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Hey there, it's Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be to create a business
and life you love, and this is not Q&A Tuesday. It's a very special day. Why? Because I am
here with one of my favorite authors of all time, a woman who has made such a huge impact
on my life, and I'll tell you about that in a moment. But first, I want to read you her
intro.
Marianne Williamson is an internationally acclaimed spiritual author and lecturer. Six
of her ten published books have been New York Times bestsellers, four of these have been
#1 New York Times best sellers. Her first book, A Return to Love, is considered a must
read of the new spirituality and in 2006, a Newsweek magazine poll named her one of
the 50 most influential baby boomers. Her newest book is called The Law of Divine Compensation
on Work, Money and Miracles. Marianne, thank you so much for having us in your home today.
Thank you for having me on MarieTV.
I have to tell you this before we get into it. I want to tell all you guys. When I was
in my early 20s, I was having such a hard time. I was just starting out as a life coach
and I was questioning everything and I was having a hard time with my parents, with my
vocation and I was really in a tough space. I remember being in Union Square in the Barnes
and Noble and looking around for a book and your book A Return to Love just jumped off
the shelf at me and I picked it up and I started reading it, and I cried right there at Barnes
and Nobles because your words and what you put down in your work spoke so deeply to where
I was in my life and you gave me a pathway to get back to what I felt like was really
me and to do what I really wanted and to reconnect with my parents in a way that I've never even
imagined possible. I just wanted to thank you publically.
Thank you. You know so much of that book is based on the agony that I felt much like the
one you just described when I was in my 20s, and so much of that was spent in New York
City and I found A Course of Miracles in New York City. I was you wandering through Barnes
and Noble.
Thank you. It was just awesome. First thing I want to ask, we're talking about your new
amazing book, The Law of Divine Compensation, which by the way, if you do not have this
book, you need to get your hands on this book now. Get five copies, ten copies, and give
it to your friend and as we go through this interview, you're gonna hear why. You've written
so many books over the course of your career which has been amazing, and this one being
about work, money and miracles, when you first started as a writer and a teacher, did you
struggle to make ends meet and tell us just a little bit about that part of the journey
and how it's evolved.
I'm of the generation that grew up in the late 60s and the 70s and everything wasn't
so financialized the way it is now. I grew out of a hippie ethic, I needed to work, I
needed to pay the bills, but I didn't have this ambition that is so rampant now. When
I started lecturing on a course in miracles, there was no reason to think that I would
be able to make a living doing that because this career niche did not exist then. You
could be a clergy and I didn't see myself being clergy or you could be like a professor
of comparative religion in a university somewhere and I didn't see that for myself either. So
when I first knew about Judy Scotch going around the country talking about a course
in miracles, I thought that was just the most amazing thing, but there was no conceptualization
of that as something that you would do for a living. When I started lecturing on a course
in miracles, I remember I was working as a temporary secretary and I was working at a
building in Santa Monica here in LA that at that time was called the World Savings Building.
I'd been doing this temporary secretarial job and I was standing at the elevator bank
there and it was as though I heard a voice in my head say "this will be your last secretarial
job." It was really one of those things of like "who said that?" and at that time, I
had started lecturing on A Course in Miracles at a place called the Philosophical Research
Society. I didn't think I would pay my bills doing that and yet more and more people came
and I don't remember the specific day, but in fact it happened that enough people were
coming to my lectures with their $3 or $5 or $7 donation that I could live on that.
For me, that was so amazing. I was bringing in money that others would be strategizing
how to make more that I just thought was the coolest thing in the world. Then when my first
book came out and it was very successful mainly because of Oprah Winfrey, that was just such
a delight and a miracle but nothing I would've ever even conceived of.
Wow, so beautiful. What exactly is the law of divine compensation?
The law of divine compensation is just a phrase I came up with to describe a particular action
of how the universe operates. The universe is both self organizing and self correcting.
What do I mean by that? An embryo becomes a baby and a bud turns into a blossom and
an acorn turns into an oak tree. Clearly there is an invisible hand of sorts. You have a
sperm and you have an egg and then the next thing you know, cells are dividing and the
little brain is formed and toes and spleen and heart and lungs; it's so extraordinary.
