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  • HoM 75

    人類歷史(75)離婚

  • This is Jack

    這是傑克

  • So, you have the male/female relationship/marriage scenario with the children

    所以你有生養小孩的男女關係婚姻戲碼

  • and now the parents start having conflict and anger

    而現在父母間開始有衝突與憤怒 -

  • and the whole relationship just goes sourand now youve got children.

    而整個關係變得令人厭煩 - 再來你有小孩

  • But, what is that expression within the relationship of the marriage actually?

    但是,關係中的婚姻之內的表現實際為何?

  • It is the inner conflicts within the male and the female because of their past experience with relationships

    是男女內的內在衝突(來自他們對於過往的關係的體驗)

  • and they know and they finallyrealise‟,

    而他們知道的,且最終發覺

  • whether with awareness or not, that this is not going to fix what they are experiencing within them.

    (無論是否是有意識的)婚姻無法修補他們的內在體驗

  • Why do parents have children?

    父母為何生育小孩?

  • Because parents believe that children will (I don‟t know) fulfill their relationship ortie the knot even further

    因為父母們相信小孩:將使關係完整,或是讓婚姻更穩固

  • in terms of having them be together and remain together

    讓他們在一起並且保持在一起 -

  • that the children are there to assist with relationships; many human beings believe that

    小孩是為了協助關係而存;很多人類相信那的

  • and some in this previous soul-construct

    而有些在這過去的靈魂結構體 -

  • that‟s why children are born into this world

    那就是為何小孩(願意)投胎進入這世界 -

  • believing that theyre here to come and mend and fix relationships.

    他們相信他們是來這修補與完善父母的關係

  • Anyway, so, now a divorce occurs, which is like the break-up,

    總之,所以,現在一個離婚發生了,就像分手

  • but now it‟s like alllegal within the system break-up

    但是現在像是系統內合法的分手

  • ; now there‟s more shit that goes on.

    現在將會有更多悲劇發生

  • Now it‟s about money,property and of course, the children.

    現在這關於金錢、財產,還有當然:小孩

  • Now these parents are sitting in an entire court case scenario

    現在那些父母處在一個打官司的狀況 -

  • and this happens a lot, much more these days; extensively,

    而這常發生,最近常有,廣泛的

  • where parents sit in the court and the children are nabbing on the deep end of this entire situation

    父母們坐在法庭,而小孩在這整個情況的最後被抓住

  • while the parents sort out their emotional conflicts in fucking court; in the system.

    同時父母們在它媽的法庭中解決他們的情緒衝突;在系統中

  • So, now these parents are even fighting about the children.

    父母甚至為了小孩而爭吵

  • You know, blaming each other for not being fit parents or not being worthy of the children, etc. –

    你懂得,責怪對方不適合當父母,或是不夠格養小孩之類的

  • but what are they actually nagging at and conflicting and fighting towards/at? Themselves.

    但是他們挑剔、起衝突、鬥爭的對象其實是誰?他們自己

  • What are they displaying in front of the court, the system of the world? Themselves.

    他們在法庭、世界系統面前所展示的是什麼?他們自己

  • Why does marriage exist and then divorce exist

    為何結婚與離婚存在?

  • which is like therelationship startand therelationship break-upwithin the system?

    就像是關係在系統中開始並且結束?

  • Because, if that happens within the system,

    因為,如果那在系統中發生

  • the emotional conflicts that are experienced are even more extensive

    被體驗的情緒衝突會更加增多

  • and when youre locked into the system by marriage and then break-up by divorce,

    還有當你因結婚而被鎖入系統中,並因離婚而分開

  • that whole experience gets more lodged into, and feeding, that marriage and divorce system within the world.

    那整個體驗被更加的嵌入,並餵養,這世界的結婚/離婚系統

  • So, that‟s why this entire system and how it‟s set up within [the] consciousness of the world,

    此即是這系統被設置在這世界之意識內,支持婚姻與支持離婚,的原因與方式

  • supports marriage and supports divorce.

    這就是它為何存在

  • That‟s why it exists.

