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Picture this.
想像這個情景。
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You've had a long day and decide to relax by watching a movie on your favorite streaming service.
你渡過了漫長的一天,決定在最愛的串流平台上看電影放鬆一下。
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You scroll through some options and watch a trailer.
你滑過幾個選項,點開了一個預告片。
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It looks all right, but what about this one?
看起來還不錯,但這個好像也不錯?
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Another trailer and another trailer, 20 minutes later, and you still haven't picked something to watch.
你看了一個又一個預告片,20 分鐘後,你還是沒選好要看什麼。
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Sound familiar?
是不是聽起來很熟悉?
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This common occurrence is due to something called choice paralysis.
這種常見的情況叫「選擇困難症」
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Choice Paralysis is when you have trouble making a decision because there's an overwhelming amount of different options to choose from.
選擇困難症指的是人因為有大量選項可選擇,而難以做出決定。
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Maybe you've experienced it while trying to order from a lengthy diner menu or picking out paint colors.
也許你從冗長菜單中挑選菜色,或選油漆顏色時,就經歷過這種情況了。
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Initially, having a lot of options can seem like a good thing.
起初,有很多選項似乎是件好事。
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There's a lot of freedom and possibility, but once you try to make a decision, the sheer amount of choices can be exhausting.
這給了我們很多自由和可能性,但當你試圖做出選擇,大量的選項會讓你筋疲力盡。
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Sometimes to the extent that you don't make a choice at all.
有時嚴重到你無法做出選擇。
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This paralysis is partially caused by the belief that somewhere in this abundance of options there's a right choice.
這種「選擇困難症」源於我們相信在眾多選擇中,有一個選項是「正確」的。
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We want to find the best movie because, after all, our time is valuable.
我們希望找到最好的電影,畢竟時間寶貴。
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So we think about choosing night bikes.
所以我們考慮選《夜間自行車》,
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But there's also Basketball Dog and Danger Cliff.
但還有《籃球狗》和《危命懸崖》這兩個選項。
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But what if those aren't as good as Garden Cop, Todd Broll Mall troll, or the Egregious Pastel Lodge, and so on and so on?
但如果這些電影都不如《花園警察》《托德布羅爾購物中心巨魔》或《驚愕粉彩小屋》好看怎麼辦?
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And before we know it, we've used up a large chunk of the valuable time that we were worried about wasting in the first place.
在意識到之前,我們就已經用掉大半當初擔心浪費的寶貴時間了。
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Instead of falling down this rabbit hole, give this a try.
與其陷入這種情況,不如試試這個。
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Lowering your expectations.
降低期望。
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I know, this may seem counterintuitive, but let's break it down.
我知道這可能看起來有悖常理,但先聽我分析。
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If you change your mental expectations from I need to watch the best movie to I wanna watch a movie that's good enough,
如果你把心理預期從「我要看最好的電影」變成「我想看一部不錯的電影」
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It can accomplish two things:
這可以達到兩件事:
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one,
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you're putting less pressure on yourself to find that perfect choice.
減少自己需要找到完美選項的壓力。
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And two, by setting the bar lower, you're more likely to enjoy whatever it is you do end up choosing.
二、降低門檻後,你更能享受自己最後選擇的東西。
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On top of this, try limiting your choices.
最重要的是,要試著去縮小選擇範圍。
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Let's say you feel like watching something funny.
比方說,你想看有趣的影片。
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Instead of looking through every comedy available, go ahead and pick out two or three options and force yourself to choose one of those.
與其把所有可看的喜劇都看一遍,不如先挑出兩三個選項,強迫自己選擇其中的一個。
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By giving yourself less decision space, the choice will be both less stressful and time-consuming.
縮小選擇範圍,能減少壓力並加快你的考慮時間。
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So, the next time you sit down to watch something and feel Choice Paralysis taking over.
所以,下次當你坐下準備看電影又「選擇困難症」發作時,
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Remember that the decision itself really doesn't hold that much weight.
記住,這真的不是什麼多重大的決定。
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Pick something. The odds are it'll be good enough.
選一部吧。 有很大的機率那部就已經夠好了。
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And even if it's not the absolute best, it's probably better than nothing at all.
即使它不是最好的,也比什麼都沒有好。
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