From a metaphysical perspective, that amazing way that the universe supports life in moving
forward all the time is not just in physical nature, but in all aspects of things. Just
as the little embryo is programmed to become the baby, you and I are programmed to have
the best relationship possible. You were programmed to have the best career possible. There is
a programming by which this television show would be its best. The difference between
you and me and the acorn is that we can say "no."
Yes.
We can think thoughts and behave in ways that make us deviate from that otherwise perfect
self organizing pattern. Usually when we think of making things happen in our lives, we think
like you're looking at a computer and you bring up a blank document and then you have
to figure out what to write on it. That's one way of looking at life. If you want to
make anything happen, you have to bring up that blank document and figure out what to
do. Another way of looking at life is to think of an undeletable file that is always in your
computer. You might think of it as God's will. You might think of it as divine intelligence.
By whatever name you call it, that same force that makes the embryo turn into the baby.
The embryo didn't have to figure out how to become a baby. When you think of life that
way that I don't have to pull up a blank document and figure things out so much as I have to
bring down to the screen, this undeletable file always there but usually not brought
down to the screen because it's not the button I push or the file I select, by which every
thought and every action not only on my part, but on everyone else's part, including this
divine bio-computer of the universe that will make sure that everybody meets who we're supposed
to meet and everything happens that's supposed to happen, I can have that. Let's say I pick
up a file and the file is God's will document my career. File God's will, natural intelligence,
divine hand, whatever; document, career, document, money, and that is a programming in our minds.
This is no more true about money and career than it is about anything else. The quote
I have at the beginning of the book is from Einstein when he said:
"The most important decision we ever make is whether we think we live in a friendly
universe or a hostile universe."
If you believe you live in a friendly universe, then you believe that you are supported just
the way the embryo is supported in becoming the baby. The acorn is supported in becoming
an oak tree. You were supported by a universal plan of sorts, a divine architecture. That
architecture for the oak tree is within the acorn and there is an architecture within
your consciousness by which Marie becomes the highest creative possibility for Marie
this lifetime. Every aspect of the universe is already at work making sure every aspect
of your life unfolds according to that same divine perfection, but because we are treated
to think according to a mindset that rules the human race that is based on fear rather
than love, we are constantly thinking thoughts that knock us out of that universal order
and there are really only two categories: harmony and order or chaos. It's like a cancer
cell. When the cancer cell deviates, a cancer cell is a cell that's gone insane and it disconnects
from its natural intelligence and instead of existing to collaborate with other cells
in the synergistic way by which they come together to support the higher functioning
of the organ, the cancer cell goes off to do its own thing, build its own mass made
up of other sick cells, and of course that's destructive to the system. That's the way
we live on this earth. We have forgotten our native intelligence and that native intelligence
is love itself. When we live with the mind as a conduit asking only... there's a lesson
in A Course in Miracles a prayer that we're taught to say every day, "where would you
have me go, what would you have me do, what would you have me say and to whom," then you
find yourself flowing down the river in this divine alignment and you really do see that
the universe can bring more to you than you can bring to yourself. It's like the difference
between seeing a pile of iron shavings and saying "I'm going to put my fingers in there
and try to design these beautiful patterns, filament, and beauty." No. the only way I
can do that is introducing a magnet and the true self by whatever name you call it, you
can talk about it in religious terms or secular terms, it's the Christ self, the Buddha mind,
the universal life, whatever name you use for it is a magnet for all things good. The
law of divine compensation is not only that the universe is self organizing, but that
the universe is self correcting. Just as my body is programmed to work, your lungs breathe
and your heart beats, should there be injury to your system, the body is also programmed
to repair it and to heal itself. The law of divine compensation is that that is true on
every level of nature. What that means is that anytime there is a lack, there is diminishment;
there is a deviation from love. Within spiritual substance there is the ability and the intention
of the universe who enters into the mortal realm and compensate for whatever lack or
diminishment. I think that that is so important because we all have moments of deviation whether
I did it or somebody else did it, whether I made a mistake and I was stupid with my
money and I went bankrupt or do systems of economic injustice and Wall Street and banks,
etc, it was somebody else's fault; it wasn't even my fault. The point is the universe is
on it, but if I am in lovelessness, if I am in anger at myself for others, if I am in
attack about it, if I in some way constrict rather than open my heart during that period
of pain, then the universe cannot move through me to provide the compensation. Every thought
of love we co create a miracle because miracles occur naturally as expressions of love, but
every thought of lovelessness deflects the miracles, deflects the correction, deflects
the healing. That's why in the book, usually if somebody's going through money or career
issues, their coach does not say to them "who have you not forgiven" because that person
would say "forgiveness? This has nothing to do with forgiveness. This has to do with my
career. This has to do with my money." But anyplace we haven't forgiven is a place where
we are blocking love, so we are blocking the miracle, and in career as much as in anything
else, you never know where the miracle is going to come. You never know what avenue
this new opportunity is going to move through, but the universe is literally moment by moment
an infinite and endless opportunity machine, but if we're not present in that moment with
an open heart, we miss the opportunity.
