Time is the most valuable resource we all have.

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And what makes it so different is that it's a scarce resource, it's not infinite.

時間是我們大家最寶貴的資源。

Every second you waste isn't recoverable.

而它的不同之處在於，它是一種稀缺資源，它不是無限的。

Unlike money, when you can work hard and make more if it.

你浪費的每一秒鐘都是無法挽回的。

It doesn't work the same with time.

不像錢，當你能努力工作，如果能賺更多。

You have to be extremely careful about how you spend it.

時間長了，效果就不一樣了。

And every day or even every minute we have to make that decision on how to spend our time.

你必須非常謹慎地對待你的花費。

And the problem with that is we are surrounded by so many distractions that are draining

每一天，甚至每一分鐘，我們都要做出決定，如何度過我們的。

our time and energy.

時候。

1. Arguments

而問題是，我們周圍有太多的干擾，讓人疲憊不堪。

If you ever have been in an argument, you know how difficult it is to change someone's mind.

我們的時間和精力。

And it doesn't usually have to do with the facts, even if the facts are on your side, people often do not want to admit that they are wrong, it makes them inferior in front of others.

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To avoid the feeling of embarrassment, we kinda stick to what we believe, even deep inside, we know that we are wrong.

如果你曾經有過爭論，你就會知道改變一個人的想法有多難。

Of course, that is not right, and it has to do more with our egos, but that's the nature of humans.

心中。

You probably have been in such circumstances, where you were confronted by all the facts,

而且它通常與事實無關，即使事實站在你這邊。

but you simply said: I am going to stick to my opinion anyway.

人往往不願意承認自己錯了，這樣會讓自己變得自卑。

You would be lucky if that's how an argument ends because often someone will get offended throughout the argument, which happens pretty much every time.

別人的。

What I came to realize is that arguments in most cases aren't worth it.

為了避免尷尬的感覺，我們有點堅持自己的信念，甚至是深層的

Ask yourself, why would you argue with anyone at all, probably to prove your point or convince someone else of a different opinion.

內心，我們知道自己錯了。

It might give you an ego boost for a moment but at the cost of damaging your relationship with that person.

當然，這是不對的，這更多的是與我們的自我有關，但這就是本性啊

However, I want to make it clear that arguing and debating are two different things, discussing or exchanging opinions is great; there is absolutely nothing with that.

的人類。

But the moment it turns into an argument, it will probably offend one of you.

你可能也曾在這樣的情況下，面對所有的事實。

2. Unhealthy lifestyle

但你只是說。我還是要堅持我的觀點。

Pulling out that cigar might make you look cool or regularly drinking coke is satisfying.

如果爭論就這樣結束，你就很幸運了，因為經常有人會被觸怒

But to be honest, you only have around 80 years at best if you are in the US, and if you think about it, it's not much, And to be more practical, in the first 10 to 15 years, you are just a kid who is just learning how to live, and in the last 10 to 15 years, you will probably only be surviving.

在整個爭論過程中，這幾乎每次都會發生。

So what's the point of ruining little time you have on earth.

我認識到的是，在大多數情況下，爭論是不值得的。

An unhealthy diet will only make that time shorter and painful.

問問你的，你為什麼要和別人爭論呢，可能是為了證明你的觀點或者說服

There is nothing wrong with a slice of pizza with a soft drink time to time; you have to try things in life; you have to treat yourself all the pleasures that life has to offer; you are going to die anyway.

別人的不同意見。

However, what's the point of living miserably if you have got such a limited time.

它可能會讓你的自尊心得到一時的提升，但代價是破壞了你們的關係。

There is just so much to enjoy life, and to damage your health for the sake of some short term pleasure that will only make you miserable in the long run do not worth at all.

與該人。

The little choices you make every day are going to add up, and over time, they are going to have a huge impact on your life.

但是，我想說明的是，爭論和辯論是兩回事，討論

If you want to stay healthy, you should not consume more than six teaspoons of sugar a day, almost everything you eat or drink has some sugar, so that amount quickly adds up.

