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  • Hey, it's Marie Forleo, and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be if you want to create

  • a business and life you love.

  • Now, if money is an area of your life that you want to get better at, today's show is

  • a must watch.

  • David Bach is one of the most trusted financial experts, and bestselling financial authors

  • of our time.

  • He's written nine consecutive, New York Times Bestsellers, with over seven million copies

  • in print.

  • Including the titles, Smart Women Finish Rich, The Automatic Millionaire, and Start Late,

  • Finish Rich.

  • In addition to his books, David has helped millions through his seminars, speeches, and

  • media appearances.

  • He's the co-founder of AE Wealth Management, one of America's fastest growing financial

  • planning firms, and the founder of Finish Rich Media, a website dedicated to revolutionizing

  • how people learn about money.

  • David, thank you so much for coming back.

  • You know how much I adore you.

  • I'm so excited to be back with you.

  • Thank you for having me back.

  • First of all, The Latte Factor.

  • The Latte Factor.

  • This book is amazing.

  • I texted David after I read an advance copy and it made me cry at the end.

  • We're going to talk about that.

  • I highly, highly recommend this book for you, and for everyone you know.

  • David's been on the show before.

  • We've talked about money before.

  • It's one of my favorite topics in the world.

  • And, this book is perfect.

  • Especially, I feel like, for people who are intimidated by money, or they're afraid to

  • dive in, or everything just feels so overwhelming.

  • Books that are 600 pages, which again, I've read a lot of them.

  • Even thicker books of yours, that are full and comprehensive.

  • This one, you can read in basically an hour, an hour and a half, and it is life changing.

  • Before we dive into money, I actually want to talk more about the book itself, and books

  • themselves.

  • As you know, I'm at the tail end, my book will be out September 10th.

  • Everything is Figureoutable.

  • My goodness people, lessons–– Great title, by the way.

  • Thank you.

  • I'm so excited for you.

  • Thank you.

  • Lessons upon lessons upon lessons.

  • And I wanted to highlight this, because I don't think people understand.

  • You had...

  • How long have you wanted to write this book?

  • 14 years.

  • 14 years.

  • Literally from the moment I did a show with Oprah, on the Automatic Millionaire, in which

  • we talked about on a previous show with you.

  • We did an entire segment on the Latte Factor.

  • Together, Oprah and I.

  • We did a review of a young woman, who didn't believe she could save any money.

  • Showed what her latte factor, and showed, on stage, what it could be worth.

  • That reveal was where we pulled back a sheet that was covering over a quarter of a million

  • dollars in cash.

  • And the audience did exactly that.

  • It was real money.

  • I really said, I'm saying sober, I'm like, “This is real money.”

  • It was that aha moment.

  • And I basically came home and I was like, “I need to figure out a way to write a story

  • that's shorter.

  • That's simpler.

  • That's easier.

  • A parable."

  • I literally said to my publisher, “I want to write the who moved my cheese of money.

  • I want to write a book that...

  • 98% of people won't read a book on money, I want to write a tiny story.”

  • They were like, "Yeah, yeah.

  • No.

  • No.

  • Not so much."

  • Right.

  • I kept having this idea, and it kept, year after year, throwing it back out there.

  • They'd say, “No, not so much.”

  • That's what happens sometimes, by the way.

  • People think, “Oh you're an artist.

  • You've created a certain amount of success, and then people just say yes to you.”

  • But, it's not always what happens.

  • I wrote seven more books before I finally did this one.

  • Again, guys, like David Bach, nine consecutive New York Times Bestsellers.

  • Millions and millions of copies that he's sold.

  • And his publisher still said, “No, I don't think so.”

  • You actually took a different approach with this, right?

  • You said, “This is the first book that you wrote first, before selling it.”

  • That's exactly right.

  • I finally, I reached that point.

  • Sometimes you have a dream, and after you keep hearing no and you keep hearing no, that

  • dream sort of dies off.

  • What I always tell people, “If it keeps coming back, that's your soul talking to you.”

  • If there's something that you really want to do, it's almost like you can't let it go.

  • That's your soul saying, “You have to do this.”

  • I finally hit this point where I'm like, “If 10 years from now I haven't done this book,

  • I'm going to have serious regrets.”

  • Yes.

  • John Mann and I, my co-author of this book, I never had a co-author.

  • He wrote a great book called The Go Giver.

  • Loved it.

  • I had done a testimonial for that book, well over a decade ago.

  • I had said to John, “I have this idea for this book called The Latte Factor.

  • Where we can teach people all over the world that they're richer than they think.

  • That they're more powerful than they know.

  • That small amounts of money can change their life.

  • I don't have the whole idea, yet.

  • When I have the whole idea I'm gonna call you.”

  • I finally called him and I'm like, “I have the idea.

  • You gotta come to New York.

  • I'm going to walk you through the story.”

  • Literally, I walked him through the story.

  • The story starts in the oculus.

  • And I said, “Here's the thing.

  • I don't want to sell the book first.

  • I don't want to do the typical book proposal, sell it, write it.”

  • I go, “I want to work with you on this book, like a piece of art work.

  • Until I tell you it's ready, it's not ready.”

  • It's literally like a piece of artwork.

  • If it takes a year, it takes a year.

  • If it takes two years, it takes two years.

  • Once it's ready, then we'll go sell it.”

  • That's what we did.

