Couldyouguesswhatitiscommonbelowbefore I heartheyhaveitwithyoubytheendofthisvideo?
Butgoahead, comeinbelowsea.
Ifyouguesswhatitis, andthenwe'lltalkaboutit.
I wanttoshare a leaderstorywithyou.
Somethingthatimpactmetremendously.
At a youngage, I waspracticingmartialardor.
We'rejustgettingstarted, andat a time I wouldrunaroundlikemyhouseformany, manylapstoimprovemyendurancerightatthetimewasoneday I wasrunningonmyownright.
Itwasactuallykindofcloudy.
And I wasrunningand I sawthisoldergentlemaninfrontofhislawnandhewasmowingthelawn.
And I'm gonnaaskyouhowdid I getthatfirstclientinthefirstplace?
Howdid I earntheir 1st $20 commonbelow?
Whatdid I do?
I thoughttomyself, it's veryinterestingbecause I wasjustrunningthatdayand I sawthis A needsomeoneinneedofhelpandhelpthatpersonwithNo, actually, nomotivationornotevenanagendaoffearninganything.
It's just I helped a personinthepersongavemeleavetheirmoney.
So I addedvaluebefore I askanythinginreturn.
So I wentto a differentneighborhoodnearby.
Itwas a beautifulneighborhoodMauraffluentneighborhood.
And I picked a mostbeautifulhomethat I couldfind, butwiththeworstlong.
Okay, sothen I foundthishouseandthelawnslikethegrasswouldlikethis.
Hi.
Itwascrazy, beautifulhome, spectacularhome.
Butitwaslikethere's noonewastakingcareofthelawn.
Sohere's what I did.
Now I'm notabdicatingthis.
I'm notaskingyoutodoit.
I'm justtellingyou, what I didisnotlegal.
Butatthetime I wastooyoungandtoonaive.
I didn't knowSoanyway, I toldmyLongmorethere I mowedtheentireplacetheentirelot, right?
Spectacular, beautiful.
Rightfromthere.
After I finish, I justsetdownrightatthefront, right, waitingfortheownertocomebackjustlikethis.
Tellyouwhat, Justwaitingandwaiting.
Thenfinally I knowit's afterwork.
Then I carved a beautifulluxurycar, justkindofwantedtopulluptothegarage.
Thatwas a lifechangingmoment, because I learnedsomethingthatdaythatwhenyouaddvalueversebeforeaskinganythingreturn, it's easytogetbusiness, addingvaluebeforeaskinganythinginreturn.
Whenyoudothat, theworldopensuptoyou.
And I believethatisthenumberonemostoverlookedhabitthatselfmademillionsshare.
Mostpeopledon't understandmostBilldon't dobecausewealthcomesfrom a relationship.
Younoticed a lotofselfmademillionaires, evenbillionairesthere.
They'rewellconnected.
Theyknow a lotofpeople a lot.
Peopleknowthem.
Theyhave a lotoffriendstheycouldcall.
Therewasonepersonthat I sawonFacebook, andhe's alwayspostingphotoofhimwithotherlikecelebrityorexpertondifferenttypesofpeopleandtrytolookgoodandtryingtomakehimselflookbetterthanheactuallyis.
Andsomeonelikethatbelievesthatrelationship.
It's, youknow, likethat.
That's notmeaningfulrelationship.
That's notwhat I'm talkingabout.
I'llgiveyou a perfectexample.
Insteadofthinkingasrelationship I wantyoutothinkof.
Ifthatmakesyouthinkaboutthings a littledifferently, justnot.
Whatyoudoishowyouapproachrelationships.
I wouldchallengeyoutofindsomeonewhoiswealthywhodoesn't have a lotof, well, meaningfulrelationship.
Itdoesn't workthatway.
That's howlifeworks.
Ifthisthefirsttimeyou'rewatchingmyvideo, makesureyoucommonbelowandhitthesubscribebuttonandturnonnotificationeverysingleday I upload a videoandwedon't likethathelpsyoutothink a littledifferentlyunder.