Name: 我的朋友認為我和她的男朋友睡覺了 - 問斯蒂芬。 (My Friend Thinks I'm Sleeping With Her Boyfriend • Ask Stephen)
Uploaded: 2020-10-23T20:02:38.000Z
Duration: 7 min 2 s

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You might know me is the guy who gives people advice.

你可能知道我是一個給人建議的人。

Basically, people DME their problems at Stephen Elsie on Instagram and Twitter, and I try my very, very best to solve them.

基本上，人們在Instagram和Twitter上對Stephen Elsie的問題進行DME，而我也會盡我最大的努力去解決它們。

在我們開始之前，快速免責聲明。

Therapists have things like accreditations degrees certificates.

治療師有諸如資格證學位證之類的東西。

I have a major in theater and a really cute dog.

我主修戲劇，還有一隻很可愛的狗。

卡斯莫，你要好好對待好孩子大同。

所以我剛剛在Instagram上收到了一個D M。

This has been very hard for me to process and deal with.

My friend thinks I'm sleeping with her boyfriend.

我的朋友認為我和她的男朋友上床了。

I'm not I would never She confronted me about it and I tried my best to be transparent and prove my innocence.

我不是，我永遠不會，她質問我，我盡力做到透明，證明自己的清白。

She thinks I'm a liar and a great actress.

她認為我是個金光黨，是個偉大的演員。

She started to tell all of our mutual friends about it and thankfully, they don't believe her, but it hurts.

她開始把這件事告訴我們所有共同的朋友，幸好他們不相信她，但這很傷人。

No, that she would try to tarnish my reputation like that.

不，她會試圖玷汙我的名聲這樣的。

I have, like, a million follow up questions after reading this GM.

看完這個GM，我有，一百萬個後續問題。

Luckily, the person who sent it has agreed to get on the phone with me, which is very exciting.

幸運的是，發來的人已經同意和我通電話了，這讓我很興奮。

We're not going to show her face just to preserve anonymity here.

我們不會為了保持匿名而露出她的臉。

Thank you so much for agreeing to get on the phone with me.

Can you just walk me through what happened here?

你能告訴我這裡發生了什麼嗎？

It was during the whole pandemic and the lockdowns.

那是在整個流行病和封鎖期間。

And it was right after restrictions started.

So I'm like, OK, let's just meet up somewhere.

所以我就想，好吧，我們就找個地方見面吧。

We were just kind of gossiping and talking.

And then all of a sudden, she's like, Can you go on your phone?

然後突然間，她就說，你能用手機嗎？

I was like, Okay, he's like go on your Facebook.

我當時想，好吧，他就像去你的Facebook上。

She's like, OK, go on his Facebook account.

她說，好吧，上他的Facebook賬戶。

他是不是發了什麼奇怪的東西？

Like, was he tagged in something she's like, OK, go on your messages.

就像，他被標記的東西，她的樣子，OK，去你的消息。

I was like, Okay, And at this point, I'm just kind of like, What are we actually looking at?

我當時想，好吧，在這一點上，我只是有點像， 我們到底在看什麼？

I'm like, Okay, this is getting weird, but I'm going along.

我想，好吧，這是越來越怪異， 但我要走了。

And I was like, I don't know what you're talking about.

我當時想，我不知道你在說什麼。

And she's like, I know you and him have something going on.

她說："我知道你和他之間有什麼事。

I'm like, you're looking through my app so clearly I have nothing to hide and like and I would never do that.

我很喜歡，你看通過我的應用程序，所以很明顯，我沒有什麼可隱瞞的，喜歡，我永遠不會這樣做。

So does she have any evidence that she would point to to say, like, this is how I know what's happening?

所以她有什麼證據可以指著說，比如說，我就是這樣知道發生了什麼？

The way that she rationalized it was that he had made a weird comment once he was like, Yeah, I could listen to her talk about this for hours.

她合理化的方式是，他曾經說過一句奇怪的話，他說，是啊，我可以聽她說上幾個小時。

Then day before we had met up, he knew about it.

然後在我們見面的前一天，他知道了這件事。

He's like, Hey, I heard that you're coming over.

He sent me a picture of food and I was like, Oh, no, no.

他給我發了一張食物的照片，我當時想，哦，不，不。

I hope you didn't make that today because we're not meeting up till tomorrow.

我希望你今天沒來 因為我們明天才會見面

Apparently, what happens that my name had popped up on his film?

顯然，我的名字出現在他的電影上，會發生什麼？

She's like, Oh, what are you guys talking about?

He's like, Why are you looking at my phone?

他說，你為什麼要看我的手機？

The texting was innocents, but because he got defensive now, she's panicked and I was trying to make her understand that it's not me.

簡訊是無辜的，但因為他現在有了防備，她很慌張，我是想讓她明白不是我的問題。

He's definitely gaslighting her lying and hiding stuff from her.

If you had to take a wild guess, would you guess that maybe this boyfriend is a cheater?

如果讓你胡亂猜測，你會不會猜到可能這個男朋友是個金光黨？

I always got this feeling from him that he wasn't always like the most loyal or the s boyfriend, But they were like, super in love.

我一直有這種感覺 從他身上，他並不總是 像最忠誠或S的男朋友， 但他們一樣，超級愛。

So I was like, so for I'm like, Hey, if it's working out.

所以我很喜歡，所以對於我來說，嘿，如果它的工作了。

I guess something happened during the whole lock down.

我猜在整個封鎖期間發生了一些事情。

She's been going now to your friends and telling all of your friends that this happened.

她現在一直在找你的朋友，告訴你所有的朋友這事。

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我的朋友認為我和她的男朋友睡覺了 - 問斯蒂芬。 (My Friend Thinks I'm Sleeping With Her Boyfriend • Ask Stephen)

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pandemic