Name: 被討厭的勇氣｜日本的生活｜海外女孩Ep.19S2 (The Courage to be Disliked | Life in Japan | Girl Abroad Ep.19S2)
Uploaded: 2020-10-08T19:27:02.000Z
Duration: 9 min 50 s

Episode 19 Season Two Good morning, everyone.

過去簡單式

I'm going to be doing a one on one call with somebody who is thinking of moving to Japan s So I'm checking everything right now.

我要和一個想去日本的人進行一對一的通話 所以我現在正在檢查所有的事情。

Actually, don't have much time to talk to the camera after 30 minutes, I have one more call and then I'm going to go meet Beauty at Ueno Station because he's coming back.

其實，30分鐘後就沒多少時間跟鏡頭說話了，我還有一個電話，然後我要去上野站見美女，因為他要回來了。

He's been gone for, like, three days, and it's been really quiet in here.

他已經走了，像，三天， 它已經在這裡真的很安靜。

So we're going to t g I Fridays, and we're gonna get my favorite meal because we're going to celebrate the launch of my course.

所以，我們要去T G I週五， 我們會得到我最喜歡的食物 因為我們要慶祝我的課程的推出。

I have a group the size of a small classroom, which is awesome.

我的小組有一個小教室那麼大，真是厲害。

All right, so I'm done with my coaching calls.

好了，我的教練電話已經打完了。

I had to this morning and they were so inspiring you guys, I said this in my instagram stories, but you guys are Spitfires, like the people that I talked Thio have so much drive and passion and just realizing that there's just so much more that they want to do in their lives, and it's just so exciting to see people get out of that loop of life and just get out there and do the thing.

我不得不今天早上，他們是如此鼓舞人心的你們，我在我的instagram故事中說過，但你們是噴火機，就像我談Thio的人有這麼多的動力和激情，只是意識到他們的生活中還有很多事情想做，看到人們走出生活的圈子，只是走出去做這件事是如此令人興奮。

When you're working towards something, you're always going to feel that fear.

當你在為某件事情而努力時，你總是會感到恐懼。

But the more steps you take in it, the more that fear and that uncertainty disappeared.

但你在其中邁出的步子越多，那種恐懼和不確定性就越消失。

I don't know about you, but I'm like a crazy and path like I I can feel the energy through the screen.

我不知道你怎麼樣，但我就像一個瘋子和路徑一樣，我可以通過螢幕感受到能量。

That's how sensitive I am and so I can see these people's wants and desires and their passions and they want to go for it.

我就是這麼敏感，所以我能看到這些人的需求和慾望，以及他們的激情，他們想去做。

And I just It's just so much energy being exchanged through a screen and it's just it's a very exciting thing for me and this is the more I do it, the more I realized this is what I meant to dio.

我只是... ...它只是這麼多的能量被交換 通過螢幕，它只是... ...這是一個非常令人興奮的事情對我來說，這是我做的越多， 我越意識到這是我的意思是dio。

This makes my heart feel so good, really long conversation here.

這讓我的心裡感覺好爽，在這裡真的是長話短說。

So we're gonna go to Ueno and pick up new G and just have a day in Japan.

所以我們要去上野拿新G，就在日本玩一天。

When things got to be too much, I was disliked.

I met my husband online and got engaged in two weeks.

我在網上認識了我的丈夫，兩個星期就訂婚了。

我在視頻中表現出更多的情感。

I'd like to think the one thing that got me to a place of fulfillment is because I had the courage to be disliked.

我想，讓我有成就感的一件事，是因為我有被人嫌棄的勇氣。

I learned from my past instead of letting it dictate my future.

我從我的過去中學習，而不是讓它決定我的未來。

And I embraced more uncertainty by taking the leap.

而我通過飛躍，接受了更多的不確定性。

And if I didn't need others expectations of me, I just didn't care.

如果我不需要別人對我的期望，我也就不在乎了。

The thing is, nobody can stop you from doing what you want to dio.

