Name: 人生必須要做的5個重要選擇。 (The 5 Important Choices You Have to Make in Life)
Uploaded: 2020-10-10T19:55:41.000Z
Duration: 10 min 9 s

現在進行式

If you are watching this video before going to bed, you probably have already taken 35

如果你在睡覺前看這個視頻，你可能已經採取了35

過去簡單式

thousand decisions throughout the day, and 226 out of them were on food alone.

整天千篇一律的決定，其中有226個是關於食物的。

基礎數量詞

And now, think about how many decisions you take a week, how about a month, how about

而現在，想想你一週要做多少決定，一個月如何，怎麼樣？

If you give it a closer look, life is all about decisions, and our day to day choice

如果你仔細觀察，人生就是要做決定，我們每天的選擇

what you are going to decide today will be your life tomorrow.

你今天要決定的，將是你明天的生活。

however, not all decisions are equal, deciding which college to enroll in is far more important

然而，並不是所有的決定都是平等的，決定報考哪所大學要重要得多。

than whether you should get a latte or cappuccino.

比你是否應該得到一個拿鐵或卡布奇諾。

But even among all the crucial decisions, Some of them are far more important because

但是，即使在所有關鍵的決定中，有些決定也要重要得多，因為

they influence every other decision that you take.

它們影響著你所做的每一個其他決定。

so in this video, we are going to take a look at 5 most important decisions you will ever

所以，在這個視頻中，我們要看看5個最重要的決定，你將永遠。

If you chose them poorly, you will probably live a miserable and mediocre life.

如果你選擇不好，你很可能會活得很痛苦，很平庸。

First, how would you let people treat you?

首先，你會讓別人如何對待你？

A wise man once said: people are going to treat you the way you allow them to do so.

有位智者曾經說過：人們會以你允許的方式對待你。

there are essentially two types of people, one who is always respected and the other

People feel comfortable putting him down and unsurprisingly, its the nice guy all the time,

人們覺得把他放下來很舒服，不出所料，其一直是好人。

We make this decision unconsciously because it's mostly based on how are we raised when

我們無意識地做出這個決定，因為它主要是基於我們是如何被撫養的，當

As little kids, we know little about this world, and our personality gets shaped by

作為一個小孩子，我們對這個世界瞭解甚少，我們的性格也會被塑造出來

But that doesn't mean you can't change that, just because you had overprotective

但這並不意味著你不能改變這一點，只是因為你有過度的保護性

I am not suggesting you to start being rude or aggressive, but sometimes, to be liked

我不是建議你開始變得粗魯或咄咄逼人，但有時，要被人喜歡。

or accepted by society, we chose to be mistreated.

或被社會接受，我們選擇了被虐待。

if you chose dignity, that doesn't mean you will never be accepted by anyone again.

如果你選擇了尊嚴，這並不意味著你將永遠不會再被任何人接受。

But you are going to behave in such a way that if someone is going to mess with you,

但你要表現的是，如果有人要惹你。

you are going to bite them, you aren't just going to accept it and swallow it.

你要去咬他們，你不是接受了就吞下去。

You are going to stand for yourself, and let everyone know that your dignity is above them,

你要站在自己的立場上，讓大家知道，你的尊嚴高於他們。

and if they aren't comfortable with that, it's their problem.

如果他們不舒服，這是他們的問題。

And here is why this is important, every time someone bites you and you don't do anything

這就是為什麼這一點很重要，每次有人咬你而你什麼都不做的時候

about it, you are going to spend the rest of your day imagining different scenarios

關於它，你要花你的一天的其餘部分想象不同的場景

in your mind of how you should have taken revenge.

在你的腦海中，你應該如何報仇。

You will eventually be living in the past.

However, If you start being extra aggressive, you will push everyone away, which isn't

但是，如果你開始特別積極，你會把所有人都趕走，這不是

really a good idea either, so start by learning to say No for example.

真的是個好主意，所以從學會說No開始，比如。

Remember, Being respected and being aggressive are two different things.

記住，被尊重和被侵略是兩回事。

Something you don't like to do, somewhere you don't wanna go with friends, something

一些你不喜歡做的事，一些你不想和朋友去的地方，一些...

Would you rather live today or tomorrow or yesterday?