One of my favorite parts of the books is actually in the preface and I literally almost fell
off my chair. I was like hooting and hollering because it was just so stinking good and you
talk about something that I've actually thought about a lot, and I actually typed it down
here. You said:
"What happens when someone says 'oh yeah, what about starving kids in Africa? Are they
poor because their consciousness is out of alignment with love?' Can you share your response?"
Anytime there's a problem, the ultimate cause of the problem was s deviation from love,
but that doesn't mean that the deviation from love was on the part of the person who is
experiencing the effect of that deviation. If someone gets cancer because there were
carcinogens in the water that they were drinking, whoever put the carcinogens there was not
thinking if they knowingly did that. The lack of ethics, the deviation from love, and a
deviation from the sense of the sacredness of life itself was not on the part of the
person who then got the cancer. Are you with me?
Yep.
We can talk about other factors, etc, but my point is that the deviation itself was
not on the part necessarily the person. When you talk about 17,000 children on this planet
who die of hunger every single day of starvation, not just hunger, 17,000 children every single
day; that's one ever four seconds; starve on this planet. That means since you and I
started talking, figure out how many four second intervals there were; that's how many
children have starved to death. Obviously we're not saying "at least I'm not" because
some people I think are. I am certainly not saying that there's something in the consciousness
of that child that somehow is not as loving as ours. I find that obscene actually. I find
that viewpoint really morally obscene. However, you can say that those children are starving
from a lack of love. The love in this case on the part of the industrializations of the
world. In the United States, we spend $700 billion a year on our defense budget. Economist
Jeffrey Sacks from Columbia University has established that for $100 billion spent over
10 years, we could eradicate deep poverty from the face of the earth. Deep poverty means
the one billion people on the planet who are living on a dollar and a quarter and less
a day. About that there's another billion living on $2 and less a day; that bottom billion
is called deep poverty and of course it is among those that you have the starving children.
you bet it's a lack of love that's allowing this to happen; you bet it is because if the
western industrializations and other advanced industrializations of the world got together
and said "that is the bottom line, not the short term economic gain of our people, but
a recognition on the part of the people of the world of the interdependence, the interconnectedness
of all people on this planet and feeding the children who are starving should be the bottom
line." That evolution is an evolution in love. That evolution in political and social consciousness
will only emerge from that evolution in our capacity to love. Right now, we are stuck
as a species on a level of personal love. we are stuck on a level of personal love for
people we like or love for people who are like us and the love that will save the world
is not just love for people that we like, it's not just love for people that we know,
it's not just love for our children; its love for all of the children. It's not just love
for our home; it's a realization that the earth itself is our home. Anytime we have
any problem, whether it's an individual problem or a collective problem, that's always at
the root of it. What is the invitation here? Where is the invitation to step up our game?
Where is the invitation to step up your game and it always have to do, what would be a
greater level of excellence? What would be a more compassionate heart? What would be
a generosity of spirit that I'm not displaying now? I think that's where we are collectively
and those 17,000 children starving is just something put up to all of us, I think, and
particularly the women of the world because I think when women really move into that space
within ourselves where we do what we normally do in the home, which is to make sure the
children are fed first above all else. In every advanced mammalian species that survives
and thrives, a common anthropological characteristic of the adult female of the species is her
fierce protection of her cubs when she feels that there's a threat to the young, even among
the hyenas, the female hyenas, the adults and circle the cubs while they're feeding
and will not let the adult male hyenas get anywhere near the food until the cubs have
been fed. I look at you, I think of myself, surely we could do better than the hyenas.
