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  • Hi. Ronnie. Video. Conversation skills. How to avoid them? So maybe you don't want to

    我是 Ronnie,今天要談的是對話技巧, 我們該如何避免談話?有時候你可能不太想

  • talk to someone. This lesson is called "Conversation Skills: How to avoid a conversation." "Avoid"

    和別人說話,所以這堂課叫做「對話技巧:該如何避免談話」,所謂「避免」

  • means you want to stop having or not have something.

    指的是你想要停止或是不想要一個東西

  • So all of your life, probably, when you have been learning English, you've learned many

    在你的一生中,很有可能在你學習英文的過程,你學了很多關於

  • lessons about how to have a conversation, how to talk to strangers, how to talk to people

    如何對話、和陌生人交談、和地鐵上的人交談

  • on the subway, how to talk to people in a store. Sometimes, I don't want to talk to

    和店裡面的人交談等等;不過有時候,我就是不想

  • anyone. Sometimes, people talk to me.

    和任何人交談;有時候,是別人想找我說話

  • As an example, every morning, when I wake up, I have to walk my dog. It's cold outside.

    舉個例,每天早上起床後,我都必須去遛狗,而天氣很冷

  • I've not had my coffee yet. I don't want to walk my dog. I do not want to be outside.

    我甚至還沒喝咖啡,所以我不太想遛狗,我不想待在外面

  • And I'm generally not wanting to do anything except go back to bed. It seems that people

    此時我通常什麼都不想做,我只想回去睡覺;似乎養狗的人

  • that have dogs love to have conversations with other people who have dogs. I don't want

    都很喜歡和同樣有養狗的人聊天,可是我不想

  • to talk to you. I don't care. They ask me strange questions like, "Is your dog a boy

    和你說話,我不在乎;他們會問我奇怪的問題,像是:「你的狗狗是男生

  • or a girl?" Why? Why do you care if my dog is a boy dog or a girl dog? Do you want to

    還是女生?」為什麼這麼問?你為何在乎我的狗狗是男生還是女生?你是想要

  • have sex with my dog? Are you concerned if my dog has a penis? No. Stop it. Who cares?

    和我的狗狗發生性關係嗎?你很關心我的狗狗有沒那一根?夠了,誰在乎啊?

  • "How old is your dog?" Why? Do you want to know his birthday? Are you going to have a

    「你的狗狗幾歲?」為什麼這麼問?你為何想知道牠的生日?你是要幫牠辦派對?

  • party? Is your dog and my dog going to come to my house, and are we going to have a party?

    還是你的狗狗跟我的狗狗要來我家,然後一起慶生?

  • No. Shut up. I'm walking my dog. Don't talk to me.

    夠了,閉嘴,我只想安安靜靜地遛狗,別跟我說話

  • So tips on how to avoid a conversation. Rule No. 1, very easy, don't ever make eye contact

    以下是避免談話的小秘訣:第一條,很簡單,不要跟任何你不想說話的人

  • with anyone you do not want to talk to. Number one rule when you want to have a conversation

    有眼神接觸,談話守則第一條,如果你想和別人說話

  • is you must look at the people's eyes. Don't look down. Don't look up. Look at their eyes. ok?

    你必須看著對方的眼睛,別低頭,也別抬頭,直視他們好嗎?

  • So to not have a conversation, don't look anyone in the eye. I'm not talking to you.

    所以,如果不想和別人說話,就別看著任何人的眼睛,我沒在跟你說話

  • The second one is: Don't ask the speaker any questions. So as an example, "Oh, hi. What

    第二條:別對說話的人發問,舉個例:「嗨!你的狗狗

  • kind of dog do you have?", "It's a Cairn terrier". "How old is it?", "Seven". "Is it a boy or

    是什麼品種?」「凱恩㹴」「牠幾歲?」「七歲」「那牠是男生

  • a girl?", "Boy". If you've noticed, I did not ask the person about their dog because

    還是女生?」「男生」;你有沒有注意到,我都沒有問對方他們的狗狗,因為

  • I don't care. If you wanted to have a conversation with someone, you could ask the person the

    我根本不在乎,如果你想要和對方聊天,你可以問他同樣的問題

  • same question. As an example, "Hi", "Hi", "Good, yeah". "What kind of dog do you have?",

    舉例來說,「嗨」「嗨」「過得不錯吧」「你的狗狗是什麼品種?」

  • "It's a Cairn terrier. How about you? What kind of dog do you have?", "It's a Jack Russell".

