vagaries
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n. pl.名詞 (複數)變幻莫測
They are trying to find a final solution to deal with vagaries of weather
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別愛上這幾種人：請收藏這份清單！✅ (People not to fall in love with: a checklist)
- It may sound ungenerous to throw the emphasis on the negative, but we can fairly say that people who are good at love know, first and foremost, who not to fall in love with. While they may have all sorts of friends and a wide sympathy for the vagaries of being human, when it comes to who they opt to tie themselves to, this is some of what they will avoid with determination. People who have no sense of how difficult they are to live with. People with a heightened belief in their infallibility. People who will, when something is pointed out to them, quickly choose the occasion to simultaneously inform you that it's not as though you're perfect either. People who will label any criticism of them, however sensitively delivered, as rude or offensive and contrary to the rules of true love as they define these. People who deliberately drive you to the edge of frustration, then turn and say, why are you getting cross so suddenly? People who smile and say, I get it completely now, I'm going to change, and then go and do whatever it was all over again a few days later. People who combine an exquisite talent for upset with an even greater talent for sentimental apology. People who will flirt with others, then call it only a bit of fun and label you a prude for minding. People who will mess up your house and call you anal. People who will prioritise time with their friends over time with you and then call you controlling. People who tell you you're imagining things a lot. People who harbour a background grudge against your gender. People who are furious with a parent and don't realise they are. People who can't forgive anyone who thinks better of them than they think of themselves. People who claim desperately to want a relationship but are inwardly so committed to distrust, isolation and self-hatred that they aren't in any position really to have one and yet don't know this of themselves. People who principally associate love with the pleasant feelings they register when you are nice to them. People who don't take your love as a substantial gift you choose to bestow every day and could take elsewhere.
把重點放在消極方面聽起來可能不近人情，但我們可以公平地說，善於戀愛的人首先知道不應該愛上誰。雖然他們可能會有各種各樣的朋友，也會對變幻莫測的人性抱有廣泛的同情，但在選擇與誰相愛時，他們會堅決避免與這樣的人相愛。不知道自己有多難相處的人。堅信自己無懈可擊的人。當有人指出他們的缺點時，他們會迅速選擇時機，同時告訴你，你也並非完美無缺。他們會把任何對他們的責備，無論多麼敏感，都說成是粗魯或冒犯，違背了他們定義的真愛規則。他們故意把你逼到沮喪的邊緣，然後轉過身說，你怎麼突然生氣了？他們會微笑著說，我現在完全明白了
- While they may have all sorts of friends and a wide sympathy for the vagaries of being human, when it comes to who they opt to tie themselves to, this is some of what they will avoid with determination.
他們通過自己的經歷學到了人生最重要的一課，那就是戀愛的意義在於彼此愉悅--因為我們最終可能會意識到，我們活得不夠久，無法再做其他事情。
你的心理年齡是幾歲呢？如果你明白這 12 個道理，代表你已經是個「成熟的成年人」！ (12 Signs You Are a Psychologically Mature Adult)
- Nine, we accept how many of our moods rely on the vagaries of our bodies.
九，我們接受了自己的許多情緒都依賴於身體的變化無常。
如何延長你的人生 (How To Lengthen Your Life)
- Time moves more or less slowly according to the vagaries of the human mind: it may fly or it may drag. It may evaporate into airy nothing or achieve enduring density.
隨著人類思維的變幻莫測，時間過得或快或慢 :時間可能轉瞬即逝或慢條斯理，它可能會無聲無息地消逝亦或成為永恆。
