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When you look out onto the world,
當你仰望世界
it certainly appears the Earth is flat.
理所當然地地球看起來似乎是個平面
The ground beneath you is stable and unmoving,
你腳下的是穩固且恆久不動的地面
and stars and sun circle the Earth.
且星星與太陽環繞在地球周邊
Hundreds of years ago,
數百年前
elaborate theories were developed based on these common sense observations
許多複雜的理論都是基於這些生活常識發展而來
to explain and predict the reach of the oceans
用來解釋與預測目前能觸及的海洋範圍
and the movement of celestial bodies.
及天體運行
When science demonstrated that these common sense observations were illusions,
當科學方法驗證這些常識都只是幻覺
and depicted the Earth and the Universe in a completely different way,
並以截然不同的方式描繪這個地球及宇宙時
people slowly came to accept that the world was not as it seemed.
人們慢慢接受這個世界似乎不是他們看到的這樣
Scientific measurements and sophisticated calculations
科學觀測方法與複雜的計算
have repeatedly demonstrated that
不斷地論證
what we think is intuitive, obvious and common sense
那些我們認為很直觀、很顯而易見,猶如常識般的事實
cannot be trusted to be true.
並不能相信那就是真理
For that reason, modern science is based on the denial of common sense
因此,現代科學就是基於否定這些常識
until apparently it comes to ourselves:
直到我們認清事實
when science confirms a particular way of thinking about our mind and behaviour,
當科學證實一個有關我們的心智與行為的特殊思維方式
or depicts it in an unusual and a new way,
或是以一個新的、不同於平常的方式描繪時
we tend to be skeptical that such a science is worthwhile
我們傾向於懷疑這樣的科學結果是不是值得相信
even if possible.
即使是有可能的
And instead, we fall back on intuition, prior beliefs, and yes, common sense.
相反的,我們寧願回歸到直覺、信念以及,常識
For instance, if I told you,
例如,如果我告訴你
scientific research's demonstrated that opposites attract,
科學研究結果顯示同極相斥、異極相吸
wouldn't you tell me that we don't need a science to tell us something we already know?
難道你們不會告訴我,我們不需要科學來證明這些早就知道的事情?
But what if I told you that birds of a feather flock together according to scientific research,
但如果我告訴你根據科學研究,鳥類有聚集現象
wouldn't you say, we don't need a science to tell us something we already know?
你們不會說,我們不需要科學來告訴我們這些已經知道的事?
Or you may have realised already,
或是你早就已經明白
of course, that these both may be self-evident truths,
當然,這兩個或許都是不證自明的事實
but they can't both be true
但它們都不能成為真理
since they are internally inconsistent.
因為它們本身有所矛盾
The science of mind and behaviour is full of such examples:
像這樣的例子在心智與行為科學裡到處皆是
self-evident truths that both can't be true.
不證自明的事實,兩者都不可能為真理
We know, for instance,
我們都知道,舉例來說
that two heads are better than one
三個臭皮匠勝過一個諸葛亮
and we know that too many cooks spoil the broth.
我們也知道,廚子成群,煮壞肉羹
The next time you hear a science report of some obvious result,
下次你聽到一個有著明顯結果的科學報告時
remember that the obvious result was equally obvious,
記住這明顯的結果同樣地顯而易見,
but it'd just been proven to be wrong.
但它才剛被證實是錯的
It's obvious there we're rugged individualists.
很顯然地,我們是完全的個人主義
True, true, true!
千真萬確!
We're born to the most prolonged period of dependency,
我們出生後便要渡過最長的依賴期
but in our transition to adulthood, we achieve autonomy, independence,
但在成年期之後,我們開始自治、獨立
to become kings of the mountain,
成為自己王國中的領袖
captains of our universe.
生命的領航員
It's easily (easy) to think about our brain,
我們可以將我們的腦袋看得很單純
how's deep within a cranial vault, separated, isolated, protected from others,
在頭蓋骨下有多少容量,由其他器官組織分開、獨立、保護著
when we look out onto the social world
當我們望向這個群居世界
other individuals certainly look distinct, independent, self vicinities
其他個體當然看起來與眾不同、獨立
with no forces binding them together.