    「凱恩㹴,你呢?你的狗狗是什麼品種?」「傑克羅素㹴」

  • "Oh, cool. Don't care. Good". "How old is your dog?" "Seven. How about you? How old

    「讚喔,隨便啦,還不錯」「那你的狗狗幾歲?」「七歲,你呢?你的狗狗

  • is your dog?", "four". "Great", "Is your dog a boy or a girl?" "My dog's a boy. How about

    幾歲?」「四歲」「很棒」「牠是男生還是女生?」「男生,那你呢?

  • you? How about your dog? Does your dog have a penis or a vagina?", "Girl". "Oh, do you

    你的狗狗有小雞雞還是小貝殼?」「牠是女生」「哦,你知道嗎?

  • know what? Maybe my dog and your dog should have a party. Maybe they could have puppies.

    或許我的狗狗跟你的狗狗可以一起辦個派對,也許牠們可以生小寶寶

  • That would be cool. Yeah. Okay. Good to see you. Bye".

    這樣一定很棒,好啦,很高興見到你,後會有期」

  • Next one: Look at something or someone else. Now, maybe you have the magic of a cell phone.

    接下來:看著某個東西或別的人,現在你有個神奇的物品叫作手機

  • This is a great conversation avoider. You may go as far as to pretend -- "Hi, Mom. Yeah,

    這是一個很好使你避免談話的東西,你可以想要怎麼假裝就怎麼假裝--「嗨,老媽,對啊,

  • good. No" -- that you're talking to someone on the phone. "Mom. Yeah. Busy. No. No, I

    很好,不是」--像是裝成你在講電話,「老媽,對啊,我很忙,不是,

  • got -- Mom, hi. Yeah. Good". This is a great tool. You can pretend that your phone rang,

    我要去--嗨,媽,我很好」很棒的工具對吧,你可以假裝電話響了

  • and you're talking to your mother. You can pretend you got a text message. Or you can

    你在跟你媽說話,你可以假裝在發簡訊,或是你可以

  • just look at your phone. This will indicate to the speaker that you do not want to talk

    單純看手機,這會暗示對方你不想跟他說話

  • to them. In reverse, if you want to talk to a person and have a real conversation, put

    反之,如果你想和別人說話並有實質性的談話

  • your phone down. Do not text or talk on the phone when you are trying to have a conversation

    放下手機,別在你試圖跟前面活生生的人聊天的時候

  • with a real live human being. If I'm at a bar and I'm talking to you, if you take out

    發簡訊或講電話,如果我在酒吧裡想和你聊天,你卻拿出

  • your phone and start texting someone, bye-bye. Ronnie's gone. She's getting another beer.

    手機開始傳訊息,再會,Ronnie 要走啦,她要再去拿一杯啤酒

  • So please, if humans want to talk to you, put your phones away. You can text them later.

    所以拜託,如果有人想要跟你說話,把手機收起來,你可以晚點再傳訊息

  • If you talk really, really, really fast and you don't say your words properly -- no one

    假如你說話非常非常非常地快,而且說話不清楚--沒人會知道

  • has any idea what you're talking about -- they will not have a conversation with you. So

    你在說什麼--他們自然不想跟你聊天,所以

  • if you speak or talk really, really quickly, or if you mumble -- "Mumble?" "Mumble" means

    如果你講話非常快或是喃喃自語--何謂喃喃自語?就是

  • you do not say words clearly. Some people will talk like this. They have their hand

    講話很含糊,有些人講話會這樣,他們會把手

  • -- they put their hand in front of their mouth, and you can't really hear anything that they're

    放在嘴巴上,使你聽不清楚他們

  • saying because

    在說什麼,因為

  • [inaudible]

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  • So rule No.1, put your hand down, okay? Don't talk down. When I talk like this, you can't

    最重要的就是,把手放下來,OK?別低頭,如果我這樣講話,你根本

  • even hear -- okay? "Mumbling" means you don't say your words clearly, or they're muffled.