  • That was the most beautiful experience I've had as a writer so far in 20 years, because

  • it didn't have a deadline.

  • And I had a partner that heard me.

  • When I said, “We're not turning this in until it's perfect.”

  • We just kept redoing it and redoing it and redoing it.

  • There are sentences in this book that we finessed for weeks.

  • Yes.

  • People think these little books are easy.

  • That you just boom, boom.

  • We spent over a year and a half writing this book.

  • Yeah.

  • I think sometimes, because I'm someone who pays so much attention to quality over quantity,

  • and we had a similar experience.

  • I'd just gone through the copyediting process for Everything is Figureoutable, and the time

  • that we spent on three sentences, coming back to it.

  • To get it just right because it's so important.

  • It's probably true for you guys too, to get that message right.

  • To make sure that it lands in someone's heart and in their mind, so hopefully there's a

  • transformation in a way that no other words could accomplish.

  • Right.

  • It's so exciting.

  • I just wanted to share that with you guys, because sometimes you don't get to hear the

  • behind the scenes.

  • It's just like, "Oh my goodness.

  • Millions and millions of copies, and all these bestsellers."

  • And you never get to hear about what happens on the back side, that there's a struggle.

  • And also, with seven million books out, I took my son Jack, who's 15, with me on the

  • book pitch process.

  • And he's like, "Dad, is this scary for you?”

  • I'm like, "Yeah, because at the end of the day, I still have to sell it again."

  • I have to sell the vision.

  • And I think, what I tell people who are entrepreneurs, all these people who are watching you, wanting

  • to build their own business, "The sales process never ends.

  • You have to believe in your dream, more than anyone else.

  • If you don't believe in your dream, nobody else is going to believe in your dream.

  • And the fact that people will say no to you, doesn't mean that no is right, it just means

  • it's not right for them."

  • Yes.

  • As I took Jack on this pitching process and he watched me, he's like, "Wow, Dad.

  • That was just amazing seeing you share this message so passionately."

  • I'm like, "That's what I do, Jack.

  • I love this."

  • I feel like it applies too, to people that aren't entrepreneurs.

  • When you have a dream, if you want to sell your dream to your family, or you want to

  • sell your dream to your community, or you want to sell your dream––

  • Totally.

  • To other people in whatever way you're bringing a dream to life, you do have to keep on it.

  • Even in our partnership, selling your partner on the vision.

  • We'll talk about where you guys...

  • Not that that's too hard of a sell.

  • David's gonna spend some time in Italy, which is amazing.

  • We'll talk about that later.

  • Okay.

  • Now, getting into the book itself, why is it a parable?

  • You felt like it would be the easiest and most digestible, and people wouldn't resist

  • it?

  • Well, stories transforms people's lives.

  • Facts tell, stories sell.

  • Stories transform people's lives.

  • And I've always had stories throughout my books.

  • Even with all the books that I've sold, the reality is that I believe, Marie, that 98%

  • of people will never read a financial book.

  • They need a financial book.

  • We're going to talk about the reason why people need this so much, but most people won't read

  • a book on personal finance.

  • I kept asking myself, "How can I package something up that somebody can read in an hour?

  • That can completely change their whole life when it comes to their money?

  • That could free them to go for their dreams?"

  • And then also selfishly, "How can I write a book that my 15 year old son would read?"

  • And this is the first book that Jack's read.

  • That's amazing.

  • Zane, my stepson, I introduced him to your book when he was about 13.

  • He rolled his eyes, understandably, and I was trying to show him the table, some of

  • which we'll go in later.

  • I'm like, "Zane," he had just had this first job, and there was this check of money.

  • And I was like, "Zane, look.

  • If we invest this..."

  • He was, again 13 at the time–– What Marie's talking about right now, you'll

  • cut this in, this is the chart.

  • Yes.

  • That shows saving $2000.00 a year, starting at the age of 19, only saving it until the

  • age of 26.

  • That's $5.41 a day.

  • By the time the person reaches 65, they have a million dollars.

  • And here's the thing, Marie, your 13 year old?

  • Yeah.

  • This chart at the end of...

  • Jack read this book in two hours and turned to me on a plane flight.

  • I'll show you the picture of this later.

  • He turns to me, and he goes, "Dad, is this real?"

  • I go, "Yeah, it is real."

  • And he goes, "How do I get one of these accounts?"

  • He goes, "I could do this."

  • He goes, "It's $5.41 a day."

  • He goes, "You started this at 19.

  • What happens if it's 15?

  • You should rerun the numbers."

  • I go, "I actually have that chart too."

  • He goes, "Let's open up...

  • " I said ... We're gonna do a Roth IRA for him.

  • Here's the thing.

  • This little chart is going to change his life, but it changes anybody's life.

  • It happens to be this little chart was shown to me at 26, at Morgan Stanley, by a financial

  • advisor, retiring at 61, who told our training class, "At a minimum guys, this is what you

  • need to do."

  • Something as simple as that little chart can change anybody's life who's watching this.

  • When you look at the math–– Yes.

  • It's the math that people don't understand.

  • I put all my best charts in this book.

  • There's a chart that shows somebody starting at 25.

  • And they save $300.00 a month.

  • By the time they reach 65, they've got $1,913,000.00.

  • Another person waits until 35, they've got $684,000.00.

  • It's only 10 years later.

  • Big difference.

  • Big difference.

