。

And this is where you can move past the boundary that used to hold you back used to hold you by the neck.

而在這裡，你可以越過曾經讓你退縮的界限，曾經讓你束手束腳的界限。

Now you can move towards the fulfillment that your future and this you see this.

現在，你可以朝著你的未來和這個你看到的滿足。

This is where you can finally feel the satisfaction of your work.

在這裡，你終於可以感受到自己工作的滿足感。

This is when you finally get to feel that success.

這時你終於可以感受到那種成功了。

Now is the time for you to step up, stand out and become the person you need to become.

現在是時候讓你站出來，脫穎而出，成為你需要成為的人。

Your future is in your hands, and this is what sets your life up to be worth the potential that you deserve.

你的未來掌握在你的手中，這才是你人生值得擁有的潛力。

Your power is and always has been the thing that's gonna take you towards the life that you have earned.

你的力量是而且一直是要帶你走向你所贏得的生活的東西。

Don't fail yourself.

不要辜負自己。

Perseverance is the aspect that takes you towards the future, worthy of your strength, worthy of your progress.

毅力是帶你走向未來的方面，值得你去努力，值得你去進步。

So take pride in that more than anything you have and you always will have this this potential to improve this potential to adapt and this potential to change.

所以，你要感到自豪，你擁有的比任何東西都多，你永遠都會擁有這種這種改善的潛力，這種適應的潛力，這種改變的潛力。

This is what you've been working for.

這就是你一直在努力的方向。

Go on and receive that one mistake's shouldn't hold you back for more than one day.

去接受，一個錯誤的不應該讓你耽誤超過一天的時間。

Rise is the most important part of your progress.

崛起是你進步最重要的部分。

The rise makes your future something different.

崛起讓你的未來與眾不同。

It makes you you makes you strong.

它讓你你讓你堅強。

In the intelligence of that takes you to a power worth your future value.

在智能的，需要你的力量，值得你未來的價值。

This this moment of pain is not gonna last forever unless you let it last forever.

這這一刻的痛苦是不會永遠持續的，除非你讓它永遠持續下去。

You don't need this, so don't let it happen.

你不需要這樣，所以不要讓它發生。

Change your perspective.

改變你的觀點。

Change your mindset to something always willing to grow.

改變你的心態，讓你的心態永遠願意成長。

Always willing to take courage.

總是願意拿出勇氣。

Make this who you are and make this worthwhile.

讓這是你的身份，讓這是值得的。

This power that you have is valuable because you're futurist valuable and your potential is valuable.

你擁有的這種力量是有價值的，因為你是未來人的價值，你的潛力是有價值的。

You're more than you could ever imagine.

你比你能想象的更多。

And your power is stronger than you could ever imagine.

而你的力量比你能想象的還要強大。

This progress is going to take time.

這種進步是需要時間的。

But this opening the work this opening that you have in this moment it's not always open.

但是這個開局這個工作這個開局，你在這一刻它不一定是開局。

So take it.

那就拿去吧

Take it right now.

現在就拿去吧。

Take it now before it's too late.

趁現在還來得及，趕緊拿下它。

You're more than your last minute.

你比你的最後一分鐘。

You're more than your last minute.

你比你的最後一分鐘。

You're more than your last mistake.

你比你上次的錯誤更嚴重。

Get prepared for the success.

為成功做好準備。

Get prepared for the progress.

為進步做好準備。

You can make this You make this power.

你可以做這個，你可以做這個力量。

Yours, yours to keep forever because this is what you're gonna leave behind.

你的，你的，你要永遠保留，因為這是你要留下的東西。

This is what your legacy is made up of the moments when you get knocked down but rise up, over and over again.

這就是你的遺產，是由你被打倒卻又一次次爬起來的瞬間組成的。

These are the building blocks of the legacy that you're constructing these moments when you push forward and rise up over and over again in that is what brings you to the place where you thrive the place where you thrive and become better.

這些都是遺產的構件，你正在構建這些時刻，當你向前推進，並一次又一次地上升在這是什麼帶給你的地方，你茁壯成長的地方，你茁壯成長，變得更好。

Okay, people gave to me and my family and my mom and other kids in my situation when they had nothing to gain in return on.

好吧，人們給了我和我的家人，我的媽媽和其他孩子在我的情況下，當他們沒有任何回報上的收穫。

That's character.

這就是性格。

When you can give someone something, do something for somebody and it's really not about you, it's really about helping them.

當你能給別人一些東西，為別人做一些事情的時候，這真的不是你的事情，而是真的要幫助他們。

You're not expecting anything.

你並不期待什麼。

Return right.

向右轉

You have to set the presidents of like being authentic way live in a very inauthentic world where we don't do nearly as much as we could do.

你必須設定總裁的喜歡是真實的方式生活在一個非常不真實的世界，我們沒有做幾乎儘可能多的，我們可以做。

If we didn't have a new agenda, I don't have an agenda.

如果我們沒有新的議程，我也沒有議程。

My only agenda is is thio literally change everybody's life that I could possibly change in one way or another.

我唯一的目的是... ...就是要從字面上改變每個人的生活... ...我可能以某種方式改變。

Being authentic on being me has has literally changed my whole life.

作為真實的我，已經從字面上改變了我的整個生活。

Um, because people are really starving for truth.

嗯，因為人們對真相真的很飢渴。