Name: 【TED】艾倫‧狄波頓:一種更寬容,更溫和的成功哲學 (A kinder, gentler philosophy of success | Alain de Botton)
Uploaded: 2013-03-28T04:39:45.000Z
Duration: 16 min 52 s

For me they normally happen, these career crises,

情態副詞

程度副詞

自我期盼和生活現實之間的鴻溝

and the reality of my life, start to diverge so painfully

that I normally end up weeping into a pillow.

以至於最後總是以哭泣進入夢鄉,結束了我的週末夜

I'm mentioning all this because I think  this is not merely a personal problem.

but I think that we live in an age when our lives are regularly

我認為,生活在這個世代,你我的人生進行式,常常

comes into contact with a threatening sort of reality.

不期然卻遇上了衝擊 - 現實的威脅.

It's perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living.

現在要過好日子,是前所未見的簡單

但能保有一顆平靜心,又能免於生涯焦慮

to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.

we might be feeling anxiety about our careers.

Why we might be victims of these career crises,

為什麼我們成為職場危機的犧牲品

as we're weeping softly into our pillows.

為什麼淪落到以啜泣進入枕頭鄉,週末夜畫上句點?

One of the reasons why we might be suffering

particularly to anybody who's come to Oxford from abroad.

尤其對從國外來訪牛津的各位來說

Because sometimes people from outside the U.K.

因為在英國以外的人往往都以為

imagine that snobbery is a distinctively U.K. phenomenon

所聯想到的是鄉間大宅以及爵位頭銜

We are a global organization. This is a global phenomenon.

這是個全球化組織.勢利問題是一個全球現象

A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you

勢利就是:任何人,切割了一小部分的你

and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are.

並且用它取代了「你是誰」的意義

You encounter it within minutes at a party,

去任何宴會,五分鐘之內就會遇見

when you get asked that famous iconic question

of the early 21st century, "What do you do?"

And according to how you answer that question,

people are either incredibly delighted to see you,

人們要不就是立刻對認識你感到無比的歡愉

or look at their watch and make their excuses.

或者是他們只看一下手錶,就立刻想到一個結束談話的藉口

Now, the opposite of a snob is your mother.

再來,勢利鬼的相反呢,就是您的母親

Not necessarily your mother, or indeed mine,

並不一定真的是您的母親,或我的母親

而是一種理想定義下的完美母親

somebody who doesn't care about your achievements.

But unfortunately, most people are not our mothers.

但不幸的是,不是每個人都是您母親

Most people make a strict correlation between how much time,

大多數人在「該花多少時間和多少...愛」這件事情上,有嚴格定規

and if you like, love -- not romantic love,

我說的不是愛情電影裡那種浪漫的愛

但我要說的是比較普通,一般性質的,愛

they are willing to accord us, that will be strictly defined

人們願意分配多少時間和愛給我們,那是嚴格的按照著

我們所擁有的社會階級來定義的

And that's a lot of the reason why we care so much about our careers

那就是為什麼我們對工作職業那麼在乎的很重要原因

and indeed start caring so much about material goods.

並且我們非常關切物質上的財富

You know, we're often told that we live in very materialistic times,

大家常說我們生活在一個唯物化的時代

I don't think we are particularly materialistic.

我不認為我們是特別唯物的世代

而我想,是我們所存在的這個社會

which has simply pegged certain emotional rewards

It's not the material goods we want. It's the rewards we want.

我們要的不是物質財富.其實我們要的是那份掛在上面的獎勵.

And that's a new way of looking at luxury goods.

這使我們對奢侈財有了新的觀點

The next time you see somebody driving a Ferrari

don't think, "This is somebody who is greedy."

不要想:「這傢伙一定是貪心鬼」

Think, "This is somebody who is incredibly vulnerable and in need of love."

你該這麼想:「喔,這個人脆弱到不行,他需要很多愛」

there are other reasons  why it's perhaps harder now

還有一些其他原因,使我們如今比過往更難

One of these, and it's paradoxical because it's linked to something that's rather nice,

其中一項是-而這相當矛盾,因為這個原因和一種頗為美好的東西連結著

Never before have expectations been so high

從來沒有一個時代像現在,人對工作職業能有

about what human beings can achieve with their lifespan.

如此高的期待,一生中能成就這麼多了不起的事情

We're told, from many sources, that anyone can achieve anything.

許多訊息都灌輸:任何人都能成就任何事

We are now in a system where anyone can rise

Along with that is a kind of spirit of equality. We're all basically equal.

伴隨而來的是平等精神.人都生而平等

There is one really big problem with this,

嫉妒真是個禁忌話題,大家都避而不談

but if there is one dominant emotion in modern society, that is envy.

但如果說我們的社會有哪個情感問題非常氾濫,非嫉妒莫數

And it's linked to the spirit of equality.  Let me explain.

而它還與平等精神相關.容我解釋.

I think it would be very unusual for anyone here, or anyone watching,

我想現場在座的各位和觀賞影片的各位,應該都很難...

Even though she is much richer than any of you are.

The reason why we don't envy her is because she's too weird.

我們卻不嫉妒她,因為她真的太怪了.

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