  • Next person waits until they're 45 to save.

  • They've got $230,000.00.

  • The next person waits until they're 55, and they've got $62,000.00.

  • That was a lot of math to just show, but what happens when you look at this, you just go,

  • I gotta get going.

  • That's really the core message of this book.

  • Wherever you are right now, get started.

  • Yes.

  • Because small amounts of money can change your whole life.

  • Absolutely.

  • It changed my life, too.

  • And again, if you guys didn't see our first episode together, you will.

  • We'll link it below.

  • I first read David's books, it was Smart Women Finish Rich.

  • It totally opened my eyes.

  • I was like, "I'm gonna get my shiz together."

  • Now, look at her.

  • Look at her.

  • You know me, I'm an action taker, right?

  • I know you are.

  • I saw those things, and it really opened my eyes.

  • I was like, "I can do this.

  • I will do this."

  • And I have done this.

  • This is why I get so excited to talk about money, and we'll dive into some of those scary

  • statistics right now.

  • I watch the news sometimes, and I see these reports about how these incredible, good folks,

  • all across our country, and all across the world, can get taken out.

  • One bad decision.

  • Being ill.

  • An accident.

  • Things that happen.

  • Some of the stats right now, let me see where I had these.

  • I think it's seven out of 10 people describe themselves as living paycheck to paycheck.

  • And right now, half of the people here in the US could not find an extra $400.00 in

  • the event of an emergency.

  • And I love...

  • You gotta take one breath there for a second.

  • Because what you just said, I've talked about this now for four years.

  • It's actually what led me to write this book.

  • Four out of 10 Americans, almost half of America today, cannot get their hands on $400.00 in

  • case of an emergency.

  • That means the average American has less than six days of expenses set aside.

  • Six out of 10 Americans, Marie, have less than a $1000.00 in savings.

  • Eight out of 10 women today, in this country, are living paycheck to paycheck.

  • When you look at how this country is being torn apart politically right now and how divisive

  • this country's becoming, it is because people are so struggling financially.

  • Yes.

  • That's why, what happened with this book, as I went to Geneva and had dinner with Paulo

  • Coelho.

  • The author of The Alchemist.

  • Our friend Brendan Burchard and I went over and I'd always wanted to meet Paulo.

  • I had, again, has this dream for this book for a long time, and over dinner and over

  • drinks, Paulo looks at me, because his book was my biggest inspiration, The Alchemist.

  • He looked at me and he said, "David, what is the book that your heart desires to write,

  • that you have not yet done?

  • And why?"

  • How's that for a question, by the way?

  • It's a great one.

  • I proceed to tell him, "I want to write this book called The Latte Factor, that will translate

  • all over the world, because so many people are living paycheck to paycheck.

  • And they're struggling.

  • If I can help free people financially, I know I can help them fix their lives."

  • When you fix your finances, you fix your life.

  • He looked at me, and he goes, puts his hand on me and goes, "Then David, you must write

  • that book."

  • And literally, we closed that bar out.

  • It was like three o'clock in the morning.

  • I came home, I was on cloud nine.

  • I came home from that trip and my wife, Alicia, you know her.

  • And she said, "What did Paulo say?"

  • I said, "Paulo said I should write The Latte Factor."

  • She's like, "I've been telling you that for 10 years.

  • You go to Geneva to hear that."

  • I'm like, "Well, it is Paulo Coelho."

  • Yeah.

  • Absolutely.

  • For everyone thinking about it, The Latte Factor you said is never about coffee.

  • It's not even about the money.

  • This is what's so important, you guys, to get.

  • It's always been a metaphor to motivate and inspire dreamers to go live their dreams.

  • This is huge, because this was so much what I took out of this book of yours, and why

  • it's so important.

  • Let's dive in.

  • Because it's not about necessarily being a penny pincher, is it?

  • It's not.

  • No.

  • What The Latte Factor was always designed to do was be a metaphor that was like a light

  • switch, that makes people go, "Oh.

  • I do have enough money to start investing."

  • The number one reason people don't invest, is they think, "I'm not rich.

  • I don't have money.

  • I can't get started."

  • I started showing the math of $5.00 a day, if you're in your 20s, and in this case the

  • main character is Zoey Daniels.

  • She's 27 years old, she's a millennial.

  • And I really wrote this book to reach young people.

  • To empower the next generation to save and invest.

  • She's 27 years old, she's working.

  • She lives in Brooklyn, she's working in the Freedom Tower.

  • She's in publishing.

  • She's an editor of a travel magazine, but she never gets to travel.

  • And after six years in the city, working super hard, making more money, she's still living

  • paycheck to paycheck.

  • And she's giving up hope, which is happening to a lot of millennials, by the way.

  • They're losing hope.

  • She starts to meet a series of mentors that teach her, "If you can afford to go have coffee

  • every morning at the coffee shop..."

  • Funnily enough you've got this massive coffee shop now down below this building, which wasn't

  • here last time.

  • "If you can afford to spend $5.00 on coffee, you can afford to change your whole life."

  • And this mentor starts to show her that.

  • And ultimately, the mentor who happens to work at a coffee shop says, "You don't actually

  • have to give up your coffee.

  • It could be something else.

  • What you need to realize, is that you have to become financially selfish.

  • You have to put yourself first.

  • It starts with small amounts of money.

  • Like $5.00 a day.

  • $10.00 a day.