What's exciting about more women, for instance in your audience and yourself perfectly an
example, taking advantage of the opportunities we have in a society like ours, having the
careers that we have, earning the money that we do, I believe at this point in time the
issue is for us to think a little bit less perhaps of "do I have the rights that I want,"
not that we have all the rights that we ultimately wish to have, but we have enough of them that
the question now becomes "how can I make a better contribution to the rights that I have,"
not just "how do I get more money" or "how do I get more of a career" given how much
I already have and how much you already have and how we can work together to make the highest
level of contributions that we can, and I believe feeding starving children should be
number one on our list.
Yes, that gets an "amen" from me and I know it's not a Sunday but I had to say it. One
of the other things you say in the book... there's so many. I can highlight this book
till the cows come home and I have, and you've actually been generous enough to give me a
new copy because mine was so beat up. One of the things you talk about is behind every
fear, there is a miracle waiting. Tell us what that means.
In a course of miracles, it says that there are only two categories of thought: love and
fear. Love is who we are. Love is the true thought. It's the thought of the true self.
Anytime we deviate from that love, it is like light to darkness. Darkness is not a thing,
it's the absence of a thing and you get rid of darkness by turning on the light. Fear
is to love what darkness is to light. You don't hit the darkness to get rid of it and
you can't just hit the fear to get rid of it, but you turn on the light and the darkness
is automatically gone; you turn on the love and the fear is automatically gone. What that
means is that in any moment where I need help, what I need is a correction. I need a breakthrough.
The correction and the breakthrough needs a miracle and a miracle is a shift in perception
from fear to love. Where is the fear? Who am I not forgiving? Where am I living, in
the past or the future rather than in this present? Where am I not making myself fully
available to the person in front of me? Where am I not being as excellent as I could be?
As ethical as I could be? As where am I coming from ambition rather than service? Where am
I coming from competition rather than cooperation and collaboration? Where am I not standing
in the full shining possibility within myself in any given moment? That is the miracle;
giving up the lower thought for the higher thought, the weaker thought for the stronger
thought, and it's that cell going back to its divine alignment and then the miracle
occurs. The breakthrough on the outside will then occur because we had the breakthrough
on the inside.
I love it. I could talk to you for hours. This is a good one specifically about money.
So many people complain and they blame limiting beliefs about money like "I learned this from
my mom or my dad or this is the way that my family's always thought about this," and you
talk about in the book how we can transform those thoughts.
The issue of childhood programming... the first therapist I ever had, I was in my early
20s and she said something to me that was so stunning and I never forgot it, she said
"you know Marianne, your father isn't your real father, your mother is in your real mother,
God is your real father and God is your real mother." We have the mortal self and we have
a mortal story, but we are more than the mortal self and so we are more than the mortal story.
When you accept yourself as a child of the universe, a child of God, a child of the divine,
by whatever words we describe these things, you realize that you are not at the effect
of mortal limitation once you realize you are an immortal self. Once you move from "I
am a child of my family situation" and say "but I am so much more than that," I am a
child of God and I am entitled to the miracles that every child of God is entitled to and
through that mysterious alchemy, even the broken places within myself, when given up
for healing will become part of what I can use to make a greater contribution. Sometimes
you get rid of it by taping over it. We tend in the West to think if I analyze a problem
enough that will of itself get rid of it and enough of us have spent enough hours in therapy
to know of itself that won't work, but in the Eastern tradition, they don't analyze
the darkness to get rid of it; they simply go for God knowing that in the presence of
the higher mind vibration, all that simply is not you will drop of its own dead weight.
When you begin to identify, that's what enlightenment is. Enlightenment is a shift in self identification,
from the body to the spirit, from a mortal self to the immortal self. You realize that
you are at the effect of the world you identify with. If I identify with a world in which
there is a recession and there's scarcity and all of that, this is where we get in trouble.
Where you get in trouble is where you meet a limited circumstance with limited thought
and you just fall right into "ain't it awful, it's going to take a time for the jobs to
come back, the recovery is slow, even if they are hiring somebody, they are not hiring anybody
my age." The issue is to answer the limited conditions with a recognition of the law of
divine compensation, which means the spirit will compensate for any limit in the material
world and that I can meet the knowledge that it's a recession with the knowledge that it's
not knowledge; that's perception. Within this mortal world, there is a recession but in
God and spirit, there is no recession. There is no lack. There is really abundance.
Not for everyone because even if there is a recession, there's many people that you
can I both know who are thriving right now.
