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  • Now, I know small talk is really, really horrible; even British people are kind of afraid of it.

    我知道閒聊真的、真的很可怕,連英國人都有點懼怕它。

  • But we feel like we have to do it.

    但我們都覺得那是必須做的事。

  • So, today, we're going to really focus on some questions you can ask people when you're in a small talk conversation.

    所以說,我們今天要真正聚焦在一些你在與人寒暄時可以問的問題。

  • And these are all related to the topic of work.

    而且它們都跟工作這個主題有關。

  • One of the easiest things to talk about is your job, your work, your career, your studies.

    最好聊的主題之一就是你的職業、工作、職涯、研究。

  • Along with travel, I think those are the most common small talk conversations.

    這些以及旅遊主題都是我認為最普遍的閒聊對話。

  • So, today, I just have some really simple questions that you can ask people in a small talk conversation to, hopefully, make it a little bit easier for you.

    所以我今天我單純是要提供一些非常簡單的問題,你可以在閒聊對話中問別人,希望能讓你輕鬆點。

  • And then we get talking. Let's say we're talking with this person; we've build up a bit of a rapport.

    然後我們就開始說話,假設我們在和某個人對話,已經建立了一點關係。

  • Now what we want to do is keep them talking.

    現在我們要做的是讓他們繼續說話。

  • Maybe they've mentioned their career; maybe you want to ask them what they do.

    也許他們已經提到了自己的職業,或許你想想問問他們是做什麼的。

  • Easy question: What do you do?

    簡單的問題:What do you do?(你是做什麼的?)

  • Let's say this person is a lady, and she says she's a doctor.

    假設對方是一位女子,她說自己是醫生。

  • After she said that she's a doctor, she may then ask you, "What about you?"

    表明自己是醫生後,她可能會接著問你:What about you?(那你呢?)

  • This phrase is extremely useful, and you can use it yourself in small talk.

    這句話非常有用,你自己也可以在閒聊中使用。

  • Essentially, what this question does is, it turns the question back on the person who asked you that question.

    本質上,這個問題的作用就是,把問題反過來問你這個問題的人。

  • So, they're asking you now, "What do you do?"

    所以他們現在是在問你:What do you do?(你是做什麼的?)

  • Well, then you answer the question.

    那麼,接著就由你回答這個問題。

  • Maybe, then, you want to ask more questions.

    也許你會想再繼續問更多問題。

  • So, why not this one?

    何不用這一題呢?

  • How long have you been doing that for?

    How long have you been doing that for?(你做那個工作多久了?)

  • So, this is a way to open up the conversation.

    這也是展開話題的一種方式。

  • How long have they been doing it for?

    對方做那個工作多久了?

  • It shows that you're interested in what they're talking about.

    這顯示你對他們所談論的東西感興趣。

  • Something I always recommend during small talk is to react to everything they say.

    我一直建議在閒聊時做的一件事是,對對方所說的每句話作出反應。

  • So, for example, if they say, "Oh, I've been doing it for about 10 years,"

    舉個例子,如果對方說:「哦,我已經做了 10 年左右了。」

  • respond with a "Oh, wow!" "Really?" "Nice!"

    你可以用「Oh, wow!(哇!)」、「Really?(真的嗎?)」、「Nice!(不賴!)」等字詞來回應。

  • Little words like this just show a reaction.

    這樣的簡短字詞單純地展現一個反應。

  • And then maybe you can follow up with another question.

    然後也許你可以再追問一個問題。

  • For example, "How did you get into that?"

    例如:How did you get into that?(你是怎麼進到那一行的?)

  • How did you get into that?

    你是怎麼入行的?

  • This essentially means, "How did you start that job? What made you want to do that job?"

    這基本上就等於:你怎麼開始做這個工作的?是什麼讓你想要做這行?

  • Now, if they're a talkative person, this is definitely a way to get someone to talk for quite a long time.

    如果對方是一個健談的人,這絕對是一個能讓人暢談許久的方法。

  • Do you think you'll stick with it forever?

    你覺得你會一直堅持下去嗎?

  • Do you think you'll stick with it forever?

    你覺得你會一直堅持下去嗎?

  • To stick with something means to stay with.

    Stick with 的意思就是 stay with,表示「與⋯⋯一起」。

  • Stick, like when we have glue and we stick things together.

    Stick 就是我們拿膠水把東西黏在一起的「黏」這個字。

  • Stick with itwell, that simply means, "Do you think you'll stay in this job forever?"

    間單地說,stick with it 就表示:你覺得你會一直做這份工作嗎?

  • Really, it's a yes/no question, but in small talk, they might explain why.

    這其實是個是非題,但閒聊時,對方可能會說明原因。

  • Now, a lot of the time with "Do you...?" questions, we use the weak forms of "do" and "you".

    很多時候,在 Do you... 開頭的問題中,我們會用弱化形式的 do 和 you。

  • The reason why is because "do" and "you" are what we would call "function words"⏤they're not really very important in this sentence.

    這個原因是,do 和 you 是我們所謂的「功能詞」,他們在這句話中並不是很重要。

  • So, we've replaced the vowels with the schwa (ə) sound.

    也就是說,我們用混母音(ə)取代了母音。

  • Do you think; do you think?

    Do you think; do you think?(你認為⋯⋯?)

  • Do you think?

    Do you think?(你認為⋯⋯?)

  • This makes you sound a little bit more like a native.