  • $15.00 a day.

  • It's building the muscle financially, that you deserve to keep.

  • You deserve to keep part of your paycheck."

  • He runs her through the math of that.

  • He's like, "You're going to work 90,000 hours over your lifetime, you need to decide today

  • to keep one hour a day of your income."

  • He starts to walk there through that.

  • Again, The Latte Factor is a metaphor.

  • I'm not trying to take your coffee away, I'm trying to get you to think consciously.

  • Are you spending money in a way that's going to get you closer to your dreams?

  • If you're not, you're trapped.

  • Big time.

  • You're trapped.

  • And many people today feel trapped.

  • Yes.

  • That's one of the scariest places to feel.

  • I felt that in my life.

  • So many people can relate to that feeling now, where you can't breathe, and you don't

  • know which way to turn.

  • And you don't know how to get help.

  • That's why this book is so genius, because it empowers you to help yourself.

  • One thing that I love that Zoey, the main character, she first sees this sign.

  • It's a message she sees.

  • It says, "If you don't know where you're going, you might not like where you end up."

  • I just want to settle for folks, that are watching right now, you just heard David say,

  • this book he wrote this to empower young people.

  • If you're in your 50s or 60s, know David's got another book that's called Start Late,

  • Finish Rich.

  • We'll get there, too.

  • This is really for everyone.

  • But, there's never a bad time to take a pause and say, "Wait.

  • Have I been intentional about where I'm going?"

  • That's the core message of this book.

  • The core message of The Latte Factor is, waking up to where you want to go with your life.

  • Are you actually present right now in your life.

  • The book starts with Zoey Daniels coming out the Fulton Center.

  • For people who don't know, that's the center right downtown in New York City.

  • She comes out in the Oculus.

  • Underground, on the way to the Freedom Tower, there's an LCD screen that's the size of a

  • football field.

  • We're going to do a book signing event there.

  • Oh, good.

  • On the LCD screen she sees, "If you don't know where you're going, you might not like

  • where you end up."

  • And she takes the escalator up, above ground, and she comes out the 9/11 memorial, which

  • is right next to the Freedom Tower, where she works.

  • For six years she's never really taken in the 9/11 memorial.

  • She's just come up, gone into the office.

  • And on this morning, she looks at the 9/11 memorial, and she sees people crying.

  • She sits down on a bench and she asks herself, where is she going with her life.

  • And that's the first chapter of the book.

  • That's a question we all need to be asking ourself, at any age.

  • That's right.

  • At any age.

  • Where are you going with your life?

  • Because things can change like that in a moment.

  • And this is a book about not living life with any regrets, which we'll talk later about.

  • My grandmother's story, how I weave that in there.

  • I want people to not live a life of regrets.

  • Yeah.

  • And I want you to be conscious in your life.

  • And so the money is just a tool to start to free you up, to become more present in your

  • life, so you can think about these bigger things.

  • Yes.

  • I love that her first mentor, Henry, replies, when she says she can't afford a painting.

  • When she's in the coffee shop and she's looking at this beautiful travel photograph, actually

  • not a painting.

  • Henry replies, "You're richer than you think."

  • And he says, "For most people, more income wouldn't help their situation at all."

  • Talk to us about how we need to get out of this mentality, "If I just had more money."

  • Well, it's really the American trap.

  • We are trained pretty much from birth here, go make more money, go make more money, go

  • make more money.

  • And as we make more money we're then marketed to, to spend more.

  • What happens when you make more money, is you have what's called lifestyle creep.

  • It's not intentional.

  • It's that you've been marketed to.

  • As you've been marketed to, you're supposed to have a nicer car.

  • You're supposed to have a bigger home, you're supposed to have fancier clothes, you're supposed

  • to have these brands.

  • As we make more...

  • We're all guilty of doing this.

  • I've done this myself.

  • As we make more money, we increase our expenses.

  • New York City, where we are right now, is the classic example.

  • It's where people make a whole lot of money, and you see these articles where people are

  • making a lot of money, and they're still living paycheck to paycheck.

  • Their stress level is even higher, and their unhappiness level is even higher.

  • If you work really, really hard and you keep making more money and making more money, and

  • you're not saving anything, you start to go, "Is it worth it?"

  • Yes.

  • The secret to actually being happier and living rich, again, the message of this book is to

  • live rich now.

  • The secret is, and it's not going to sound fancy here, it's to actually live below your

  • means.

  • Yes.

  • As you grow your income, if you can keep your lifestyle the same, you start to really have

  • freedom.

  • Yes.

  • It's funny.

  • We're going, as you know, we're going to Florence.

  • And as we were going...

  • My wife's in real estate.

  • As we were about ready to go to Florence, my wife is looking at apartments that cost

  • the same thing as what they cost in New York.

  • And I said, "No, honey.

  • We're going to Florence.

  • We can reduce our cost of living.

  • I am sure in half."

  • And she's like, "Oh, I didn't know you wanted to reduce our cost of living."

  • I'm like, "Yeah.

  • I do.

  • We're going to Italy.

  • Save us some money."

  • Our apartment's costing one-third what our apartment here in New York costs.

  • Amazing.

  • It was by changing the paradigm, right.

  • We could have just kept spending the same amount of money.

  • "Let's go to Florence, and let's focus on experience, not on stuff."

  • Yes.

  • And that's another thing, too.

