Name: 把妹高手：如何循序漸進地得到一個女朋友? (How To Get A Girlfriend Step By Step - Stephan Erdman)
Uploaded: 2014-01-22T11:11:53.000Z
Duration: 11 min 52 s

hey it's Stephan Erdman here alright now if you know me then you know that i believe

嘿，我是Stephan Erdman。如果你認識我，那你會知道，我相信

在這方面，每個男生都可以做的很好

how you need to follow certain principles

that will make it easy for you and how you need to avoid certain things that

才能更容易達成目標，而且你該避免

呃，事實上是會阻礙你交女朋友的

但事實上，卻是我們交女朋友的絆腳石

very often of her becoming attracted to you

when we notice oh she is our dream girl and we see this one girl and we go wow

意識到她是我們的夢中情人，我們望著這女孩，然後，哇

i've never felt like this before she's perfect

在她之前，我從未有過這種感受，她真是太完美了

and we get so overwhelmed with that feeling that what happens next is we are here

我們對那種感覺完全沒有抵抗力。接下來要發生的就是，我們在這裡

okay we see ourselves here and we are visualising that

好了，我們看見我們在這，然後設想

this is the end goal and we go straight here in our minds right we imagine

這是最終目標，我們一心朝著這個目標筆直前進，我們想像著

together you know whatever making babies yeah

可以和她在一起，你知道的，這個目標不管是什麼，也可能是生小孩吧

we go straight there right and we hope that

我們直直地朝目標邁進，希望能夢想成真

because we are so overwhelmed with our feelings so excited about it

因為我們如此沈醉於這種感受，為此亢奮不已

she must feel the same way when we tell her that we are so excited about it and

她一定也有相同感受，當我們跟她說，可以跟她說話，我們有多興奮

we are so excited about her and she means so much to us

而且，我們對她也是，她對我們意義非凡

and because you know what if somebody  did that to us we think that would be

因為你知道的，要是有人對男生做一樣的事，我們會覺得

so why doesn't it ever work out that way or very rarely

所以為什麼這樣對她不會奏效呢？或者說，為什麼很少會成功呢？

it doesn't matter whether we attracted to her

what's much more important is that she becomes attracted to us

更重要的是，要讓她也迷上我們

就只有我們單方面被她吸引到了

but if she becomes attractive to us now i know that sounds really obvious

但就算現在她看起來對我們也有意思，我知道你一定覺得她表現的超明顯

but very often because we get so overwhelmed with our feelings

但往往是因為，我們愛到沖昏頭，才會錯意了

we forget but that is actually the key thing here right

when we jump straight ahead into this thing

what she means to us and we will know you know

她對我們的意義，我們將知道，你懂的

ask her out and let her know how much she means to us and

約她出去，讓她曉得，她對我們有多重要

you know give her wonderful things and take her to dinner

你知道的，送禮物討她開心，邀她共進晚餐

well women get faced with this situation are

好吧，遇到這種情況，她們會覺得

he's pushing in this direction so what i need to do

他很積極地想更進一步。所以女生這時候要做的就是

so women are presented with this choice of either

所以，女生被要求表態，決定要還是不要

going along with something that they don't yet experience themselves

to go along with what you are going to do which is getting intimate quickly

because you know it's right and you feel great about it

因為你覺得該這樣做，而且還雀躍不已

keep distance and block you off and you know what say i'm not attracted to you but we can

和你保持距離，阻止你更進一步，然後跟你說，我對你沒有感覺，

you know very happy or very destroyed and i basically have his life in my hand

要嘛上天堂，要嘛下地獄，而這生殺大權竟然都操控在我手中

because that's what it sounds like and looks like to her

women never get a chance to become attracted to you in this process

在這過程裡，女生根本沒機會喜歡上你

women in that process they don't become attracted to you because they never get the chance to

在這過程裡，女生沒有迷上你，因為她們根本就沒機會

see you grow on them yeah unless they're instantly attracted to you which is not

體驗「慢慢加溫」的這個過程，除非這個女生也馬上就煞到你啦

結果從頭到尾，這個女生根本就沒機會