沒有強硬的規範便發展出自己的領域
No wonder that we forget
難怪我們忘記了
that we are members of a social species,
我們也是群居物種
born dependent on our parents, for our species to survive,
生下來便得依靠我們的父母,為了我們的物種生存
these infants must instantly engage their parents in protective behaviour
這些嬰兒必須立即進入父母的保護傘下
and the parents must care enough about these offspring to nurture and protect them.
父母們也必須妥善照顧這些幼童,給予充足養份並保護他們
Even once grown, we are not particularly splendid specimens.
即使長大了,我們也不是特別了不起的種類
Other animals can run faster
其他的動物可以跑得更快
see and smell better,
看得更遠,嗅覺更好
and fight much more effectively than we can.
在爭鬥中比我們更加兇猛有力
Our evolutionary advantage
我們演化的優勢
is our brain and our ability to communicate, plan and reason and work together.
就是我們的腦袋,還有溝通、計畫、推導、合作的能力
Our survival depends on our collective abilities,
我們的生存能力依賴群體能力而定
not on our individual mind.
而非個體心智
We are connected across our lifespan to one another,
我們將自己的生命與他人連結在一起
through a myriad of invisible forces,
透過無數無形的力量
they're, like gravity, are ubiquitous and powerful.
就像地心引力,無所不在且強大
After all, social species, by definition, create a merging structures
畢竟,群居物種,就定義上來說,創造了一個可以不斷合併的組織
that extend beyond an organism,
可以透過一個一個生物個體擴張
structures that range from couples and families
這樣的組織範圍從伴侶、家庭
to schools and nations and cultures.
以至於學校、國家甚至文化
These structures evolved hand in hand with neural, hormonal and genetic mechanisms to support them
這些組織在神經系統、荷爾蒙分泌系統、遺傳基因的機制運作下攜手進化
because the consequent social behaviour
因為理所當然的群居行動
helps these organisms survive,
協助這些生物體生存
reproduce and leave a genetic legacy.
繁殖並留下遺傳基因
To grow to an adulthood for a social species, including humans,
對群居物種來說,進入成年期,包括人類
is not to become autonomous and solitary,
不代表就變得自治、獨立生活
it's to become the one on whom others can depend.
而是變得能讓他人依靠
Whether we know it or not, our brain and biology
不論我們是否知道這個事實,我們的頭腦與身體
have been shaped to favour this outcome.
已經被打造得有利於這樣的演變
The evolutionary biologist, David Sloan Wilson,
一位演化生物學家,David Sloan Wilson
notes that if you ask people:
提及,如果你問人們:
"What are the traits of a good person?",
「 什麼是一個好人具備的特徵? 」
you'll hear traits such as kind, generous, compassionate and empathic.
你會聽到如仁慈的、慷慨的、有同情心的、有同理心的
If you ask people what are the traits of an evil person,
如果你問人們,一個壞人有什麼樣的特徵
you'll hear traits such as
你會聽到的特徵可能是
cruel, greedy, exploitative and selfish.
殘忍的、貪婪的、刻薄的與自私的
Said differently, the traits of a good person
換句話說,那些好人的特徵
depict someone who cares about themselves and others,
描述一個人在乎的是他們自己與他人
and an evil person cares about themselves
而一個壞人在乎的是他們自己
at the expense of others.
以及消費他人
Across our biological heritage,
綜觀我們的生物遺傳史
our brain and biology have been sculpted to incline us
我們的頭腦與身體已經被雕塑成傾向
to certain ways of feeling, thinking and behaving.
以特定的方式來感受、思考與行動
For instance,
舉例來說
we have a number of biological machineries
我們有一些生物機制
that capitalise on aversive signals to motivate us to act
利用反感信號來刺激我們做出行動
in ways that are essential for our survival.
做出足以讓我們生存的行動
Hunger, for instance, is triggered by low blood sugar
例如飢餓,是由低血糖引發的反應
and motivates you to eat,
並刺激你,讓你想進食
an important early warning system for an organism
一個重要的預警系統
that'd require much more time and effort to find food
對一個需要花費許多時間與精力才能找到食物的生物體來說相當重要
than going to the refrigerator door, kitchen cabinet
相較於打開冰箱門、櫥櫃
or fast food restaurants.