或交換意見是很好的，這絕對沒有什麼。

A single coca-cola can have ten teaspoons of sugar.

但一變成爭論，很可能就會得罪其中一個人。

Maybe if you exceed that amount once in a while, it won't be a problem, but if you drink a can a day.

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It easily adds up!

不健康的生活方式

In a single month, you are going to consumer 300 more teaspoons of sugar than you should or a 1.26 Kilograms.

掏出那根雪茄可能會讓你看起來很酷，或者經常喝可樂也很滿足。

Your immune system does need sugar to survive; however, having more sugar than you suppose to have can literally destroy you.

但說實話，如果你在美國，你最多隻有80年左右的時間，如果是

Besides the fact that it can lead to obesity, it would impact your skin because it dehydrates the skin and accelerates aging.

你想想看，這並不多，而且更實際的是，在前10個月裡。

Even a single can of coke a day can lead to high blood pleasure, which is going to increase your chances of a heart attack.

到15年，你只是一個剛剛學會生活的孩子，而在過去的10到。

And I didn't even mention its side effects such as kidney failure and cancer.

15年，你可能只能活下來。

Imagine when you are addicted to junk food, what happens when you consume junk food every single day.

所以，毀掉你在地球上不多的時間有什麼意義。

Maybe when you are a teenager, young and strong, you might not realize the impacts immediately, but as you begin to age slowly, you are going to get miserable.

不健康的飲食只會讓這段時間變得更短，更痛苦。

3. Chasing that one girl

偶爾吃一塊披薩配一杯汽水沒有什麼不妥，你得要

Falling in love can be both great and painful.

嘗試生活中的事情，你要善待自己生活中的所有樂趣。

Living with a partner who both loves and supports you is probably one of the best things that could happen to you.

反正你也是要死的。

But when you love someone who does not love you back is absolutely horrible.

然而，如果你有這麼有限的時間，那你活得再苦又有什麼意義。

You know that moment when you forget to breathe, but you won't forget to shoot her a message with a good morning.

享受生活的東西實在太多，為了一些短暫的利益而損害自己的健康

That moment you can't stop thinking about her when you don't see any purpose to continue living without her.

長期的快樂，只會讓你痛苦，從長遠來看，根本不值得。

When you try your best to please her, but she is just not into you for whatever reason.

你每天所做的小選擇都會累積起來，隨著時間的推移，它們會成為你的生活的一部分。

In fact, after some time, you realize that all this time, she was with someone else while you were trying to please here.

以對你的生活產生巨大的影響。

Right here is a punch to your feelings, you slide down into depression.

如果你想保持健康，你不應該消耗超過六茶匙的糖，一個。

Here is how you should act in such circumstances.

一天，幾乎所有你吃的或喝的東西都有一些糖，所以這個量很快就會增加。

Find some courage and make a move!

一瓶可口可樂可以有十季的糖分。

If it works out, good for you, if it doesn't, pull out a joke, just accept the fact that she is just not into you and move on!

如果你偶爾超過這個量，也許不會有什麼問題，但如果你喝的是

There are a gazillion number of other girls who would like you for who you are.

一天一罐。

And they are more attractive.

很容易就加起來了!

Not a single girl worth your life.

在一個月內，你將消費300多茶匙的糖比你應該。

Whatever feelings you have for whatever girl is going to fade away over time, especially if you move on and continue living.

或1.26公斤。

4. Being Too Damn Serious

您的免疫系統確實需要糖分來維持生存，但是，您的糖分比您想象的要多。

My grandfather once told me, life is too short to be serious, take everything with a grand of salt, and have fun.

擁有可以從字面上摧毀你。

Of course, you have to be serious from time to time, but do not try to be a perfectionist, no matter what you do, not everything is going to go according to your plan and the way you imagine the world to be.

除了會導致肥胖外，還會影響你的皮膚，因為它會脫水。

The world is a mess, life is a mess, and that's simply a fact, instead of getting annoying by it, try to enjoy it, learn to have fun in the middle of this mess.