    這會讓你聽起來更像母語人士一點。

  • You'll also notice I'm dropping the "t" on "it": with it forever.

    你可能也注意到我省略了 it 的 t 音:with it forever。

  • That's just a common native thing to do.

    那只是常見的母語用法。

  • You could say, "Do you think you'll stick with it forever?"

    你可以清楚地發音:Do you think you'll stick with it forever?(你覺得你會永遠堅持下去嗎?)

  • It's entirely up to you what you want to do there.

    你要怎麼發音完全取決於你。

  • It's just my native way of pronouncing it⏤I like to drop t's at the end of words sometimes.

    這只是我母語人士發音的方式,我有時喜歡省略字尾的 t。

  • Oh, OK. Have you always worked there?

    Oh, OK. Have you always worked there?(喔,好,你一直都是在那裡上班嗎?)

  • Have you always worked there?

    你一直都是在那裡工作嗎?

  • And that simply is a way of asking someone if they've done any other jobs in the past, maybe what their first job was.

    而這不過是一種問別人過去是否做過其它工作的簡單方式,或許了解他們的第一份工作。

  • Let's talk about the /kt/ sound; what's that?

    我們來聊聊 /kt/ 這個因,那是什麼?

  • That's what we call a "constant cluster", the k and the t combination at the end of "worked", OK?

    那就是我們所謂的「複輔音」,worked 結尾的 k、t 音組合,懂嗎?

  • I hear lots of different variations of this from my students taking my pronunciation course.

    我從我發音課學生們口中聽到了很多不同的版本。

  • And, uh, I actually did just add a new video to my pronunciation course,

    而我其實剛剛在我發音課程中增加了一部新的影片,

  • all about these constant clusters with [pronunciation] and, you know, things like [pronunciation], and things like that, right?

    全部都是跟這些複輔音有關的內容,好嗎?

  • All of these sounds that happen at the end that are really difficult.

    所有字尾那些難發的音。

  • Now, this one is a very common one: worked.

    Worked 是一個非常普遍的字。

  • We need to create pressure to create that /k/ sound, and then we need to very quickly release that sound to spit that /t/, OK?

    我們需要製造壓力來發出 /k/ 這個聲音上,然後需要非常快速地釋放那個聲音來吐出 /t/ 的音,懂嗎?

  • So, /kt/.

    所以說是 /kt/。

  • Now, when we create the /k/ sound, our tongue is up high, it's kind of bent, and the back is touching the top.

    當我們發 /k/ 聲時,我們的舌頭會高高翹起、有點彎,然後舌根頂著上顎。

  • So, what we quickly need to do is, as soon as we create that /k/ sound, the tongue needs to flick the front to the roof of your mouth, and we create the /t/.

    所以我們製造 /k/ 的音後,要馬上把舌頭彈到你嘴巴上顎前端,接著發出 /t/ 這個音。

  • /kt/, worked, worked.

    /kt/,worked、worked。

  • Their response might just be, "No"⏤now, hopefully, they'll say, "No, I actually did this job before."

    他們的回答可能只是簡短的 No,不過希望對方會說:「不,我其實以前做過這個工作。」

  • But if they don't do that, then say, "Ah, right. Well, what else did you do before this job?" OK?

    但如果他們沒那樣做,那就說:「好吧,那你在做這份工作之前還做過什麼?」,懂嗎?

  • So, always be ready to ask more questions.

    所以說,要隨時準備好多問幾個問題。

  • If they say no, why did they say no?

    如果他們說不,他們是為什麼說不?

  • If they said yes, why did they say yes?

    如果他們說是,為什麼會說是呢?

  • And, also, is there anything you can agree with or relate to that they're saying?

    此外,他們說的話,有什麼是你能同意或者有共鳴的?

  • Maybe you've had a similar situation to what they're talking about.

    也許你也有過對方所講的類似情況。

  • Well, tell them; they want to know.

    那就跟他說,他們會想知道的。

  • So, don't be afraid to talk about things which are similar in your life to what they're saying.

    所以說,不要害怕談論你生活中與他們所說相似的事情。

  • Anyway, that's it for today's video.

    好了,今天的影片就這樣。

  • And, like I said, I do have a pronunciation course, which has over 100 people.

    就像我說的,我有一個發音課程,有超過一百個學員。

  • It's doing really well; I've had some great feedback.

    它非常受歡迎,我也收到一些很棒的回饋。

  • So, if you want to join the course and also have the bonus of talking to me on WhatsApp with voice recordings, then I hope to see you soon.

    所以,如果你想加入課程,還能在 WhatsApp 上用語音和我對話,那麼我希望能盡快見到你。

  • You can go to etjenglish.com and start learning perfect British pronunciation right now.

    你可以前往 etjenglish.com,現在就開始學習完美的英式發音。

  • You might have noticed that this video is available on a Friday.

    你可能已經發現這部影片是在週五上傳的。

  • That's right, I have now changed my days.

    沒錯,我更改我的時程了。

  • I release YouTube videos every Friday now, just because I like Fridaysis that OK?

    我現在每週五上傳 YouTube 影片,只因為我喜歡週五——這是可以的嗎?

  • Anyway, thanks again; I will see you next week.

    總而言之,再次謝謝你們,我們下週見。

  • And cheers, guys; bye.

    大家掰掰,再見了。

Now, I know small talk is really, really horrible; even British people are kind of afraid of it.

我知道閒聊真的、真的很可怕,連英國人都有點懼怕它。

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