This is Jack

這是傑克

So, you have the male/female relationship/marriage scenario with the children

所以你有生養小孩的男女關係婚姻戲碼

and now the parents start having conflict and anger –

而現在父母間開始有衝突與憤怒 -

and the whole relationship just goes sour – and now you‟ve got children.

而整個關係變得令人厭煩 - 再來你有小孩

But, what is that expression within the relationship of the marriage actually?

但是，關係中的婚姻之內的表現實際為何？

It is the inner conflicts within the male and the female because of their past experience with relationships –

是男女內的內在衝突（來自他們對於過往的關係的體驗）

and they know and they finally „realise‟,

而他們知道的，且最終發覺

whether with awareness or not, that this is not going to fix what they are experiencing within them.

（無論是否是有意識的）婚姻無法修補他們的內在體驗

Why do parents have children?

父母為何生育小孩？

Because parents believe that children will (I don‟t know) fulfill their relationship or „tie the knot even further‟

因為父母們相信小孩：將使關係完整，或是讓婚姻更穩固

in terms of having them be together and remain together –

讓他們在一起並且保持在一起 -

that the children are there to assist with relationships; many human beings believe that –

小孩是為了協助關係而存；很多人類相信那的

and some in this previous soul-construct –

而有些在這過去的靈魂結構體 -

that‟s why children are born into this world –

那就是為何小孩（願意）投胎進入這世界 -

believing that they‟re here to come and mend and fix relationships.

他們相信他們是來這修補與完善父母的關係

Anyway, so, now a divorce occurs, which is like the break-up,

總之，所以，現在一個離婚發生了，就像分手

but now it‟s like all „legal within the system break-up‟

但是現在像是系統內合法的分手

; now there‟s more shit that goes on.

現在將會有更多悲劇發生

Now it‟s about money,property and of course, the children.

現在這關於金錢、財產，還有當然：小孩

Now these parents are sitting in an entire court case scenario –

現在那些父母處在一個打官司的狀況 -

and this happens a lot, much more these days; extensively,

而這常發生，最近常有，廣泛的

where parents sit in the court and the children are nabbing on the deep end of this entire situation

父母們坐在法庭，而小孩在這整個情況的最後被抓住

while the parents sort out their emotional conflicts in fucking court; in the system.

同時父母們在它媽的法庭中解決他們的情緒衝突；在系統中

So, now these parents are even fighting about the children.

父母甚至為了小孩而爭吵

You know, blaming each other for not being fit parents or not being worthy of the children, etc. –

你懂得，責怪對方不適合當父母，或是不夠格養小孩之類的

but what are they actually nagging at and conflicting and fighting towards/at? Themselves.

但是他們挑剔、起衝突、鬥爭的對象其實是誰？他們自己

What are they displaying in front of the court, the system of the world? Themselves.

他們在法庭、世界系統面前所展示的是什麼？他們自己

Why does marriage exist and then divorce exist

為何結婚與離婚存在？

– which is like the „relationship start‟ and the„relationship break-up‟ within the system?

就像是關係在系統中開始並且結束？

Because, if that happens within the system,

因為，如果那在系統中發生

the emotional conflicts that are experienced are even more extensive

被體驗的情緒衝突會更加增多

and when you‟re locked into the system by marriage and then break-up by divorce,

還有當你因結婚而被鎖入系統中，並因離婚而分開

that whole experience gets more lodged into, and feeding, that marriage and divorce system within the world.

那整個體驗被更加的嵌入，並餵養，這世界的結婚/離婚系統

So, that‟s why this entire system and how it‟s set up within [the] consciousness of the world,

此即是這系統被設置在這世界之意識內，支持婚姻與支持離婚，的原因與方式

supports marriage and supports divorce.

這就是它為何存在

That‟s why it exists.