    聽不到,好嗎?喃喃自語表示你說話不清楚,或是含滷蛋

  • It's like this.

    像這樣

  • [Inaudible]

    [靜音]

  • And talking really, really, really quickly. Maybe you are very excited to meet someone.

    而講話很快很快,也許你是因為見到某人很興奮

  • That's cool. But try and speak a little slowly so that the person can understand you.

    那很好,不過請你試著講話稍微慢一點,這樣別人才聽得懂你在說什麼

  • Okay. So this one: strange facial expressions. If I'm having a conversation with you and

    OK,接下來:奇怪表情,如果我在和你說話

  • you're smiling and you're nodding and you're doing this, I think, "Okay, this person is

    你微笑、點頭、你這麼做,我會覺得:「好喔,這個人

  • happy. They like what I'm saying to them". But if your face is very strange or you kind

    很高興,他喜歡我說的話」,假如你的表情很奇怪或是

  • of make weird facial expressions or you have -- you do strange things. If you pick your

    你在做鬼臉--做一些奇怪的事情,像是挖鼻孔

  • nose or pick your ear or something, the person thinks that you don't care about what they're

    挖耳屎什麼的,別人就會覺得你是不是不太在乎他們

  • saying to you. So this is a good thing. If someone's talking to you, you just go...

    跟你說話,這是件好事,如果有人想跟你講話,你就這樣...

  • [makes faces]

    [做怪表情]

  • I guarantee you they will stop talking to you, especially if you pick your nose. Number 1.

    我敢保證他們會停止跟你說話,尤其當你在挖鼻孔,要訣就是

  • [picks nose] -- person's gone.

    [挖鼻孔]--別人就會先閃開

  • The other one is body language. Now, this may seem strange to you, but if you're talking

    另一個是肢體語言,這可能對你來說很奇怪,但如果你正在

  • to someone, and you use hand expressions, it's easier for them to understand you. But

    和別人說話,並用一些手勢,會讓人比較容易理解你所說的

  • if you are talking to someone and your hands are folded and you don't even look at them

    但是當你在跟別人說話時,你的雙手交叉胸前,或甚至不看對方

  • and you're like this, they think that you don't want to talk to them. So eye contact,

    像這樣,別人就會覺得你不太想跟他說話,所以眼神接觸、

  • your facial expressions, and your body language are really important to avoid or to have a

    臉部表情,以及肢體語言對於避免或開啟談話

  • conversation with someone. If you do not want to talk to someone, you can fold your hands

    是至關重要的,如果你不想和別人說話,你可以雙手交叉胸前、

  • and look at the ground. They will stop talking to you hopefully.

    看著地板,他們大概就不會跟你說話了

  • One thing that could be very useful if you are in a bar and maybe someone -- a man or

    有一招很有效,特別是當你在酒吧裡而有人--可能是男

  • a woman -- is talking to you that you don't want to talk to, a really good technique is

    是女--想跟你說話可是你不想,有個小技巧就是

  • to use slang. Maybe the person's older than you, and you know some crazy whooped up slang

    使用俚語,也許人家比你老,而你知道一些浮誇的話術

  • words. Instead of speaking to them like you would your mother, you would speak to them

    來取代你對別人說話像是他們的媽媽

  • like you would your best friend. You'd be like, "Yo! Hey! What's going on? What's happening

    或是好朋友一樣,你可能這樣:「Yo,hey!老兄過得如何?你們家

  • in the crib? Yo!" And the person who's trying to talk to you will be like, [hesitates].

    近來可好?Yo! 」那個想跟你說話的人可能就會,[猶豫一下]

  • They're gone. I guarantee it.

    然後走人,我敢保證

  • On the other hand, if you are talking to someone and you know very -- we say "big words" or

    另一方面,如果你在跟別人說話,而你知道一些--我們稱之為深奧的詞彙

  • people who are educated say "educated words". Rather than use simple language, if you are

    或是有點教育程度的人才懂得單字,來取代簡單易懂的詞語

  • going to use very big words, it can be intimidating to people. So if you are trying to speak English

    假如你使用這些字,別人便不太敢接近你;因此,當你試著用英文聊天

  • to someone who has a very, very large vocabulary and your vocabulary is very small, there's

    對方的單字量非常之龐大,而你的卻十分微小,那麼

  • going to be a communication breakdown because you're going to use words the other person

    你們之間會有代溝,因為你們彼此所用的詞彙

  • doesn't know. So the other person is not going to understand you and is not going to want

    是對方不能理解的,所以當對方聽不懂,他自然就不會

  • to talk to you. So it's really important that when you try to have a conversation, you realize

    想要跟你說話;很重要的一點就是,當你跟別人說話時,你必須知道

  • what vocabulary or what words you and the speaker -- or you and the listener -- both know.

