字幕列表 影片播放 列印所有字幕 列印翻譯字幕 列印英文字幕 Ok, so these earrings are really heavy, but I really like them and I'm going to wear them for few minutes, for you, 'cause Elsa is making me. 好,這對耳環實在很重,但我真的很喜歡他們而且我要為了你們將它們戴上一會兒,因為這是 Elsa 耳環。 Hey, it’s Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be to create a business and life you love. 嘿,我是 Marie Forleo 而你正在收看的是 MarieTV,一個讓你可以創造自己喜歡的事業和生活的地方 And this whole thingamajig is Q&A Tuesday. You and I. A’s and Q’s. 而這集是星期二的問答時間。你和我,問題和答案 Let’s do this. Today’s question comes from Dee and she writes, 讓我們開始吧。今天的問題來自 Dee,她說: “Hi Marie, I’m a follower from India. Since I was a young girl I wanted to start my own business, 「嗨 Marie,我是來自印度的粉絲,從我還是個小女孩我就想要開始自己的事業, travel the world, and make a name for myself and more. Today at 31 I’ve achieved most of that. 到世界各地旅遊,讓自己出名還有很多其他的。我現在 31歲,我己經達成了大部分的目標 So my question is, what do you do after your dreams come true? 所以我的問題是,在你的夢想實現之後你要做什麼呢? How do I get the same drive and passion I had when I was 24 before I achieved all my goals and realized my dreams?” 我要怎麼得到和我以前 24 歲時,在達成所有我的目標和實現我的夢想之前一樣的動力和熱情? 」 Dee, this is a fantastic question and something so many of us can relate to. Dee,這是一個很好的問題而且其中有些和我們許多人都有關。 We set some goals, we achieve them, and then we look around and say, “Is this all there is?” 我們設定一些目標,達成它們,然後我們左顧右盼並說:「就這樣而己嗎?」 You may know this already, but it certainly bears repeating. We human beings need more than just achieving our goals to be happy. 你也許已經知道了,但這確實值得重複提起。 我們人類要獲得快樂,需要的不僅是達成我們的目標 We need to constantly challenge ourselves, we need to learn and grow, 我們需要持之以恆地挑戰自我,我們需要學習和成長 and we need to contribute to others. But here’s the most important thing that we need, we need a compelling vision for our future. 而且我們需要對其他人有所奉獻。而我們最重要的是:我們需要對我們的未來有清楚的展望 As Rosabeth Moss Kantor said, and, yes, it’s a tweetable: “A vision is not just a picture of what could be; 如同 Rosabeth Moss Kantor (一位哈佛大學商學院教授) 說的…沒錯,這是一句推特佳句:「展望不僅僅是對什麼是有可能的一個畫面 it’s an appeal to our better selves, a call to become something more.” 它引領我們找到更好的自己,它呼喊著比現在更豐富的自己。」 I’d love to ask you, Dee, what’s your long-term vision? Dee,我想要問妳,妳的長期展望是什麼呢? What kind of things do you wanna experience in your life over the next 5, 10, 20, or 30 years? 在下一個 5 年、10 年、20 年或者 30 年,你想要經歷什麼樣的事情呢? What kind of things do you wanna do in this world? How do you wanna make an impact? 妳想要在這個世界上做什麼樣的事情? 妳要如何發揮妳的影響力? Is it through your family, is it through some creative endeavor? 是會透過你的家人?還是會藉由你有創意的點子? Is there some problem that you wanna see solved? 有沒有一些問題是妳想要解決的? Or try this one on for size, imagine yourself far, far, far into the future on your deathbed 或者可以試試看這個,試著想像妳在很久很久以後,在妳臨終之時 because, yes, some day we’re all gonna be there. Describe the kind of life you want to look back on. 因為,畢竟有一天我們都會走到這個階段。描述妳願意回首的這一生的過程。 What do you wanna do with your life? 