It seems less and less people master their emotions.

看來掌握自己情緒的人越來越少了。

They don't run their life.

他們不會管理自己的生活。

They allow life to run there.

他們讓生命在那裡運行。

Their problems are blamed on everyone and everything, but they never take responsibility for their own life.

他們的問題被歸咎於每個人和每件事，但他們從不對自己的生活負責。

Most important, they never take responsibility for how they feel because life happened to you.

最重要的是，他們從不因為生活發生在你身上而對自己的感受負責。

What does life happen for you?

生活中你會發生什麼？

The answer.

答案是：

You give that question.

你給這個問題。

Who shape your life?

誰塑造了你的生活？

Do you believe everything happens for a reason that benefits you in some way?

你相信每件事的發生都是有原因的，在某種程度上對你有利嗎？

Or do you believe life is hard and you are at the mercy of a little thing called luck?

還是說，你相信生活很難，你會被一種叫做運氣的小東西所擺佈？

What if every painful experience in your life was actually sent to benefit you to make you stronger, to make you wiser to make you better?

如果你生命中的每一次痛苦經歷，其實都是為了讓你受益，讓你變得更強大，讓你變得更聰明，讓你變得更好，那會怎樣？

What if the challenge you are facing was sent to make you stronger?

如果你所面臨的挑戰是為了讓你變得更強大而派來的呢？

What if the difficult person was actually sent to teach you something?

如果那個難纏的人真的是派來教你的呢？

Compassion, patience, a reminder of how not to treat people.

慈悲，耐心，提醒你不要待人接物。

What if the loss you experienced was said to make you appreciate life more?

如果說你經歷的失落讓你更加珍惜生命呢？

The way we feel about everything in our life is our life.

我們對生活中一切事物的感受，就是我們的生活。

The truth is, every human being decides how they are going to live their life because we all decide what meaning we give Thio each and every moment in our lives.

事實上，每個人都決定了自己的生活方式，因為我們都決定了自己在生活中每時每刻賦予Thio什麼意義。

We do not decide what shows up, but we do decide how we show up way.

我們不能決定什麼出現，但我們可以決定如何出現的方式。

Do not decide the circumstances that arrive each day, but we absolutely decide how we're going to react to each circumstance.

不要決定每天到來的環境，但我們絕對決定我們要如何應對每一個環境。

There's no such thing as actual reality.

沒有什麼實際的現實。

There's Onley, our perception of reality.

有Onley，我們對現實的認知。

Think about that.

你想想看

There was no such thing as reality.

現實中沒有這樣的事情。

There is on Lee your version of it.

有上李你的版本。

If you think about anything or any event, your version of it or your opinion of it will be completely different.

如果你思考任何事情或任何事件，你對它的版本或你對它的看法會完全不同。

Toe.

趾頭。

Many other people two people could attend the same event, see the same things, speak to the same people and leave when absolutely opposite thoughts about that event.

很多其他的人兩個人可以參加同樣的活動，看到同樣的東西，對同樣的人說話，離開時絕對相反的想法，該事件。

If they like the people they spoke Thio.

如果他們喜歡的人他們說話Thio。

If they enjoy the event, how could this be?

如果他們喜歡這個活動，怎麼會這樣呢？

It was the same event.

這是同一個事件。

It's an interpretation, meaning both people gave the event is different.

這是一種解釋，也就是說兩個人給的事件是不一樣的。

That meaning is based on a life of conditioning.

這種意義是建立在調劑生活的基礎上的。

Ah, life of absorbing others opinions and they're forming our own, but but the point is way.

啊，生活中吸收別人的意見，他們在形成我們自己的意見，但但重點是方式。

Decide that meaning, Bob Marley said.

決定這個意思，鮑勃-馬利說。

Some people dance in the rain, others just get wet.

有的人在雨中跳舞，有的人卻只是被淋溼。

The same is true for everything in life.

生活中的一切也是如此。

Some people, drugs through life.

有些人，吸毒過日子。

They get by others live life.

他們過著別人的生活。

They make the most of it.

他們充分利用了這一點。

They appreciate the little things, which makes a huge difference in their lives.

他們欣賞小事，這對他們的生活有很大的影響。

But don't worry about what other people did.

但不用擔心別人做什麼。

What do you do?

你是做什麼的？

Do you appreciate all the good in your life?

你是否欣賞你生命中所有的美好？

Do you look for the good each day?

你每天都在尋找美好的事物嗎？

Do you wake up expecting great things that come every day?

你是否每天醒來都在期待著偉大的事情到來？

Do you feel compassion when someone is acting in a way that is not to your standards?

當有人的行為不符合你的標準時，你會感到同情嗎？

Do you believe every tough moment in your life was sent to make you stronger and in some way improve your life?

你相信你生命中的每一個艱難時刻都是為了讓你變得更強大，在某種程度上改善你的生活而派來的嗎？

Every meaning you give to everything in your life makes your life choose empowering meanings because the better your meanings, the better your life, the stronger your meetings, stronger your life.

你給生活中的每一件事賦予的意義，都會讓你的生活選擇賦能的意義，因為你的意義越好，你的生活越好，你的會議越強，你的生活越強。

It's our decisions, not our conditions that control our lives and our destiny.

控制我們的生活和命運的是我們的決定，而不是我們的條件。