stead
US /stɛd/
・UK /sted/
C1 高級
n. (u.)不可數名詞代替 ； 有利 ； 場所
The experience will stand you in good stead for the future
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分手後復合前 — 必看這支影片！ (Before You Get Back With Your Ex — Watch THIS)
- Frank answers can spare a couple decades of squabbling. Next, what trouble do I bring into the relationship? How am I difficult to live around? There should be no bristling here. Bearable people have a good handle on their unbearable dimensions. We don't need people to be perfect, we just need them to have a decent sense of how imperfect they are and how much their imperfections are going to cause the other pain. Then, what trouble do you bring into the relationship? How are you difficult to live around? We need agreement on the mutual complications that are being brought to the table. Both people should write their answers down, then show the other their analyses. Can both sides agree on what's most horrible in each person? The more alignment there can be, the less future criticism has to feel like nagging, and the more it can fit into a kinder project of helping someone to change as they would, at their saner moments, wish to change. Then, which bits of my anxiety and unhappiness did I discover were not, after all, your fault? What continued to be difficult even without you around? It's highly tempting when in a relationship to assume that all the misery we face is the fault of the lover. We attribute to the main person in our lives a commanding role in determining our state of mind. But when they're gone, we may be forced to realise a more complex truth – that our low moods and neuroses have their origins, in large part, in us rather than in them. It can, oddly, no longer all be their fault. How did life remain hard, even without them? What might they not be to blame for? Then, what I now appreciate more properly about you is… We're meant never to lose sight of what was great about them, but in reality, we sometimes need the perspective of time to get clearer about their virtues. In the long months since we were together, what sides of them did we realise we most deeply valued? Then, what did I learn from meeting other people? A truly tricky subject, but as we're realising, it's a capacity for eating humble pie that stands a restarted relationship in such good stead.
坦率的回答可以避免幾十年的爭吵。接下來，我給這段關係帶來了什麼麻煩？我是如何難以相處的？這裡不應該有毛刺。可以忍受的人都能很好地控制自己無法忍受的方面。我們不需要人們完美無缺，我們只需要他們對自己有多不完美以及自己的不完美會給對方帶來多大的痛苦有一個正確的認識。那麼，你給這段關係帶來了什麼麻煩？你是如何難以相處的？我們需要就彼此帶來的麻煩達成一致。兩個人都應該寫下自己的答案，然後給對方看自己的分析。雙方能否就每個人身上最可怕的地方達成一致？雙方的意見越一致，今後的責備就越不會讓人覺得是嘮叨，也就越能融入到
- A truly tricky subject but, as we're realising, it's a capacity for eating humble pie that stands a restarted relationship in such good stead.
第二集 - 夏綠蒂·勃朗特《簡愛》有聲書 (第 7-11 章)🎧📚 (Part 2 - Jane Eyre Audiobook by Charlotte Bronte (Chs 07-11))
- Miss Temple, through all changes, had thus far continued superintended of the seminary: to her instruction I owed the best part of my acquirements: her friendship and society had been my continual solace: she had stood me in the stead of mother, governess, and
山峰環繞著一個充滿綠意和陰影的大山谷；在一條明亮的溪流，
- continual solace; she had stood me in the stead of mother, governess, and, latterly,
持續的慰藉；她扮演了我母親、家庭教師，以及後來
《簡愛》小說導讀 (夏綠蒂·勃朗特) 第五部 (第二十一章至二十四章) (Part 5 - Jane Eyre Audiobook by Charlotte Bronte (Chs 21-24))
- "I'll not stand you an inch in the stead of a seraglio," I said;
我寧可「為精金鍍金」。我知道了：那麼您的請求就獲準了--
- "I'll not stand you an inch in the stead of a seraglio," I said; "so don't consider me
「我不會讓你佔據我後宮的一寸地方，」我說；「所以別指望我
維多利亞式風塵麥粥製作教學！ (How to Make Furmenty - The Victorian Way)
- but it's a tip to set you in good stead if you aim to be an excellent cook rather than a good cook.
現在香料和糖便宜多了，我也會把這些加進去。
- it's a tip to set you in good stead if you aim to be an excellent cook rather than a good cook.
但如果你想成為一位優秀的廚師，而不是隻會做菜的人，這會讓你受益良多。
威廉王子造訪沙烏地阿拉伯！BBC新聞 (Prince William visits Saudi Arabia | BBC News)
- that will stand the UK and others in good stead when those issues come up.
當這些議題出現時，這對英國和其他國家都會很有幫助。
- and that will stand, uh, the UK and others in good stead when those issues come up.
但就英國皇室、英國皇室在海外的品牌形象來說，這造成了多大的傷害？
為什麼你的身體無法復原？以及如何才能找回健康！ (Why you're not healing and how you can)
- the price for that sparing was that her husband had to suffer in her stead and mourn her.
如果先過世的是你，而你太太活了下來呢？
- Frankel was able to point out that she has been spared the suffering and the price for that sparing was that her husband had to suffer in her stead and mourn her.
Frankl 醫師就點出，她已經免於承受這份痛苦了，而她免於痛苦的代價，就是她的先生必須代替她承受痛苦、哀悼她。
維多利亞時代的布丁製作教學 🍮 (How to Make Cabinet Pudding — The Victorian Way)
- A good cook should be able to make a light sponge cake without thinking about it and so the practice will set you in good stead.
一個好的廚師應該能不假思索地做出鬆軟的海綿蛋糕，所以練習會讓你受益良多。
- and so the practice will set you in good stead.
一個好的廚師應該能不假思索地做出鬆軟的海綿蛋糕，所以練習會讓你受益良多。