問題是，沒有人可以阻止你做你想做的事dio。

We're gonna Ueno Park right now and Ueno Park way I've been to so many times because you probably have seen me everywhere.

我們現在要去上野公園，上野公園的路我已經去過很多次了，因為你可能到處都能看到我。

But this building is really French looking.

但這棟樓真的是法國人的樣子。

E think we're going to go here for a coffee?

Once I started to do what I felt aligned with me, whether it was changing jobs or moving across the world Opportunities and doors started to open And I think living abroad strengthened that attribute of mine.

一旦我開始做我覺得與我一致的事情，不管是換工作還是搬到世界各地，機會和大門開始打開，我認為在國外生活加強了我的這種屬性。

So ask yourself, Do you really feel this way?

所以問問自己，你真的有這種感覺嗎？

Or are you afraid that people aren't gonna like you anymore?

Thes air all like the rooftop stuff like it looks like they're doing some construction.

這些空氣都像屋頂上的東西，看起來像他們在做一些建設。

But like, look at all the old roof, um, equipment and stuff.

但像，看看所有的舊屋頂， 嗯，設備和東西。

E路發現了一個庫存，一個池田殼。

I think a lot of the times people are afraid of disappointing others not pleasing others, not making the whole damn world happy when that's so unrealistic.

我想很多時候人們都怕讓別人失望不討好，怕不能讓整個該死的世界幸福，而這是那麼的不現實。

People don't want to move to Japan and keep saying they can't over and over again, but they can.

大家都不想搬到日本去，一直反覆說不能搬，但是可以。

They're just afraid to take the leap and just don't do it.

他們只是不敢躍躍欲試，就不做了。

It's the same for anything we desire in our lives.

對於我們生活中的任何願望都是一樣的。

Whether we want to start a YouTube channel or enter a singing competition or sell your art or make new friends, we just don't do it because we're so afraid of judgment.

不管我們是想開個YouTube頻道，還是想參加歌唱比賽，還是想賣藝，還是想結交新朋友，我們就是不做，因為我們太害怕別人的評判。

So if you're in a way node on the weekends or during a holiday, they always have food, stations or food.

所以，如果你在週末或節假日的方式節點，他們總是有食物、車站或食物。

I couldn't even English when I was coaching.

我當教練的時候連英語都不會。

They always have these little food compartments or places to go, and you could get tons of stuff.

他們總是有這些小的食物隔間或地方去，你可以得到大量的東西。

But it looks like the kind of downsized a little bit because of the coronavirus.

但看起來因為冠狀病毒的緣故，那種規模縮小了一點。

Yeah, that one looks like it has no I though.

是啊，那一個看起來像它沒有I雖然。

The pink one pink one has a lot of Iraq slash Maybe it's a girl.

粉色的那個粉色的有很多伊拉克的斜線也許是個女孩。

The dads like steering and my little girl's peddling.

爸爸們喜歡轉向，我的小姑娘也喜歡兜售。

Are you going to do that with your daughter someday?

你打算有一天和你女兒一起做嗎？

So she's so tiny Kid, you just gonna look up coffee shops right now?

她這麼小，小子，你現在就去查咖啡店？

People almost hit each other and kids screaming, and that was always gonna always it's gonna hit.

人們幾乎打了對方和孩子們的尖叫，這總是會總是它會打。

I'm surprised nobody has gotten any kind of accident in this amount of crowd next time we'll have to do this, right?

竟然沒有人在這麼多人的情況下出什麼意外，下次還要這樣做吧？

哦，我很榮幸能成為你的妻子。

Bottom line, we have to have the courage to be disliked, judged, disappoint others.

一句話，我們要有被人不喜歡、被人評價、讓人失望的勇氣。

並真正做我們覺得應該做的事情。

Because imagine all the things you'll accomplish if you just don't give a crap e love what you do.

因為想象一下，如果你只是不屑一顧e愛你所做的事情，你會完成所有的事情。