你是願意活在今天還是明天還是昨天？

that sounds a little strange, how can you possibly live in the past or the future, let

這聽起來有點奇怪，你怎麼可能活在過去或未來，讓

You are in the office doing your job, you are happy and excited for the day.

你在辦公室裡做著自己的工作，你很高興，也很興奮地度過了一天。

But for some petty reason, you get into a conflict with your boss or colleague.

但因為一些小事，你和老闆或同事發生了衝突。

You might say some nonsense to each other, but it doesn't last long.

你可能會對對方說一些廢話，但不會持續很久。

Now, the conflict has ended, but you can't stop stressing about it, for the rest of the

現在，衝突已經結束了，但你不能不緊張，在剩下的時間裡，你不能不緊張。

day, you will be thinking and imagining, why didn't you say this instead of that, why

一天，你會思考和想象，你為什麼不說這個而說那個，為什麼

didn't you punch him right into his face.

The truth about life is that you can't avoid problems, you can't avoid conflicts.

生活的真相是，你無法避免問題，你無法避免衝突。

They just happen to be an essential part of life.

它們剛好是生活中必不可少的一部分。

but when you are bad at controlling your thoughts and emotions.

但當你不善於控制自己的思想和情緒時。

Again you end up making unconscious decision to live either in the past or the future and

你又會無意識地決定活在過去或未來，並

There is nothing more miserable than that.

However, the good news is, that's completely under your control, you can decide to live

然而，好消息是，這完全在你的控制之下，你可以決定生活中的

No matter what happens, you aren't going to let that thing to get into your mind.

不管發生什麼事，你都不會讓那個東西進入你的大腦。

it's a future that you are worried about, it might never happen, in fact, you might

你擔心的是未來，它可能永遠不會發生，事實上，你可能會。

not even live to see that, and if its the past that you are stressed about, you can't

連活都活不下去了，如果是過去的事情，你緊張，你就不能。

bring it back!  so why sacrifice the present for the past

Thirdly, how will you play the game of money  Most people make this choice unconsciously

三、你將如何玩轉金錢遊戲 大多數人都會不自覺地做出這種選擇。

and then wonder when they are already down the road, how on earth did they end up in

當他們已經走下坡路的時候，又會想，他們到底是怎麼落到了

a cycle where all that they do is work to pay the bills, in other words - survive.

一個循環，他們所做的就是工作來支付賬單，換句話說，就是生存。

And that's simply because its a choice that you have to make but you never get financially

這只是因為它的一個選擇，你必須做出，但你永遠不會得到經濟上的

educated, it's not taught in school nor universities or anywhere else.

受過教育的人，學校、大學或其他任何地方都不會教。

Money is a game, and some people are exceptional at it, and some are extremely bad, that's

錢是一種遊戲，有些人在遊戲中很出色，有些人則非常糟糕，這就是

why 8 richest people in the world have the same wealth as the poorest 50% percent.

為什麼世界上最富有的8個人和最貧窮的50%的人擁有同樣的財富。

and the rest of us are somewhere in the middle. and if you aren't financially literate,

而我們其餘的人都在中間的某個地方。 如果你不懂財務，

where do you think you are going to be in this equation.

你認為你會在這個等式中的哪裡。

Everyone has to make a choice whether he or she is going to play this game defense or

每個人都要做出選擇，是要玩這個遊戲防守還是

Most of the people are doing their best not to drown, for them, money is a limited

大多數人都在盡最大努力不被淹死，對於他們來說，錢是一個有限的

On the other side, there are people who believe that the only limited resource that they have

另一方面，也有人認為，他們所擁有的唯一有限的資源就是

is time, so instead of spending another 2 hours in the shop to find milk that's 20

是時間，所以，與其再花2個小時在商店裡找20的牛奶，不如花2個小時在商店裡找。

cents cheaper than the one he usually buys, he keeps growing so that an hour of his time

比他平時買的便宜幾毛錢，他不斷地增長，所以他的一個小時的時間

If you are in a dark financially position, you probably playing it wrong, maybe its time

如果你的財務狀況很糟糕，你可能玩錯了，也許是時候了。

No matter who you are, rich or poor, famous or unknown, strong or weak, you can't play

不管你是誰，不管你是富人還是窮人，不管你是名不見經傳，不管你是強者還是弱者，你都不能玩耍

instead of watching this video, you could have done all sort of things, but you sacrificed

而不是看這個視頻， 你可以做所有的事情， 但你犧牲了。

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