  • We've been in this whole downsizing mode.

  • You start to realize, we accumulate so much stuff that we don't need.

  • As we've downsized to get ready to move, and all the stuff has gone off to storage, three

  • or four months ago we sent all this stuff to storage.

  • I don't even know what's in storage anymore.

  • Why did we need all this stuff.

  • Then paying for the storage to pay for the stuff that you forget is even there.

  • I loved the one line in the book.

  • It says, "Everyone spends money every day.

  • And as they do, they're building wealth.

  • Everyone builds wealth.

  • The only question is, for whom?"

  • I was like, "Bam."

  • That is a question.

  • What does that mean?

  • Well, where that example comes from is actually my grandmother teaching me about money starting

  • at the age of seven.

  • I learned about money from my grandmother Rose Bach.

  • She was broke at 30.

  • Didn't have a college education, worked at Gimble's Department Store, sold wigs.

  • Poor.

  • And at 30 made the decision she was tired of being poor.

  • She was tired of being trapped.

  • Made a decision to start brown bagging her lunch, all of her friends teased her.

  • "Why are you brown bagging your lunch?

  • Come out to lunch with us."

  • She said, "I'm going to start saving and investing."

  • And she saved $1.00 a week.

  • Through that effort, started investing, and over her lifetime, I always tell that, over

  • her lifetime, decades, she became a self-made millionaire.

  • And then she taught myself, and my sister, my father, how to invest.

  • She helped me buy my first stock at seven.

  • At seven years old, at McDonald's, she taught me this lesson.

  • The lesson was, you go to McDonalds and she's like, "David, you can be a kid who comes and

  • eats here.

  • You can be somebody who works here for minimum wage.

  • Or you can be somebody who owns this place.

  • Minimum wage, that person whose working for minimum wage, very hard way to make a living.

  • You're here as a spender, eating McDonalds, which you love, but you could also make money

  • from every single person that's here."

  • She's like, "I'm going to teach you today how to own McDonalds."

  • And she did.

  • She took me home, opened up the Wall Street Journal, circled MCD, explained to me how

  • to buy stock, explained to me how to be an owner.

  • Not a buyer.

  • She's like, "It's fine, by the way, if you want to go to McDonalds once you own it, you

  • can make money from yourself."

  • The example that's in the book, actually, is Starbucks.

  • Ironically, right?

  • Because the mentor takes her to Starbucks and says, "I started buying..."

  • I don't want to give the whole story away, but basically says to her, when Starbucks

  • opened, he had a coffee shop.

  • And when Starbucks opened all of his friends were complaining about Starbucks opening.

  • He's like, "I'm just gonna buy the stock."

  • By the way, if you bought $1000.00 worth of Starbucks stock when Starbucks started today,

  • you'd have over a quarter of a million dollars in stock.

  • I'm like, "Great.

  • You want to go to Starbucks and have coffee, then buy the stock."

  • If you're going to have a Netflix problem, where you...

  • Then own stock.

  • Own what you use.

  • Because investors get rich.

  • The other example that gets used here is there's two escalators to wealth in America.

  • Really, the world.

  • The two primary escalators to wealth, its own stocks and owning real estate.

  • Zoey's mentor Henry teaches her, "You've got to be in the game of owning stocks and owning

  • real estate."

  • What's happening, Marie, right now, in this world, is everybody is getting...

  • A small percentage of people are getting richer.

  • And everybody else is getting poorer.

  • The game is rigged.

  • And the game is rigged for rich people.

  • And in order to be one of those rich people, you have to own two asset classes.

  • Real estate and stocks.

  • You have to.

  • If you're not, you're not on this escalator.

  • Everything is set up for those two asset classes to go up.

  • The taxes are set up, to go up for those people.

  • And the Trump tax law change, helped the stock market keep going.

  • I'm going off on a tangent here, but it's like you need to know how to play the game.

  • There's a game being played that involves money.

  • And if you don't know the rules, you're going to lose the game.

  • What I tried to do with The Latte Factor was, here's a book that anybody can read.

  • My 15 year old read it, you can read it in less than 90 minutes.

  • And you can know the 99% of basic rules you need to know about personal finance to win

  • at the game.

  • Yes.

  • I want to talk about the myths that Zoey's other mentor, Barbara, her boss teaches her.

  • One myth, most people think they have...

  • Basically, the myth is you need to make more money and then you'll be rich.

  • And I loved this.

  • Most people think they have an income problem.

  • They don't.

  • They have a spending problem.

  • That was amazing.

  • Myth number two, it takes money to make money.

  • Like we've talked about, five, $10.00 a day can absolutely change your life.

  • And then I loved myth number three, someone else will take care of it for you.

  • This I think is so big for so many people.

  • Assuming that whether it's their boss, or an accountant, or a lawyer, or a husband,

  • or a wife.

  • That someone else is managing it and taking care of it, and just burying your head in

  • the sand.

  • Yeah, two things.

  • Let me just go the math one more time.

  • We were talking about it before we started.

  • The $10.00 a day.

  • Let's go to that, yeah.

  • The $10.00 a day, if you could just save $10.00 a day, and you invested it.

  • You paid yourself first in a retirement account.

  • In 40 years, we show you at 10% you could have almost two million dollars.

  • It's like one million...

  • 897...

  • Thousand.

  • 224.

  • Thank you.

  • Some go, "What?