或直接去速食餐廳就能找到食物的生物體來說就不那麼重要
Thirst is an aversive signal,
口渴也是個反感信號
that motivates us to search for drinkable water
刺激我們去尋找可飲用水
prior to falling victim to dehydration.
在脫水死亡之前
And pain is an aversive system that notifies us of potential tissue damage
疼痛也是個反感系統,通知我們潛在的身體危害
and motivates us to take care of our physical body.
並刺激我們好好照顧自己的身體
You might think that the biological warning machinery stops there
你可能會想,生物的警示機制就到此為止
but there's more.
但其實不然
Although not common sense, although not intuitive,
雖然這並非常識,雖然這不直觀
the pain and aversiveness of loneliness,
寂寞造成的痛苦與厭惡感
of feeling isolated from those around you,
被周遭孤立的痛苦與厭惡感
is also a part of biological early warning machinery
也是生物預警機制的一部分
to alert you to threats and damage to your social body,
警告你身為群居動物,目前的情況已經造成威脅與損害了
which you also need to survive and prosper.
那也是你為了生存及再次振作所必需的預警機制
Just about all of us have felt physical pain
我們所有人都曾感受到身體上的疼痛
and nearly all of us have felt
也幾乎所有人都曾感受
the heartbreak of home sickness,
痛苦的思鄉之情
the agony of bereavement,
生離死別
the torment of unrequited love
單相思的折磨
and the pain of being shunt.
及分離的痛苦
All of these are variations on the experience of loneliness.
這些各式各樣的感受都屬於寂寞的經歷
When I started to study the effects of loneliness
當我數十年前開始研究寂寞
and brain and biology a couple of decades ago,
頭腦與身體間的關係時
loneliness has been characterized as a non-chronic disease
寂寞曾經被歸類為非慢性疾病
without redeeming features.
沒有改善的特徵
It was even equated with shyness and depression
孤獨的人同時也被視為是害羞的、壓抑的
with being a loner, a person with marginal social skills.
他們是不善於社交活動的人
Scientific measurements and sophisticated calculations,
科學量測方法與複雜的計算
to our surprise, revealed that these were myths.
出乎意料地,顯示這些都只是迷思
Science and common sense had again produced
科學與常識間
two very different depictions of a phenomenon.
再次對一個現象做出兩個迥異的解釋
And yet if you look at the way we are increasingly living our lives,
然而,如果你仔細看看我們生活周遭
it shows the extent to which we still buy into
在某種程度上我們還是對這些迷思買帳
those myths of loneliness and values of autonomy and independence.
那些對寂寞的迷思,以及自治與獨立的價值觀
For instance, if you look at
舉例來說,如果你看到這張圖
the percentage of one-person households in 1940 across the United States
這是美國西元 1940 年一人家戶單位的百分比分佈圖
it was largely less than 15% of the households by state.
美國大部份地區地一人家戶單位都在 15 % 以下
Fast-forward to 1970,
快速地來到西元 1970 年
and it's grown to be between 15 and 20%.
現在大部分地區都落在 15 到 20 %
Fastforward to 2000
到了西元 2000 年
and it now exceeds 25% in most states in America.
在美國大部份地區,都已經超過 25%
And that light blue state, Utah
而那個淡藍色區塊,猶他州
in 2010 census has gone darker blue.
在西元 2010 年的人口統計數據下顯示,它已經變成深藍色了
The prevalence of loneliness is also on the rise.
名為「 寂寞 」的傳染病不斷蔓延
In the 1980s, scholars have estimated that about 20% of Americans
西元 1980 年代,學者的評估結果顯示大約有 20% 的美國人
felt lonelier than at any given point of time.
感覺寂寞,比例為歷年來最高
Two recent nationally representative surveys indicate
而兩個近年來進行的全國性問卷調查顯示
that this number has doubled,
這個數據已經到達 40%
but you don't hear people talking about feeling lonely,
但你不會聽到人們提到他們感到寂寞
and that's because loneliness is stigmatised.
因為寂寞已經被汙名化
The psychological equivalent to being a loser in life or a weak person.
這樣的心理問題等同於你是一個人生失敗者或是一個脆弱的人
And this is truly unfortunate,
這也的確是個不幸的事
because it means we are more likely to deny feeling lonely,
因為這代表我們更有可能否認自己感到寂寞
which makes no more sense than denying we feel hunger, thirst or pain.
