I didsaythatthatinvitewas a dummyinvite, butpeoplejustkindofclungtothatdate, so I justafter a while, justkindofletthembecause I thoughtitafterwhenweactuallygetmarried.
And I actuallythinkthatisprobably I mean, I don't jumpthegunhere, butfromthefeedbackthatwe'vehadformyfamily, I thinkitwas a gooddayfor a lotofpeoplein a fewdaysbecausewedidactuallystaytwonightswherewehadourvineyard.
Itwasitwasbrilliant.
Theweddingdidn't actuallystartoff.
Thatsortofbigonit, kindof.
I mean, itwasn't biginthesenseoftherewaslotsofpeople.
I thinkinbytheevening, wehadabout 122 130 people.
I thoughtthatwasquitebigareThenyoudidn't thinkthatthatwasquitebig, butmostpeopleseemtothinkthat's quitebig.
ButasAliand I spokeaboutthingsandrealizedwhatwewantedtodointheoptionsthatwehad, wedecidedthatitwouldbereallyspecialtohaveallofourfamilyinoneplaceatthattimeofyear.
WejustwantedtogeteveryonearoundforChristmasonDhemakeitmoreaboutthefamilyratherthanjustaboutus, because I knowthatitmightbedifficultforsomepeopletobelieve.
ButthewholeprospectofeverythingbeingaboutAliand I wasactuallyquitelikeorwedidn't lovethatidea.
Eveninourfirstdance.
Wewerelike, well, dancelike 20 seconds.
Andthencaneveryonejuststartanotherthingaswell?
Becausewereallyfeelitbecamethisbigthing.
Andlike a budget, even a budgetjustgotoutofhand.
Wespentsomuchmoreonthisweddingthanweintendedto.
Itwasactuallyquitescaryatonepoint, anditwasalsoquitelikeunnerveingbecauseit's justlike a wedding.
It's just a partyessentiallyondhe.
I kindoffellatonepoint.
Oh, myGod.
Thisisgettingsolike, carriedawayandextravagant.
Andthenwhenwegottotheday, I wasso, sohappythatwedideverythinglike, honestly, I can't expresstoyouevenjustdownThiolikethemacaroonsthatwereonthetables.
Everyoneisstilltalkingaboutthem.
Andtheywerejust a littletouchedthatwewerelike, Yeah, let's let's dothat.
Andi, I dowanttodolikeanentire Q and A aboutbecause I feellike I haveso, somuchtotalkabout.
But I don't reallyknowhowThiosortofgoaboutit.
So I thoughtifyouguyshaveanyquestionsoranythingyouwanttoknowaboutourwedding, thenpleasejustaskhiminthecommentsbelow, because I think I'm gonnatryanddragAlleyandwe'lldo a Q and A togetheronjustsitdownandtalkaboutthewholeprocessonDhe, thewholeweddingandeverythingthatweloved, andjustyetSo I thinkthatthat's that's probablythebestwaytostartthingsoff.
Andthen I'm goingtobedoingquite a lotofcontentonmyblock, justkindofaboutmydressondhemyhead.
Therewas a lotofinterestinmyhairandhow I woreit, whichisgreatandalsomyokay.
I mean, it's difficultinthishouse, as a voicesaidtolike, havepropersitdownmealtimesbecausehalfthetimewe'vegot, like, laundrypileduponourbreakfastbarandthingslikethat.
Sobutwearetryingtoknuckledownonthatandcreate a lotmorestructurein a lotmoreroutineandalso a lotmorelasttime, eventhoughthere's somethingthat I thinkthatwe'vealwaysbeenquitegoodat.
I'm actuallytakingtimeoutfromthisvideointhemiddleof a peakyblindersmarathon.
We'recurrentlyonserious, too.
Nospoilersondhe.
We'reenjoyingit a lot.
Sothat's onething, andalsoreading.
I, um, spending a lotmoretime.
Well, I sweetbecause I speakabout a law I seeaboutreading a lotbecause I usedtoreadsomuchmorethan I readnow, like a university, I wouldjustgothroughbookslikethat, andit's reallynice.
There's a lotofthingsIfpeopledoeversendmegiftsintomy P o box, a lotofthemarebooks, and I'vereceivedsomeamazingbooks.
Overthelastweekorso, I received a book, TheWomenWhorunWithWolvesonDhe.
YoudoyoubuySarahnight, which I'm actuallylisteningtoanaudibleatthemoment I spokeabout.
It's onmyTwitter.
Youdon't followmeonTwitterTwitteratLadyemailin.
But I do a lotofchattingonthereand a lotofconversingwithyouguys.
I think I sawChristinaBrawley's sponsorshipwiththem a whileago, anditreally, like, piquedmyinterest.
Andthen I decidedtolook a littlebitmoreintoit, and I askedyouguysyouropinionsandyouguysalllovedit, so I downloadeditinstantlyonyou.
Doyou?
Isthefirstbookthat I gotonmyaudibleapp, and I nowlistentoitwhen I cookdinner.
Yes, I amcookingdinner.
That's anotherthingthatwearedoing a lotmorenowWearecookingdinner, eithertogetherorforeachotheronbaking.
A realthingaboutit.
I actuallycookedmashedpotatooninstagramstorieslastnightonDDE.
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Soitwasquitefunny.
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Sowhat?
Youknow, if I'm cleaningtheofficeorthehouseor I'm cookingordoingmymakeupinsteadofputtingon, like a YouTubevideooranythinglikethat, actuallyputonorderboard.
And I listento a bookthat I'vebeenmeaningtoreadbecause I don't necessarilyhaveenoughtimetoreadallofthebooks I wanttodo.
But I wantedtoputoutthislittleupdatebefore I resumedbloggingtomorrowbecauseitjustgottobeonthesamepageofthingandjustkindoflikeupdateyouguysandeverythingthat's beengoingonbecause, I mean, I feellike I'vemissedoutsomuchstuff.
I can't believewe'realreadyalmost 550,000 subscribers.
Likeitfeelslikeyesterdaythatwehit 500,000.
Soyeah, it's excitingtimesondhe.
I feellikethis.
Theselastfewweekshavedonesomuchformeintermsofmychannelandalsomyapproachtoeworkonjustmygeneralaptitudewiththingsjustfeelsitjustfeelslikewe'vecomeon a verylongway.
So I amvery, veryexcited, selflookingTomorrow, I'vereallymissedit.
Itwaswellneeded, But I havemissedit.
Soisgonnabegood.
SpeakupmycameratomorrowonDhe.
Um, yeah.
Hopefully I haven't boredyouwithmychattylifeupdate, and I thinkwe'veseenitthroughtotheend.
Butyetdon't forgetThio.
AskmealloftheweddingrelatedquestionsinthecommentssectionbelowAnythingyouwanttoknowabouttheweddingPlanning a wedding, planning a wedding, likemine, how I didit, whywechosetodointhewaythatwedid.
BecauseAllieand I actuallychosetonottobetootraditional.
I mean, wedidthetraditionalweddinginthesensethatthere's a lotoftraditionsthatwetookonmadeourown.
Somewefeltwereoutdated.
Somewefeltjustdidn't suitus.
Soyeah, I'd lovetohearwhatyouwouldlovetoknow.
Andi, I lookforward, Thiofilmingthat Q and A andgettingupthingthat I willseeyouinSunday's videoondhe.