肌膚，加速衰老。

You had a bad moment, someone offended you, swallow it and move on!

哪怕是每天一罐可樂，也會導致血液快感高漲，這是要增加的。

It fascinates me when people say.

你的心臟病發作的機會。

I had a bad day because I had a bad interaction in the morning.

我甚至沒有提到它的副作用，如腎衰竭和癌症。

That was in the morning; you have the rest of the day.

試想一下，當你沉迷於垃圾食品時，當你每天都食用垃圾食品時，會發生什麼？

I remember reading a quote somewhere on the internet.

單日。

You have $86,400 in your account, and someone stole $10 from you.

也許當你還是一個少年，年輕力壯的時候，你可能不會馬上意識到這種影響。

Would you be upset and throw all of the $86,390 away in hopes of getting back at the person that took your $10?

但當你開始慢慢變老時，你會變得很痛苦。

Or move on and live?

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Right, move on, and live.

追求那一個女孩

See, we have 86,400 seconds every day, so don't let someone's negative 10 seconds ruin the rest of the 86,390.

戀愛是偉大的，也是痛苦的。

Don't sweat the small stuff; life is bigger than that.

與一個既愛你又支持你的伴侶生活在一起，可能是最好的事情之一。

5. living for the sake of money

可能發生在你身上。

A lot of you might disagree with me, especially when on this channel we talk a lot about money.

但當你愛上一個不愛你的人時，他不回愛你是絕對可怕的。

Of course, when you are in a desperate position where bill collectors are knocking on your door, the only thing you would want is some cash to keep them away.

你知道，當你忘記呼吸的那一刻，但你不會忘記給她發個消息

However, when your entire life's focus is about making more and more money, when you measure everything in financial terms.

與早安。

Life gets really boring, and I am saying that base on personal experience.

那一刻，你無法停止想她 當你看不到任何繼續下去的目的的時候

The point isn't that you should stop being responsible financially and spend like there is no tomorrow.

沒有她的生活。

But rather don't dime and nickel with everything.

當你盡力討好她，但她就是不喜歡你，不管什麼原因。

The matter of the fact is, one day, you are going to leave this beautiful world and leave everything behind.

其實，過了一段時間，你才發現，一直以來，她都和別人在一起，而

So the only thing that matters is how well you lived.

你想在這裡取悅。

The people you met, the experience you have had, all the good things you have done, all the people you have helped, the impact you had on other people's lives: your family, your children whom you have raised.

就在這裡給你的感情一拳，你就會滑落到抑鬱症。

Work hard, but at the same time, spend time with your family, kids, friends.

以下是你在這種情況下應該如何行動。

It's going to make your life much more purposeful.

鼓起勇氣，行動起來吧！

Be financially responsible, but never let the money be a wall in front of you that you can't see anything beyond it.

如果成功了，對你有好處，如果失敗了，就開個玩笑，接受這個事實吧。

Life is much more than that.

她只是不喜歡你，然後繼續前進!

Of course, if we are talking about all the things that do not worth in life, then the list is definitely going to be beyond these five things.

有無數的其他女孩會喜歡你，因為你是誰。

One of the best ways is definitely to talk to people who are much elder than you, who could share their life experiences.

而且他們更有吸引力。

Sometimes we prioritize family over friends or money over social life but end up a bit miserable at the end of the journey.

沒有一個女孩值得你這樣做。

The wisdom lies in learning the lessons early in life, learning from those who have made these mistakes, and taking a better path in life.

無論你對哪個女孩有什麼感情，都會隨著時間的推移而淡化，尤其是

I hope you guys have enjoyed this video.

如果你繼續前進，繼續生活。

Make sure you give it a thumbs up and hit that subscribe button and the bell besides so that the next video appears right on your homepage.

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Thanks for watching and until next time.

太他媽認真了 我爺爺曾對我說過，人生太短了。