這比我們否認自己感到饑餓、口渴或疼痛還要沒有意義
For living with loneliness we now know is the major risk factor
我們現在已經了解孤獨的生活是最主要的風險因子
for broad-based morbidity and mortality.
是不斷上升的罹病率與死亡率的原因
Consider a couple of the conditions we know about premature death.
試想一些我們認知的可能導致早死的情況
Living with air pollution increases your odds of an early death by 5%,
生活在空氣汙染中使你早死的機率提升 5 %
Living with obesity, we know, a national health problem,
而肥胖,眾所皆知,一個全國性的健康問題
increases your odds of an early death by 20%.
提升你的早死機率 20 %
Excessive alcohol consumption: 30%.
過度酗酒:30 %
A recent med analysis of around a hundred thousand participants
近來一個大約有 10 萬人參與的醫學分析
shows that living with loneliness increases your odds
顯示生活在孤獨之中
of an early death by 45%.
早死機率會提升 45%
We're not the only social species and the experimental investigation
我們不是唯一的群居物種,在非人類群居物種實驗調查中
of non-human social animals who were isolated shows
那些被孤立的非人類群居物種顯示
they too suffer deleterious physiological consequences
牠們在心理上也出現了有害的結果
and an abbreviated lifespan.
並縮短了壽命
Across our history, as a species, we have survived and prospered
綜觀我們的歷史,做為一個物種,我們生存且繁榮已久
by banding together,
透過群聚在一起
couples, families and tribes, for mutual protection and assistance.
伴侶、家庭與部族,互相保護、互相協助
We think of loneliness as a sad condition,
我們認為寂寞是個悲傷的情況
but for social species, being on the social perimeters,
但對於群居物種來說,做為群體中的邊緣人
not only sad, it is dangerous.
不只是悲傷,還很危險
The brains of social species including our own have evolved
群居物種的腦袋,包括我們,已經進化到
to respond to being on the social perimeter
必須對處於社群邊緣這件事有所反應
by going into a self-preservation mode.
會產生一種自我防衛模式
If you isolate a rodent and then put it in an open field
如果你將一隻嚙齒動物孤立在一個空曠的原野
such as these dots in the bottom of the image,
就像圖上的那些圓點
it engages into what's called predator revision,
牠便陷入了所謂的獵食者修正
it walks around the outside and doesn't venture into the middle
牠會繞著外圍轉圈,並打死不肯冒險進入中央
where escape from a flying predator would be more more difficult.
因為在中間要逃離會飛的獵食者更加困難
When humans feel isolated,
當人類感到孤立時
they're too, and not only in an unhappy circumstance,
同樣地,不只是陷入一個不悅的情況
but in a dangerous circumstance.
也踏入了危險的情境中
Their brains too snap into a self-preservation mode.
他們的腦袋同樣進入自我防衛模式
In a brain-imaging study that we conducted,
我們進行了一個腦造影研究
we showed people negative images
我們給受試者看一些負面影像
that had nothing to do with other people
這些影像與他人
or negative social images,
或與負面社會形象無關
while they were sitting in a scanner and we were scanning.
同時他們正坐在機器裡面讓我們掃描
What we found was
我們發現
the lonelier the brain,
當腦袋覺得越寂寞
when a negative social image was presented,
當一個負面社會影像顯現
that is in a person's environment,
是一個我們周遭會發生的情況
when something negative socially happened,
當一些負面的社會活動發生
the brain allocated more attention,
頭腦會變得更加專注
greater visual cortical activity depicted in yellow here, to that image.
在圖上黃色區塊的視覺皮層對那個影像會有越大的活動
Now, as you follow that image forward,
當你陷入影像中的情境
you come to those two blue areas:
就輪到這兩個藍色區域
that's a temporoparietal junction.
這裡稱為顳頂交界區
This is a piece of brain tissue that's involved in theory of mind,
這是大腦組織的一部分,這部分也與心智理論
in mind reading and mentalizing,
與心智解讀及心理化
in taking another person's perspective and empathy.