    你和跟你說話的人或是聽者是否都懂你們用的詞語

  • The last one is how you project your voice, okay? The tone of your voice -- right here.

    最後一條,如何控制你的音量和語氣;你的語調--這樣

  • Angry tone. -- makes the person nervous, thinks that you're angry. I have a lot of people

    生氣的語調--會讓人感到緊張,別人會覺得你不開心;我有很多學生

  • in my class from different countries. Sometimes, a person will ask a student a question. For

    他們來自別的國家,有時候,當別人問我的學生問題

  • example, "What's your name?" "My name is Ronnie". "[Shouts] What?" "Oh, my God. Why is this

    舉例,「你叫什麼名字?」「我叫 Ronnie」「啥?(用吼的)」「(我的天啊這個人

  • person yelling at me? [Softly] My name is Ronnie". If you don't hear someone, it's okay

    為什麼要對我大吼大叫?) 我叫 Ronnie [小聲說]」假如你聽不到別人說什麼,你可以

  • to say, "What?" Maybe you're going to want to smile, but be careful of your tone. You

    這麼說:「什麼?」,也許你可以微微笑,但注意你的語調

  • do not want to use an angry voice if you're not angry. If you're angry, you let that person

    你不會想要在你不生氣的時候卻使用生氣的語調,如果你很生氣,你想要

  • know that you're angry. You can say, "Why do you care what kind of dog I have? Is it

    讓別人知道你很生氣,你可以這麼說:「你幹嘛在乎我的狗是什麼品種?我有沒有養狗

  • important to you that I have a dog? Do you really care what kind it is? Where did I get

    對你很重要嗎?你真的很在乎牠是哪一種?我去哪裡得到牠的?

  • it? Who cares? Okay. I am pissed off. I have not had my coffee yet. So don't talk to me,

    誰在乎啊?我現在很不爽,我還沒喝咖啡勒,別跟我說話,

  • okay?"

    好嗎?」

  • So if you want to avoid a conversation -- maybe the person is creepy, scary. Maybe they smell

    所以,如果你想要避免交談--可能對方很奇怪、很可怕,或是他們

  • bad. Maybe they're drunk. Maybe you're drunk. Do all of these things. But if you want to

    聞起來很臭,也許他們喝醉了,或是你醉了也說不定,那就照我所說的去做

  • have a conversation, don't do these things. To have a conversation with someone, make

    不過如果你想要跟別人交談,別做這些;和別人談話必須要有

  • eye contact. Ask them questions. You can ask them the same questions. It doesn't have to

    眼神接觸,你可以問他們問題,他們問你什麼你也問同樣的

  • be about a dog. Look at the people directly in the eye. Look at who you're talking to.

    不一定要跟狗有關,你必須直視別人的眼睛,看著跟你說話的人

  • Don't look at someone else, okay? Don't talk really quickly. Don't mumble. Don't make strange

    記住,不要看其他人,也不要說太快,或是太小聲,別做怪表情

  • faces. Don't use strange body language. Don't use slang or words the person doesn't know.

    不要做出奇怪的肢體動作,別用俚語或是別人聽不懂的詞彙

  • And don't use an angry tone. Make sure that all of these things are positive. Do and don't.

    不要使用生氣的語調,你必須確認你所做的一切都是正面的,該做與不該做的

  • Please tell me about a situation that you've had where you did not want to have a conversation

    請告訴我,你曾經在什麼情況下不想和別人交談

  • with someone. And tell me a situation where you wish you could've had a conversation with

    以及在什麼情況下你會想要和別人聊天

  • someone. I'll let you know some tips later on in life. Goodbye.

    之後的影片我將會告訴你一些小秘訣,再會

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