There are Fortune 500 companies that have been founded during recessions, so the consciousness
with which we meet a circumstance is really the point here; it's everything. Knowing that
and standing in conviction, miracles arise from conviction the course says which I love
that line. You have to more than know a principle. Stand on it and that's what I hope the book
does, that in reading it, it bolsters the self-confidence with which you actually wield
to the power of the knowledge of principle. There is a line in A Course of Miracles where
it says:
"If you treat these ideas like toys or symbols or metaphors, they'll have the power of a
toy or a symbol or a metaphor. But if you treat these ideas like the powers that literally
ruled the universe, so shall they be for you."
I love you. I'm going to ask one more question before we wrap up. This is something specific
that I encounter a lot, especially with women and especially when it comes to the subject
of money. Feeling a sense of shame or embarrassment about wanting to make it, about wanting to
be successful and something I've heard you say before when you experience that level
of shame or embarrassment about wanting to make money, you're sabotaging yourself from
actually having any.
Some people in our society today are prejudice against poor people, but some people in our
society are prejudice against rich people. Not every poor person is some lazy no good-nic,
but not every rich person is someone who made their money unethically. No socio-economic
group has a monopoly on righteousness and there's nothing beautiful about what happens
when money stops circulating; there is nothing beautiful about bread lines. Sometimes people
limit themselves. A Course of Miracles says "beware the power of an unrecognized belief."
Sometimes we look at people who have money and we make assumptions; it's like we know,
and if you have a judgment of people because they created wealth, you will subconsciously
sabotage the creation of wealth when it's moving towards you. There is such a thing
as unethical wealth creation, there is such a thing as greed and there is such a thing
as economic injustice, and those are important topics for us to be aware of at this time
in our history. There is no doubt about that. However, that doesn't mean that everybody
who is making money is making money from a place that is not loving and good. Anytime
we are judging anyone, we can get off that holy high horse of ours because the judgment
itself, number one, God judges no one, and number two, if you judge someone else for
anything great in their life, you will block the reception of whatever that is into your
own. Anytime you see a person having anything you want in any area of life, celebrate it,
be happy and take whatever envy you feel and say "God, please take this from me because
I know it doesn't serve."
I love that. Gorgeous.
At the same time, all of this is true; I think it's also important for us to realize always
that money isn't everything. To say that you are open to finances should be coupling with
an absolute realization that money should never be our bottom line. Love should be our
bottom line and that should be true not only as individuals, but it should be true as a
society. The great transformation that we need in the world is a shift from an economic
ordering principle of human civilization to a humanitarian order and principle of human
civilization. The whole point of people like yourself, myself and your audience, of making
money is not only to take care of ourselves or our families or our loved ones, but the
world, and money is a power and it should be used in all ways very responsibly. The
power that accrues to us should not just be buying power; it should be about something
much more than consumers. It should be about a conscious sense of responsibility to particularly
the children of the earth and to future generations, and I think people like yourself, being so
in the forefront of that change, is so significant and I'm happy to be talking to you.
You're going to make me cry. I come to see you speak anytime I can and I've loved you
for years and one of the things I so adore is that often, and probably almost every time,
you end with a prayer. Is that something we can do today?
Sure.
Dear God, for all of us who are joined here, we place in your hands our burdens and our
questions and our responsibilities. We place in your hands our debts and we place in your
hands our assets. We place in your hands our fears about money and work and we place in
your hands our visions and our prayers and our hopes for money and work. In this and
in all things, dear God, we pray to be lifted to the highest level of divine order. May
we be who you would have us be that we might do what you would have us do. May our work
in the world, dear God, be more than just a job. May it be a calling as each of us now
surrender ourselves and ask that we be used by you that whatever we do, it be a conduit
for the love that uplifts all things. May the brilliance and the genius that is your
spirit within us move through us in collaboration, with the genius moving through everyone else
to create the most beautiful world. And so
it is together we say "Amen."
That was just ridiculous and amazing and what we're going to do now, [unintelligible 0:29:35],
we're so filled with so much grace and so much love, what we always do on MarieTV is
we challenge you because we want you to take this insight and really turn it into action,
and something else I learned from Marianne. One of my favorite things from A Course in
Miracles, an idea is more powerful- how does that one go?
"An idea is more powerful when it is shared."
Yes. Marianne, this has been amazing.