與設身處地的同理心及同情心有關
It's responsible for the attentional control required to step out of your head
它負責將你的注意力趕出腦袋
and put yourself, at least figuratively, inside the head of someone else
並將你自己放入,做個比喻,放入他人的腦袋
so you can take their point of view.
讓你可以進入他人的觀點
The lonelier the brain,
腦袋感到越寂寞
when something negative in the social context was depicted,
當一些負面情況出現在當前社會背景下
the less the activation in this region.
這個區域的活躍性越低
It's dangerous on the social perimeter.
這對社會邊緣人來說是很危險的
When something happens negative in the social environment,
當一些負面情況發生在這個社會環境中
that brain is focused on self-preservation,
腦袋會專注在自我防衛
not a concern of the other person.
而非關注他人
The similarity in neural and behavioral effects across phylogeny
種系發生學中神經與行為影響的相似性
is a testimony to the importance of the social environment for social species.
證明了社會環境對群居物種的重要性
And these deep evolutionary roots tilting our brain and biology
這樣的進化結果深植我們體內,使我們的腦袋與身體
towards our self-preservation
傾向自我防衛
also suggest that much of what's triggered by social isolation is non-conscious.
也說明了大部份被社會孤立感所驅使的反應是不自覺的
For instance, when you feel isolated
例如,當你感到孤立
you feel this motive, this desire, this intention
你感覺到有一個動機、渴望、意圖
to connect with other people again.
再次與他人有所連繫
What you don't feel,
你不會感覺到的是
is that your brain has gone into a hypervigilance for social threats
你的腦袋為了應對那些社會威脅,已經進入高度警覺狀態
and this hypervigilance means you introduce
這樣的高度警覺狀態代表你
intentional, confirmatory and even memory biases in terms of those social interactions.
開始在那些社會互動中加入有意的、驗證性的、甚至記憶上的偏見
And if you're looking for dangers,
而且如果你在尋找危險
you more like to see dangers
你看見危險的機率更高
whether they exist or not,
不管它是否存在
meaning that you more likely
也表示你更有可能
to have negative interactions.
做出負面互動
And that threat surveillance of always looking for the next foe
總是在尋找下個敵人這樣疑神疑鬼的反應
activates neuro-biological mechanisms
刺激神經生物機制
that can degrade your health and lead to early mortality.
會使健康退化,並導致早死
Loneliness increases defensiveness
寂寞增加了防衛心
because you're focused on your own welfare
因為你會專注在自身福利上
rather than taking the position or perspective of people with whom you interact.
而不是設身處地的為那個與你互動的人著想
Loneliness increases depressive symptoms
寂寞會讓你更壓抑
which has the odd effect of decreasing your likelihood
這會有一個奇特的效果,會降低
of having social conflict
你發生社會衝突的可能性
and through the acoustic and postural
並透過聲音、姿勢
and facial expressions of sadness,
與臉部表現出傷心的情緒
such as this child in this picture serves as a signal
就像圖中的小孩的表情姿勢就是個信號
to others in the vicinity to reconnect with you,
向鄰近地區的人們發送信號,期望再次與你互動
if they are willing to do so
如果他們樂意的話
so it's a safe call for connection.
所以這是個安全的方式來再次喚起連結
Loneliness increases morning cortisol levels,
寂寞增加早上皮質醇的水平
a powerful stress hormone,
一個強力的壓力荷爾蒙
the consequence of the brain's preparation
皮質醇增加的結果表示大腦
for yet another dangerous day.
又在為另一個危險的日子做準備
And loneliness increases prepotent responding,
寂寞也會增加以繁衍為優先的反應
which means you are more likely
意味著你更有可能
to fall victim to a whole host of unhealthy impulsive behaviours.
淪為大量不健康的衝動行為的犧牲品
And the end of the day
而到了晚上,一天即將過去
doesn't bring an end to the brain's high alert state.
但腦袋仍處於高警覺狀態,尚未有一天將要完結的感覺
If it's dangerous to fend off wild beasts by yourself with a stick,
如果只有你自己一人用棍子來抵檔野獸
imagine how dangerous it is to lay that stick down at night when predators are out
想像在晚上當捕食者還在近處,將棍子擱下會有多危險
and you're without that safe social surround.