妳這一生想要做什麼呢? How will you have spent the decades that you’ve been here on this earth? 妳未來在地球上的幾十年要如何運用? These questions can help stimulate your imagination and reignite your dreams 這些問題可以刺激你的想像並重心點燃你對夢想的熱情 because I believe that each of us has a deep inner hunger for something more 因為我相信我們每一個人內心都有一個深層的渴望能獲得更多 and that every single one of us is here for a reason. 而且我們每一個人都有天生的使命 Now, Dee, I don't know if you believe in God, some higher creative force, or the universe, Dee,我不知道你是否相信神、一些更高層次的創造力或是整個宇宙的力量 but if you’re open to it I would also suggest asking for guidance and be open to receiving it. 但如果你對這些抱持開放的心態,我也建議你可以要求它們的指引並以開放的態度接收來自這些力量的訊息 You know, I’m a born and raised Catholic girl, and in my 20s I remember journaling to God, 你知道的,我出生在一個天主教家庭,而在我 20 歲時我記得當我和上帝禱告 particularly when I felt stuck, and I would say, “You gave me gifts, I’m here to use them, God, show me the way.” 特別是當我感到不如意時,我會說:「你給了我天賦,而我正在試著發揮它,上帝啊,請教我該怎麼做吧。」 And speaking of the early 20s, Dee, don’t discount hormones as a possible factor for all that passion you had at 24. 說到20歲初,Dee,不要低估荷爾蒙是在 24 歲時可以帶給妳熱情的一個重要因素 The same thing that makes you wanna go out dancing all night 同樣的東西它讓妳想要在外徹夜狂歡 and do other things all night, brings a lot of passion to everything else you’re into. 並整夜做些其他事情,為你正在投入的事情帶來熱情 Now, I’m not saying you can’t recapture that feeling, but you’ve got to admit, 我不是說妳不能再重新找回那個感覺,但妳必須承認 we all have a little bit of an extra helping hand when we’re young. 當我們年輕時都有一些得天獨厚的優勢 Kinda like Hamburger Helper, except it’s made of hormones. 有點像是 Hamburger Helper (一種西式速食),除了它不是荷爾蒙做成的 That’s my A to your Q, Dee. Let us know how it goes. Now I would love to hear from you. Dee,針對妳的問題這是我給的回答。讓我們知道後續的情況吧。現在我想要聽聽你們的想法 Have you ever reached all of your goals and had a “Is this all there is?” moment? 你曾經達成所有你的目標並且有「就這樣而己嗎?」的時刻嗎? What’d you do to get re inspired? And even if you haven’t, 你會做什麼讓自己重新被激勵?即使你不曾有這樣的經驗 I believe all of us need a bigger vision for our future and I would love to hear yours. 我相信我們都需要對未來有一個遠大的展望而我想聽聽你們的 As always, the best stuff happens after the episode over at MarieForleo.com, 一如往常,最好的事情都發生在在這部影片之後 so go there and leave a comment now. 所以現在到 MarieForleo.com 網站上並寫下你的留言吧 Did you like this video? If so, subscribe and share it with your friends. 你喜歡這部影片嗎? 如果是的話,請訂閱並分享給你的朋友們 And if you want even more great resources to create a business and a life that you love, 而如果你想要更多的資源來創造你想要的事業和生活 plus some personal insights from me that I only talk about in email, 加上一些我只在電子郵件中談論到的個人觀點 get your buns over to MarieForleo.com and sign up for email updates. 趕快到 MarieForleo.com 並註冊,這樣就可以藉由電子郵件得到網站的更新消息 Stay on your game and keep going for your dreams. 在你的舞臺上堅持下去並繼續追求你的夢想 The world needs that special gift that only you have. 這個世界需要你獨一無二的天賦 Thank you so much for watching and I’ll catch you next time on MarieTV. 非常感謝你的收看,我們下次在 MarieTV 再見