    所以,當前在打官司、體驗著為他們的小孩而爭執,的父母們

  • So, parents that are currently in court cases,

    我建議你去請益小孩,最終的

  • that are experiencing fighting over their children,

    因為他們知曉誰足夠強壯,能夠帶他們走過進程

  • I suggest you ask the childreneventually

    當他們在這裡,還有誰比較穩定,從那角度來看,兒童們並不愚蠢

  • because theyll know who is the strongest to be able to take them through this process,

    他們很清楚知道自己在做什麼,他們很清楚知道自己在說什麼

  • while theyre here now and [who] will be more stable. Children are not stupid from that perspective.

    還有他們在此的原因,還有他們正在體驗什麼。(從一個較高階的覺知層級來講)

  • They know exactly what theyre doing and they know exactly what theyre saying

    所以,從那觀點,他們知道該跟誰走,而你必須要接受那

  • and what it is that theyre here for and what it is [that] theyre experiencing in terms of a higher awareness level.

    因為如果他們沒有選擇某一個,或是他們選擇了某一個

  • So, from that perspective, they know who theyre required to stay withand that, youre gonna have to make peace with

    沒有選的那個就是糟糕,這很單純 - 你很糟糕

  • because if they didn‟t „choose the other parent‟, or theychoose one‟:

    而你的小孩知道他們願意和誰待在一起,在這輩子、這進程期間

  • the other one just fucked up and it‟s simpleyou fucked up.

    因為他們知道誰夠堅強(如果你想那樣說)

  • And your children know who they are wanting tochooseto be with, during this life, this process,

    誰能夠和他們一同站立,在進程期間保持與他們相伴

  • because they know who‟s„strongenough (if you want to call it that),

    所以這就是這整個婚姻戲碼如何的開始爆炸

  • who‟s able to stand with them and remain with them during this process .

    完全失衡,然後小孩的人生基本上也毀了,因為他們父母的人生搞砸了

  • So, that‟s how the whole marriage scenario starts blowing up,

    而現在小孩的人生明顯的,將會變的一模一樣

  • completely out of proportion,and then the children‟s lives are basically fucked up because the parent‟s lives are fucked up

    因為現在小孩相信他們不被愛並且不被接納,在整個家庭戲劇當中不被認同

  • and now the children‟s lives are obviously going to turn out the exact same way,

    然後當然的,他們會去尋找關係,在其中尋找愛與認同

  • because now the children believe that they were not loved and they were not accepted within the whole family scenario

    這整個系統就是被設定成這樣

  • and theyre obviously going to search for love and search for acceptancein relationships.

    小孩會體驗到父母們有過的,糟糕的情感關係

  • And that‟s how this whole system was set up:

    當他們繼續,而這即是這迴圈與父輩罪孽的延續

  • that the children experience just as fucked up relationships as the parents, as they continue

    在這世界,與在關係體驗之內。

  • and that‟s how the cycles andsins of the fatherscontinue

    這就是人類之內的關係內在衝突如何的影響世界

  • within this world and within relationship experiences.

    而結婚是這世界中的人類,所能犯下的錯誤中,最大的一個

  • So, that‟s howrelationship inner conflictswithin human beings lashed out into this world

    因為婚姻是這世界中的心識系統關係的系統捆綁者

  • and marriage is the biggest mistake human beings in this world can make,

    但是對於那些當前有小孩(之類的)的人

  • because marriage is the systemtying knotofmind consciousness system relationshipsin this world.

    顯然我們將做些訪談,協助並支援你,而如果你當前體驗到內疚

  • But to those who currently have children, etc,

    或悲傷,或自責,因為我所解說與談論的

  • well obviously do some interviews in terms of assisting and supporting you there and if youre currently experiencing guilt,

    而認為你似乎毀了你的孩子的人生 - 你沒有

  • or sadness, or remorse, in terms of what I‟m explaining or saying

    我們將支援你與你的孩子

  • thinking youre apparentlyfucking upyour child‟s lifeyoure not.

    所以其實你唯一要擔心的是你自己

  • Well support you there with your children.

    並且支援你的孩子的自己表現(self-expression),如此而已

  • So, all youve got to worry about: is you, actually

    這是傑克,此時只有這些要說,多謝

  • and supporting your children in their self-expression and that‟s it.

  • This is Jack, that‟s all I have for now. Thanks.

HoM 75

人類歷史(75)離婚

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