而且你也不在安全的聚落中
We've found that loneliness also decreases sleep salubrity,
我們發現寂寞也會降低睡眠品質
increases the number of micro awakenings,
稍稍醒覺的次數增加
increases the fragmentation of sleep
使夜晚睡眠更加破碎
and thereby decreases the detoxification of stressful days over the course of the night.
因此經過一整個晚上,紓解一天壓力的效果大打折扣
Loneliness even alters gene expression such as
寂寞甚至改變基因表現,例如
inflammatory biology to deal with assaults.
處理發炎反應
Not long ago we thought about the genes as the keyboard
不久前我們認為基因就像是鍵盤
on which life's song played out.
演奏出人生的樂章
What this research suggests is that
這個研究顯示出的是
if the genes are the keys on the piano,
如果基因是鋼琴上的琴鍵
then the environment including your social environment
那麼這個環境,包括社交環境
is the pianist influencing which keys are turned on and off.
就是決定琴鍵起落的鋼琴家
Well if loneliness is dangerous,
如果寂寞是危險的
what can we do about it?
我們該怎麼辦?
When we are hungry,
當我們餓了
we can go to the refrigerator and get a snack.
我們可以到冰箱找點零嘴
When we are thirsty,
當我們口渴
we can go to the faucet and draw a glass of water.
我們可以到水龍頭裝杯水
But when we are lonely, we have no pantry full of friends
但當我們感到寂寞,我們沒有成群的朋友
with whom we can connect
可以連繫
and no online social networking
也沒有線上社交網絡
does not replace the comforting touch of a friend.
不能取代朋友的撫慰之手
First, recognize what the signal is
首先,認清楚寂寞的信號
and don't deny it.
不要抗拒它
Second, understand what it does to your brain,
其次,了解它對你的腦袋有何影響
to your body, to your behavior.
對你的身體、對你的行為有何影響
It's dangerous,
它是危險的
as a member of a social species, to feel isolated.
做為群居物種的一員,感到孤立是危險的
And our brain snaps into a self-preservation mode.
我們的大腦進入自我防衛模式
That brings with it some unwanted and unknown effects
這會帶來一些不想要也未知的影響
on our thoughts and our actions toward others.
影響我們對他人的想法與行動
Be aware of those, understand those effects
了解到、明白到這些影響
and take responsibility for your actions toward others.
也要為你對他人的行為負責
And third, respond.
第三,做出回應
Understanding that it's not the quantity of friends,
了解到朋友的數量並不是重點
it's a quality of a few relationships that actually matter.
重點在一段新關係的品質
Attend to the three components of connectedness.
注意到連結性的三個部份
One can promote immanent connections by developing one individual
一個人可以透過與你信任的人發展穩定關係來促進內部連結性
who's trusted, in whom you can confide and who can confide in you.
一個可以互相信賴、傾訴的人
You can promote relational connectance
你可以促進關係中的連結度
by simply sharing good times with friends and family.
僅需透過與朋友、家人分享美好時光
We often go to the dinner table happy that we've provided for our family,
我們經常在餐桌上因為我們為家人付出而感到開心
but having forgotten to share any good time with them en route.
卻忘了在途中分享美好時光
Collective connectedness can be promoted by becoming a part of something bigger than yourselves.
讓自己融入更大的社群,可以促進群體的連結性
If the obstacles to connection seem insurmountable,
如果你無法跨越那道與他人產生連結的牆
consider volunteering for something that you enjoy.
當成自願為了你所享受的事物付出
Perhaps helping to serve the needy, volunteering in a museum,
或許是幫助貧苦的人,在博物館的志願工作
a zoo, a running club or a TedEx event.
在動物園、俱樂部或是 TedEx 演講服務
Or simply taking time to speak to elders at the retirement home.
或是簡單的花點時間與退休宅中的長者聊天
Sharing good times is one of the keys to connection.
分享美好時光是與他人產生連結的關鍵之一
And don't wait, the next time you feel alienated, isolated or excluded,
別在等了,下一次你感到被疏遠、被孤立或被排擠時
respond to that aversive signal
對這些反感信號做出回應
as you would hunger, thirst and pain
就像你飢餓、口渴、疼痛時一樣
and get connected.
去與他人產生連繫吧!
Thank you.
謝謝
(Applause)
( 鼓掌 )