  • $10.00 a day and in 40 years I could have $1,897,000.00?"

  • Yeah, you could potentially.

  • By the way, 10% is what the stock market has averaged since 1926.

  • People go, "I could never get 10%."

  • Okay, fine, you can reduce the rate.

  • Maybe it's...

  • And I give you the numbers.

  • It could be 9% or 8%, or 7% or 5%.

  • Even half, you'd still have almost a million dollars.

  • $10.00 a day.

  • That's a great place to start for somebody who's not starting.

  • Now, for a whole lot of people watching, it could be $20.00 a day.

  • Or $30.00 a day.

  • It's coming up with your daily dollar amount.

  • One thing that I think is so important, is to come up with that daily dollar amount.

  • That's the daily dollar amount that can change your life.

  • Yes.

  • And we want to challenge people right now, right?

  • Should we just do it?

  • Yeah.

  • Let's do it.

  • What I'd like to see people do, let's just use $10.00 a day, for example.

  • But you can pick any number.

  • Is come up with...

  • I would give you 100 day challenge.

  • It'd be cool if your community all did this.

  • Pick a number, and challenge each other to save this amount for 100 days.

  • At $10.00 a day, if we could get everybody watching to save $10.00, in 100 days you'd

  • have more than 60% of Americans in savings, which is insane.

  • That's amazing.

  • Right?

  • For some people, they could go, "Well, what's $20.00 a day or $30.00?"

  • It could be a dollar a day.

  • I think the thing that's been so cool for us, we did a prelaunch of this book with our

  • community, on our website.

  • It's thelattefactor.com, and we got a bunch of people on Facebook community.

  • There's like 1300 people right now on this insider group.

  • And they're all supporting each other.

  • It's been so amazing to me, to see everybody cheer each other on.

  • I know your community does this, so I think if you guys could all go do this.

  • Pick a dollar amount, and challenge each other for 100 days-

  • 100 days.

  • And then just keep checking in with each other.

  • "Hey, I'm on day 27.

  • Here's what I've got."

  • Yes.

  • "I'm on day 42.

  • Here's what I've got."

  • "Hey, you know what?

  • I was doing great, and I got off track."

  • "No worries, you can get back on track."

  • It is, in a way, exercise or dieting, it's this daily thing.

  • You can get off track, but you can get back on track.

  • That's right.

  • The thing I love, too, about bringing in that community piece, especially around money,

  • there's so much shame around the topic of money.

  • And people are so afraid of it.

  • Understandably, and people feel so bad.

  • Totally.

  • And feel so guilty, and feel that they've messed up and maybe they're beyond, "Oh no,

  • I've made so many mistakes in the past."

  • "No, no, no.

  • Let's start fresh right now."

  • And that bit about community.

  • Guys, take the challenge.

  • 100 days.

  • Whatever your number is, we're throwing out 10, but it could be one, it could be three,

  • it could be 20, it could be 30.

  • Whatever it is, go for it.

  • So we don't go past this, I want to talk about not depending on somebody else.

  • I very intentionally focus that part on women.

  • I've been a crusader for women and money for 26 years.

  • I've been teaching women and money seminar programs, and Smart Women Finish Rich has

  • been out for 20 years.

  • I don't care if you're married to the local bank president.

  • As a woman, you've got to be in charge of your finances.

  • 80% of men die married.

  • 80% of women die widowed.

  • And the bulk of women who end up poverty-stricken, were not poverty-stricken before their husband

  • died.

  • There's a message in this book for women, also, very intentionally.

  • That you have to be the master of your own money.

  • Yes.

  • That gets an amen from me.

  • Every day of the week, yes.

  • It's not guys that I don't want you to be in charge of your own money, too, but this

  • has been my core passion for 26 years because of my grandmother.

  • You've got to be in charge of your own financial life.

  • And you need to take power over your own financial life.

  • You talked about being intimidated and scared and feeling guilty.

  • Here's the truth.

  • Everything that's in The Latte Factor should have been taught in school before you got

  • out of high school.

  • Yes.

  • If it was, everybody would do better.

  • Because when you know better, you do better.

  • It's not your fault if you didn't know this stuff, but you can fix it.

  • Yes.

  • Now, it's your responsibility.

  • You can fix it.

  • As an adult, too, I know I get so passionate about women and money because it's like for

  • millennia, we weren't allowed, not allowed to own property.

  • I was just working on my book, and I think it was as recent as in the 1970s, in some

  • states, here in America, a woman couldn't get bank credit unless she had her husband's

  • permission.

  • It's like, "What the...

  • Are you kidding me?"

  • My grandmother when she went to the first brokerage firm, after she saved all the money.

  • Yes.

  • The broker said to her, "We don't open accounts for women.

  • Come back with your husband."

  • When I tell that story, the audience just goes, "What?"

  • That's how it was not that long ago.

  • Yeah.

  • And so many of us, as women, are still carrying around vestiges of those old ideas.

  • Generational.

  • Generational.

  • Generational.

  • Inner poverty.

  • Based on institutional structures, and we have to change that now.

  • That's why I get so excited about this book.

  • Thank you for driving that home.

  • What I love, also, about all of your work, is it's clear, and it's actionable.

  • Let's talk about the three secrets to financial freedom.

  • I think what's great about these secrets is they're hiding in plain sight.

  • Right?

  • They're not really secrets.