所以，當前在打官司、體驗著為他們的小孩而爭執，的父母們

So, parents that are currently in court cases,

我建議你去請益小孩，最終的

that are experiencing fighting over their children,

因為他們知曉誰足夠強壯，能夠帶他們走過進程

I suggest you ask the children – eventually –

當他們在這裡，還有誰比較穩定，從那角度來看，兒童們並不愚蠢

because they‟ll know who is the strongest to be able to take them through this process,

他們很清楚知道自己在做什麼，他們很清楚知道自己在說什麼

while they‟re here now and [who] will be more stable. Children are not stupid from that perspective.

還有他們在此的原因，還有他們正在體驗什麼。（從一個較高階的覺知層級來講）

They know exactly what they‟re doing and they know exactly what they‟re saying

所以，從那觀點，他們知道該跟誰走，而你必須要接受那

and what it is that they‟re here for and what it is [that] they‟re experiencing in terms of a higher awareness level.

因為如果他們沒有選擇某一個，或是他們選擇了某一個

So, from that perspective, they know who they‟re required to stay with – and that, you‟re gonna have to make peace with –

沒有選的那個就是糟糕，這很單純 - 你很糟糕

because if they didn‟t „choose the other parent‟, or they „choose one‟:

而你的小孩知道他們願意和誰待在一起，在這輩子、這進程期間

the other one just fucked up and it‟s simple – you fucked up.

因為他們知道誰夠堅強（如果你想那樣說）

And your children know who they are wanting to „choose‟ to be with, during this life, this process,

誰能夠和他們一同站立，在進程期間保持與他們相伴

because they know who‟s„strong‟ enough (if you want to call it that),

所以這就是這整個婚姻戲碼如何的開始爆炸

who‟s able to stand with them and remain with them during this process .

完全失衡，然後小孩的人生基本上也毀了，因為他們父母的人生搞砸了

So, that‟s how the whole marriage scenario starts blowing up,

而現在小孩的人生明顯的，將會變的一模一樣

completely out of proportion,and then the children‟s lives are basically fucked up because the parent‟s lives are fucked up

因為現在小孩相信他們不被愛並且不被接納，在整個家庭戲劇當中不被認同

and now the children‟s lives are obviously going to turn out the exact same way,

然後當然的，他們會去尋找關係，在其中尋找愛與認同

because now the children believe that they were not loved and they were not accepted within the whole family scenario

這整個系統就是被設定成這樣

and they‟re obviously going to search for love and search for acceptance – in relationships.

小孩會體驗到父母們有過的，糟糕的情感關係

And that‟s how this whole system was set up:

當他們繼續，而這即是這迴圈與父輩罪孽的延續

that the children experience just as fucked up relationships as the parents, as they continue…

在這世界，與在關係體驗之內。

and that‟s how the cycles and „sins of the fathers‟ continue –

這就是人類之內的關係內在衝突如何的影響世界

within this world and within relationship experiences.

而結婚是這世界中的人類，所能犯下的錯誤中，最大的一個

So, that‟s how „relationship inner conflicts‟ within human beings lashed out into this world

因為婚姻是這世界中的心識系統關係的系統捆綁者

and marriage is the biggest mistake human beings in this world can make,

但是對於那些當前有小孩（之類的）的人

because marriage is the system „tying knot‟ of „mind consciousness system relationships‟ in this world.

顯然我們將做些訪談，協助並支援你，而如果你當前體驗到內疚

But to those who currently have children, etc,

或悲傷，或自責，因為我所解說與談論的

we‟ll obviously do some interviews in terms of assisting and supporting you there and if you‟re currently experiencing guilt,

而認為你似乎毀了你的孩子的人生 - 你沒有

or sadness, or remorse, in terms of what I‟m explaining or saying –

我們將支援你與你的孩子

thinking you‟re apparently „fucking up‟ your child‟s life – you‟re not.

所以其實你唯一要擔心的是你自己

We‟ll support you there with your children.

並且支援你的孩子的自己表現（self-expression），如此而已

So, all you‟ve got to worry about: is you, actually –

這是傑克，此時只有這些要說，多謝

and supporting your children in their self-expression and that‟s it.

This is Jack, that‟s all I have for now. Thanks.