AccordingtoBrownandLevinson, whohavechangedtheconceptofpolitenessyoufindtryingtoexplaineverythingit's goingtotakelikeforever, so I'llmakeitasshortaspossibleinmyownway.
Soallhumanbeingshavetwobasicdesires.
Positivefaceandnegativeface.
Toputintheeasiestwerepositivefaces, a desireforapproval, sodesiretobeliked, accepted, sympathized, care, complimented a orinterestedintheiroldpositiveface.
Forexample, imagineyou'rewearing a newshirtthatyoubowyesterdayandgoingtoschoolandseeyourfriends.
Whatkindofdesirewouldyouhave?
Infatuation.
Probably.
Youwantyourfriendstopayattentiontonewshirtsandsaythingslike, Well, youbought a newshirt.
I loveit.
Thatkindoffeelingiscalledpositivefaceover.
Imagineyougotsickandcannotgotoschool.
You'restayingyourroomalldaylongandoneofthedesiresyouwouldhave a nestsituationisthatyouwantyourfriendstocareaboutyoubeingsick.
Sobasedonthistheory, I wouldsayJapanesepeoplearepoliteintermsoffnegativeploynous.
Ifyou'refamiliarwithJapaneseculture, youknowthatJapanesepeopleapologize a lotwhentheyask a favorwherewhentheyinterruptothersandtheytrynottobetoointrusivebecausetheycare a lotforothersthattheyface a desiretobefreefrominterruption.
But I wouldntsayJapanesepeoplearethatplightintermsofpositiveplanus.
Japanesepeopleandtheyaskyouaboutyourlife, family, girlfriendorboyfriendmoreoftenthatJapanesepeopledobecausetheyputmoreimportanceonpositiveface, a desiretobecaredorinterestedin.
So I brieflyintroducedtheplanettheory, but I knowit's nottheeasytounderstandthistheory.
I meanme a wholeweektofullyunderstandthetheoryaboutifyouareneverseenthisstufffurther, researchersrecommenditbecausethat's goingtogiveyou a newperspectiveonpoliteness.