  • Number one, pay yourself first.

  • What's that mean?

  • Pay yourself first means that when you get a paycheck, the first person who gets paid

  • is you.

  • This is the single most important financial lesson that you could ever learn.

  • You have to become...

  • The book, financially selfish.

  • You have to decide that that first hour day of your income, it's coming right off the

  • top to you.

  • If you have a job, and you go to work at nine, and you work until five, the first hour day

  • of your income, gets taken right off the top, goes into a retirement account before you

  • can touch it.

  • Happens to be the math on that, is 12.5% of your gross income.

  • You start saving one hour a day of your income, when you're in your 20s, you'll be financially

  • free for life.

  • Now, as you get older, if you're behind, you need to save more than that.

  • It can go up to two hours a day.

  • But it's a mindset of, "I'm going to get paid first.

  • I'm going to pay myself first before I pay taxes, before I pay my mortgage, before I

  • pay rent.

  • Before I pay my bills."

  • Most people do everything...

  • They pay all their bills first, they try to save last.

  • It doesn't work.

  • And what we know is the way people in America who become self made millionaires, specifically

  • in retirement accounts, there's a formula.

  • It happens to be, it's 14% of your gross income.

  • The average self made millionaire that's become a millionaire by the age of 59, according

  • to Fidelity, saved 14% of their gross income.

  • That's a little over one hour a day of your income.

  • Henry walks Zoey through the math of this, but when you think about it in terms of time,

  • and I know a lot of people who are watching are self employed, so there's going to be

  • all kinds of questions.

  • How do I do this, I don't have a salary?

  • You have to think about it still the same way.

  • Money comes in, you've got to pay yourself first.

  • And it's hard when you're self-employed, because your income's not consistent.

  • But, you have to decide, you have to decide.

  • Check comes in, percentage gets taken right off the top, goes into another account that

  • I can't touch, to pay myself first.

  • I don't even care if it's just one or 2%.

  • It is a mindset and a discipline.

  • You do that, you put yourself first, you'll become financially free.

  • Secret number two.

  • I love when you do that.

  • Don't budget.

  • This is a good one.

  • Make it automatic instead.

  • This is secret number two.

  • Don't budget because budgeting doesn't work.

  • If it worked, everybody would do it.

  • And everybody would start them, and everybody would stick to them.

  • I've spent 26 years in the financial service's industry.

  • My first nine years were at Morgan Stanley.

  • What I saw first hand, in nine years, I only had one client write a check, discipline wise,

  • from budgeting, for six months or more.

  • Everybody who saved, all my clients that really saved money, it was all automated.

  • The message of budgeting is, instead of budgeting, you need to save automatically.

  • Whatever you're saving for.

  • Saving for an emergency account, save automatically.

  • Money gets moved automatically into emergency account.

  • Want to save for a dream trip to go to Italy, money gets moved automatically into your Italy

  • account.

  • You're gonna save for retirement, it gets moved automatically into retirement account.

  • And so, it's this concept of instead of using discipline, and––

  • Willpower.

  • Willpower.

  • Remembering.

  • Driving yourself crazy because budgets actually do drive couples to fight.

  • If instead you can focus on what you're going to save automatically, and where, you can

  • eliminate all the fights.

  • Love it.

  • How about live rich now?

  • I think this is the big one, because you said the first two secrets, pay yourself first

  • and make it automatic, those are the how.

  • This is the why.

  • Figure out what matters, and follow that.

  • Yes.

  • And it gives me chills because I talked about my sabbatical that I had taken last time I

  • was on your show, which a lot of people actually really resonated with.

  • Yes.

  • The idea of living rich now, before I go onto the sabbatical discussion, the idea of living

  • rich now is, what do you really want to do with your life that you're not doing?

  • And how can you live rich today?

  • Instead of thinking you need a bunch of money to someday live rich, what could you do today

  • to live rich?

  • What's something that...

  • I wake up in the morning, and I meditate.

  • That's a live rich moment for me.

  • I write in my journal, and I write down my gratitude in the morning.

  • That's a moment for 15 minutes I'm very present, and I'm living rich.

  • What can you do today, to live rich.

  • Because the subtitle of this book, “why you don't have to be rich to live rich,”

  • which I thank you for, because we talked about it on the first show, and it resonated so

  • much with your viewers.

  • Going all over the world.

  • The message of this is that you don't actually have to have a whole lot of money to feel

  • rich.

  • What you need to do to feel rich, is not feel trapped.

  • Because the opposite of living rich, is feeling trapped.

  • One thing I tell people to do, think about what in your life right now is making you

  • feel trapped, how could you eliminate that?

  • And what would it feel like to not feel trapped?

  • What does that look like to you?

  • What do you need to add to your life today, that probably doesn't even take money, that

  • would make you feel better about your life today.

  • That's living rich.

  • I love it.

  • As we get to the end of the book, you start to explain a little bit about your beautiful

  • grandmother, again.

  • Will you share what you talked to her about at the end of her life?

  • I'm always going to get choked up thinking about this.

  • My grandmother was really my role model and my mentor.

  • She lived to be 86.

  • At 86, she had a stroke.

  • We moved her into a nursing care facility, Northern California by my office.

  • I didn't know...

  • I thought that she was going to live forever.

  • When I was with her at the nursing care facility, I asked her a question, which was, "Did she

  • have any regrets?"

  • The reason I asked her this question, Marie, is because I was finishing Smart Women Finish

  • Rich.

  • Back in 1997.

  • She knew I was writing the book, and it was dedicated to her.

  • I was like, "Do you have anymore lessons for me?"

  • And I said, "Do you have any regrets?"

  • She said, "No."

  • Then the next day I came in to see her, I'm like, "How are you?"

  • She's like, "I'm terrible.

  • I was up all night long thinking about my regrets."

  • I'm like, "Oh my God, Grandma, I'm so sorry."

  • Then she took me through five of her regrets.

  • She'd had a stroke, so she couldn't speak very well.

  • She went through what they were.

  • All the way back to being a teenager.

  • And she said to me, "The lesson's not in what I'm regretting.

  • The lesson's in why I'm regretting it.

  • That's what I want you to hear from me right now."

  • She said, "My regrets are, all those moments I came to a fork in the road, where I had

  • to make a decision.

  • Do I go this way where the gold is, where what I really want to do is this road, but

  • that's where the risk is.

  • Or do I take the safer road?"

  • She said, "At every one of those points in time, I made the decision to take the safer

  • road."

  • She's like, "I am dying right now.

  • I'm never going to leave this bed.

  • And I'm never going to know what could have been."

  • She said to me...

  • She said, "I don't want you to make the same mistake."

  • She said, "When you come to the fork in the road there's going to be a little boy inside

  • of you that wants to go do this.

  • And then there's going to be this big boy that's scared."

  • She's like, "Don't listen to the big boy."

  • I went back to my office, and I actually broke down.

  • Like here.

  • I'm so embarrassed.

  • No.

  • This is life.

  • I broke down crying.

  • Sitting in my car, crying in my office, and I looked in the rear view mirror.

  • I wanted to leave Morgan Stanley.

  • I wanted to go spend my life making a difference, teaching women, at the time, specifically,

  • to be smarter with money.

  • I felt trapped.

  • I wanted to get out of this corporate box.

  • I had this bigger dream.

  • And I looked in this rear view mirror, and I looked at myself after breaking down crying.

  • I was like, "Okay, David.

  • In three years, we're going to get you out of here.

  • We're going to go for your dreams."

  • That led me to four years.

  • That led me to being in New York... leaving Morgan Stanley, moving to New York, writing

  • 13 more books, and spending the last 18 years doing this.

  • And the most amazing part of this story is that...

  • My son, Jack, read this book on this plane flight, two weeks ago flying home from Utah.

  • After he talked about the IRA account, I said to him, "What was your biggest takeaway from

  • the book?"

  • He looked at me and said, "You know the story about your grandmother?"

  • I go, "Yeah."

  • He goes, "The takeaway was to take risk."

  • And then he said, "You know, Dad..."

  • He was giving me a choice about going to Florence.

  • We're getting ready to move to Florence with the family for a year.

  • And the whole, one of the big reasons was to take him, as a sophomore, to live in Florence

  • for a year before he goes off to college.

  • We gave him a choice, which is a huge thing to give a 15 year old kid.

  • And he chose, "Yes, I want to go."

  • And he looked at me and he said, "Dad, if I hadn't chosen to go to Florence, it would

  • have been my first regret."

  • He's like, "I learned from the book I need to take risk in life."

  • And I was like, "Oh my God.

  • I did everything I wanted to do with this little book.

  • I just impacted my 15-year-old with these two huge life lessons."

  • Yeah.

  • If I can go just reach some more people now, besides my 15-year-old son, with this book,

  • it'll be amazing.

  • Millions of people are going to read this book.

  • I loved it.

  • The reason I'm crying now, too, is because I loved it.

  • Just to put a little pin in this, are you listening to the big boy or are you listening

  • to the little boy who wants to play?

  • The little boy inside who wants to play.

  • There's a little girl inside, or the big girl inside.

  • That's right.

  • One thing my grandmother said to me, too, at the time.

  • She's like, "It's not always your own voice."

  • That big girl can be your mom.

  • Or your boss.

  • Society.

  • Or society.

  • That's right.

  • Or your tribe.

  • We can get caught up listening to other peoples voices and lose sight of our own voice.

  • I go back to, "You've got to listen to your soul."

  • Yeah.

  • Being present in your life so you can listen to your soul, and let your soul come out.

  • And then go play the game that your soul wants to play.

  • That's right.

  • Thank you so, so much.

  • I am so thrilled that you wrote this book.

  • I'm so thrilled we're having this conversation again.

  • Thank you.

  • You've made a huge difference in my life.

  • A huge difference to our audience.

  • And I am really, really excited for all of you guys to get this book, to share it with

  • the people that you love.

  • To share it with your kids, with your friends, with your team, with your employees.

  • It really is important because yes, money is an important topic.

  • It is about freedom.

  • But, it really, underneath it all, it's about listening to that small voice.

  • Listening to your soul and following your dreams.

  • David, I adore you.

  • I love you.

  • Thank you so much.

  • I love you, too.

  • Thank you.

  • Now, David and I would love to hear from you.

  • We talked about so many important things today.

  • I'm curious, what is the biggest insight that you're taking away from today's conversation?

  • And most importantly, how can you turn that insight into action starting right now?

  • Leave a comment below, and let us know.

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  • Stay on your game, and keep going for your dreams, because the world really does need

  • that special gift that only you have.

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